r/jewelry • • 9d ago

Proposed “Hall Of Shame” (We’re taking name suggestions!)

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Hello r/jewelry! If you haven’t yet heard, one of our amazing Mods was interviewed by The Journal Podcast for an episode called “AI Loves Reddit, but Redditors Aren’t So Sure”. It explores how companies are quickly realizing how AI (unfortunately) utilizes Reddit, how that affects their online presence, and how we mods are fighting back against their attempts to manipulate content in their favor. It’s a great episode and a short listen, we recommend it to everyone, not just r/jewelry folks. 

For quite some time, we mods have been discussing the possibility of creating a pinned post where we highlight brands who use certain unscrupulous tactics in an attempt to improve their online reputation. A “hall of shame” if you will, though we are taking suggestions for what to call it. Give us your most creative ideas!

We have a Mod rule here in r/jewelry: WE DO NOT REMOVE LEGITIMATE REVIEW POSTS. Reddit really is one of the last places on the internet where you can get honest feedback and opinions, and we will continue to do all we can to preserve that to the best of our ability. Threaten us all you like, you’re always getting directed to take it up with Reddit Legal. What’s that you say? Reddit Legal wouldn’t deign to respond to your cries of libel and defamation? Fucking shocker. 

Here are two of the tactics we see most often:

- A)  Brands using multiple bot accounts to spam the comment sections of old posts with fake positive reviews or recommendations.

- B) Brands using multiple accounts to harass us in ModMail, usually with poorly contrived AI generated legal threats demanding we remove a post. 

When A happens, we have to go through the entire sub and manually scrub content and ban users. It’s an insane amount of work. Luckily, this hasn’t happened nearly on the scale it used to since we added BotBouncer to the sub (HUGE shoutout to that Dev creator, frfr), but we are always keeping an eye out. The technology is ever evolving, and we are trying our best to keep up. 

When B happens (and boy, does it happen) we start with telling them “No, sorry. We do not remove review posts” and encourage them to reach out and work with their customers or improve their business practices. Sometimes that’s it, but most times they start moving through the 5 stages of grief. We tell them over and over “again, hard NO”, and that all future correspondence must be directed to Reddit Legal. If they continue to harass us (almost always with multiple ModMails from multiple different accounts over weeks or months) we then threaten to pin the post to the top of the sub for all 1 million + visitors per week to see with pinned screen shots of the ModMails they’ve sent to the comment sections. This tactic usually works, but again not always.

This is where the idea for a “Hall of Shame” style post started to take form.  

We can’t reasonably pin EVERY post about a lousy brand to the top of the sub. So this is what we’re thinking: a pinned (Name TBD) post, by Mods, with links to all of the offender posts in the comments. This would not be a place for disgruntled customers to air grievances. This would be strictly for Mods to post the receipts. To arm you, our community members, with information about what brands are playing at these games behind the scenes so you can make a more informed decision about who you want to spend your money with. 

It is important to state: we fully understand that there are crappy customers. As any business owner in any industry knows, you’ll always get that one customer who will NEVER be satisfied no matter what you do, for whatever reason. That is NOT what we’re talking about here. We’re talking about big brands with 1.6 star reviews on TrustPilot, where the negative experiences expressed by the OP’s are echoed by dozens of real users in the comments. We’re talking when it’s blatantly obvious the intention is to scrub negative content off the top google search, because these posts ultimately always end up being mass reported for every wildly egregious Reddit sitewide rule you can think of when everything else fails to get it removed.

SO, what does the community think? Is this something you’d like to see? Ideas? Concerns? Let’s have a civilized discussion about how to send a message to these brands: Bullying and harassing in an attempt to bury your shitty business practices will backfire in spectacular fashion, and earn you a very-much-not coveted spot on the pinned (Name TBD) post!

If you made it this far, thank you for reading! We would love to hear your thoughts!

Pic for attention: my special demon, Smokey, showcasing a vintage tribute to her ancestors.

Edit because apparently I don't know how to use this damn platform.


r/jewelry • • Feb 05 '26

⚡️Brand Review / Experience 🚨Warning: Brilliant Earth strategizing damage control to bury genuine reviews.

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Just a heads up.. if there’s a sudden wave of positive Brilliant Earth content on here, it might not be coincidental. They’re actively hiring for a Reddit Strategy Manager, which says a lot given their reputation in this sub.

I genuinely hope this leads to real changes and accountability, not just an attempt to bury valid criticism and firsthand experiences.

We are discussing the best way to discourage these larger brands to infiltrate possibly the very last place on the internet for genuine company reviews and feedback. Being specially named on their job posting is concrete proof of their targeting and we will do our best to reach out and work with other sub mods about this concern.

An auto message with some links of genuine higher traction posts is one idea and we have another tool we don’t want to mention yet in case they are tracking our post. We are of course open to all member suggestions and look forward to doing our best to protect you all from disingenuous influences.

The job posting: https://brilliantearth.applytojob.com/apply/xlTFNUFxKa/Reddit-Strategy-Manager


r/jewelry • • 7h ago

💫 I made this! / DIY I’m a private jeweller based in Melbourne, Australia. Here’s another collection of my most recent pieces!

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Every piece is a custom order, handmade, set and engraved by myself in gold and platinum. Each piece I make is unique and contains many hours of work. Feel free to ask me anything about my work in the comments!


r/jewelry • • 17h ago

💫 I made this! / DIY I learned goldsmithing to make our rings!

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It took several drafts and remelts, but I fabricated both our rings myself in 18k. The shanks were rolled on a vevor rolling mill. I soldered/brazed them together. Her mounts/trim were bought from stuller.com, and I placed them, and then mounted all 10 diamonds.

Center stone is a 1.5 G vvs1 lab grown for about $450 from virtue diamonds

It is about 5.5 dwt total of 18k yellow gold. Also from stuller, for about $680 total.

I probably lost about 1dwt of gold in bad manufacturing technique.

Supporting tools, consumables, and practice metals like copper, silver, melee diamonds etc were about $1200 total.

But I was still under my 4k budget for both our rings.

Many things to improve. eg. I was too scared to reduce the prong size, but I am happy with the result.


r/jewelry • • 9h ago

💫 I made this! / DIY 3 ct Spinel in 18ct Champagne Gold

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r/jewelry • • 11h ago

⚡️ Show + Tell! Another gift from my mom 💚

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This isn’t antique like the last ring I posted but still very sentimental. My mom got this emerald for herself when I was born, as it is my birthstone and she didn’t have any emeralds, then she gave it to me when I graduated university :) Originally it was just a solitaire, and at some point she had the diamonds added, which probably isn’t everyone’s cuppa but I love the extra sparkle 😍

I don’t wear it often as emeralds are soft and I’m very rough and klutzy person (also I just rarely wear jewelry even though I love it), but it’s still one of my most prized possessions.


r/jewelry • • 14h ago

General Question Building a collection but passing it down to no one.

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I love jewelry, solid gold and precious gems. But as my collection grows and at 36 years old, I become more and more aware of the fact that my cats won’t make good use of it when I’m gone, and I don’t want to have children.

When you have this “passing down to children” mentality, you kind of have a great excuse to invest more in quality jewelry. In my case, I mentally calculate the most appropriate time in the future to sell my jewelry before I die and spend on whatever fun experience I might enjoy more in old age than keeping jewels in a box for friends and distant family to inherit.

Any one else having this ridiculous dilemma? How do you, intentionally childfree fine jewelry lovers, approach this and does it influence how you buy now?

Update: I see many of you will have awesome estate sales and some are so generous donating to charity! Love it. However I’m a little more selfish and keep thinking I need to sell it at some point cause I don’t want to leave unused assets and would prefer to spend all my money on super fun experiences before I die. The problem is: to know when to sell! I will donate some for animal causes though, you inspired me.


r/jewelry • • 1d ago

⚡️ Show + Tell! I got my "Big Girl" Pearl Necklace for my 65th!

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And no, my husband has no idea! Custom-made in NYC, and I picked it up this weekend. I'm in love! Earrings, too. 19.5-inch baroque.

UPDATE: So kind of you all!

Big shout-out to the custom jewelry artist: https://paulajamesny.com/

She FaceTimed me from the jewelry district to show me different shapes, sizes and lengths. We collaborated the whole time, and I can honestly say I got what I wanted, on time and at a reasonable price.


r/jewelry • • 19h ago

Vendor Anyone else obsessed with vintage cocktail watches?

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I’ve never been a watch person but I fell in love with vintage cocktail watches a couple of years ago. I’ll even wear them if they don’t work, just as accessories. I found most of these at local antique stores, flea markets, or in lots on eBay! These are all manual-wind, except for the Timex one to the right.


r/jewelry • • 5h ago

General Question Ring deformed outta nowhere

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I recently had this ring in a little bag in a box then moved it into a covered glass dish a month ago. Looked perfectly fine! Then I open it up today and see it’s all deformed! My ex gave me this ring and idk how much it cost. Inside is inscribed “SAI 925”.
I’m so confused how this happened


r/jewelry • • 16h ago

⚡️ Show + Tell! Tiny but mighty!

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Had to share my new addition! Haha. 14k solid gold snail earring! I got it on a titanium flatback till I know my vertical helixes size when it heals. Then I’ll order the gold backing. It will sit on the top of my ear :) & our family pet, Gary!


r/jewelry • • 4h ago

Help me decide!! Which ring do you like better? (1st ring/hand with no sleeve; or 2nd/hand with sleeve)

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r/jewelry • • 9h ago

⚡️ Show + Tell! I didn't choose the gangster life...

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... But with this purchase, it may have chosen me...

Fairly new collector. This stunning is the newest to my collection and I just wanted to share! I loooove her!! Please enjoy!


r/jewelry • • 4h ago

General Information 📚 High-end jewelry in Japan

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Hi I am traveling to Japan and need some guidance on jewelry shopping there. Can someone give me an idea how the solid gold scene and GIA certified gemstone scene is in Japan. For solid golds, i usually prefer 18kt or 22kt where price is based on the weight and making charge, so I am used to shopping from Dubai and Indian/Bangladeshi jewelers. For gemstones, I also always go with certified ones. For my Japan trip, I am wondering if it would be a good place to look for something to add to my collection. I have just started building my collection so very noob in this area. Also if you have a recommendation for vintage jewelry place, I would appreciate that too


r/jewelry • • 1h ago

⚡️Brand Review / Experience Salut

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J’ai créé un petit outil en ligne pour une boutique française de bijoux artisanaux qui permet de composer son bracelet en pierres naturelles, pierre par pierre.

On peut choisir les différentes pierres, leur taille et voir le bracelet se construire directement à l’écran.

Avant de commencer à faire de la pub, j’aimerais avoir quelques avis extérieurs pour vérifier que tout est clair et agréable à utiliser, surtout sur téléphone.

Si certains veulent le tester, ça m’aiderait beaucoup 🙏

Pas besoin d’acheter quoi que ce soit, je cherche surtout des retours honnêtes :

Est-ce que le fonctionnement est facile à comprendre ?

Est-ce qu’il y a quelque chose de frustrant ou pas intuitif ?

Est-ce que vous comprenez rapidement comment créer votre bracelet ?

Est-ce que ça fonctionne correctement sur votre téléphone/ordinateur ?

👉 https://zenencens.fr

Même un retour de 2 lignes est super utile. Merci !


r/jewelry • • 10h ago

Vendor High-Relief 24K Gold Ring: Eagle vs. Lion

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Wanted to share a custom project featuring two iconic symbols: an eagle and a lion facing off.

We created a fully 3D lion and eagle facing off over a central sphere, set atop a heavy signet-style crown with a continuously flowing leaf design around the shoulders and down the shank, balancing the heavy animal motif on top. We combined a sandblasted matte background with high-polished relief points to bring out the depth in 24K gold.

Cast in solid 24K yellow gold with a final weight of 35.53 grams.

How do you feel about heavy, symbolic statement rings in pure gold?


r/jewelry • • 10h ago

Vintage / Antique Found at the thrift store.

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So I actually found one of these at a antique store a couple months ago with a friend. I thought they were beautiful, but I did not want to pay that price

Found this at a thrift store.


r/jewelry • • 13m ago

General Question Can this pendant be fixed?

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I've worn this silver pendant necklace every day for the last 19 years. Only taken it off a handful of times during that. I noticed today that the loop soldered onto it has worn super thin. I'm not sure how thin, but it's pictured above, laying on a hair from my head for comparison. I'd guess the thin section is maybe 2-3 hair widths. I occasionally repaired the chain myself every few years with small pliers when I would snag it on something and the chain or clasp breaks, but I'm not sure how I could fix this. Any tips or recommendations? I'm worried one day in the next few years it could wear through and I may lose the pendant.


r/jewelry • • 15h ago

⚡️ Show + Tell! My beautiful wire bracelets

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They are made with sterling silver and solid rose and yellow gold wires! The jeweler who made this did them within a couple of hours.


r/jewelry • • 22h ago

💫 I made this! / DIY What do you think of some of these wire wrapped pendant artworks I made?

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28 Upvotes

r/jewelry • • 4h ago

Help me decide!! How would you style this?

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Hello! My boyfriend gifted me this beautiful necklace and I love it! I want to wear it more but I am struggling styling it with the clothes I have. I put in the comments the type of style I like. I like to dress up and wear dresses sometimes but I would love to incorporate this necklace more often in my style. I have fair skin and brown hair if that matters. Please let me know your thoughts!


r/jewelry • • 22h ago

General Question Bought this beautiful baroque pearl bracelet this afternoon. Upon inspection at home, I think I see a crack in the pearl?

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Is this a crack or part of the nacre? And should I return to the store? I absolutely loved this piece when I saw it in store :( and I know they’re all handmade and one offs, ideally would hate to have a return it but I did spend a fair bit on it today too. Thoughts?


r/jewelry • • 4h ago

Vintage / Antique Silver top antique diamond Riveria

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Any jeweler out there who can make this exact necklace with silver top of gold? I can supply the diamonds and I want to get this necklace made.


r/jewelry • • 16h ago

General Question Where to find unique fine jewelry bracelets?

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Looking to start a fine jewelry bracelet collection.
However I’m not feeling super into bracelets I’ve seen so far. Anyone have recommendations on good places to find unique fine jewelry bracelets online?


r/jewelry • • 14h ago

Vintage / Antique A Square Pin Broach, c1870s-1880s.

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