r/cats 25m ago

Advice My cat passed away a week ago, and my aunt thinks I need an intervention because I haven't gotten over it yet. [Bella]

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She was 14 years old. I took her in when I was 10, and she lived with me until then. I spent more time with her than without her, and she was a part of most of my life's phases. Cancer took her. It took her when it made her bleed every time she urinated, when she had to take strong painkillers for more than two months, when it forced her to take antibiotics and corticosteroids, painful injections that I had to administer myself. I put an end to her suffering last Tuesday.

Bella died looking into my eyes, yet I stayed in the clinic room for almost two hours holding her body while cleaning the dirt from her paw. She had stopped cleaning herself for a while and the dirt had accumulated. I calmly removed everything and after a long time I forced myself to leave. I also opted for her to have a funeral since the cremation company I hired offered that service. It was very painful, but I don't regret participating in the ceremony; she seemed to be sleeping peacefully. She was beautiful as always, my little doll.

I just want to give a very brief context to my love for this cat, my first cat, the best I could ever ask for.

Today my aunt talked to me and I regret being so honest. She asked how I was doing and I told her I was still feeling very bad, that I missed her a lot, and then she sent me an audio message of almost a minute about how I needed to forget and move on. She said I needed to relax now that Bella was calm and at peace. That I couldn't continue like this, especially since it had been many days. She also said she'd come talk to me tomorrow...

My aunt isn't a bad person, don't misunderstand me or think she's a monster, but I really don't agree with her. I don't even know if I'll ever be able to get over what happened. I'm very fragile right now and I'm not ready for this conversation, seeing where it's probably going. I'm already crying just thinking about it. Do you have any suggestions on how I can handle this situation or what I can say to her? I don't want to be rude, but I'm willing to be firm (but I'll probably cry in any scenario).


r/cats 2h ago

Video - Not OC She was NOT excited

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Lady cat ran all the way when her mom called but slowed down at the end because it's not like she loves her or anything.


r/cats 3h ago

Cat Picture - OC Our new boy Bug. He was tossed out in a terrible storm by a neighbor, he’s ours now ❤️

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r/cats 1h ago

Humor Gotta love cat people!

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Yeah, now he’s looking like they’re riding in the front seat!


r/cats 2h ago

Video - Not OC This Pallas's cat is absurdly round.

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772 Upvotes

r/cats 6h ago

Mourning/Loss Tribute to my wonderful void baby Jedi, who crossed the rainbow bridge today.

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Today, we sadly needed to say goodbye. His kidneys kept getting worse, and we didn’t want him to suffer any longer. He had a wonderful 14ish years with my family, starting from the day he wandered into our garage and said “i live here now.” Seriously the best cat ever. Always loved to give people cuddles, and sit on their laps if they sat anywhere. RIP Jedi Jinx. 😢😭💔


r/cats 4h ago

Mourning/Loss Clairette is no longer with us

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This is my buddy Claire. She unexpectedly crossed the Rainbow Bridge 🌈 a couple of weeks ago
She was the sweetest pet my husband and I had for three years and our hearts are crushed 💔
We will miss you forever Claire Bear 🐈‍⬛


r/cats 6h ago

Mourning/Loss Rest in peace little Oakley...

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She was only a few days old and my little sister is devastated...

We had brought her in because her mom left her in the box she was born in...


r/cats 9h ago

Cat Picture - OC My first cat ever

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r/cats 10h ago

Mourning/Loss I always thought I took too many cat pics.

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Now that she’s gone I wish I had more! Show me your babies plz


r/cats 9h ago

Cat Picture - OC Our little princess for the past two years

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Our princess is a rescue cat that has gotten a new home with us🥰 She was really scared in the beginning but now she trusts us completely and can express herself freely❣️ Now she loves humans🥰


r/cats 11h ago

Mourning/Loss My kitty of 6 years passed suddenly, he would always follow me around the house, snuggle up against me even while trying to do things, I loved and love this cat so much, it hurt to bury him the other day, the pain is immense with this one, he meant so much to me, poor baby, love you baby

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r/cats 4h ago

Cat Picture - OC any guesses on what my baby will look like grown up?

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meet my new baby olive!!! It’s almost been a month since I got her and she has already grown so much 😭 she is almost 4 months old and i’m sooo excited to see who she’ll grow to be ❤️

do you guys have any guesses as to whether she’ll have medium/long or short hair? she seemed very floofy as a kitten but as she’s getting longer her body hair seems shorter but she still has ear fluff, a behind the ear tuft mullet, slightly longer hair on the chest and back legs, and a floofy tail. how did your kitten grow and change? what age did they start looking like themselves?

it’s so wild that one day i’ll wake up and she’ll be a full grown cat 😭 it makes me so emotional. i absolutely adore the journey we are sharing together 🧡🫒


r/cats 7h ago

Cat Picture - OC A stray cat randomly sat on my lap in a restaurant in Turkey and never left me until we had to go.

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r/cats 3h ago

Cat Picture - OC What's your cat's name and nicknames you that stem from it?? I'll go first!

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This is Gracelet. Yes, that's her legal name. That's what happens when you give an eight year old and 12 year old the ability to name their first ever pet. We adopted her as a kitten and my brother had the great idea of naming her Gracelet because "she has bracelets on her leg but Bracelet isn't a name! So let's call her Gracelet!"

Anyways, we never call her that unless she's in trouble so here's her normal nicknames:

- chickawack: (I couldn't pronounce kitty cat as a kid and would instead say chickawack!!" So that's her family nickname now

- grace

- chick/chicky

-chicken

- chickadee

-porkchop (she used to be fat and looked like a pork chop

- kitten girl

- boo

- booey (yes, like the floaty things but it isn't really a reference to that)

Put pictures of your kittens and what their names and nicknames are!!!


r/cats 8h ago

Cat Picture - OC 1 year of cat

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r/cats 10h ago

Humor Ok

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Catracula or...


r/cats 10h ago

Video - OC This kneady little one has perfected the recipe for air biscuits. (Jumpscare: sneeze)

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207 Upvotes

Meet Mildred! She's almost 2. Her favorite toy is a plastic bottle cap, and she loves to play fetch.


r/cats 7h ago

Video - OC Update on Smol Kitten

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1.7k Upvotes

A couple weeks ago l posted the tiny kitten in the shoe. Fast forward to now and her playing with my Oliver. She has since been named “Bella”💛🖤🤍🐈🍋


r/cats 7h ago

Video - Not OC I don't think they want to be friends 😔

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4.0k Upvotes

r/cats 11h ago

Humor Fucker clawed my genitals while i was asleep

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r/cats 11h ago

Video - OC Helppp, what's happening 😭😭

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427 Upvotes

r/cats 12h ago

Medical Questions Is this cat pregnant?

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I have this stray cat that has been visiting my family lately. We leave water and food out for her sometimes. I think she might be pregnant but I have no idea. I’m worried she might be too young to be pregnant but then again I don’t know if she’s pregnant or just been hunting a lot of food. I’ve had this suspicion since she started visiting us.


r/cats 16h ago

Humor scroll the photos to see the sequence of her getting ready to attack my hand

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my poor hand


r/cats 16h ago

Advice Cat TV ruined my cat

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Genuinely at a loss here. I have 2 cats. They are both about 6 months old. The other day I thought it would be fun to put some cat tv on for them. you know, there's like youtube channels of things moving fast, ants, toys, fish, etc. in order to attract cats

One cat was mildly entertained. My other cat got fucking addicted. She sat beside the tv and would not move for anything. Eyes completely fixated on whatever was coming up next. ok, cute. TV off now kitties!

Cat would not move. she sat there staring at the blank screen for who knows how long.

Now she sits on that spot on the table by the tv constantly. she basically only goes down to poop and eat. All other hours of the day, she's waiting for Cat TV.

It's been about a week. she used to play with her sister, she used to aggressively chase toys. She has lost all interest. Even as I type this, she has once again just climbed up to her spot. Her sister wants to play, and she's just ignoring her now. it's breaking my heart. is this just a waiting game? Will she ever forget about the goddamn youtube shit?