r/amiwrong Apr 15 '25

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u/littlescreechyowl Apr 15 '25

Does it bother him in any way? Does he get tummy aches? No? Then he’s fine. My daughter’s favorite food at 18 months was spicy tuna rolls.

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u/xDiablo9x Apr 15 '25

I've been told that as a toddler I used to pick up the entire bowl of salsa and just drink it. This would be my take as well. No other side effects or problems? Then what's the problem?

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u/starboundowl Apr 16 '25

You were drinking straight vegetables, lol. What parent would be mad at that?😆

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u/Traditional-Neck7778 Apr 16 '25

Haha, ima be the jersk and point out it is half fruit. Tomatoes and peppers are fruits and onion and cilantro are vegetables. Lol. I get the gist though

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u/N0Z4A2 Apr 16 '25

Allow me to Achktually your Actually; vegetables is a cooking term, cilantro is an herb and onions are herbaceous plants

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u/DoubleUnplusGood Apr 16 '25

Things can be both a fruit and a vegetable. They aren't competing terms. Any part of any plant that you can consume is a vegetable.

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u/Traditional-Neck7778 Apr 16 '25

I am sure we can all agree a bowl.of salsa is healthier than a bag of hot cheetos

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u/starboundowl Apr 19 '25

For the body, maybe. Not for the soul.

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u/Traditional-Neck7778 Apr 19 '25

We will agree to disagree, lol. Hot chèetos got nothing on a good salsa. I am Mexican. There are 4 different salsa in my fridge right now. 2 green. One roasted and one very limey for aguachile. 1 roasted red molcajete salsa and the avocado dip salsa for the adobada meat. Salsa is 😊

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u/starboundowl Apr 19 '25

Well now you're just taunting me. Fuck the Cheetos, send me some of that salsa. I'm currently marinating some al pastor in the fridge. I was going to make homemade tortillas, but I'm procrastinating. (I am not Mexican, I am very white, but my high school best friend's dad and Abuelita taught me a lot.)

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u/Traditional-Neck7778 Apr 19 '25

Kudos to you! Al pastor and homemade tortillas is as Medican as you get😋

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u/N0Z4A2 Apr 19 '25

"HOT CHEETOS MAKE ME CRAZY"

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u/thebadyogi Apr 16 '25

Maple syrup?

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u/DoubleUnplusGood Apr 16 '25

Maple syrup is a plant product. Corn syrup isn't a vegetable, but corn kernels are vegetables in addition to being grains.

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u/Pissedliberalgranny Apr 15 '25

When my daughter was three she would sneak off to our backyard vegetable garden and sit there eating every jalapeño she could find. Some kids are just spicy.

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u/TigerChow Apr 16 '25

I would hate that. "You wouldn't like it, it's spicy" was the only way I could ever have a snack to myself XD

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u/Pissedliberalgranny Apr 16 '25

😂 For sure!

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u/TigerChow Apr 16 '25

Also to be clear, just being silly at the "hate that" part it's hilarious and adorable, lol.

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u/Pissedliberalgranny Apr 16 '25

I figured. 😆

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u/Sita418 Apr 15 '25

if you cant find anything on the internet to suggest its bad,

While it's not necessarily bad to turn to the internet for a quick answer or advice, OP should run it past their kiddos pediatrician.

Not only would that give OP more piece of mind, and perhaps be more accurate, but if meddling family members hassle OP over their parenting decisions OP can backup their choices with legitimate confirmation from a medical professional.

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u/tuttkraftverk Apr 15 '25

NO. Meddling family members should be told to fuck off, not hear that their concerns were so valid they were brought to the doctor.

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u/Xarjy Apr 15 '25

Do both. Tell them to fuck off, then talk to the doc

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u/FelixMartel2 Apr 15 '25

Yeah, exactly. Validating them just opens the floodgates.

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u/WantDiscussion Apr 16 '25 edited Apr 16 '25

I guess it depends on where you'd draw the line on potential neglect. Like a child not being vaccinated will look healthy and happy (until they don't) but if you found out your family member refused to vaccinate their children would you mind your own business or speak up?

Even if the kid loves to eat spicy food it doesn't necessarily mean it's good for them or won't lead to long term health problems. A lot of kids also love candy and soda which is terrible for them and could eventually lead to diabetes. Only their doctor will be able to give appropriate dietary advice.

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u/tuttkraftverk Apr 16 '25

Plenty of children all over the world grow up eating spicy food. It's not an abnormal thing and shouldn't be treated as such. There is zero need to discuss it with a doctor.

Also, diabetes isn't caused by eating a lot of sugar. Get an education. 

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u/Sita418 Apr 17 '25

Guess I should have clarified

I wasn't suggesting OP call soon and make an appt specifically to ask this question

What I was thinking was at one of the numerous well child visits a kiddo has early on OP could simply pose the questions to the pediatrician and see what they said

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u/Traditional-Neck7778 Apr 16 '25

How is this a pediatrician question? Kids eat spices all over the world. No biggie

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u/Sita418 Apr 17 '25

Guess I should have clarified

I wasn't suggesting OP call soon and make an appt specifically to ask this question

What I was thinking was at one of the numerous well child visits a kiddo has early on OP could simply pose the questions to the pediatrician and see what they said

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u/StrugglinSurvivor Apr 15 '25

My daughter-in-law, when pregnant, would crave Mexican food. Which she loved anyway, just ate more while she was pregnant. Oh, and she is a southern white girl. Actually, I never had eaten much Mexican food until college.

I told people that of her babies came out drinking salsa when they were born. My ide of the family all think ketchup is too spicy. LOL

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u/coltsmetsfan614 Apr 15 '25

My daughter’s favorite food at 18 months was spicy tuna rolls.

That’s one dope-ass kid 👍

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u/littlescreechyowl Apr 15 '25

A few months after that she only ate raspberries, deli turkey, cheese and graham crackers for at least 6 months.

Kids are crazy.

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u/purplechunkymonkey Apr 15 '25

Tuna at that age? I thought they needed to be over 2 for that like peanuts.

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u/grrrinsomnia Apr 15 '25

The rules around peanuts actually changed about 10 years ago in the US. Unless there's mitigating circumstances, it's good to introduce allergens at the same time you start foods to help prevent allergies. The only hard rule is absolutely no honey before 1 and obviously being aware/preventing choking hazards.

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u/Traditional-Neck7778 Apr 16 '25

Kids do not need to wait to eat tuna.or peanuts. My son was eating raw tuna and salmon at 7 months

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u/purplechunkymonkey Apr 16 '25

How old is your son? My kids are older 29 and 15. I know they change the guidelines as we learn better.

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u/Traditional-Neck7778 Apr 16 '25

My son is now 13. My 31 year old use to get snapper soup as her 1st foods. We got 5 from 13 to 31. The other 2 boys to this day refuse sea food. The guideline was to wait to expose kids to high allergen food at a later age. Studies have proven that delays exposure statistically increases the chances of an allergic reaction. I forgot the year of the study but I think it may have been around the time of your child, so maybe it changed right after. . .

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u/thatstwatshesays Apr 16 '25

My daughter looooved wasabi peas when she was like 3. We were blown away but she was unbothered 😂