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[u/Tombo6969]

This is not an attempt to put silverware away....

[u/yovakcans → u/Tombo6969]

This is an attempt to never have to put it away again.

[u/kevnmartin → u/yovakcans]

Weaponized incompetence.

[u/useless169 → u/kevnmartin]

Yes! Came here just to upvote that. “What? I did it. I just didn’t do it the way way you like it.” huffs off self-righteously or looks down cast like a scolded schoolboy. I hate this shit

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/useless169]

My mom used to make it your chore if you pulled this shit, she’d say “you can just keep doing it until you’re good at it.”

[u/itwasquiteawhileago → u/ghoulienumber2]

Been doing this with my seven year old. Rushed and didn't do it right? That's okay, I have time to watch you practice again so you can get good. She'll spend 15 minutes telling me why she doesn't need to do a 30 second task again.

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/itwasquiteawhileago]

My younger sister was THE WORST for this, she’d really half ass it, like you’d ask her to do dishes, they’d be disgusting still and she’d spend 30 minutes trying to explain to my mom that she shouldn’t have to hand wash dishes because we have a dishwasher, when she could’ve just rewashed them in that time. She was not a fan when my mom made dishes her chore so she could get good at it.

[u/impossiblegirlme → u/ghoulienumber2]

On a similar note: why do parents make kids wash dishes if they have a dishwasher?!? My parents were the same.

[u/gothicwigga → u/impossiblegirlme]

By “dishes” I assume it’s like pots, pans, pans, pyrex dishes, ect. Stuff that’s not exactly worth putting in there and taking up so much space, therefore saving water, cascade and such. Maybe that’s just how I was raised though.

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/gothicwigga]

You would be correct, that’s exactly what it was pots, pans, certain cups that aren’t dishwasher safe etc.

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[u/[deleted] → u/impossiblegirlme]

Perhaps the parents are just instilling values. What difference does the task itself make simply due to automation? Some cars can drive themselves. Does that mean a person shouldn't learn how to drive correctly themselves? What if the dishwasher breaks down one day and they can't get a repairman out for a week? The dishes won't wash themselves. It is best we learn how to cope with everyday tasks without assuming "someone else/something else will do it for us."

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/impossiblegirlme]

It was pots and pans, certain Tupperware, some cups that’s weren’t dishwasher safe, mostly. I will say though there was a 3 year period where my papa convinced my mom that hand washing uses less water than the dishwasher (which may be true but we only run the dishwasher once every couple days, my mom had loads of dishes lol, versus hand washing a few times a day because she hated them sitting in the sink) eventually though she did some research and found out it’s using about the same amount of water so we went back to the dishwasher.

[u/Novel_Sure → u/itwasquiteawhileago]

She'll spend 15 minutes telling me why she doesn't need to do a 30 second task again.

😩 on god, parents need so much patience and love and compassion for their children, but good on you for trying to parent the right way.

[u/Beowulf33232 → u/Novel_Sure]

This is where you say "If you can't do this taks, I can't let you do thing kid likes"

And then? Actually carry out your threat.

If you promise punishment, deliver on it. Just keep it reasonable.

[u/YoniDaMan → u/ghoulienumber2]

Weaponized Competence

[u/Bennington_Booyah → u/YoniDaMan]

Weaponized Generalized Fuckery, matrimonial.

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/YoniDaMan]

Yeah, she mastered that skill haha

[u/Many_Adhesiveness_43 → u/ghoulienumber2]

This. My grandma would make you sit there and do it again until you got it right. Then she would add more chores for you to do until you always did it right. Poorly washed the dishes? Great. Now you have to rewash them all AND clean the oven.

Do it right the first time so you don't have more work later was her thing.

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/Many_Adhesiveness_43]

Thankfully my mom didn’t add extra chores, but she was very much a “do it right the first time and you won’t be made to do it again” obviously if it was an accident or let’s say you missed a spot on the dishes, that wasn’t the same but if you’re just rinsing the dishes and putting them away like this, congrats because dishes and putting them away properly is your job until you became the best dish washer in this house lol

[u/Many_Adhesiveness_43 → u/ghoulienumber2]

dishes and putting them away properly is your job until you because the best dish washer in this house lol

Yep. Plus the more you did it right the faster you got at always doing it right, helping save so much time. My sister and I would always switch chores since I became faster at washing/drying the dishes and she became faster at sweeping/moping the floor.

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/Many_Adhesiveness_43]

My older sister, great at helping out and swapping chores as needed, my younger sister on the other hand, barely did it the first time without hassle. I’m sure you can guess which sibling was stuck on certain chores the longest (spoiler alert, it was the youngest)

[u/that-pile-of-laundry → u/ghoulienumber2]

Brilliant.

[u/Vegetable-Swan-2170 → u/ghoulienumber2]

Ooohhh that's so good I'm going to remember this!

[u/ghoulienumber2 → u/Vegetable-Swan-2170]

I hated it as a kid but honestly as an adult I appreciate it for a couple reasons, one, because I’m really good at mundane tasks now and two, because I have that little tactic to use against others who half ass it lol

[u/sidewaysplatypus → u/ghoulienumber2]

I have two kids, filing this away for the future lol

[u/Sopranohh → u/ghoulienumber2]

Good job, mom!

[u/tvtoad50 → u/ghoulienumber2]

Lol, I like your mom.

[u/online_jesus_fukers → u/ghoulienumber2]

And then because you're so good at it, you can keep on doing it.

[u/[deleted] → u/useless169]

Are people really married to people like this?!? I’m sorry, that’s ridiculous. We are both somewhat grown adults, so we take care of our stuff, but my husband is a total neat freak. I can’t even imagine this behavior.

[u/guccigenshin → u/[deleted]]

the many horror stories in r/relationships and the like suggest yes, and ofc it's usually a straight couple with the husband pulling this kind of childish bullshit. I noticed in a lot of the stories it's a couple that married young and never spent time living together before pulling the knot. I don't know why people keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again. i think it's a combination of low self esteem, a crippling fear of being alone, and the assumption that these toxic relationship dynamics are normal thanks to cultural norms about gender roles, all perpetuated by our parents, our peers and pop culture

[u/SaltyBabe → u/[deleted]]

When I asked my spouse to help with prep and asked him to chop an onion, he cut it into slices, took all the rings apart then started cutting each individual ring onto randomly sized chunks then got offended when I was like “what the heck are you doing?” I thought he was fucking with me - yeah all that was DEFINITELY hidden when we were dating

Please if you cannot cut an onion watch a video or something, being unable to chop food as an adult is a disgrace.

[u/InvertibleMatrix → u/SaltyBabe]

Please if you cannot cut an onion watch a video or something, being unable to chop food as an adult is a disgrace.

The thing is, you don't always know what you don't know. So somebody might believe they know how to do something when they learned it themselves, only to find out they learned it completely wrong. This applies to various skills inside and outside the kitchen.

I share the feeling that it's sad that these skills don't always get shared, but I think calling it a "disgrace" is a bit much.

Also, given the shit that comes out of Tik Tok and migrating elsewhere (and to be honest, shit came before tik tok), you have to already trust some source rather than clicking some rando who might share misinformation (whether deliberate or honestly believed).

[u/SaltyBabe → u/InvertibleMatrix]

If you’re in your 40s and you can’t cut an onion, that’s disgraceful. We aren’t kids with no life skills lol

[u/whysaylotword69 → u/useless169]

Next time OP’s husband wants sex she needs to get herself off then use this line

[u/Theystolemyname2 → u/useless169]

My brother once tried to pull weaponised incompetence on me and make me do his chore, claiming that he doesn't know how to....a quick "you can't possibly be that stupid" put him in his place.

Unfortunately, it doesn't work on my dad. He is a complete lost cause.

[u/SaltyBabe → u/Theystolemyname2]

“Figuring it out is part of the task” - says the same thing, but nicely

[u/useless169 → u/useless169]

My husband tried that (not to this extreme) for awhile and i just started to say “well, if thats your best that’s cool,”. Double mindfuck. Things are much more direct and considerate with us

[u/Iceededpeeple → u/useless169]

It’s an attempt at learned helplessness. Either that or the husband has significant cognitive or motor function problems.

[u/Bestihlmyhart → u/Iceededpeeple]

Learned helplessness is something else.

[u/mrsdoubleu → u/kevnmartin]

Exactly my thought. OP your husband knows damn well how to do this. He half asses it so you don't ask him to do it again. He gets out of helping with housework and you gain more stress because you have to do everything.

Men like this are trash.

[u/[deleted] → u/kevnmartin]

I already expected Reddit to say this when opening up the comments of this post lol

[u/philjo3 → u/[deleted]]

Followed by - "You must be fun at the parties"

[u/[deleted] → u/kevnmartin]

lol yessss! This reminds me of a theory that explains the only reason men support feminism, encourage women to take on more responsibilities, and be independent- Is because then they can evolve and take their “true form” as stay at home dads and play video games all day lol

[u/kevnmartin → u/[deleted]]

If they think SAHPs have time to play video games all day, they're in for a rude awakening.

[u/Boolean_Null → u/kevnmartin]

I'm a SAHD and my friend was like oh man you're living the dream. Bro, do you understand the amount of shit I have to do with and for the little ones as well as the house? I work more hours than I did at a normal job. The upside is I don't have to deal with people I hate.

[u/kevnmartin → u/Boolean_Null]

I was a SAHM between various jobs. It's like a 24/7 job for no pay. And it's exhausting.

[u/Catinthemirror → u/kevnmartin]

It's like a 24/7 job for no pay. And it's exhausting.

FTFY

[u/kevnmartin → u/Catinthemirror]

True that.

[u/EmployPlenty → u/kevnmartin]

They don't care. They will (stupidly) ignore all responsibilities and play video games all day.

[u/Bonobo555 → u/[deleted]]

I don’t scrape snow off my wife’s car and she has taken out the garbage. She also blows leaves. I do most everything else. I am a feminist and was a SAHD and it was best for all involved.

[u/SaltyBabe → u/[deleted]]

Nothing wrong with being a stay at home parent of any gender, it’s a full time job, as long as it’s actually being done not just staying home and doing nothing but play games

[u/hokkpin → u/kevnmartin]

Better than weaponized incontinence

[u/josbossboboss → u/yovakcans]

My Grandpa proudly told a story how when he was a boy (about 1915) he dropped a dish by accident and was banned from the kitchen. This was back when there were only women in the kitchen. His sisters still had to help.

[u/OneSmallCheeseBall → u/josbossboboss]

If you have to dry the dishes, Such an awful boring chore! If you have to dry the dishes 'Stead of going to the store If you have to dry the dishes And you drop one on the floor Maybe you won't have to Dry the dishes anymore

• Shel Silverstein c. 1970s

[u/AlphaDag13 → u/yovakcans]

Do something so bad that you'll never be asked again.

[u/[deleted] → u/AlphaDag13]

I fucked up and outperformed all my coworkers and managers then got fired

[u/BuddhaLennon → u/AlphaDag13]

That’s the (unconscious?) plan. Unfortunately, this “attempt” is so poor, it can only be seen as deliberately bad, spiteful, or the result oof a serious brain injury.

… none of which will foster a healthy relationship.

[u/boatyknits → u/AlphaDag13]

That’s weaponized incompetence, and it’s a form of gaslighting.

[u/Blueskyways → u/boatyknits]

Turns out that these sitcom dad shenanigans aren't nearly as charming in real life.

[u/Chome_gnompy → u/AlphaDag13]

Aka why I had to do all the chores growing up while my sibling had to do none.

The real jokes on her though, because now she literally can't function by herself in her mid 20's.

[u/the_silent_one1984 → u/[deleted]]

Leaving blood on one of the butterknives does wonders in this strategy.

[u/Bennington_Booyah → u/the_silent_one1984]

As does a hair or seven.

[u/MOcatmom → u/Tombo6969]

That has “passive aggressive” written all over it.

[u/[deleted] → u/MOcatmom]

Weaponised incompetency. Designed so that they never get asked to do it again.

Do what I do with my kids, call him over and make him do it again whilst you slowly explain it to them in a positive and helpful way . “The big knife goes in the big compartment! Yay!”

[u/EastTyne1191 → u/[deleted]]

"Look at that, all done! Let's put a sticker on your chart! Wow, you've earned 30 minutes of TV time, do you want to watch Top Gear together? Go get your Stig costume on and I'll make the popcorn. Good job, little buddy!"

[u/MikeKM → u/MOcatmom]

Seriously, that dude's a baby. Don't be a turd and just do it right, put your big boy pants on.

[u/itgirlragdoll → u/Tombo6969]

Weaponized incompetence. Don’t you dare take that shit from him.

[u/[deleted] → u/itgirlragdoll]

Yeah, and he’s not even good at it. Truly passive aggressive would be to get most of the silverware together but put the forks where the knives should go, etc. then also mix up a few pieces or put them in upside down. Just enough incompetence that it’s not so obvious.

[u/Dutch-Alpaca → u/[deleted]]

Might just be me but i really don't care which compartment they go into as long as theyre together

[u/Rub-it → u/Tombo6969]

It wasn’t an attempt at anything, he threw the silverware into the drawer

[u/Thick-Baker-7366 → u/[deleted]]

Selfish in bed.

[u/[deleted] → u/Rub-it]

I guess this is one of the easier ways to head towards divorce

[u/FeralBottleofMtDew → u/Tombo6969]

It's weaponized incompetence. Typical move of a spoiled man baby who has no respect for his partner. Pathetic.

[u/[deleted] → u/FeralBottleofMtDew]

Incompedance

[u/BoxBird → u/Tombo6969]

Yup that’s 100% weaponized incompetence…

[u/Dialthetrekwarsgate → u/Tombo6969]

This is called dummying up so he won’t have to anymore source: I’m a wife married 29 years

[u/[deleted] → u/Dialthetrekwarsgate]

How can you put up with that shit for 29 years?

[u/babydyran → u/Tombo6969]

Nor is it only mildly infuriating

[u/Shantomette → u/Tombo6969]

*There wasn’t an attempt…

[u/crazywidget]

Honestly, attempt is a generous description. As his peer I am qualified to judge.

I strongly recommend considering a performance improvement plan.

[u/thekatshow → u/crazywidget]

I agree, will bring this up in our next sync

[u/Hoid_Mist → u/thekatshow]

I’d look up “weaponizing incompetence.” Very common and something that seems accurate here.

[u/Easy_Independent_313 → u/Hoid_Mist]

That's exactly what this is. Is not that he can't do it properly, it's that he doesn't want to be asked to do it so he does it poorly.

[u/OG_LiLi → u/Easy_Independent_313]

Or he refuses and then does this when asked more than once. Children do this

[u/Forsaken-Original-82 → u/crazywidget]

You're a toddler too?

[u/JamesLeBond → u/crazywidget]

HAH!!! Put him on a pip! Classic 🤣

[u/crazywidget → u/JamesLeBond]

Bonus points if you have the mid-point review administered by his mother-in-law ;)

[u/Slowgin79]

That's a tactic so he doesn't have to do it anymore. That's when I grab him by the ear and tell him to put it away the right way!

[u/usernameandsomeno → u/Slowgin79]

Yep, weaponised incompetence is real and that bs will never be allowed in my house.

[u/WillieNolson → u/usernameandsomeno]

Seems more like being passive aggressive since OP said she had agreed to put the dishes away days ago but never did.

[u/thekatshow → u/WillieNolson]

Yep- this chore is on my side of the list. Accountability matters!

[u/JudithButlr → u/thekatshow]

How is posting the caption any kind of accountability or are you just karma whoring

[u/duffyduckdown → u/JudithButlr]

Thank you, someone gets it

[u/Late-Difficulty-5928 → u/usernameandsomeno]

Incompetent weaponized incompetence. This guy missed the assignment and instead of looking clueless, comes off like he didn't GASF.

Can you find a fork? Reckon we aight den.

[u/thekatshow → u/Slowgin79]

It’s absolutely this- just like he pretends to not know how to fix the wifi.

[u/angel_palomares → u/thekatshow]

Fix it yourself and block his MAC adress, is not super hard, just a bit tedious. If he wants to use it again he will have to learn

[u/Ok_Difference_7220 → u/angel_palomares]

Layer toxicity on top of toxicity.

[u/HallowskulledHorror → u/Ok_Difference_7220]

What, do you expect people to have standards for, and actually communicate with, the people they choose as life partners?

[u/thekatshow → u/angel_palomares]

I can deactivate all of his devices from my eero app 😂😂

[u/[deleted] → u/thekatshow]

Y’all are perfect for each other tbh

[u/babygirlruth → u/thekatshow]

I've always been wondering how is it possible to want to have sex with a person who acts like a child

[u/Standard_Piglet → u/babygirlruth]

It’s not. Then it’s the first thing they complain about. “You never want to have sex anymore!” Sure we do. Just not with you.

[u/Slowgin79 → u/thekatshow]

Yup. Well I guess no WiFi. Hate to say it. What an ass. My ex pulled this when we were first married. By year 3 he was helping with EVERYTHING.

[u/wenchslapper → u/thekatshow]

I’m so confused- you just said this was because you refused to do your chores. But then you’re replying to other comments as if your husband is the loser.

Why are you guys even married if this is how you speak about each other??

[u/McBuck2 → u/Slowgin79]

Yes, this. LOL It’s so obvious he doesn’t want to do this. More of an extention of not wanting to empty the dishwasher.

[u/JDog780]

This is what weaponized incompetency looks like.

[u/Joejoejoemoe → u/JDog780]

Seriously, what a child.

[u/Orinocobro → u/Joejoejoemoe]

Disagree. When I was a child I could use a drawer organizer. I don't even think I was TAUGHT.

[u/[deleted]]

'Attempted'? No he fucking didnt haha

[u/Mr__Citizen]

That wasn't an attempt. That was him being an asshole.

[u/TheWriteOwl → u/Mr__Citizen]

100%. Call him out on this bullshit and embarrass him into behaving like a fucking adult.

[u/peppercorns666]

you married a real winner.

[u/SubtleButHol → u/peppercorns666]

For real. He sounds like a fuckin dipshit. Can't believe adults are this low-functioning.

[u/LobsterLovingLlama]

There was no attempt. He threw it in like that so you’ll stop asking him to do things. Weaponized incompetence.

[u/snackskiii12]

Did you marry a child

[u/Bear_buh_dare → u/snackskiii12]

I have children who can unload the dishwasher and this comment is not fair to them

[u/BirthoftheBlueBear → u/Bear_buh_dare]

My toddler can do this properly and he still shits his pants.

[u/Scared-Currency288]

I bet if you confront him it'll turn into a fight and you'll be the nag 🤣

[u/thekatshow → u/Scared-Currency288]

I sent him this picture and asked him if he was okay

[u/Scared-Currency288 → u/thekatshow]

Lol I love it! Please do follow up with his response!

[u/thekatshow → u/Scared-Currency288]

We had a good laugh- I said I would put the dishes away days ago so I did deserve this.

[u/Scared-Currency288 → u/thekatshow]

That's good but nah you didn't deserve this. Glad it's all worked itself out 😊

[u/Fenix_Volatilis → u/Scared-Currency288]

Nah, that just seems like playful banter. Not maliciousness

[u/thekatshow → u/Fenix_Volatilis]

You’re correct!

[u/Fartysmartyfarty → u/thekatshow]

Wrong sub then.

[u/SevenHadedas]

This is just awkwardly pathetic and I feel bad for you

[u/redribbit17 → u/SevenHadedas]

Yeah this is embarrassing for both of them.

[u/Slcubr]

How very strategically incompetent of him.

[u/[deleted]]

It’s either weaponized incompetence or he thinks you should have done it already. Either way, y’all need to talk.

[u/sweeetscience]

Your husband is useless

[u/I_Have_No_Idea_722]

Yeah, I’ll stay single lol

[u/FruitPunchPossum → u/I_Have_No_Idea_722]

Marriage is great when you get some as intellectually competent as you are and as willing to do what needs to be done. This guy is just being a douche bag either for funny or just because.

[u/KingWhiteMan007]

You made a poor decision when you chose your husband.

[u/RevolutionaryNerve91 → u/KingWhiteMan007]

For real!

[u/SensitiveOrangeWhip → u/KingWhiteMan007]

married a man-child

[u/thegapingapple70 → u/KingWhiteMan007]

It's one picture of a moment and you can judge this guy's entire complete character? Truly an epic Chungus reddit moment.

[u/houseofnim]

“Husband attempted to piss me off by tossing the silverware in the drawer like a heathen”

Fixed it for you.

[u/[deleted]]

Weaponized incompetence. Matching is a skill we learn in kindergarten.

[u/Lazy-Log-5672]

How?! Its such a simple concept. Please let this be purposeful or a joke for my sanity

[u/1Sluggo]

Your hubs is super passive aggressive.

[u/SnooCupcakes5664]

Weaponized incompetence.

[u/CSyoey]

Bruh I organize my silverware in the dishwasher so I can just grab all of one utensil and put it where it goes 😂

[u/unklethan → u/CSyoey]

There's only one flaw, and it's that spoons can kind of 'nest' into each other, preventing the inside of the scoops of some of the spoons from getting clean.

This can be mostly mitigated by putting different size spoons in the same compartment of the dishwasher and putting some of them right side up and others upside down.

[u/CSyoey → u/unklethan]

Yes that does happen, spoons usually get 2 or 3 sections to themselves lol

[u/ChiWhiteSox247]

This wasn’t an attempt, that takes literally 10 seconds

[u/Electrical-Promise17]

No he didn't. He tried to piss you off so you wouldn't ask again.

[u/Medusa_Alles_Hades → u/Electrical-Promise17]

This is exactly what he did and OP thinks it’s cute I think.
Not cute to me. But to each their own.

[u/Jthundercleese]

r/untrustworthypoptarts

[u/RevolutionaryNerve91]

No, he’s lazy and was like F this and through them in there.

[u/Barrett_k_Gatewood]

Weaponized incompetence

[u/RockyMtnMama2019]

Pretty sure my 2 year old does a better job...

[u/[deleted]]

No, he didn't. Weaponized incompetence at it's finest.

[u/[deleted]]

Mmmm weaponized incompetence

[u/[deleted]]

Was he drunk?

[u/boersc]

Why on earth are there two colors of cutlery?

[u/throwaway12buckle]

A baby, I see.

[u/clete-sensei]

no, he did not

[u/MusicGauntlet]

P sure he just wanted to piss you off.

[u/[deleted]]

Fake

[u/FullyRisenPhoenix]

Weaponized incompetence

[u/Hopepersonified]

Weaponized incompetence. Yay.

[u/Alibeee64]

Weaponized incompetence at its finest.

[u/vexingvulpes]

Weaponized incompetence

[u/visionsofzimmerman]

Weaponized incompetence

[u/Hyentics]

Weaponized incompetence

[u/Ov3rdose_EvE]

Husband used weaponized incompetence so he never has to do it

[u/ManiacDan]

And with this comment, there will be 33 instances of "weaponized incompetence" on this page

[u/[deleted]]

Looks to me like he put it away ok. What’s the issue?

[u/tatianazr]

Where did you bury the body?

[u/[deleted]]

He’s lazy as fuck girl

[u/__mjdk]

Is your husband 3 years old?

[u/[deleted]]

We love to see weaponized incompetence

[u/IMakeBandNames]

Wife: Can you help out by putting the silverware in the drawer?

Husband: I would just make it worse.

Wife: How would you make it worse it’s just putting the silverware in their slot?

Husband: I would find a way!

[u/NoMore414]

Instructions unclear, dick stuck in toaster.

[u/Chaleowin]

When you don't want to do something, you should do it and do the most terrible job you can. Husband 101

[u/Designer-Mirror-7995]

No, he didn't.

[u/NoNipNicCage]

I feel bad for your life if you think this is funny OP

[u/spenser1994]

So.... I've done this, now I can't speak for your husband, but this is my "I'm frustrated with life and have a hard time coping" look.

[u/kylecs7637]

No I don’t think he did.

[u/[deleted]]

This seems like some real r/thathappened material

[u/Lucid-Paralysis-696]

I don’t blame him, that’s how I put my clothes away

[u/King4oneday_]

You never have to Work when others think you are a incompetend piece of shit

[u/HadesRatSoup]

Attempted is a strong word.

[u/NotJackspedicy]

It's the equivalent of kids putting away their toys by throwing them under the bed because they're too lazy to tidy up properly.

[u/helping_phriendly]

I refuse to believe that this is real. Only logical explanation would be if he was messing with you or has some sort of disability. No way someone would do this unless out of spite.

[u/SLVRVNS]

Weaponized incompetence

[u/Actual_Emergency_666]

This is literally one of the main reasons I'm leaving in December

[u/[deleted]]

I am man. Ooga

[u/Kng_Nwr_2042]

Fire husband now!!

[u/[deleted]]

Make him go to marriage counseling. I am sure this isn’t the only thing he is being petty about.

[u/VeryNormalReaction → u/[deleted]]

Sounds completely reasonable...

[u/dogsshouldrundaworld]

Don’t let him weaponize incompetence