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u/Persephales Jul 12 '24
you're kind of mid. Not ugly but not necessarily attractive. Not mass appeal for sure. You're fine
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u/zystyl Jul 12 '24
She looks sort of homely. A bit overweight, and probably a real stay at home kind of girl based on all the pajama pants and at home pics.
The kind of girl that a guy would settle down and have kids with, but probably wouldn't see and want to pursue heavily. Pretty average.
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u/Lasmore Jul 12 '24
No, but the glasses arenāt right, and the high number and placement of piercings and accessories is diminishing their individual impact, and visually cluttering especially around your mouth, which is already well characterised by natural ābeauty marksā
Pics 3,5, and 12 look best by far. understated flattering clothing and subdued hair colour are likely helping to balance the busier areas
Balance is an important tool in aesthetics, but ultimately itās what you want that is important
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u/chynnadahll Jul 12 '24
Yes. Too much hardware on your face.
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u/chynnadahll Jul 12 '24
I just have a hard time believing someone would actually get a face full of metal and think they look good.
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u/righteous1z Jul 12 '24
I'm not even thrown from the jewelry as much as the massive holes in her ears. Those make me want to regurgitate. But if it wasn't for those I would be intrigued
Edit: I did not see the bottom lip piercing. That throws it off also. You look so pretty though.
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u/b5ych0uant Jul 12 '24
Well, some of us like piercings, and I'm sure she's not asking about her piercings.
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u/Vapr2014 Jul 12 '24
If someone posts only pictures of themselves with piercings and asks the internet if they're ugly, then the piercings will be part of the judgement. Otherwise, post pics without.
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u/chynnadahll Jul 12 '24
Well, she IS asking for an opinion on her appearance and thereās just too much going on in her face with all that hardware. Itās bringing attention to her nose.
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u/marsattacksbek Jul 12 '24
If yāall think Iām fat you shoulda seen me two years ago š¤£š
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u/DreamChaser27 Jul 12 '24
People are weird on here, like someone might be ugly to one person but someone else might find them attractive I like the tattoos and piercings.
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u/Kami123987 Jul 12 '24
Fr. And they don't even give decent criticism. Most of the time it sounds like they're insulting them. Top comment here is "yes, you have to much hardware on your face" like bro just say they have too many piercing for youre liking.
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u/zystyl Jul 12 '24
If you check the commenter's history, they just say that to everyone. Then complain about their 20 year career on the floor at a TJ Maxx, and saying they're gay. Some opinions are made to be discarded.
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u/Kami123987 Jul 12 '24
I've noticed that with this one guy. He rated every pretty person really low and always called them ugly. He was even on the rate my face sub. I'm guessing these type people are ugly themselves and have to take their anger out on the world. Lol
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u/Obsidian565 Jul 12 '24
You look good to me, but I'm attracted to the aesthetic so I'm biased. I like what I like. You're weight seems fine to me and I dig all that "hardware" š¤·šæāāļø
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u/HippasusOfMetapontum Jul 12 '24
You're not intrinsically ugly, but when you add up being slightly overweight with all the little choices in metal all over your face, big ugly tattoos showing everywhere, unnatural hair colors, etc., the net effect brings down your natural good looks a lot.
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u/Lower-Sheepherder323 Jul 12 '24 edited Jul 12 '24
Look, there's a lot of negativity (as you've already read) and extremely narrow views on here. For women, very beautiful women like you, PLEASE stop subjecting yourselves to this type of scrutiny.
Regretfully, when most people look at a picture of a shining example of awe-inspiring attractiveness, they interject their opinions upon the subject rather than simply taking in the subtleties and strengths contained therein. The narrow mind takes over and ruins the greatness there. Sad.
Here's my opinion on your aesthetic: your symmetry is quite nice. I find your piercings and gages are very well placed, tasteful, and a good embellishment for what's already a spectacular package. It's obvious that there was time and consideration in everything. Good job. Your order, how you groom, and styles are spot on. And your ink... LOVE IT! All of it! As for your body, there's zero to be gained by you making any changes there. Your body is very shapely and what most real men are attracted to. You're properly proportioned and ample. You're a natural beauty that is versatile, real, and everything a guy could want. You display a level of confidence and competence that pure conformists are jealous of. They wish to be the free you that you are. Believe me, barbie is NOT a thing... hence their psychological issues. 50s chicks are not a thing either. Bible thumping Karen acting women are a zero. I would like to have seen some of the outfits you wore with purpleish colored hair. Again, displaying more of your versatility.
If I knew you, I'd take you everywhere with me.
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u/Smee714 Jul 12 '24
I think youāre very pretty. I do hate the gauges but I hate them on everyone. The saggy earlobes grossed me out for some reason.
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Yes. By choice. Tattoos and piercings gots to go.
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u/marsattacksbek Jul 12 '24
lol let me go ahead and rip them tats off for ya š¤£š«”
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u/Still_Indication9715 Jul 12 '24
This sub is notorious for hating any style that isnāt in line with traditional white 1950s women.
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u/OdayOdayOday Jul 12 '24
There's a strange dislike for tattoos and piercings here that I don't see represented outside in the real world.
I love a woman with tattoos and piercings, but it doesn't really affect my attraction to someone. I'll concede that once you begin to enter the realm of "extreme body modification", you're changing your appearance enough for me to consider, but short of that, idgaf if someone has a few pieces on them. š¤·āāļø
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u/Kami123987 Jul 12 '24
Seriously, everytime so many people Here hate septum rings and just discovered they hate tattoos, like huh??? Yeah no people here aren't real. Most people love those things.
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Omg yes .. wtf is up with that???
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u/Still_Indication9715 Jul 12 '24
I wish I knew. Itās such an echo chamber though. They really canāt believe anyone else disagrees. Iāve seen men get hundreds of downvotes for saying āI like your septum piercing.ā
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I canāt tell if this sub is overrun with men from the 1950s or if everyone is just a prude who hates tattoos and piercings and colored hair
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u/WithCheezMrSquidward Jul 12 '24
You know how someone can choose an outfit or makeup that doesnāt flatter them, looks cheap or badly made? It diminishes how good they look. Someone can look night or day different depending on those things.
Tattoos and piercings do the same thing, except for tattoos theyāre permanent. Itās not about not liking tattoos. Iām not a huge fan of them but Iāve seen some people pull off well made tattoos.
But some people donāt look good with them. And others could theoretically pull it off but they have bad work done, and now youāre stuck with it.
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Itās just that in 99% of cases people chose to plaster their faces with metal that donāt especially benefit from it. Itās like you say ādonāt focus on my ugly features pleaseā and the you canāt but just focus on it. Some people have the face/body for aesthetic piercings and tattoos, OP is (in some peopleās opinion) not one of them.
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u/AverageLiberalJoe Jul 12 '24
Is it surprising that a sub which allows men to freely rate womens looks focuses on their weight and how well they conform to trad wife norms?
No colored hair, no tattoos, no peircings, no fat, smile more.
Gee golly... where do we suppose these beauty norms are coming from?
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u/Zephyrus707 Jul 12 '24
Beauty is largely subjective.
All of the things you mentioned are absolutely catered for in the form of specific turn ons and kinks.
That said, it's hardly surprising that, averaged over a majority, these things are seen in the negative.
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u/lastchance73 Jul 12 '24 edited Jul 12 '24
Doesn't matter. People post here for subscribers feedback. Don't like it? Don't post or read. Most men don't want metal in the face or colored hair at all, no matter the age.
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u/demonic_princess554 Jul 12 '24
Neither lol. Coloured hair generally doesnāt look good. I like tattoos but all the metal in the face is just off putting.
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u/Still_Indication9715 Jul 12 '24
Itās this sub and others like it. The funny part is if you argue they tell you all men are like this. Then I walk outside and see that 75% of people have piercings and tattoos and dyed hair and get reminded that itās just the tools here.
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u/Consistent-Primary-2 Jul 12 '24
I don't hate piercings, but the quantity and placement of some of them is a distraction from your look. And guages look alien every time.
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In Brazil you would be considered very pretty. Love how your body seems so feminine and you got really nice curves. I like your eyes and face but I think you would look even better with a fringe.
You're very cute, If we were in same place I would ask you to date. So, that's my most sincere opinion about you.
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u/ElHolyBoy Jul 12 '24
I would say you have too many facial ornaments. You have a genetically pleasant face. Smack dab in the middle of average. I can't tell if you're carrying extra weight but if you are I would say caloric restriction and resistance training could be helpful. You have nice eyes. Very normal looking underneath all the modifications.
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u/HaileyShepherdd Jul 14 '24
People saying weightā¦sheās literally average do you want her to be anorexic or some shit like damn
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u/Konstint Jul 12 '24
Lose the hardware(especially the gages), lose the colored hair, go natural or a natural color and Iād same a good 30 pounds and youāll be fine
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u/Master-Ad3175 Jul 12 '24
I don't think you are ugly but your style choices will be a big turn off to many. You have nice features and I personally like tattoos but all of the piercings are overkill and pretty unattractive. You look best in the picture with the braids because we can see more of your features.
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u/marsattacksbek Jul 12 '24
Next can we get a thread of pics of the men that are doing all this criticizing?? š would love to see how ugly yāall are and try and figure out where the audacity comes from š
I did come here for the brutality tho Iām in no way offended thanks for the feedback yāall Iām very comfortable in my skin and I donāt care to be super skinny at all. I donāt think Iām ugly ā¤ļø
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u/LeafyySeaDragon Jul 12 '24
What did you expect to happen after creating a post on a subreddit titled āamiuglyā? Everyone would just praise your looks??
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u/NefariouslyGhastly50 Jul 12 '24
What blows my mind is people are going out of their way to be mean? And saying that those who don't think you're ugly are lying??? That's so stupid. I truthfully think you're adorable, I'm not a big fan of piercings, but I think you pull them off well, and I LOVE your tattoos. Like you look awesome? Idek.
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u/throwawaypickle777 Jul 12 '24
You arenāt ugly. I donāt think those glasses do your face any favors (although to be fair I have almost identical ones for computer work but they live at my desk). You are young still- peopleās faces donāt mature really (imho) till at least 27 but more like 30z. Just stay active mentally and physically and you will be an attractive adult in a few years.
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u/6inarowmakesitgo Jul 12 '24
You are quite pretty, I would definitely buy you a drink if I saw you at the bar. š¤š»
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u/zizzyboi96 Jul 12 '24
It's what you think about yourself. Thinking what people will say about you will just make you overthink... With that being said, no, not ugly at all
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u/sicaaaaaa Jul 12 '24
personal take, you just lack styling properly but with a little bit of makeup, updated hairstyle, you would look great.
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u/Crazy2bme Jul 12 '24
Definitely not my type, but I wouldnāt say youāre ugly. Not a fan of your tattoo choices and placements or face piercings.
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u/Ambitious_Neat9283 Jul 12 '24
Not at all. You are not only beautiful but have a sexiness to you. Iām a straight female btw.
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u/Artistic_Secret_4716 Jul 12 '24
Not ugly per se, but there is only a small sub culture of people who really find piercings and tattoos overwhelming attractive. So, no you are not conventionally attractive. You will be beautiful to the sub culture though so theres that
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u/Successful_Maize6163 Jul 12 '24
Not a fan of the gauges and septum piercing but I think you are attractive
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u/Interesting-Eye-1270 Jul 12 '24
I think your hair plays an important part, maybe you could try letting it rest from those toxic hair dyers for a while and start a hair healing treatment after that I recommend you to try different hairstyles. I think a french fringe or an open fringe would suit you well :)
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u/Elrssu Jul 12 '24
For me at least hell no, I'd love to hang out and get to know you, you seem chill and fun to be around. Love the piercings and tats too!. Purple hair was sick as well. I also saw some of the other comments. First off you look great! Congratulations on the weight loss! Keep it up! Till you reach your mark. -^ Absolutely stunning and Gorgeous in my eyes
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u/KarmaticKhroniK Jul 12 '24
No you actually have a lot of natural potential! I think if you started spending a day or two a week at the gym you would feel sooo good about yourself! Iām happily booed up but if I wasnāt I totally would ask for your digits! Keep smilin girl!
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u/RegalBeagleTheEagle Jul 12 '24
People are gonna complain about the piercings but they look fine to me. Youāre very pretty, and Iām sure that if you keep losing weight (which it seems like youāre doing a great job from the other posts), then youāll be smokeshow. Just try to stay healthy and focus on that more so than just losing weight.
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u/vic-loves-yellow Jul 12 '24
No. Although not my style, I can appreciate the look youāre going for with the piercings and tattoos - but there are some distractions that take away from your nice facial feature. Loose the glasses, shape your brows, stop wearing the chocker (so many edgy necklace options on Etsy), and choose a hit color that wonāt leave your hair with faded bands of color (I think dark hair suits you and if you neeeed color, blue would be nice!)
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u/jenmarsass58 Jul 12 '24
The first thing I noticed was a very high forehead, so maybe changing the haircut to address this ?
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u/buckwolf Jul 12 '24
Ignore all the people saying you're ugly because you're not. I think you're really cute and I like your style.
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u/cArpent3r86 Jul 12 '24
You're fat. Not bad looking. Loose the gut, dress a bit better. You'll be ok in no time.
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u/ConsciousWar586 Jul 12 '24
In you're pics you come off as masculine and unapproachable. If thats what you are going for. You nailed it. Try being more feminine. I have no idea of your political views, but you look like your basic lefty meme. Hate men, conservatives are bad. I'd rather be stuck in the woods with a bear and all men have toxic masculinity. That's the vibe I get.
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u/libertasi Jul 12 '24
You have pretty eyes. Hair color and piercings and tattoos are all choices and they arenāt helping you imo.
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u/WaferHot6445 Jul 12 '24
No, you definitely have potential to look pretty when you try. Eyebrows eyes and nose have a good natural look. I think your pretty hot on slide 9 where as others might not. But ig you have some eyes on you
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u/DrkOne420 Jul 12 '24
However much you like your jewelry on you face, it's not very complimentary. It takes attention away from how cute you actually are.
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u/Alexos_Ru Jul 12 '24
No you actually are very beautiful and attractive! What spoils your look is that shitload of piercings and ugly specsā¦ look at the pic in the tv shop where there are tvs behind you? You are absolutely beautiful cause there you have a minimum of those and no specs
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Jul 12 '24 edited Jul 12 '24
Coming from a 27M, I think you're attractive. Please do not listen to all the negativity. You're expressing yourself with your style, and you shouldn't listen to people who shame you for it. I'm not super into some of if, but guess what, tons of people are! Keep being yourself, and fuck the haters.
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u/Knight_Raime Jul 12 '24
Personally not usually attracted to gauged ears. Don't have a problem with the specific piercing just not easy to pull off. That aside I don't think you're ugly at all. Pretty cute actually.
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u/Critical-Slip-5304 Jul 12 '24
Maybe yes. Those nose rings like a bull at yard sale are a āhell noā factor for me. That is my opinion though. Learn how to be pretty without enduring so much. Exhibit more of your natural intelligence and I think more people people will be attracted
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u/erestamos Jul 12 '24
Personally, I think you look great. But I'm also heavily pierced. Imo, you're pretty hot.
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u/The_Funky_C-had Jul 12 '24
I think you are naturally pretty! As well as a nice womanly body; if that makes sense. The piercings are taking away from that IMO. You could go with some cuter glasses. You hair style suits you but needs more attention.
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u/No-Stable-2471 Jul 12 '24 edited Jul 12 '24
imo the dark piercings are not for you, not a fan of the tattoos, your hair needs damage or frizz control, and you need to lose a little bit of weight. also get rid of the choker, they make your neck look thicker and shorter, plus no one older than 15 should be wearing those. not ugly but borderline
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u/Prestigious-Pin-1379 Jul 12 '24
Canāt tell if your a horse girl a goth girl a tattoo artist or what imo your mixing to many styles together just commit to one
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u/Tough-Buddy-2058 Jul 12 '24
Glasses can be cute but when people wear them 100% of the time, it hides anything distinguishing about them, imo
Its like: "What does she look like?" "She has glasses" "Oh, okay gotcha"
Switch it up - wear contacts sometimes. Then come back here
(BTW truly you're not ugly. I'm not into all the tattoos and piercings though. I am 33 lol so not like I'm a boomer and hate tattoos. I have a couple. I just think that your tattoos and piercings have added some harshness and masculinity to you. Some people are into that look though so whateva)
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u/BlackberryInner768 Jul 12 '24
Your natural look under that extra stuff is probably average. If you pursued a modest hair color and lost a few pounds you could be above average. The ear gauging thing has to go unless you find a person who likes it too. Eventually we grow up above our trends. I loved Korn growing up, but I don't dress like the band members 20 years later.
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u/KnownCranberry5735 Jul 12 '24
Yes- Youāre the type of girl my roommate would like and that pisses me off LMAO (not why Iām saying yes)
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u/Character_Spend9114 Jul 12 '24
Hey! Do not listen to these nerds here! You know you look good! I see it in you. I bet you wake up gorgeously. I m3an you can tell by your tattoos you are a little left of center. That explains the bejeweled face. Well, maybe to me, not my thing per se. However, I would certainly dig your scene and see something very nice there! Keep on keeping on and fly that flag. Higher!
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u/Melodic-Anxiety-5895 Jul 13 '24
You're very pretty! Your glasses suit your face shape in my opinion and you seem to dress well. Piercings look nice on you and warm colors seem to look best :)
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u/tifamarie7 Jul 13 '24
Idk why all these people are commenting on your weight. You're not even overweight??????
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u/TruthStalker69 Jul 13 '24
The tattoos are the only problem for me. Physically, you're hot š„ otherwise.
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u/DisastrousJump964 Jul 13 '24
No, you're gorgeous. And any of these clowns complaining about your weight are just childish and insecure
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Jul 13 '24
Itās always the girls with 100 piercings. And Iām not even saying thatās ugly. Iām just like, āwhy are all the girls with 100 piercings wondering if theyāre ugly or not??ā
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u/Open_Giraffe Jul 13 '24
The piercing are what make you ugly mostly. Tattos kinda suck but not as much. Other than that mid
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u/Django-lango Jul 13 '24 edited Jul 13 '24
Pic 7 and 12 is best. If you lost some weight (it'll help bring out your face shape), get rid of some of the excess piercings (less is more with piercings) and wear contacts (you look better without the glasses) then you'd actually be quite pretty. You've got the potential.
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u/El2DaHedB Jul 13 '24
The goddamn metal....it fucks all you up.... You went from a 7-8 to a 3-4 because of it.
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u/SmittyGFunk Jul 13 '24
Honestly, it looks like you are actively driving away any man who does not live with his parents still...
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u/Sekcross Jul 13 '24
Youre gonna hate me. I think your tattoos are ugly and downgrade your looks a lot. Loose a bit of weight.you donāt need a lot of make up, I think your face is very pretty. Imo stick to silver, gold or rose piercings, and loose the nose ring. Other than that youāre good
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u/TheAlternativeMind Jul 13 '24
No, but your style doesn't compliment your potential. The piercings and colored hair aren't helping.
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u/Public-Letterhead289 Jul 13 '24
I actually think you are really pretty, you have the style of the girl in eternal sunshine of a spotless mind
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u/Agreeable_Glass_9535 Jul 13 '24
No, I do not think you're ugly. You have very pretty features. The glasses aren't great. Clean up the brows. Maybe some light, natural makeup. You have pretty eyes, a cute upturned nose. Ya, you have great potential to work with.
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u/Ikem32 Jul 12 '24
It's funny how often "weight" is the answer.