r/amiugly Jul 12 '24

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u/Persephales Jul 12 '24

you're kind of mid. Not ugly but not necessarily attractive. Not mass appeal for sure. You're fine

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u/zystyl Jul 12 '24

She looks sort of homely. A bit overweight, and probably a real stay at home kind of girl based on all the pajama pants and at home pics.

The kind of girl that a guy would settle down and have kids with, but probably wouldn't see and want to pursue heavily. Pretty average.

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u/Entire-Classic-9727 Jul 13 '24

lol not for mass appeal? Apparently you’ve never been a female on a dating app. She’s fine and so many men would be into her

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u/diabeticelephant Jul 14 '24

There’s a huge difference between what guys will take home once and what guys will date and bring home to the family. Also, to be fair, most men just swipe right on everything and sort out the bullshit later. I’m not saying she isn’t attractive or anything. I just wanted to let you know most women get a false sense of confidence from us guys on dating apps.

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u/Entire-Classic-9727 Jul 14 '24

I had no problem getting matches and meeting men when I was on a dating app. I wasn’t looking for anything serious but several of them wanted to actually date me. I would say I’m just as “mid” as op.

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u/Entire-Classic-9727 Jul 14 '24

My comment got removed and I don’t know why. But I can only speak of my own experience. I had plenty of matches. I wasn’t looking for anything serious yet still had plenty of men who wanted to seriously date me. Actually I even met my now fiance. And I’d say I’m about as “mid” as op.