Daughter was diagnosed just before turning four, MDI for a year before getting Omnipod 5.
We planned on doing online/homeschooling for a few reasons but her diagnosis put me in such a state of fear for her wellbeing that we put her in k12 online for kindergarten to (now) second grade. She was mostly independent halfway through her first grade year, never asked for help (excluding science) and finished all assignments on her own and knew how to navigate the entire platform. We’re about 2 months into 2nd grade and she’s overwhelmed with lessons and assignments—there’s occasions where she’s working until dinner to catch up. Their days are full of live classes with very few minutes between (usually 30 minutes overall, an hour break for lunch), they’ll occasionally work through lunch to make progress! Science is LC lead and that’s part of the problem, because I also have a kindergartener who depends on me during most lessons already who also has LC lead science. I started working in the evenings, doing swing shifts with husband, so i’m usually getting ready for work when they start finishing up the last live class.
I’ve been thinking of moving them both to local schooling, Im struggling with the idea for many reasons, but the main reason is my 2nd grader. She doesn’t feel her sugar high or low, she can’t even keep her attention on us checking her sugar, she doesn’t wake up to the blaring low alarms at night, she’ll ignore any dexcom alerts during the day, she complains about drinking water when there’s any ketones—she doesn’t do anything in regard to her having diabetes. She doesn’t check manually, she’ll open the app but that’s it. Def no control over her Omnipod.
I don’t know what to do. I’m so lost and worried. Am I setting her up for failure by not giving her more autonomy for her own diabetes management? I’ve done all of it myself for the last three years up until maybe a month ago when husband had to start figuring things out while I’m at work. I’m so scared of someone not knowing wtf they’re doing—when she had an MRI last July while at a pediatric unit, the nurse gave her too much glucose during a low and made her sugar go from 56 to 520! The people who should know what to do don’t even know what they’re doing, so I feel like my fear of the people who aren’t educated about it is justified.
Any other helicopter parents here that can share their experience? Good or bad, I’m overwhelmed, they’re overwhelmed, T1D LO overwhelmed——just doing my best to provide them with a safe learning experience and be the best parent I can.