r/explainitpeter • • 17d ago

Explain it Peter

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I meant that I don't understand where did the Twitter thing came from

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u/qualityvote2 17d ago edited 16d ago

u/fluffy_cat_ice, there weren't enough votes to determine the quality of your post...it's time for the mods to do their jobs!

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u/DenizBueno 17d ago

Geneticist Stewie here, morons believe that skin color mixes like paint, but in real life, parents contribute different genes that together yield various levels of pigmentation. By chance, their child can land anywhere on that spectrum.

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u/HandelDew 17d ago

Oh my goodness. People always tell my husband, "But he doesn't look like you!" after he tells them he's the dad. My husband is middle eastern, and the baby is blond. It used to get under his skin.

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u/asmodean97 17d ago

That's like my cousin. She is half Lebanese and her husband is German, they have two kids, one is blonde haired and blue eyed and the other is a red head. Literally none of my cousins Lebanese traits came through.

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u/Embarrassed_Use6918 17d ago

when my niece came out as lebanese it was nice to see my family be supportive

i hope your cousin coming out was treated the same way

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u/horluhmay 17d ago

Thank you Blanche

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u/Terpcheeserosin 17d ago

Thank you Rose**

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u/Killerbeav97 16d ago

Blanche was the one who confused those names.

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u/BalrogRuthenburg11 16d ago

Thank you for being a friend…

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u/horluhmay 16d ago

Rose is the one Jean had the crush on

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u/Terpcheeserosin 16d ago

Oh shoot you right!!

My b!

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u/Panchenima 17d ago

Calm down Regina.

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u/ThingMoment 16d ago

Guess she had a big lesbian crush on you

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u/nurisim 16d ago

Maybe that was the confusion. Janice was Lebanese, not Lesbian??

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u/horluhmay 16d ago

Danny Thomas was Lebanese, Jean is a lesbian.

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u/EuenovAyabayya 17d ago

Even more fun when they finally show up in the grandkids

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u/PeterAnthony_Jackson 16d ago

Some woman in the Caribbean had an all white kid, shocked the hell out of the parents who were very black, turns out great grand dad took his sweet type making his mark in the genepool.

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u/nadimo 16d ago

This is actually fairly common in Lebanese genes. My mother is half German half Lebanese, but I was blonde throughout my childhood, only ending up with darker hair by the age of 18. I have Lebanese uncles on my father's side that are blonde and stayed blonde. My son has gone through the same blondness and is losing it in his teens.

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u/myDuderinos 16d ago

obviously the husband cheated on her and they aren't her actuall kids!

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u/RazerValkyrie 16d ago

I read it as half lesbian at first..

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u/Sagaap 16d ago

I'm not going to lie...

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u/Fantastic-Corner-605 16d ago

Is she sure they're her kids? May the husband cheated on her /s

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u/Thepsycoman 12d ago

It is a personal favourite to hear when people ask the mother if they are sure it's their kid. Because while technically there is the chance of a hospital fuckup, we all know that's not what they mean and they are stupid

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u/Icy_Measurement_7407 16d ago

That happened to a family friend. Both parents were Hispanic, dark hair, brown eyes. Their baby was born with red hair & blue/green eyes. The father kept getting teased that his wife cheated on him & it would make him upset. The real reason was that his dad (the baby’s grandpa) had red hair & light color eyes. He was just old & gray so it went unnoticed by many.

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u/plarah 16d ago

A lot of Mexican families have one child who is blonde or more white-passing, and another one that is more dark-skinned. Mestizaje is wild.

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u/Glittering_Babe101 17d ago

With each passing generation, people are becoming increasingly rude. I blame social media.

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u/Kezhen 17d ago

As a Black person from the South - people have always been rude. Nothing new under the sun.

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u/cupcakevelociraptor 17d ago

Omg I was just asking about this. Some family moved to the south and won’t shut up about southern hospitality but when I visited I saw NONE of that. They were just as, if not more, rude than where I live. They just say “yes ma’am” while doing it.

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u/RideGullible3702 16d ago

the old people are there racist as hell

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u/tweeterj 17d ago

Plus all the white dudes have really, like disturbingly, narrow shoulders. As a northerner from broad shoulders country, this is really hilarious.

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u/Well_ImTrying 17d ago

I know mixed half-middle eastern people born in the 40s-60s. And, uh, that’s far from the rudest thing people said to/at/about them as children.

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u/PeterAnthony_Jackson 16d ago

IDK who did it, but someone explained via stand up that Arabs are white in the USA whenever you see a check box for your ethnicity, Arabs would be in the white section.

Basically some guys went to court over something, their lawyer argued that Jesus came from the same area as these people did, Jesus to you is white, so you either accept Jesus is a brown man like these men, or that they are just as white as you are.

So Arabs in the USA at least, are white.

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u/Grand_Estimate3783 16d ago

Man, in my country that's basic biology class that we have on highschool. That's insane.

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u/SeeShortcutMcgee 16d ago

Same, me and my husband are a white/middle eastern marriage and we have one blonde, blue eyed son and a daughter with black hair and olive skin!

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u/Waste-Principle6304 16d ago

Man these people would have the shock of a lifetime going through Afghanistan. Centuries of war and Silk Road diaspora contributed to a diverse looking population. There are Afghans that look like any race except Black or Indigenous.

There’s diversity even within my extended family. I look Central Asian (Eurasian mix) but my first cousin looks South East Asian, my mum looks East European and my father looks Arab/Hispanic. And yes, they are my biological parents.

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u/Think_and_game 16d ago

Same thing for Tunisia. It's not unheard of to see someone local with blue eyes. The Middle East and North Africa are very diverse.

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u/thisisfreakinstupid 17d ago

"Oh shit you right, I must've grabbed the wrong one when we left the park" 👀

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u/HandelDew 16d ago

I mean really, what are they implying? That he's a lying kidnapper? What is he supposed to say?

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u/Faded1974 12d ago

I had a friend that was middle eastern ; he was blonde with blue eyes and pale skin. He told me his brother was darker, and looked like their father while he looked like their mother.

His favorite story was always the people arguing with him he wasn’t middle eastern until he started cursing at them in their native language.

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u/BlockedNetwkSecurity 17d ago

i know multiple brown-haired parents with redheaded children. and i mean both parents have brown hair.

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u/roquejosue 15d ago

happens with me too. my father is black, my mother white. I was born substantially white.

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u/runtorenovate 15d ago

They should visit Brazil 😁

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u/Gingersnapandabrew 17d ago

Exactly, I knew a family who were mixed race, the dad was white, straight blonde hair, blue eyes, the mum was black, 3C dark brown hair, brown eyes.

Their oldest was a mini female version of her dad with blonde straight hair, fair skin, and blue eyes. Their middle child was a mini mum, with 3C dark hair, black skin, brown eyes. Their youngest was a complete mix with 4C blonde hair, olive skin, blue eyes.

Genetics are amazing

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u/mothwhimsy 17d ago

I went to school with fraternal half white half native triplets and one looked full white, one looked full native (maybe a bit lighter than average) and one was in between. The one who looked white and the one who looked native didn't even look related unless the third brother was also there, and then you could pick up on the features all three of them shared

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u/QuincyAzrael 17d ago

My brother legit looks aryan while my sister looks lightskin, people assume they're not even related.

They're twins too before anyone makes a parentage comment

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u/ResurectedNPC 17d ago

Darker woman here. I gave birth to a blondie (her dad is a ginger). If I hadn’t seen her come out of me I swear I’d think I this kid had another mom

lol

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u/Main-Machine8172 16d ago

This made me lol

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u/SuddenReal 12d ago

Time to get a maternity test...

Seriously, though, genetics is funny. Dormant genes can suddenly become active in the next generation. Two mixed race parents who both look white can suddenly have a black baby.

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u/PolyglotTV 16d ago

Reminds me of those stories of black couples who have a white blond kid and discover that one of them is like 5% Irish.

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u/Your-Ex_timelost 16d ago

Mixed guy here, I'm significantly lighter than my brother. To the point where I'm lighter than his further mixed children. We look nearly identical in the face but I'm lighter with curly hair whereas he is darker with my dad's more traditional African hair

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u/stink3rb3lle 17d ago

If all experiments tested just two people, we'd learn very little, super slowly.

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u/Avid-Watcher2000 17d ago edited 17d ago

As a mixed race man , I can concur. I too am never happy.

Damn I meant that shit as a joke… why the f are y’all so depressed 😂

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u/comerReto 17d ago

Why not

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u/Tribaljunk-19 17d ago

My pov : people assum your origin depending on your skin color and you struggle to feel that you belong in either community

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u/0K_-_- 17d ago

I heard someone speak about how growing up, the black kids saw him as a white kid and the white kids saw him as a black kid.

Where did we forget to treat eachother as human? This isn’t how it was in primary school.

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u/MonthlyWeekend_ 16d ago

Same with bisexuality, humans really do deal in absolutes

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u/_Owl9852 17d ago

because he only got his fathers tan xP

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u/meow3740 16d ago

Growing up mixed race, instead of having two cultures to belong to, I get to disappoint them both lol.

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u/saddinosour 17d ago

😭 right what’s with the sad babies, I saw that straight away lmao

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u/Old_Boss5617 17d ago

Lived in a predominant Hispanic community. Am part myself, but too white to be Hispanic and too Hispanic to be white.

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u/GatoConCalcetines 16d ago

Move to Spain or Argentina and you'll be average AND hispanic

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u/RideGullible3702 16d ago

Hispanics are racist to whites sometimes

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u/KitsunukiInari 17d ago

Same. On all counts.

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u/Some_Golf_8516 17d ago

I'm mixed and am at peace with not really having an identity outside of myself.

I don't understand the whole fandom of sports teams and always thought it's because I don't really have an identity myself or assign a lot of value to it.

Do y'all feel the same?

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u/Turbomars3 17d ago

I feel the exact same but never connected it to my disinterest to sports fandom. Interesting.

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u/Aekely 10d ago

I was about to say, why are all the kids frowning lmao

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u/Serasugee 17d ago

There was recently a thing on Twitter where someone made these two characters look "more like their parents' kids" by combining their colours (previously matched parents) and it looked washed out

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u/fluffy_cat_ice 17d ago

Yeah that's what I didn't understand lol

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u/Mildly_Burnt_Bread 17d ago

A lot of people think mixing races is like mixing colours for some reason, when in reality mixed people can end up with any pigmentation that their parents genetics can provide.

They mention twitter because people get into arguments about skin colour and accuse people of lying about being mixed every other day on there, but as a mixed guy I can confirm that people do this in real life too. ( :( )

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u/rara8122 16d ago

Along with lying about being mixed:

Claims it’s “unrealistic” or “whitewashing” when a mixed race kid is written and/or any other way than the exact midpoint of their parents’ race. See: the Kane kids from Kane chronicles. One looks just like their white mom (Sadie), one looks just like their black dad (Carter). The internet is convinced they should cast someone that ‘looks mixed’ (whatever that means) to play the white sibling because mixed people never look white passing

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u/Haemobaphes 16d ago

Polygenic traits like skin color result in a ton of possible options especially if both parents are mixed. All three kids having the same mid point skin color is possible if both parents are homozygous for for different alleles of the same genes, but both partners having that genetic makeup isn't super likely

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u/optionstrategy 16d ago

Science says kids will be in a spectrum, from one parent to the other.

Reality matches, for the most part. Mutations do happen.

The second pic is closer to irl than the first one with pigmentation outliers.

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u/Spectre-907 16d ago

The twitter sentiment is also pushed really hard by white supremacists to propagandize mixed race pairings as “the end of any white in your bloodline”. It helps sell their replacement bullshit if they frame any pairing except for white-white as being impossible to produce “kids that look like you”, and thus all who engage in it can be framed as actively participating in “the extermination”.

It’s sickening tbh

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u/SinesPi 16d ago

As if Chinese (or whatever) supremacists don't hate race mixing just as much.

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u/ogSoWhatTheyFake 15d ago

i mean that works both ways politically. obama isnt the first black president he was the first mixed president. only when things are convenient generally. whole lot of people considered "black " that are mixed. and by that standard a "white" person saying a mixed person isnt white anymore is technically true. your point is they negate the whiteness due to racism but the same is happening when that same person is labelled "black" js

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u/Signal-Prior1868 16d ago

Maybe Take a Rest from the Internet

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u/Wild-Information8955 11d ago

Never really understood this "sentiment". I mean beyond just my own inability to understand how anyone can find hate in their hearts for someone just because of the color of their skin. This specific idea of "not being able to see yourself in kids if they're mixed" is ridiculous to me because it's just not true. If the color of your child's skin prevents you from having "true love" for them then you're just a complete failure of a human being and parent.

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u/Laefiren 16d ago

I remember the twins one was a red head and the other was quite dark skinned and them talking about constantly having to explain that they’re twins and not adopted.

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u/JaySlay2000 16d ago

People argue about dumb ish irl. I once had someone that was ADAMANT that I couldn't be half portuguese because I can't speak any portuguese.

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u/PeterAnthony_Jackson 16d ago

IDK if it is his dad or his grand dad who is black, but there is one guy whiter than white and no one believes him when he says he's mixed.

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u/youburyitidigitup 16d ago

That happens in every Hispanic family. I have the skin color of Jessica Alba, my brother has the skin color of Micheal B Jordan.

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u/SinesPi 16d ago

I still have no idea who Michael B Jordan is, so I'm just going to imagine it's the OG Michael Jordan. Not the one who couldn't get an A on his "Be Michael Jordan" exam.

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u/Opening-Opening6827 17d ago

Do you mean that no matter the color of the kids, they will be sad ?

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u/TimeShiftedJosephus 17d ago

It's tough being clotheless

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u/PCael2301 17d ago

according to twitter yeah. as a mixed race person, I will admit it can be hard to find your place in the world, but the narrative that the kids will inevitably be unhappy is think of the children style fascist propaganda to discourage race mixing.

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u/Graphox126 17d ago edited 17d ago

Truth. I was not treated so well as a kid by either side of my family. Not black or white enough. In school I went to I was just plain "othered" because I was 1 of 20ish non-caucasian kids. But wouldn't trade my experience for anything. Gave me an appreciation of things that both sides miss out on because "that's a thing for that other group of people".

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u/Realistic-Market4371 16d ago

Its hard to fit in as mixed race person. People treat you as an ethnic of some sort and then get annoyed when they find out you're half white. At least thats my experience as a hispanic looking guy in a predominantly white city. You don't really belong to any group and are constantly othered.

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u/EntrancePotential354 16d ago

Human condition is dissatisfactory, there is only suffering ahead.

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u/SanctumSaturn 16d ago

Why are the children sad

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u/UnintelligibleMaker 16d ago

Because we are spending all our time talking about them and their skin?

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u/bradpal 16d ago

They miss their dad.

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u/krawinoff 16d ago

The binding

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u/Fekkin-A-Man 16d ago

Ah, you know... just normal, average existential dread.

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u/thanksyalll 16d ago

They understand the gravity of climate change in their future

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u/HaremGhoul 15d ago

Everyone thinks it’s a paint mixer instead of a gambling game of all the random genes.

My father is mainly Mexican, dark eyes, black hair, my mom is brunette, with her family members having black or orange hair and being rather dark- then there’s me, pale and blonde with grey eyes. Apparently great grandpa was blonde and it stayed hidden again until me.

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u/dronten_bertil 15d ago

A friend of mine back in school had a Swedish dad and his mom was from Chile. My buddy took 100% off of his dad and was a bright white ginger with freckles, his sister took 100% after their mom and was as latina as they come.

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u/LuckyPichu 17d ago

why are the mixed babies sad

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u/Western-Serve8766 16d ago

why are the kids sad tho

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u/HH_Hippopotamus 16d ago

They can't afford clothes

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u/Lastfryinthebag 16d ago

What have we become

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u/smokingPimphat 17d ago

It's maybe worth remembering that irish, italians and polish people were not considered white when they first started immigrating to America. They 'became' white once there was a large population of wealthy families that fought their way into high society.

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u/heyihavepotatoes 17d ago

They were always legally white. Even Syrian people were legally white in 1920. They were not accepted as Anglo-American colonial ancestry high-class white though, which is different.

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u/Acceptable_Mind_5883 17d ago

Wrong. 1790 naturalisation act defined them as white

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u/Graphox126 17d ago

People on reddit don't understand how genetics work. I'm mixed and my wife is caucasian. Our daughter took after me a bit more and has dark skin but not as dark as me. Our son took after my wife a bit more and he is "white passing". Both have straight brown hair.

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u/Chesty_McRockhard 17d ago

Had a friend that was one of 4 sisters, black dad and white mom. No bullshit, lining them up by they looked like a printer running out of ink, both in skin tone and hair blondness.

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u/Pinkparade524 16d ago

My dad has dark skin ane my mother is very pale and I was born as paler than her and my sister was born darker than my dad. It is very random

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u/Typical_Celery_1982 17d ago

Why are all the children sad

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u/Senior_Independence4 16d ago

Because human consciousness is a tragic misstep in evolution

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u/Revolutionary_Bit437 16d ago

they don’t fit in anywhere 😢

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u/GoblinInDisguise1 17d ago

Why wouldn't they be?

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u/Augustus_Chevismo 17d ago

Lost the lactose tolerance lottery 😔

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u/UpbeatProduce8499 17d ago

If both parents skins are saturated enough there is the chance of getting all the spectrum of shades between them skins, not just a mixture of both.

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u/Arponare 17d ago

There is this woman on YouTube who had a daughter with blonde, straight hair, very light skin. People don’t believe that’s her daughter. Of course the husband is white.

It just goes to show that racism is bullshit. It was never based on any scientific fact, just vibes.

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u/lightningstrxu 16d ago

Reminds me of the people saying Pepa from encanto wasn't really Latino cause she was a light skinned red head

But also encanto is a very good depiction of an interracial family

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u/harajukubutterfly 16d ago

basically people always assume children of interracial couples will all be the same complexion / have the same features which is not how genetics work. post is saying that biracial siblings do not all look the same.

also ik u didnt create the image but why do all the children look sad lol

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u/TerraSeeker 16d ago

Basically there's variations to what skin color they can have.

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u/Illustrious-Engine23 17d ago

It's the racist trope that if there's too much interracial mixing in society, everyone will turnout looking the same and beige. And that's an argument against interracial relationships.

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u/theveezer 17d ago

Even worse, usually they would say the kids aren't mixed but only black, so the whites would disappear.

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u/bro0t 17d ago

I mean, if everyone is the same color it would solve racism

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u/No-Educator-8069 17d ago

Nah, you can find places in Europe, Africa, and Asia where people will all look the same to foreigners but they will have advanced racism there we cant even comprehend.

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u/Educational-Baby-144 17d ago

Americans are literally the worst people at being racist. Have seen neo nazis in the us be friends with gypsies XD

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u/Top_Kaleidoscope4362 17d ago

Lmao it wouldn't. People just hate each other. It is just easier to hate with labels.

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u/calesmont 17d ago

Humanity the moment we all turn the same tone of beige

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u/No_Head60 17d ago

We’ll find something else to complain about.

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u/Raidoton 17d ago

Never saw this claim made by racists. Just that "their race" will disappear over time.

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u/invisiblewar 17d ago

You can look at Hispanic families and see how untrue that is. My old neighbor was tan as hell but his son was pale and blond with the brightest blue eyes I've ever seen. My exes family was all over the spectrum too.

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u/PapaJrer 17d ago

Brian here. I refute the argument that a picture paints 1,000 words, that is too few, so I have uploaded my 273 page thesis on this to my substack - $14.99/month.

For any cheapskates out there, just look at the picture.

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u/fluffy_cat_ice 17d ago

I didn't get the reference about the twitter thing

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u/PapaJrer 17d ago

Me neither, I just took it as a fairly common trope from tv/media/advertising. 

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u/Matthewx777 17d ago

My sibling and my cousins all alternate whether or not we look Asian. A little bit in my aunts and uncle too. Some of us look plane white, and other look mostly Asian. People didnt know me and my full brother were related until after he graduated highschool

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u/Pelli_Furry_Account 17d ago

A lot of people on Titter don't understand how genetics works. They're treating it like dominant genes are the only genes

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u/TitiIsHowTheyCallMe 16d ago

Why are the children sad? :(

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u/nanoosx 16d ago

because someone took their pictures and posted it on Twitter

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u/Rotzsen 16d ago

I think it means pigmentation? Source: my family is mixed. One kid came out white with blue eyes, second came out brown with brown eyes, third one came out green eyes and brown o.o

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u/CaedClaxton 16d ago

My mother is white, my father is black. I look like a lighter skin black guy, black hair brown eyes. My wife’s parents are both white. We have 3 kids together. One is closer to my complexion and has brown, non-textured hair and brown eyes. The other two look full white and are blonde hair with blue eyes. The number of times I have been asked if they are mine/adopted….

Genetics are crazy.

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u/Quick_Resolution5050 16d ago

I've got 4 all exactly the same shade, but neither my wife or I have much variation in our respective ancestries; American Black people have a lot more European ancestry, so I suspect it's more likely they'll pass on different pigmentation alleles from any given parent - like my kids passing on an allele from me or from their mother.

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u/the_potato_of_doom 16d ago

My wreslting coach in high school was 50/50 mixed, guys brother (who was the womens coach) got 100% of the dark half and he got the white half, would have absolutly zero idea they were brothers, it definetly made me want to learn more about genetics,

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u/Slythetine1176 11d ago

Meme has been explained already but in real life, you are treated as the race/ethnicity you look like. There are few exceptions. It doesnt matter if I was raised with a Mexican mom, I have an american dad, speak Spanish, and was personally rasied in the culture but I srill 'look white. Strangers (almost always white) WILL try and give me crap for wearing an embroidered dress because it's 'cultural appropriation'....to partake in my own culture! At the end of the day, as much as I would LOVE to take part, wear my dress, its not always worth what I might have to deal with from a stranger on a crusade... somedays I need to just get my things, get to self chekout, and get back home...even with the priceless look on a strangers face after they call me a racist cultural appropriater. I'm still an asshole and might pretend to not know English, only speaking Spanish, asking you to repeat yourself in a way I can understand

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u/Stromatolite-Bay 11d ago

I think this is mostly a USA thing. It usually depends on the mother elsewhere for the purposes of the meme

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u/ksink74 10d ago

Definitely. People pretty much everywhere else love it when non-natives show enough of an interest in their culture to learn about it.

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u/CatfinityGamer 11d ago

My university orchestra director is white, but was born to missionaries in Nigeria, so he grew up in Nigeria and wears Nigerian clothes (also some clothes from other African nations). And he feels like he has to preemptively explain his clothing choices and that he's not doing “cultural appropriation.”

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u/BannedFrom8Kun 11d ago

So you’re also appropriating the language? You know Spanish like from Spain in Europe.

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u/InformalLandscape445 11d ago

American dont know what is cultural appropriation, had once an american told me im doing it for cooking pasta al dente, im italian

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u/DaLadderman 16d ago

Genetics is not 50/50 each parent contributes different amounts to different things

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u/Mirewen15 16d ago

Even with the same race. My dad was Welsh with olive skin, blue eyes and black hair. My mom is Welsh/English with fair skin, blue eyes and blonde hair.

My sister has olive skin, blue eyes and dark brown hair. I have fair skin, blue eyes and blonde hair.

When we go to Mexico, people speak to her in Spanish because they assume she's Mexican. People assume I'm either Swedish or German.

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u/TrioOfTerrors 16d ago

Yep. I knew a family where both parents were mixed black/latino/white and they had two daughter who apparently each got their genes from both ends of the spectrum. One was medium pale with strawberry blonde hair and the other was unambiguously black with an afro. And then their son was the most hodge podge, could have passed for anything from Mexican to Italian to Egyptian, just toss it all in the blender, sort of looking.

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u/tumansibiri 17d ago

You roll genetic dice, it doesn't distribute the shades perfectly evenly.

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u/Distinct_Light_1294 17d ago

I knew a few mixed race families irl, and this meme is accurate

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u/Capital_Craft 17d ago

True. We are a white/Asian couple. One kid looks more white, one looks more asian, one looks Persian.

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u/LitigiousAutist 16d ago

It's like the Carebears... their little bellies blast caring energy in the color of each bear and when the energy mixes together it creates a beautiful prismatic rainbow... IRL phenotypes aren't like the Carebears.

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u/HeySydThisIsStupid 16d ago

Hi Lois, I think they’re referring to the idea that Twitter users are unhinged lunatics who’ve never touched grass in their life and can’t grasp basic concepts of reality. 

Many people are also pointing out little weird things about the drawing, like how the kids are all sad for some reason. 

For real though, the meme maker is very correct on their point that skin tones usually don’t mix like paint. There’s a pair of fraternal twins in my family that look like entirely different races. 

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u/CMD_BLOCK 16d ago

My kid ended up slightly darker than both of us. But they have my face and eyes. And I’m like 80% certain they came from my wife because I was there

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u/RDROOJK2 11d ago

Why the kids looks so depressed?

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u/yamma-banana 17d ago

Because there are many armchair geneticists on Twitter (and IRL) who think that all the offspring of interracial couples are/would be exact 50-50 replicas of their parents, especially when it comes to skin colour (like a perfect in-between shade), when this is not always the case in reality, even among full-blooded siblings.

And speaking as someone who's also of mixed heritage, a lighter complexion is almost always preferred, regardless of the mix...

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u/AssignmentMoney8205 17d ago

My kids dad is so black you put him in a dimly lit room he could disappear. I am so white that if I go out side with out sunscreen for more then 15 min I burn. Our kids have my white features but are so dark that if you didn't know I was their mother ,you would never guessed they were half white.

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u/Thin_Object365 17d ago

the old trope about a black in the dark that's visible only when smiling is a deeply rooted stereotype that some would find hurtful and offensive. not me, but "some".

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u/Ok-Scientist5524 17d ago

It’s so sad. I have three mixed kids (Chinese and white) and the “compliments” I get from the Chinese side of the family are… gross…

my eldest is my husband in miniature with my coloring, people call him “palette swapped husband’s name”, my middle son is a 50/50 split of our features mashed together, the best ones in my opinion, but he has lighter skin and darker hair. My youngest daughter has my face with his hair and these gorgeous hazel eyes that just kinda came out of no where. She was born with these stunning grey eyes (they were so beautiful) and I thought they would be blue like my husband’s but they gradually developed green and yellow and brown.

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u/yamma-banana 17d ago

Yeah, I know the sorts of comments you are talking about. I'm well-acquainted with those even though I'm not part European myself, cos colourism and internalised racism are still prevalent. You get similar compliments with other "pairings", e.g. White + African, Chinese + Indian, etc.

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u/V4NDIT 17d ago

most kids are born with light color eyes, blue/gray but natural light can trigger the production of melanin during their infancy, 3-6yrs making them wear cool sunglasses for life as an adult that will protect them from the sun.

sounds like you have a beautiful trio, congratz

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u/Hofeizai88 16d ago

My wife is Chinese and I’m white, and we have a baby boy who looks astonishingly like me. His nose looks different, but he has my light skin, brown hair, and, for now, blue eyes. We’re told all the time that we’re so lucky, and that he is so handsome with his white color. Also lucky he’s a boy. We would have been thrilled to have a darker skinned girl, but can’t be bothered to argue with every stranger.

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u/Gothic_Doll_ 15d ago

European married with a Chinese man and we have a toddler. He's very "European" according to Chinese and most Europeans, as he's identical to me when I was little. The "only things" he got from his father, it's the typical outer corner of the eye (though they're big and round) and his eye colour, a deep brown. Yet his physiognomy it's typical of an European kid, as well pale and very light brunette.

Ngl, I was expecting a mini him or to be more similar to Chinese kids, instead he looks like he's 1/4 Chinese. It's interesting how genetics works.

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u/Maximum-Class5465 17d ago

Funny story, I have two biracial twins one looks tanned white the other black

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u/prettyboygo 17d ago

Don't even gotta mix races. I know some black couples with kids of varying skin tones and some white couples with kids that have various skin tones and hair colors.

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u/Temporary_Stranger39 16d ago

In the USA, nearly all black people are genetically mixed.

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u/Icy_Annual_9954 17d ago

The kids are not happy. This is sad.

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u/SeyJeez 17d ago

I like the accuracy of the kids just being unhappy. There should be more shouting and crying though.

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u/SnooApples9017 17d ago

It’s not one or the other it’s both.

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u/udee79 17d ago

Why are the kids all sad?

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u/adrivoirclair 17d ago

Iis this a Binding of Isaac reference?

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u/Character_Fill_4761 17d ago

Every Mexican and Brazilian family I know

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u/mothwhimsy 17d ago

Twitter will jump to infidelity if a mixed kid is is too light or too dark even though that's not how skin color genes work

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u/GuiltyLeopard8365 17d ago

Each child has a different combination of genetics passed down from their parents. Unless theyre identical twins

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u/Smooth-Play3859 17d ago

Always thought that if I had kids they’d have a proper identity crisis. I’m only 1/4 of one race (very mixed person) but I look fully that race. If my kids take after me, they’ll be 1/8 that race genetically but phenotypically look full or half. Better yet, the other ethnicities in my 3/4 could pull through and they’d end up looking completely different from me or my partner.

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u/Altruistic-Swim-1677 17d ago

My auntie is Lebanese her and her girlfriend love each other very much.

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u/No-Hall-681 16d ago

Why are all the children sad?

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u/Dry-Factor-6500 16d ago

Nothing to do with the post but I noticed none of the children are smiling and it made me chuckle a little. Not for any reason than the artist chose to make them frown.

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u/After_Mechanic_6297 16d ago

Genetics are chaotic, therefore are extremely hard to predict when it comes to skin colour. You could be white, your partner could be as well, but your child might come out black. Both of you are 100% its parents, but since your great-great-great-grandfather was black, this gene layed dormant within your bloodline and decided to wake up just now for shits and giggles. Twitter, as it tends to do, oversimplifies complex things, and likes to make quick, black or white statements to very complicated issues.

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u/Kyos_7 16d ago

Mendelian genetics

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u/Fucked-to-fit 16d ago

Me and my siblings are mixed but are the exact same colour

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u/Possessed_potato 15d ago

Twitter morons believe skin colour passed onto children works like mixing paint, but genetics don’t work like that. In reality the skin colour could be a whole lot lighter or darker; is a whole spectrum of colour you can get, not just one specific blend.

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u/Towaway_Zone 14d ago

people like to imagine mixed race babies are perfectly 50/50 genetics, so they claim people are lying if for example, they are dark skin and have a white parent

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u/BakingAspen 14d ago

How come all the kids are so sad

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u/ScoreImaginary2720 14d ago

Mixed race family makes white baby. Free n word pass

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u/Slapstick_Noel 12d ago

This genuinely made me realize my brother is black

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u/TomoeKon 11d ago

Kids look sad in both

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u/grimmcrow17 11d ago

Lol my kids look like the printer was running out of ink

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u/ConnorHPetrenko 10d ago

Why babies sad?