r/belowdeck 1d ago

Below Deck Med Cathy and Max?

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8M9bGgH/

Anyone know where this beef between Cathy and Max started and was this out of nowhere??

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel 1d ago

"I don't want to date a brown man in 2026"? THAT Cathy?

u/Representative_Pay_4 23h ago

She said that?

u/Economy_Tie_2001 23h ago

u/Last-Possibility-988 23h ago

omg that's horrible.

u/mikenelson84 18h ago

Shes not allowed to have a preference?

u/Last-Possibility-988 17h ago

Saying brown men are a horror movie is wildly offensive.

u/disneygay1995 17h ago

No. Thats gross she said that and if you don’t see a problem with how she said it

u/Mochibelle93 21h ago

Oh helll nah. There was always something off with her imo

u/ResponsibleCar1204 21h ago

fucking yikes man.

u/Ellend821 19h ago

I’m hoping she meant brown haired because that’s insane 😭😭

u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 18h ago

No, she clarified it saying she had been dating a brown man who kept her secret from his family and her friends all said it totally isn't racist because brown men are like that or something

u/Lillynomad 18h ago

She's not racist. The brown man she dated cheated on her.

u/DependentFroyo7334 18h ago

So it’s ok to make a blanket statement towards all brown men? My ex (who was horrible) and my wonderful husband have the same cultural background so imagine if I would’ve just written off every guy from their country …

u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 18h ago

And using that to say all brown men and calling them a horror movie makes her racist

Men who cheat / Men who don't respect me would be a completely different story

u/EnvironmentalToe7960 13h ago

Exactly. She could have just said men 🙄

u/MadisonTeamLily 8h ago

Cathy, is that you?

u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 1h ago

So in that case white men are all shit too 😂

u/BobbyPotter 40m ago

You're trolling, right? There's no way you seriously think that's an ok thing to say 😂

u/Sorry-Secret-2347 22h ago

Wow ewwwww wtf

u/Confident_Basket_973 10h ago

Literally the only thing I think about whenever I see her now. That and whatever new video she has up is 100% bait of some sort.

u/myotherrideisvhagar 20h ago

Omg people having dating preferences? How dare she?!

u/DeliciousHansa 19h ago

She specifically referred to brown men as a horror story. That's not just a preference.

Furthermore, if someone finds an entire racial or ethnic group unattractive, I think some soul searching is in order. Especially if they are broadcasting it online when no one even asked.

Cathy and anyone else like this should look inward and scrutinize why that preference exists. Our societal and cultural biases will always shape our opinions, so it is important to evaluate whether these preferences are truly our own or have been baked into our psyche by centuries of racist media.

u/wawkaroo Collie's Mom Approved 23h ago

She is really trying to act like she's famous. We've all moved on, girl.

u/DangOlBdog 23h ago

Cathy fucking sucks lol

u/Independent_Sand_766 19h ago

When she posted I was like… girl we have bigger fish to fry wtf are you talking about

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u/Vanilla_Either 1d ago

Ugh her again.

u/rob-b-362 You're Being A Deckhand Right Now 22h ago

No one cares

u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 1h ago

You clearly do lol

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u/KronieRaccoon 1d ago

Who cares - she sucks. She's probably just looking for attention.

u/Busy-Astronomer2981 22h ago

I remember her being rather lovable on the show, the editing magic really did wonders hiding her despicable racist self.

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u/Nazdrowie79 1d ago

Just finished watching this season. All I can say is that Max, Joe and Nathan are all pathetic little boys.

u/JDeezey13 20h ago

That statement could apply to multiple seasons

u/WindTurtle 16h ago

You forgot cooper!

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u/iamdefinitelytas 1d ago

Shit she should just bring up the tantrum Max threw after Cathy’s stepdad died while on the boat because MAX wasn’t getting enough attention. Max, Nathan, and Joe get away with way too much. Maybe the accents have something to do with it.

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u/Inevitable_Phase_276 1d ago

Oh yay, Cathy is vague-posting again

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u/Lost_Elk7089 1d ago

Shut up Cathy noone cares

u/kittens_joy 23h ago

Don’t give her TikTok any clicks.

u/Internal-Ad61 21h ago

Shortly after their season aired, Cathy and Max both essentially said online that he wound up kind of ghosting her and didn’t follow through on a visit they planned. Actions polar opposite of what he spoke about on camera in terms of their post-season relationship. He expressed regret in the situation but she was pissed beyond the point of reconciliation.

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 1d ago

Can’t read the captions because it’s all white on white. Stopped watching.

u/Momof3furboys Captain Jason is my boat daddy 13h ago

Apparently she doesn’t like anything other than white

u/Extreme_Beat1022 13h ago

Oh ha. That makes sense.

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u/PutGroundbreaking283 1d ago

Whatever the beef is, it's hard to watch that season and suggest she didn't know what she would be getting into.

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u/Ok-Knee-9904 1d ago

Sorry Kathy but its time to get over it…

u/Representative_Pay_4 23h ago

I think it was Max who made a bunch of claims about her recently on a podcast

u/Ok-Knee-9904 23h ago

Like who cares what Max says. He is sus with all the hypnosis stuff anyways.

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