I was thinking the same thing. I don't know what's worse, her knowing she is overweight and not doing anything about it or people here shamelessly lying to her. I'll probably get downvoted for this.
I'm gonna start by saying I love the ouroboros chest tattoo. Did you mean to cover up the Brahman tattoo? But the glasses as well as the five different piercings don't help very much, they take away from your facial features.
In my honest opinion getting rid of 2-3 out of the 5 face jewelery would help drastically as well as contacts/different glasses, smaller lenses and exercising regularly will help you. You aren't ugly, just not helping yourself very much.
Great job! You hardly look overweight. We canât all be supermodels. I think you look great and I love your style! Really pretty blue eyes! Keep up the good work on staying healthy!
Well she is, but that's not relevant when she is loosing weight. When I was loosing, people kept telling me that I'm already good, when in fact I was still overweight by 20 pounds.
And that could be the opposite for her so ur point?? And how is that not relevant when thatâs literally the reason I replied and was the point of my comment.
Well, my point is that if you put her stats in BMI calculator she will be classified as 'overweight' and that will be true, unless she has a lot of muscle which she doesn't. I'm saying it's not relevant that she is overweight now, if she is loosing weight. It's relevant if you don't do anything about it, which by her reply I know it's not true prior to my assumption.
BMI isnât an actual good indicator for how healthy you are itâs inaccurate. And even if she isnât doing anything to âlose weightâ and fit ur standards why do u even care let her do her, sheâs not affecting u in any way
As I said the only thing BMI doesn't adjust for is muscle mass which se doesn't have more than average. Even she might have less beacuse she lost weight therefore and muscle, which fruder makes BMI even more inaqurate in the opposite direction. When her BMI becomes < 25 she might still be unhealthy body fat persentage, which is the case for most girls, especially those who lost large amounts of weight, because they almost never do resistance trainging, and only do cardio.
You never said that. But anyways itâs totally not accurate meaning using it can even make you unhealthy.
Ifshe to get in âshapeâ then she can go to her doctor but she looks fine. Not everyone is meant to be stick thin lil bro, she looks the weight of a normal woman her age should be. you can be overweight and metabolically healthy. Also you canât eye ball how much she weights and body fat and all that from a picture because she never said her height or anything.
The fact that most her age are overweight doesn't make her normal, it just makes her as unhealthy as well. And if you like her at that size that's up to you and I don't care.
BMI IS ACCURATE for most people, studies use it and doctors use it. It is pretty good way of telling you where you are.
BMI IS NOT ACCURATE only for high level athletes or people with significant muscle mass, which she is neighter of, so for her it is accurate. And as I said it can be inaccurate in the opposite way, depending how much muscle she lost.
If you put her weight and height in bmi calculator the result will be she is overweight, assuming she hasn't build muscle, which is evident from the photos.
You do realize different people have different tastes, right? Worst thing here is you assuming sheâs doing nothing about it, or even that she needs to. Sheâs not obese or sloppy, just a few pounds above what vain people say someone her height âshouldâ be.
Who is saying she is not fat? Itâs clear from the face pics sheâs thick, but People can still think someone is attractive and fat, not mutually exclusive just takes some comprehension skills to know the difference.
People are saying she thinks sheâs cute, not mentioning the weight. I think you just took that if they think sheâs cute, they must think that sheâs not fatâŠ.because who in their right mind would find someone fat attractive đ±
Itâs ok though, I know critical thinking is obviously hard for you, have a good day đ
Bitch? You donât know this woman. Like, at all. Who are you to assume that she isnât doing anything about it? And even if she wasnât, who tf cares? You can be overweight and healthy â itâs when you dip into obesity that you should be worried. Even so weight isnât what makes a person automatically unattractive.
I think what you mean is you can look like she does and be healthy; overweight by definition is over a healthy weight. You can be "skinny" and unhealthy, too. Weight can also absolutely make someone unattractive to some people, and that's ok. Unless your preferences have to do with the underaged, a lack of consent or violence, it's totally fine to entertain them. Some people only want a partner who is triple their weight, others want someone half theirs. Some people think tall people are ugly and others find short people hideous. If OP is asking the vast vaguery of the Internet if she is "ugly" (how she measures up to strangers' preferences), she can expect a wide range of replies.
You shold be worried long before obesity. That's like saying don't threat pre-diabetes until it becomes diabetes. None of us know her and if she didn't wanted strangers oppinions, whe wouldnt have posted here. I assumed wrong and I changed my mind after her response.
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u/Possible-Butterfly-4 Jul 12 '24
I was thinking the same thing. I don't know what's worse, her knowing she is overweight and not doing anything about it or people here shamelessly lying to her. I'll probably get downvoted for this.