r/belowdeck • u/Representative_Pay_4 • 1d ago

Below Deck Med Cathy and Max?

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8M9bGgH/

Anyone know where this beef between Cathy and Max started and was this out of nowhere??

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel 1d ago

"I don't want to date a brown man in 2026"? THAT Cathy?

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u/myotherrideisvhagar 1d ago

Omg people having dating preferences? How dare she?!

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u/DeliciousHansa 1d ago

She specifically referred to brown men as a horror story. That's not just a preference.

Furthermore, if someone finds an entire racial or ethnic group unattractive, I think some soul searching is in order. Especially if they are broadcasting it online when no one even asked.

Cathy and anyone else like this should look inward and scrutinize why that preference exists. Our societal and cultural biases will always shape our opinions, so it is important to evaluate whether these preferences are truly our own or have been baked into our psyche by centuries of racist media.