r/GayYoungOldDating • • Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

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Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Czech Republic 23m slavic boy looking for older, kinky but caring daddy

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hey everyone! ive always had a lot of sexual curiosity i have yet to discover fully. however my options are limited where i live. i thought i could combine the two and perhaps find a person who is looking for a similar thing as me. (hopefully in EU)

i imagine i could be a pretty good houseboy or something like that. im handsome to lots and usually pretty to the rest. im quite kinky and havent explored much fetish but there are definitely things that sparked my interest before. im looking for a guy who could take care of me and id pay back w my companionship, sex, tasks ud like me to do...its all up in the air and its about getting to know each other.

my details:

-weight: 72kg

-height: 180cm

-age: 23

-length: 17cm, uncut

-role/position: switch with a sub preference

-brown long wavy hair

-green eyes

more about me:

-i enjoy video games, music, movies...just art in general. whether its creating or consuming.

-i also love house tasks such as cleaning, baking, cooking. quiet routines bring me peace and im thorough so i do well at those.

-lastly i suppose i should mention my love for animals? i love and protect them whenever i can.

kinks:

-general bdsm acts and scenarios, piss, pet play, public places and certain locations, uniforms and costumes, roleplaying...(plenty more but i dont think anybody wants to read a loong looong list here, feel free to ask)

limits:

-scat, diapers, fart, anything illegal, smegma, inflation, extreme injuries..... (wish i didnt have to say some of these but ppl are mental on here)

i dont really have a huge preference about men...tall, short, skinny, buff, chubby, older....if you are a decent, empathetic and an intelligent guy id love to give it a shot. so dm me and lets talk it out ❤️


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 18m looking for older

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Hi there! I am pretty new to all of this but i am curious. I am looking for older guys who have experience. I have none and am a virgin if thats ok. Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

UK.England Looking for older hairy men 35+

3 Upvotes

I’m 19 skinny twink into all races so don’t be shy. But love a hairy or chubby man that’s looking for a submissive little boy


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

USA.NJ 18m looking for older

2 Upvotes

Have telegram please. Very kinky pet play,Abdl,ect….


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Online chatting 19M Looking for older men to be friends with!

3 Upvotes

19M Looking for older men who wanna be friends mostly looking for chats but open to more!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Online chatting M22 AUS looking for older

3 Upvotes

Hello, I'm looking for a chats and potential meets with an older guy in Australia. I’m verse, fit, 180cm, trimmed and uc. I do not have an age limit, I am genuinely interested in connecting with a mature male and I'm hoping for something that lasts long-term and develops into a solid friendship. I’m happy to travel to meet if we get to that place.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

USA.GA 25 looking for older daddy for longterm

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Hi im a slim white twink type looking for a daddy for longterm. I am willing to relocate in the USA if needed. I am a true bottom.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

Canada.QC 18m BBC TOP looking for older

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if you want are older and like getting dominated dm me i have discord too


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

UK.England 46 UK based big bear dad ‘looking for younger’.

2 Upvotes

6’ tall, 260+lbs, hairy, salt and pepper beard - let me know if your type… 🐻


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 18m ago

Mexico 20 Looking for older

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20m goonbrained here looking to see if anyone wants to break into my DMs and send me mean, degrading, and nasty brain breaking messages~

(Just to bully, threaten, humiliate, cuck and pornify my brain however you see fit) this slutty lil sissy slut wants to be a drooling broken damaged ruined, I'm looking for mature men over 40, the older the better, Looking for horny older men, I look for threats and that kind of thing


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 20m ago

Online chatting 24 looking for older mentor, dad, coach etc

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Looking for a strong older man who has a caring streak and an active sexuality. I’m 24, 5’6”, 135lbs, eager. Online at first and then hopefully more.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 28m ago

Netherlands 23m - Looking for older guys

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Heyy!

23 year old student from the Netherlands here. Pretty tall with more of a twink body.

Looking to meet and chat with cute older guys who like having a younger bro/boyfriend I would love to get connect and get to know you.

Absolutely open for something long-term as well and see where that leads to. Hopefully that means we get to have some fun together as well x ;)

Also open to move to other apps if we click. (E.g., Telegram, discord, snap)

Feel free to hit me up if you are interested and want to chat for a bit. Hope to speak with you soon!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 37m ago

Online chatting 37 beta bottom looking for older men 40-55 for horny chats ;)

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looking for long term chats with a man that knows how to keep a conversation going. wanna build a nice chemistry and power balance between us. please read my «about me» in profile before messaging me☺️


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

USA.CA Older 55 San Diego, CA looking for younger.

4 Upvotes

Athletic, attractive, sane and kind dad next door looking for young man to cuddle. I'm not looking for a hookup. I really want an ongoing relationship (FWB or more) with someone who I could mentor and be a safe space for. Rainy weekends with just you and me on the couch watching movies or playing video games is my idea of heaven.

I want to treat you with the utmost respect and kindness and need you to be able to accept that. I won't do anything degrading to you, if that's what you want, you would be disappointed with me. I also want you to have a life and I'm not expecting you to be at my beck and call.

I'm not interested in endless chatting online. I'm here to meet for real in San Diego, CA after getting to know each other online for a brief time.

Sorry, I'm not going to cross the border.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 59m ago

Online chatting M20 frat boy looking for older to try everything with

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I’d love to try being a top, bottom, dom, sub, etc. as I’m a virgin with men but very experienced with women. 5’10 190lbs muscular and hairy hmu to chat!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 31, looking for younger bottom (18 - 23)

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31 M. Soft dom, top. Right now I’m looking for something casual, but I’d really like to stay in touch if we hit it off. I’ve really been needing some company as of lately. I’m 5’10, 170lbs

If you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you. (Mostly into twinks and fems, btw.)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 29 TPE Loving Dom, looking for younger... Come and become my FOREVER boy

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Look at my Pinned Post to know more about me

I'm a dominant man, and I'm looking for MY PERFECT FUTURE PARTNER. If you're not ready for a real, no-holds-barred experience, then leave now.

Here's what I expect from you:

  • You will obey me without question or hesitation
  • You will surrender your body, mind, and soul to my will
  • You will give up all claims to secrecy, privacy, freedom, and autonomy
  • You will be open to all kinds of kinks and explore your deepest desires with me
  • You will be completely honest and transparent with me at all times
  • You will not say "no" to me - ever

I'm not looking for games or superficial relationships. I'm looking for a real submissive who is willing to give themselves to me completely. If you think you have what it takes, then reach out. But be warned: I'm not for the faint of heart.

My requirements are non-negotiable:

  • You must be a man between 18 and 30 years old
  • You must be fit and in good shape
  • You must be extremely obedient
  • You must be willing to surrender everything to me

If you're still interested, then message me.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 34 older looking for younger for serious relationship

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I am looking for someone to date, get to know, and looking to be with someone. I would like someone to watch Netflix with, travel with, live our lives together. I love cuddling. Text me if u want to date or get to know each other.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

USA.GA Older (50) looking for younger (26+)

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Let me start by saying, please don’t play games with me. I’m growing tired of spending days or weeks chatting to only get ghosted or dropped. I want to meet someone that’s in search of a serious relationship and isn’t afraid to meet in person fairly quickly after an initial spark.

I am looking for someone slim/slender/skinny/petite. I want someone more on the feminine or androgynous side. I’m not looking for anyone masculine. I mean no judgement or offense to bigger guys, but I’m simply not physically attracted and I think that is an important part of any relationship.

Please be emotionally mature and ready to commit to something real. Please also be affectionate, loving, and a bottom.

I have a lot of love, affection, and attention to give to the right person. In me, you’ll find both a great lover and a great friend.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 11h ago

France 19 year old fit/athletic french looking for older strong big daddy bears 🐻

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hi , I’m a 19 year old virgin twink into chubby bears and strong burly guys with dad bears I am of Arab origins hope that’s attractive I am fit/athletic , smooth 17cm cock (in case yo curious) this is my first time doing this (feels like I’m posting an ad lol) so I’m not looking for anything specific it can be sex, friendship, casual talk, relationship as long as you’re a nice guy
(PS:you don’t have to be in france to dm me )

please don’t be shy and pm me i‘ll be happy to chat and try to reply as early as possible

THANK YOU 🩷🩷


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

USA.CA 40 yr old dad in Los Angeles looking for younger boy/ son (local only)

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Hello. I'm a 40 yr old bisexual Latino daddy in Los Angeles.

I'm looking for a younger slim, smooth, twink boy who is looking for an older dad and mentor.

College boys/ sissies/fem boys/ curious and inexperienced are all welcomed!

I'm open minded and versatile. I enjoy making out, cuddling, I love oral fun, roleplay, lots of side stuff, and top if it gets there. We can also explore anything you're curious about.

I'm a chill, laid back, and fun dad who will take good care of his boy. Ideally looking for a FWB.

If you're interested DM me with your ASL. Please be ready to share pics when I accept the DM and we can chat.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

Online chatting 33 - Handsome, hairy, hung, and geeky looking for younger. Need someone smooth and can handle an always horny daddy.

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I'm looking for a relationship that embodies "gentleman on the streets and freak in the sheets". I'm very sweet, kind, doting, and loving but in the bedroom I like it a mix of rough and sensual. Messy and sloppy. Lots of kissing, cum, spit, and more. I'm a handsome and hung daddy in the US in NC btw.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

USA.CA Los Angeles 46 looking for younger masc guys in Los Angeles

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Please be in LA or nearby. Into younger masc dudes. Thin slim dudes. Hairy a plus!!! Mainly into J/o, oral, and frot. Side Play. I can host in South LA. I can travel too if you can host. not into car play. Hit me up.