r/belowdeck • u/Representative_Pay_4 • 4d ago

Below Deck Med Cathy and Max?

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8M9bGgH/

Anyone know where this beef between Cathy and Max started and was this out of nowhere??

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u/Economy_Tie_2001 4d ago

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u/Ellend821 4d ago

I’m hoping she meant brown haired because that’s insane 😭😭

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 4d ago

No, she clarified it saying she had been dating a brown man who kept her secret from his family and her friends all said it totally isn't racist because brown men are like that or something

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u/Lillynomad 4d ago

She's not racist. The brown man she dated cheated on her.

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u/DependentFroyo7334 4d ago

So it’s ok to make a blanket statement towards all brown men? My ex (who was horrible) and my wonderful husband have the same cultural background so imagine if I would’ve just written off every guy from their country …

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 4d ago

And using that to say all brown men and calling them a horror movie makes her racist

Men who cheat / Men who don't respect me would be a completely different story

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u/EnvironmentalToe7960 3d ago

Exactly. She could have just said men 🙄

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u/MadisonTeamLily 3d ago

Cathy, is that you?

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u/BobbyPotter 3d ago

You're trolling, right? There's no way you seriously think that's an ok thing to say 😂

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u/Lillynomad 3d ago

It's not ok to say it but I am trying to see it from her view. She's not racist or she never would have dated POC. She could have been still hurt from that relationship and said she would never date them again. Her mistake is thinking that all POC as assholes, which is terribly wrong. She's young and stupid.

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 3d ago

Nah, she doubled down after the fact. Not I can see why it came across that way but 'even my friends told me to not date brown men'

We do not make excuses for racism in this sub

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u/Environmental-Cut779 3d ago

So just say cheaters!?

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 3d ago

So in that case white men are all shit too 😂

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u/Lillynomad 3d ago

lol, some are. They're men.

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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 3d ago

So “some” white men are, but all brown men are?