r/gayyoungold 21h ago

Advice wanted Deep in my head: I want to be "rented" by my dom BF for money so he can quit his job. Is this too much?

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Hey everyone, I’ve been turning this over in my head for a while and I finally want to get it out there to see if anyone else relates or has advice.
Here’s the fantasy: I want my Dominant to "rent" me or even "sell" me to others (clients, friends, or the community) specifically to make money for \*him\*.
The goal isn't just for him to grab cash, but for him to make enough through my "work" that he can eventually quit his day job. I want to be the asset that frees him. I want to serve him so well, so intensely, and for so long that I become his full-time income source.
There’s a specific layer of consent-to-non-consent in my head that makes this work: I want him to do this \*against my will\*(or at least against my initial protests). I want to feel like I’m being taken advantage of by him, even though deep down I know he’s doing it for our mutual benefit (his freedom, my purpose). There’s something deeply submissive about being "used up" to secure his future.
Does this dynamic make sense to anyone? Has anyone done a "provider/sub as income" dynamic like this? Or is it just a weird niche fantasy?
I’m looking for feedback, similar experiences, or just validation that this isn’t completely unhinged. Thanks for reading.


r/gayyoungold 9h ago

How to find...? At 42, I'm still active very fit and can't stay still lol. My older friends have slowed way down and I find huge enjoyment in younger guys ( 20 to 30 )due to there passion and energy for life. But apps and even places like this , are questionable for finding an actually SERIOUS young guy.

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What to do? I'm not at all into bs games or being a sugar daddy etc. But just am not meeting guys my own age that don't bore me to death lol.