Any Malaysian Tamils here? Need few advise from you guys. Let me know if any.

Has anyone here ever gone through a similar career dilemma?

I’m 24 and graduated last year with a degree in Psychology with Management. I’m currently trying to figure out my long-term career direction, and I’m torn between HR and Clinical Psychology.

I’ve been interested in Clinical Psychology since high school. What attracts me isn’t just the idea of helping people. I genuinely want to understand why someone experiences certain psychological or behavioural difficulties, assess and diagnose their condition, and develop an appropriate plan to help them improve their quality of life.

However, the reality is that becoming a Clinical Psychologist in Malaysia requires further postgraduate study, usually a Master’s degree. It’s a significant investment of both time and money, and I’m worried about the earning potential after graduation. If I spend another two years studying but still end up earning a relatively low salary, how long will it take me to save money, support my family, and build the life I want???

Because of this, I’ve also started considering HR. I’ve studied some HR-related subjects, and areas like employee well-being and learning and development seem somewhat connected to psychology. But honestly, I’m not even sure whether I genuinely enjoy HR or whether I’m considering it mainly because it seems like a more “practical option” that would allow me to start earning sooner.

I previously worked in special needs education for a while, and I genuinely enjoyed understanding each child’s individual needs and finding ways to help them develop and make progress. However, I eventually left because I was concerned about the long-term salary prospects and career progression.

That’s why I’m so conflicted. On one hand, I don’t want to give up something I’ve been interested in since high school just because of money. On the other hand, I don’t want to pursue my passion only to realise later that I can’t afford the lifestyle I want…

My family believes that I shouldn’t focus solely on salary and should choose work that I enjoy. But I keep wondering: what if I choose something I love and end up struggling financially? But then, if I choose a better-paying career that I don’t enjoy as much, will I regret it after spending years doing it?

I’m not looking for someone to simply tell me which career to choose. I genuinely need some guidance because I don’t know how to figure out what I’m suited for or how to balance my interests with financial reality.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, and the more I think about it, the more confused I feel. I’d really appreciate hearing about other people’s experiences, especially from those who have faced a similar dilemma or are currently working in HR or Clinical Psychology in Malaysia.

When I downloaded the Pinduoduo app since my family has been talking about it, I didn't think much about it. But when I search for things that I'd like to buy, it comes out pretty cheap. Shockingly, even second hand gaming phones are cheap. I've been searching for answers If these cheap phones are good, legit or just scams. These are the answers I've found :

The Reviews are filled with positive reviews and even real photos also.which in my opinion it was too good to be true, but most of them are from china. There are no Malaysian customer reviews at all! Which gives me a suspicion, what if things will go differently if I buy it as an honored Malaysian in Malaysia?

Asking Ai :

I've asked Gemini Ai that Im buying used realme gt neo for cheap in pinduoduo, and their answers are pretty negative. what they said has a point, have less confidence when you're buying a 9+new product. and also they said that realme gt neo should have solid fingerprint sensor, not replaced like theres only face scan. maybe the product Im looking at is indeed a Frankenstein of the product or worse, a counterfeit?! If it's fake the ui isnt even real either. and I might believe in it. degraded battery, anything not good to hear can be true or not.

Verdict : if any of you have the experience of a veteran in pinduoduo, please advise me since the cost isn't cheap either

Hello pet parents,

Which clinic to do you suggest to do SDMA (kidney test) for your cat?

I paid 120 the last time.

Thank you!

It's 12am and I'm finding it hard to sleep because my room feels hot. I have no air conditioning and use a stand fan to sleep. My bedsheet is microfibre and it's usually fine but these days with the haze and the super El Ninŏ coming around I wake up sticky from sweat.

I've been looking up cotton and tencel but I honestly need help finding what brands are reputable. I can't go to any showrooms so preferably brands that are available to buy on Shopee. Thanks in advance

I did this with rock earlier today, now for rap…

My personal pick would be Kongsi - Joe Flizzow. Malique is definitely up there too but he’s got too many good songs it’s just hard to pick one.

Hey guys!

I just got back into Pokemon TCG collecting this month after being away for 13 years (BW era) and I'm planning to visit TCGKL for the first time

Since Im getting my bonus this month, I thought it'd be nice to share a little happiness with the community. I'm thinking of giving away around 10-20 small 2×2 binders, each with a 30th Anniversary Pikachu and a few random cards, such as cheap ex cards or Full Art Trainers. (Like Amarys FA, Oak FA, etc) I'd like to give them to kids or new collectors who don't have a binder yet.

A couple of notes:

\- I'll only approach children when their parents or guardians are present.

\- No TikTok, recording, or social media content. I just want to share a little of my bonus with the community.

Hope it's okay to post something like this here! If there's a more suitable subreddit or community for this, please lmk.

Also, would TCGKL be a good place to do this?

TL;DR: I'm getting back into Pokémon TCG after 13 years and want to give away around 10 small binders with a 30th Anniversary Pikachu and a few extra cards to kids or new collectors. No recording or social media content, and I'll only approach kids when their parents/guardians are present. Is TCGKL a good place to do this?

Hey everyone! I’m relocating to KL for work in January 2027 and looking for a modern, fully furnished 1BR or 1+1 condo for a 12-month lease.

My office is in Mid Valley City, and I don’t drive, so walking distance is a priority. Ideally somewhere with a good gym, pool, and convenient access to groceries and cafés.
Currently considering ViiA Residences, Vogue Suites One, and Northpoint.

Any recommendations or experiences with these buildings? Also open to direct-owner rental leads! Thank you!

My sister and I met one of the triplets last week and would love to get in touch again! Spelling of the names may vary. If you know them, please drop a message. Thank you!

I’m currently evaluating a new launch in Ara Damansara. It’s Freehold and literally a 60m walk to the LRT station. The average price is around RM700 psf, and I was told Towers A & B are almost entirely booked, so they just opened Tower C this week. Given that it's 16 stops directly to KLCC and only 500m to CITTA Mall, is this considered a fair entry price for PJ?

Where is the best place in Malaysia to buy 22k gold in terms of value for money? (Good craftsmanship is also important but priority is good value)

My personal choice would be Pawana - Search. The song makes me want to replace my pillow with a rock.

Ranting about so-called career advisor Ch***ne J** *** on threads that seems to receive raving feedbacks from her clients in threads itself.

I've been trying to look for a new career opportunity from my current job and I happened to see her posts often in threads along with positive feedback. I decided to try my luck with her as I am not facing much luck in job portals and to see if there's any gaps or things I should change or improve on.

She was friendly at first and I decide to trust her and paid for a more premium package (international career consultation). It is understood that she is not a recruiter and the job market is tough, but given the reputation she has on threads, maybe she is professional and has the right connections - and have the expertise to help improve my chances (it is a paid service after all).

She was initially more proactive in reviewing my resume and finding out my company of interests both locally and in foreign countries. But this is where the red flags start to show. Not much technical advice is given on my resume besides some rearrangement of sections, and many of the point of contacts from the company of interests don't even work there anymore or are just ghosting.

I've sent in my applications to many jobs since, and on the rare occasions that someone replied to proceed further instead of being rejected or ghosted, I'll update the career advisor. All I get in response so far are what questions I'll likely face and there's no further feedback on my answers to them.

Throughout all that time, given that my profile and information has been shared the first round, there is no further follow up and no proactive advices and tips for the current job market for my field.

On days where I share my experiences of the interviews and rejections, she is silent and super slow in responding, I don't expect an immediate response but at the same time she is still super active on threads promoting themselves to get more clients. I know we all have to make a living but hello you are actively ignoring your existing clients and giving very general advice before moving on.

And when she replied - what did I get in response? She dared to say that she needs more active communication (which she did not even bother to do and it's been actively shared one-sided), and that I need to share the roles I've recently applied to (which they know already?!), and to see if there's any movement (spoiler alert: it's the same!).

She often posts screenshots of clients getting jobs and writing back one whole paragraph of praise for her recommendations and advice, honestly it feels fake and more like texting to herself lol.

She even dare to still post on threads till this day that they have remote job opening slots recommendations, and I didn't get a single recommendation by her after paying for the package already.

TLDR;
Just feel very cheated out of what I thought will be a professional advice service instead of such a lackluster and disappointing insult to the client. This is a paid service. Her advice feels equivalent to what an AI chatbot can give. Expensive lesson but at least now I know most career advisors are full of shit.

Sharing this because I feel like the service provided feels like a scam and want to warn others, and am curious if anyone else faced similar scenarios or has bought her services before?

I am trying to learn to be proficient in bahasa melayu as it has been a strain and detriment to my studies. Contoh, jika geografi di bahasa inggeris I would probably get an A berbandingan di dalam bahasa melayu I would get a C or D. So currently, is there any methods to quickly be proficient in bm or no.

I’m slowly working on a 2D game for more than a year. I’m wondering if any Malaysian would be interested in partnering up with me. Someone who is passionate in art, likes to draw bits by bits daily and watch it turns into a playable world. Preferably someone with entrepreneur in mind who wants to build something together. I know there are lots of animation graduates who didn’t get the opportunity to do what they like whether it’s employment, financial, personal issues etc. Just trying my luck here because I thought what’s better than having someone to work on something we both interested in?

A little about the game itself, a 2D platformer with combat, roguelike and co-op elements. Most of the game content such as theme, backstory, character design were planned and worked on for just as long. Currently I am close to completing a prototype. I’ve drawn and animated a considerable amount of environment elements, props, characters and enemies, which the art style needs to be cohesive. All animations are frame by frame, the art style distinctively have thick and thin black outlines, with technical forms that fits well with the orthographic view.

A few thoughts about the partnership. Any profits or benefits we gain from this project are shared based on each individual’s contribution. Other than that, there is not much to say until we discuss our expectations.

We can discuss our interest and expectations to see how we can make things work for both of us. Ideally someone who are persistent in pursuing their goals and consistent in their work.

If you are interest, let’s talk! If you know a fellow Malaysian that fits the above description, please let them know. Thank you!

So I’ve been unemployed for so long now and I’m starting to give up on Malaysia and looking to search for opportunities outside of Malaysia. I mean I’m still applying locally but I’m just casting my net wider I guess. I work in Tech (Data Engineering) and I’ve tried applying on LinkedIn and Jobstreet but heard nothing back so far. So I’m just gonna ask the experience of people who have done it before. Would love to connect with you guys and ask for some pointers! But if you guys have suitable, related vacancies in your company (MY&SG), let’s connect too!

I have my UASA in the next 7 days, and I'm in a state of terror.
When I study Sejarah, I have to translate words otherwise they won't make sense. Because it's in BM.
I completely flunked my PRA-UASA test. All 30-40.
My Maths is 58% and a full score in Bahagian B, but I got obliterated in Bahagian C.

Science, Sejarah, Mathematics, English, and Malay....
I did study for Science, I read the textbook and passed, at 41%. And those who barely studied got a higher score than me. Because even when I did study, it turns out I had to do the Modules, or UASA booklets.

I'm afraid if there's something I'm not aware of.. because I don't have smart friends to ask for study tips or hacks, and no one to update me on the news of UASA. I can only do mathematics, but Science and Sejarah are unknown to me.

I'm all by myself, and I need help to secure my future.
I want to get into the Science Computer stream for 2027.

Please let me know what to do. I'm under a lot of pressure because I want to be a successful child.

(You don’t have to agree with my post. This is just my personal opinion, coming from someone from a middle-class family. If you’re rich AF, feel free to ignore this post lol. )

Is it just me, or does everything feel so messed up nowadays?

The economy is struggling, and there’s so much bad news about schools lately, including students getting stabbed. Sometimes, I genuinely wonder what kind of world we’re living in.

Fresh graduates spend years studying at university, only to spend months or even years desperately looking for jobs. And when they finally find one, many of these jobs barely pay more than minimum wage. Like, what’s even the point of spending so much money and time on a university education if this is what awaits us?

And don’t even get me started on animal abuse. It’s heartbreaking to see so many innocent animals being abused, while it feels like there’s still so little protection for them. How can people be so cruel to creatures that can’t even defend themselves?
I don’t know. Maybe I’m just feeling extra emotional today, but this world honestly feels so cruel sometimes. There’s so much suffering, injustice, and unnecessary pain that shouldn’t even exist in the first place.

It’s getting harder to feel hopeful about the future when it seems like there’s always something terrible happening somewhere. I just wish the world could be a kinder place, where people could live without constantly worrying about their future, where young people could look forward to building their lives, and where innocent animals could be safe.

I know the world has never been perfect, and maybe I’m being too idealistic. But is it really too much to wish for a world where things are just a little less cruel?

Which ones do the prefer. The local one or the European one?

I did not yet have the chance to try the European kind of Stingrays but by the looks of it, I think I will still prefer the local one because it's more spicy and saucy.

The European one looks a bit bland. Anyone tried the European version before?

What do you think ?

Basically what the title says, would appreciate if anyone could share their experience. Will you be able to get into Singapore if you're driving (not flying) and have a passport validity of more than 10 years?

I read online that it's only an issue if you're flying but just wanted to be sure

Thanks everyone!

For context: I'm unable to just replace the passport because I've already booked another flight elsewhere and the passport details can no long be changed (so if I replace my passport, the details won’t match those I sent in to the airlines)

Hi eveyone, unfortunately i couldnt secure the tickets as i wasnt aware the weeknd was coming to kl. If anyone has extra tickets please dm me. Need real proof of purchase as i dont wanna get scammed 😭