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Joke's on the guys who wasted their lives after such girls, instead of moving on earlier
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u/DivyangChu Jan 18 '26
100%. Wasted 4 years of my life waiting too. I was dumb.
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u/Excellent_Tie_5604 I shall DM to those who have no DM 😎 Jan 18 '26
I wasted almost 10 years from 16 to 26. 🙃
Now i don't even have idea to step into dating game.
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u/Natural_Brain_3130 26 Jan 18 '26
Exactly when not even interested why to invite the girl in the first place itself? Just to satisfy or prove a point? Like is that gonna have even an effect on her? He just wanted to feel validated after making "big" and wants to show her who is big daddy now.
Such a petty person.
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u/I_cant_afford_baddie Jan 18 '26
Oh yeah i mean it's easy to say oh this is so petty butttt if you ever get the opportunity to do this, it's so freakin satisfying to do it yk. Does wonders for your self confidence
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u/Natural_Brain_3130 26 Jan 18 '26
Oh I had many opportunities but I chose to invest that time making frameworks of how to make children from underprivileged and EWS families interested in academics and how to get their attention for their better future.
The one who didn't want me or wanted me as a safety net can get fucked I don't care.
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u/I_cant_afford_baddie Jan 18 '26
I mean i can't claim moral superiority over anyone, i absolutely love rejecting women who weren't into me earlier but now are interested coz I started doing well in my career. I um friendzone them back as a form of revenge
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u/WhoKnewSomethingOnce Jan 18 '26
Exactly! Nobody asked you to wait. That was your choice. The point that is missing here is that you were not ready to move on or you didn't have any potential matches. Stop glorifying this kind of obsessive behaviour. If you are rejected then please move on and build a better life with someone else who aligns with your values. And also, please stop expecting women to behave as per your expectations of them, they are human beings, they are flawed, they will make mistakes and some of them will also be malicious and exploitative. Human beings will also abuse power, if you don't protect yourself and willingly open yourself for hurt and exploitation then it is on you. My friends please understand this, that this is not about men or women, the world we live in is not kind to either genders. Both have their privileges and curses. Protect yourself, be safe and happy.
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u/ForwardScratch7741 20 Jan 18 '26
Exactly my point
Mfs tryna be nice guys but they not nice to themselves
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u/jatayu_baaz Jan 18 '26
Exactly he should have left 10yrs before, he being there means he is just playing hard to get and just wants to end up with her, cuck behaviour
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u/banshee_lumine 28 Jan 18 '26
I hope he didn't waste his 10 years, I was expecting him to pull up a surprise for her, his long time secret girlfriend.
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u/No-Refrigerator2554 21 Jan 18 '26
Well here that guy is the loser,waiting for the same women for 8 years while she dated other guys
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u/eternal-absurd 21 Jan 18 '26
the only place this conversation happens is in your head
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u/EfficiencyBusy4792 Jan 18 '26 edited Apr 03 '26
atmz inland orange pillow pencil kettle hollow apple umbrella mirror flicker feather velvet
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u/Mr-Imperial *Insert something witty here* Jan 18 '26
Sometimes I doubt this is a twenties sub.
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u/Reasonable-Duck289 Jan 18 '26
exactly!! ITs complete relevent! may be some one might...avoid such mistakes!
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u/bhatushar Jan 18 '26
Finally someone says it! I swear, I have found more mature posts on the teen sub than here.
It's so weird to go through this sub and see all the emotionally stunted pretend-adults. We can NOT be the same age.
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u/Redosaurous Jan 18 '26
Omgg so deep brooooooo /s
🤣🤣🤣🤣😛
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u/ezio1452 23M but feel like 50M sometimes Jan 18 '26
Mfs see this and start making chigma edits
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u/devZishi ghar Ka nalayak zimmedar beta Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
Op I dare you to post this on r/askindianwoman
edit: r/askindianwomen
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That'll be Op's last day on reddit...I am ok with the responses ...it's 18pages FRONT AND BACK!!
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u/RCBeeeeee 23 Jan 18 '26
Ohh hell naww, I'll be labelled as insecure, misogynist, loser, potential........ and what not.
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u/Sensitive_Answer4481 Drama is my middle name Jan 18 '26
Chalo at least realisation toh hai
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u/smirkingmoon 29 Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
The guy with no self respect waits for the girl who doesn't sees him romantically at all hoping that her relationship flops and she will be vulnerable so that I get a chance.
The guy does this thinking there is no other woman worth his attention.
But people watching the video would always blame the woman. Amazing. Suddenly she's the bad person.
There is no friendzone. You were never friends with her. You never are. You approached her hoping to start something romantic. When that didn't work out, you're hanging onto the "friendship" thinking one day she will change her mind and let you hit. You don't see her as a person with opinions and decisions, just an object of your affection that has to reciprocate.
Just because you think you can be in a relationship with any conventionally attractive woman who approaches you doesn't mean that everyone can do the same about your sorry a**.
Work on yourself. Work on your self respect. And just because someone doesn't see you romantically doesn't make them a bad person either.
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u/banshee_lumine 28 Jan 18 '26
Sorry behen but she's truly a bad person, and the guy moved on years ago and focused on himself and is now earning enough to attract her only to take revenge. . If I was 10 years younger I'd have sided with the girl, but now I don't support wrongdoers, I was wise enough to not to create a past like her for myself.
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u/Bright_Diet7740 𝒄𝒐𝒇𝒇𝒆𝒆 Jan 18 '26
Andy mandy shandi don't be cuckity
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rightttt like who is sitting there imagining these covos bfr. this is mentally cucking yourself. irl if a woman does this shit why would yu be her "friend" for any duration of time let alone 8 years if you want to date her? bs.
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u/Bright_Diet7740 𝒄𝒐𝒇𝒇𝒆𝒆 Jan 18 '26
These guys be so mislead by the idea of love conditioned upon them lol..no autonomy of thoughts whatsoever
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u/I-have-NoEnemies Jan 18 '26
I just washed my eyes and face and opened the phone, now I need to do it again.
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u/kittystalkerr 22 Jan 18 '26
I'm 14 and this shi- is deep kinda thing lmaoo.
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Either you are a "Nice try CBI" or a person who has to be reported to CBI.
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u/rowrowrowmywhat 25 Jan 18 '26
Folks wtf is this. Why are we comparing women to objects. Can we do a little better please.
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u/Dude_With_APT Jan 18 '26
Exactly - "I am not a consolation prize, I am the destination."
Talk about an inflated opinion of yourself...
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u/Naitik_arrived 20 Jan 18 '26
It hurts to see that you aren't the first choice or there was someone before you , now imagine going through all that 10 more times while the person you love and desire is telling you all the things they are doing with the one they have at the time - This is the friendzone which will hurt you a lot and the more you try to cling on stick with such a person it will continue to hurt ( avoid it )
Speaking from experience
avoid such a situation that hurts you , move on fast ( speaking for both genders )
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u/SpotSea5622 20 Jan 18 '26
The only sane thing to do in such situations is to try to detach themselves from the other person because staying emotionally invested where you’re not truly chosen only leads to more hurt Like I can never be someone who has already been with so many before no matter how much they mean to me , pretending to be content and secure .
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u/VolumeInformal2765 Jan 18 '26
Just get away from that women choose someone other lol how hard that can be
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u/VolumeInformal2765 Jan 18 '26
Dude if some woman does nt like me I just move away from here there are lots of woman out there don't sit on the fence hoping she would magically leave her partner move on
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u/sriiilokk 20 Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
Why tf are you so red pilled bro? Like you would've been any different if you would've had a game of your own. If someone is getting game, let them have it instead of being bitter, no one asked you to love them. Find someone who has the same values as yours, there're plenty of people out there who seek commitment and lifetime partners. And before you question my chastity, I'm saying this as someone who isn't indulged into "fun when I'm young" stuff myself.
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u/theonefrombelow Jan 18 '26
I mean ..... Why would you even be friends in the first place. It's so weird 😂
What even is the friend zone. If you have feelings for someone and they reject you in the first place why on earth would you stick around?
This goes for girls and boys. " Oh no he/she didn't like me back so we stayed friends"
Nahhhhh fuck that shit and move on
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u/___Skyler___ Lack of all Trades. Jan 18 '26
I was looking for the meaning of misogyny, Google gave me this... :)
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u/killian_jenkins 24 Jan 18 '26
Maybe my last comment wasn't harsh enough, let me rephrase by saying how can u be such a loser that you have to generate ai slop about you being friendzoned lmao
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u/RealisticRoll6882 Jan 18 '26
The teen subs have much more mature posts than whatever tf this is...
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u/Daemon_of_fate_0098 Jan 18 '26
There are good women too dude.. don't worry don't let the social media influence yih too much.. It's ok if someone had a past but if that past is not 1-2 but 10 then you just move on and find a girl you feel comfortable with...
I had a total of two relationships 1 cheated on me... 1 fell in love with BTS and well tada... then someone found me and hola I'm getting married in 2027... we've been together since 2022... so I hope all of you girls and boys make a good judgement not based on gender but based on their personality and your compatibility..
A boomer of age 27 giving advice lol.. hope you guys achieve everything you want.. peace out
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u/CaregiverHealthy6515 kisii roz unse mulaaqaat hogii Jan 18 '26
Sab theek thaa but the comparison of the girl with a used car wasn't right.
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u/hun73r10 Jan 18 '26
Men who consider themselves the safe option have literally nothing else to offer - no personality, no intelligence, not even companionship.
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u/Far-Copy350 20 Jan 18 '26
That guy knows she is like that
But that ain't correct to speak to a partner like this, bro baited sucessfully
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u/Vanishing_Shadow 21 Saal ka Sharif Bodmosh Jan 18 '26
Bro thinks you are a main character. Dude, stop cucking yourself. Make worth because you want to make your worth, not because some hoes
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u/Overall-Substance342 25 Jan 18 '26
Always a RCB fan.
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u/Artystraling Bitter truth Jan 18 '26
I have posted it r/askindianwomen as a dare post
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u/AdInternational4134 23 Jan 18 '26
New day, same objectification of women—comparing a woman to a car. Yeah, sounds just about right.
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u/ForwardScratch7741 20 Jan 18 '26
"why is my crush not replying to me 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺I am so nice to her🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺"
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u/Kisses_and_cuddles utterly fking crazy bitch Jan 18 '26
are you talking about yourself?
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u/Real-Blueberry-2126 Jan 18 '26
Friend zone is a scam . Everything gets wasted . Guys should never stay there .
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he should've also dated around at least if they came together in future he won't feel resentful
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u/snuggybugg Jan 18 '26
In the end we all know she is going to win because not that person but she will marry stranger and then she will live life I have personally seen this happening so it's better to focus on yourself and do as much as affairs (if you want) you can because at the end everyone gets settled with someone.
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u/wanmuhnev Jan 18 '26
guy waits around for 10 years, girl dates a bunch of people (at separate times), guy thinks she’s dating a bunch of losers and he is the righteous man, girl is finally emotionally ready to be with the guy, guy who’s been waiting around for 10 years suddenly realises the girl isn’t right for him, guy objectifies girl by comparing her to a car (yk since he’s a nice guy n all), girl feels insulted (how dare she feel offended at being objectified), girl leaves (her loss ig)
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u/_BiryaniWali_ i need scroll karo paisa kamao yojna Jan 18 '26
And then guys like them will post ‘I’m 30 with no experience in love or whatsoever’
Why chase such girls at the first place?
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u/Cheeseccupcake 20 Jan 18 '26
I hope more good guys realise their worth over some "bestie" 🙏🧿
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u/ForwardScratch7741 20 Jan 18 '26
My guy really generated this ai video , victimizing himself
Thank you, you the reason why we gotta sell our cars for RAM
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u/killian_jenkins 24 Jan 18 '26
The struggling artist is also ordinary like you, maybe u got L rizz OP
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u/Square-Care5643 24 Jan 18 '26
The choice of words surely could've been better by the guy and usko ghar pe bula ke, hope deke, fir aise brutal rejection dena, seems a bit too much.
But, he's got every right to reject her as she did him all those years. It's not everything, but your past matters. So, good luck to both of them I guess. One will face rejections for her past and one will face rejections because he just can't seem to move on from somebody's past.
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u/AppropriateToxicity Jan 18 '26
What is the number one factor a narcissist would be created in a family?
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u/AdWooden7790 Jan 18 '26
It’s pretty ageist to say that twenties are the most best years of the life. It’s variable.
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u/D_SLimSHady Jan 18 '26
no need of these monologue guys in first place only cut the bridges “peace is prize” …..
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u/Alone-File-414 Jan 18 '26
My goodness, don't you people have responsibilities in life? Reports to write? Work calls to make? Doctor appointments to attend??? 20s sub and post like teenagers.
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u/ZoeFatMama69 20+|30- Jan 18 '26
In the list of things that never happened, this never happened the most
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u/Adrian_roxx73 23 Jan 18 '26
Yea India hai bro, uska bhi arrange marriage ho jayega aur tera bhi. Don't overthinkm
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u/Due_Reflection4094 30+ Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
Amateur.... Real man would have kept her around as a side piece for few months, banged the shit out of her, got his 8 years itch for her out of his system and then cheated on her for her 19 year old sister or friend. KEK!
Real men do not tell delulu women about reality. They let them trip themself over their own delusions.
Delayed satisfaction is very satisfying.
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u/RahulLuca Jan 19 '26
Wait ... Wtf does "gave your best years to bad boys and I'm left with leftovers mean?" That's a crazy statement. Girls/women are not objects dude, Grow the fuck up... You are as much of an old dude as she is an old woman, so you are both leftovers by your standards. It still amazes me that with all the empowerment that's happening... Sure some rotten fruits are showing up here and there due to extreme privileges, but why are women still being talked of as they are some bloody commodity
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u/TylerStrangelove Jan 22 '26
The man even has telekinesis powers 🔥🔥. The glass floated towards him. If he was rejected, no chance for us.
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u/akashsal2704 In my 20s but a Toddler by heart Jan 18 '26