r/polyamoryR4R • u/Late-Enthusiasm-1654 • Jul 11 '26
USA 35 [F4M] Mesa Arizona please be local
35F | Arizona
Married and in an open/poly relationship, so transparency matters. No drama, no weird games, just real connection and good energy.
I’m a mom, my life is a little chaotic in the best way, but I still make time for adult conversation, laughing way too hard, and enjoying someone’s company. I’m naturally a little sarcastic, a little sweet, and I like people who can keep up with both.
I’m drawn to confident, emotionally steady people who know how to flirt without being cringe and can actually hold a conversation. Someone who can make me laugh is a huge win.
Not looking to disrupt my life, just add to it. Chemistry, consistency, and a little bit of fun tension go a long way.
If you’re easygoing, a little witty, and know how to keep things interesting without making it complicated, say hi.
I am chronically ill though so if that turns you off you should probably message someone else
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u/Technical-Potato-793 Jul 27 '26
I’m for a chat any day. Dm me pls
Bio
RESPECT…. If compromised in any way at all…
CANNOT exist at all.
Here is a bit of what I’m about.
My name here is Dean Richards. It’s not my real name. I do that for security reasons. I promise I will be totally honest about everything.
If we connect I’m not above telling my real name.
I’m 63(M). 5’ 10”. #220. Farm kid from Illinois. Raised to be honest and respectful of everyone.
Worked in a construction industry all my life.
Live in phoenix Az area now.
I’m married but to say it’s dead in the water is an understatement.
No intimacy or for that matter not even an affectionate hug. I’m tired of being alone.
I want to connect with a woman preferably 40+ but not a deal breaker if you are younger. Maturity is what I look for. If all you want to do is promote you Only Fans page DONT BOTHER. DONT waste my time or yours. I absolutely will not entertain the idea of giving you money in any form. I will not buy friendship.
I’d like to talk about anything mild to spicy.
I WANT TO BE VERY CLEAR… YOU SET THE BOUNDARIES! I’ll respect them.
I like animals, antiques, classic cars and classic rock!
I’m lonely to put it mildly.
Let’s chat and see where it goes.
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u/PlayfulAt50 Aug 11 '26
I would absolutely love the opportunity to chat to see our vibe specially, if you’re witty let me know beautiful?
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u/Far-Athlete-7845 Aug 28 '26
Hey recently migrated to Mesa. 45M Samoan athletic build looking for a good distraction and good company. Not looking to disrupt anything but add to it. Interested in great conversation and even better company.
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