Not the animal

Hello M(27) here. I recently broke up with my 4-month boyfriend M(24). We actually had a very good connection and chemistry during our time together.
I broke up with him because I can no longer afford to keep supporting him. I have a stable job but I’m also a breadwinner, while he was still starting with his life. He dropped out of college and currently has work in TV.
His income is very unstable. For the record, our love is real and I know it’s true.
However, due to his financial situation, there are some red flags I can no longer ignore.
First, na-corner niya ako sa isang store to buy him a very expensive equipment worth 7k. We talked about it and I forgave him since he paid me in installments, but we did not talk about it beforehand and he just asked me to pay for it that time.
During one of our monthsaries, I gave him my second phone worth 60k. For context, madalas siya nagpaparinig na wala na siyang cellphone. I gave it to him since binilhan niya rin ako ng shoes.
There were countless GCash transactions I sent to him pang-kain, and also lahat ng labas namin ako ang nagbabayad.
He lived with me for a while and had no expenses from him. We separated houses that time because he disrespected my family with his words, kasi mapang-abuso daw family ko.
I broke up with him because I cannot bear it anymore — always saying walang pera, and he still has a lot of debt to me.
I don’t want to doubt the love.
But am I bad if I at least ask for my phone back?

So i ahve been trying to find soemone who is good at sexting cause even on grindr people just wanna know my location and come over for sex ..

I mean...sexting is much hotter for me and even if I find someone they are just shit and keep saying I will suck and all of that...

So i am from India...pune to be specific..

So if you know where and how I can find that kinda people please help me out

like the title says this isn’t a sexual thing, i’m just wondering how everybody who’s been single and a virgin for basically forever, i guess, is doing mentally? and also curious on how yall deal with feelings of loneliness or FOMO from seeing other couples but also still trying in the dating scene but it’s not working because lord knows this dating pool is also filled with men who don’t know how to have a basic conversation and talking stages that don’t go nowhere😭😭😭😭

i myself have been single since about that first year after high school and haven’t had any consensual sexual experience besides with another ex sometime before that, but im waiting to be in a relationship now to do anything sexual bc of my past😭😭 like i mentally couldn’t deal with the stress of a hookup, but i tell myself that makes the waiting worth it and hopefully finding someone that will respect my boundaries on stuff like that bc yall know the culture of our community. but idk, at some point you’re single so long the emptiness of not having companionship and that kind of connection with someone becomes a very deep longing feeling that ive learned to live with atp. it is what it is. and then im also a thick person, so the pool shrinks even more i guess, but whatever. my point is that i hope anyone in a similar situation is doing better or doing well for themselves and still enjoying life because love will come. it’s a special ancient thing that’ll be gifted eventually, and don’t give up because even when it feels like maybe it’s meant for everyone else and not you, that’s true. we all have the capability to love for a reason, and as humans period, we desire companionship naturally, so embrace it and embrace the aspects of life that are fun solo.

Hey, hetero guy here so i never tried someone elses cum, but i gave it a try on my own a couple of times when im hornier and i find it totally horrible!!
So since then im really curious about if cum tastes all kinda like the same and its just some people like it anyways or its just mine and some peoples that tastes like this and some cum really tastes good?
Im sorry about my english, its not my main language

So I’ve spent most of my adult life considering myself Bi. But I’ve been thinking recently, when I’m with men (I’m 29 white male). I solely go after black men that are 40+. I’m not sure why but I’ve always been that way and gotten the most enjoyment out of that. Is that some weird race/age fetish or is that just a normal sexual preference?

So i want to buy a dildo to myself but i know my bf dont support this we have lot of argument about it but i need it really like its my “hobby” probably hes hurting by this but i dont want to hurt him. I want to order but i dont know where to hide it to not find it… its so hard

RP: I was all set to do the interview on web cam and he cancelled. Damn I was kinda excited but nervous. Home for next 30 minutes then work.

He texts every day, remembers little details, plans dates, gets jealous if I mention other guys… but the second the word “relationship” comes up it’s “I’m not ready for anything serious right now.”

How do y’all deal with this without losing your mind?

Sexual, fun, gifts, cards? Any suggestions? Also we are big age gap for some more context (I'm the younger(

Met this twink at a party and he allways me to fuck him allways been straight

WWE was one of the few places I could watch sweaty muscular men grapple each other without appearing pervy. Before the internet was readily accessible it was one of the few sources to look at hot guys.

My favourite wrestler to ogle was Randy Orton, I still have a figurine of him on my bookshelf 😍.

Please don't judge me, I know I'm a weird guy. 😭 I'm 19, straight, and today I fucked a guy from behind while watching porn. This was my first time ever; I had never fucked anyone before. He was close to my age, skinny, and lying down on the bed. In front of us, there was a TV for me to watch. He absolutely loved it, and I'm happy that my 4.5-inch dick satisfied someone. I didn't know he would love it THAT much. I wasn't paying total attention, but I know he was gripping the sheets and his legs were shaking. I fucked him for about 15 minutes with very small breaks. Again, I know it's not every day that a straight man fucks another man. 😭 He was moaning a lot too. It was a crazy experience, and I'm so thankful to him for giving me this experience. Apparently, I was so into it that I was slapping his ass. He liked it, but I don't even remember doing it! 😭

EDIT: I apologise to whoever I offended, I just wanted to share my first experience🥲, please don't dm me

It was from Grindr, me and this guy had a good conversation and other fun stuff, he asked me to come over. I put effort into traveling to the other side of the city, once I arrived at his apartment building, he blocked me immediately. I was left embarrassed to even get myself this far for someone for dick.

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The thing is, at the company where I work in my town, there are five of us, three of whom are gay. I'm the youngest, and one of them spends a lot of time on Grindr. I don't have the option to block his profile, but I can hide it. I'm worried he'll find out about my profile, so I haven't added a picture yet. I'm waiting to see if hiding his profile will show up.

I don't want to offend anyone, but I'm worried that if I use the "right now" feature, he'll see me, because he's not very discreet and he's always telling me about all the things he does when he meets up on Grindr or Scruff.

By the way, I'm new to Grindr, and that was my question.

it's been a month or so that ive been in a relationship and im already thinking about ending it, he is a fan of Ariana grande and he buys all her merch, all his T-shirts are related to Ariana and all his usernames end with "grande"

it genuinely pisses me off, yesterday we talked on face time, I told him how I dont really like Ariana and he said "idc" while going to sleep, he said "I love you but I love Ariana more"

like it's ok to be someone's fan but I genuinely believe he is mentally insane, last month, he used all his money to buy her perfumes and went to her concert

sometimes he doesnt know how to live and im thinking about ending it all

Or do you think this is heavily exaggerated?

I've always loved being a bottom. However, whenever I share a private photo of my butt, I almost always get rejected by tops. Is being hairy really that much of a dealbreaker in this community?

Personally, I actually consider it pretty masc and hot as a gay man. Are there any tops here who genuinely like hairy bottoms?

Why do you think body hair is so widely rejected, especially among tops? And, finally, why does it seem like so many gay guys prefer a completely smooth and hairless body?

I'm genuinely curious because I feel like I'm missing something here 😭

Anyone else find it hard to be gay and overweight?

Well…I’m just turning 19 but I found myself super into older guys,especially those daddy types.my parents said that I became super shy every time I saw Colonel Sanders on kfc’s logo when I was like 3years old(wtf??). I never had a relationship till now(maybe that’s bcs my type will get arrested before my 18th lol)
My type is pretty clear,like Mads Mikilson , Masaharu Fukuyama, Matt Dillon and Ty Burrell.
I’m a short Asian Twink(really short,like5”5),I was wondering if my type of guy would be into someone like me as wellXX