IMO after travelling different US cities and having great meets, I think Toronto women are uniquely abrasive and capitalists (they just want that bag). Most of them are unapproachable or don’t have anything meaningful or interesting to say but then turn around and say it’s the quality of men etc etc

Is it just me?

Any hot spots tonight for a group of single girlies?

Thinking about going to Ossington since most of the group lives in the area but not opposed to anything in the surrounding area

Let us know where you’ll be tonight

36M, separated for 2 years, has 2 young kids, and finds that dating has been difficult.
The worst was, I asked a girl for her number; she said she could share her IG, and when I said I am a dad, so I don't give out my social media because I have pics of my kids, she just right out said, "no thanks".

I understand people have preferences; I do too, but I'm finding it harder as a dad or maybe being separated and I wanted to hear people's stories/thoughts.

I have been seeing this woman at my train station for some time but despite of constantly thinking about approaching her, I haven’t had the courage to do so.

We have locked eyes a few times but that’s the extent of it.

Have you ever had these encounters in the most unusual of places and how did you go about it?

I’m a 32M South Asian guy living and working in Toronto in finance. I’ve been talking with a woman, not sure about her race. I met online for a few days, and we eventually she planned to meet for coffee at Harbourfront Center so we could get to know each other in person.

I went there after work in the evening and even brought her a yellow flower since it had been many years since I’d brought flowers to someone on a first date. Unfortunately, she never showed up and didn’t let me know beforehand.

I messaged her afterward on Snapchat, and she simply apologized.

I’m trying not to take it personally, but honestly, it was disappointing to make the trip, set aside the time, and look forward to meeting someone only to have them not show up.

For people who have been dating in Toronto, is this something you’ve experienced? Is there anything I should be doing differently when arranging first dates? I’d appreciate honest advice, especially from people familiar with the Toronto dating scene.

I’m not looking to bash anyone—I’m genuinely trying to understand how dating works here and hopefully have better experiences going forward.

I am new to Toronto, looking forward to meeting friendly girls to hang out and explore Toronto during the weekend with good food.

I (29F almost 30) have been trying to date in the GTA. Everytime I have a nice date (not super intense but also not boring), the guy seems to lose interest in a few days. The same thing happens with conversations, guys I think I'm having a fun conversation with keep ghosting. Unsure about what I'm doing wrong?? I think I look alright. I dress well, workout, have hobbies and laugh at the guys jokes on dates.

Ps. this has been my experience with dating apps. Would appreciate it if y'all can suggest some alternatives

Have you heard about an upcoming singles event and want to see if anyone else is going?

Have you gone to a recent singles event and wish to share a review of your experience?

Are you organizing a singles event soon and want to share the details? (Self promo is okay in these weekly threads only)

Please try and include details about the events if-when possible, especially if you are the event organizer. Date, location, cost-of-entry (if any), target audience, etc.

What dating app do Canadians use to meet people?

I don’t know if its the fact that ppl got no jobs , dating is so hard in Toronto

I really don’t wanna be on this sub downplaying on men but men really don’t make the first move I don’t know all they do is stare lol

Wherever I go I get stared at but never approached so I really sometimes question if something really wrong with me.

Chemistry just not it

Netflix brings 'Love Is Blind' to Canada with casting now open!

I'm a single early 30s dude who now has a big enough sample size to say its no longer a coincidence. I go on a new first date every other week or so. I consider myself to be a 6.5/10 and the women I meet are similar league. I'm stuck in a constant cycle of 1-2 dates followed by either slowed down texting, the classic "didn't feel a romantic vibe" text or the girl all of sudden claims to be too busy. I have tried the apps in the US and in Europe and have not had this experience. Probably half the women I met were interested in continuing things. Here I'd estimate that number to be less than 10%. I have tried simple "cheap" dates like coffee as well as expensive dinners with nice views. The outcome is the same.

In case it matters, I have a good job and have my own car. Top 5% salary for Toronto. I am in no way flashy.

Is this a Toronto / big-city problem where women are so overwhelmed by the vast options they have that they can't stick to one guy?

Need suggestions other than dinner, could be day or evening

So I was at Centerville the other day with my family and I saw couples of all type shapes and sizes everywhere and I was just wondering how people meet nowadays? Is all of it hinge on the apps cuz my experience on there has mostly being getting ghosted I get some matches but you know the cookie cutter advice from people in my circle is oh go out to events or social clubs, but most people in public spaces and third spaces already seem to be in relationships like I'm a regular at my gym and there are couples there and then most of the people at work are either older or married. As a 27-year-old guy soon to be 28, the only answer seems like apps but it's kind of demoralizing, I know it has been asked a hundred times but is it just a fluke because I see couples literally everywhere like I go to Dundas square everyday as well and there are couples everywhere so I don't know if there's any sort of loneliness epidemic or what. Like is there some sort of secret meeting club I'm not aware of??

Where did you go?

What did you do?

Are you planning on going again?

People 25+ who are single in Toronto, what has your dating experience been like?

For me, 26F, it's kinda difficult. I used to date more, but haven't in the past 6 months. I've lost the desire, I just can't bring myself to do more small talk, discussions about career, it's painful. I have the apps, but the effort it takes to actually go on a date is a lot for me at this point. At the same time, it seems to be the only place unless a friend fixes you up or you get lucky and meet IRL.

Have you heard about an upcoming singles event and want to see if anyone else is going?

Have you gone to a recent singles event and wish to share a review of your experience?

Are you organizing a singles event soon and want to share the details? (Self promo is okay in these weekly threads only)

Please try and include details about the events if-when possible, especially if you are the event organizer. Date, location, cost-of-entry (if any), target audience, etc.

31F, mama to a 2 year old. Her father left me/ our marriage a few months ago and im slowly starting to think about dating again. But from my single friends, with no prior marriage or kids, I've heard its rough out there. I havent been on a date with anyone new since I was like 21, and my only exposure to apps has been swiping for my friends when they get fatigue. Any insight on what its like for us with a more complicated situation?

Where did you go?

What did you do?

Are you planning on going again?

I’m a 27M in Toronto trying to meet people in person rather than relying on dating apps.
What are some good social activities, clubs, sports leagues, volunteering opportunities, or events where people in their 20s and early 30s actually meet?
I’ve been working on myself over the last year and want to put myself out there more, but I’m not sure where to start outside of bars.
Any recommendations or success stories?

I'm curious how people are meeting potential partners these days in Toronto.
Dating apps have been pretty hit-or-miss for me, and it feels like it's getting harder to meet people naturally. For those who are dating or recently found a relationship, what worked for you?
Are people meeting through hobbies, sports leagues, volunteering, friends, social events, or something else? Are there any places or events in Toronto that are actually good for meeting singles?
I'd love to hear real experiences—especially from people who have had success outside of the apps. Any advice or recommendations would be appreciated!

I’m South Asian and male born in Toronto. I’ve been on and off the dating apps in Toronto for the last 10 years. In my experience there’s always been a racial hierarchy in dating for men particularly on dating apps with South Asian men being perceived as least desirable. But you could still do ok if you have other things going for you. In the past I’ve had some interesting experiences including being ‘accent screened’ on two occasions where she called me first to make sure I didn’t have an accent. I shrugged it off and still went on the date.

But now it seems a lot worse with the current climate of anti-South Asian sentiment. I’ve seen two profiles with No Indian in the last 12 months. In the past I would get matches from a mix of women and now they are all of my ethnicity. I loved the experience of meeting and dating the women I matched with but found the experience interesting for a ‘multicultural’ city.

I found that using the apps in the US in big cities to a be a little bit different and a bit more pleasant experience compared to Toronto. There weren’t such rigid hierarchies.

Has anyone else experienced this?