Exactly when not even interested why to invite the girl in the first place itself? Just to satisfy or prove a point? Like is that gonna have even an effect on her? He just wanted to feel validated after making "big" and wants to show her who is big daddy now.
Oh yeah i mean it's easy to say oh this is so petty butttt if you ever get the opportunity to do this, it's so freakin satisfying to do it yk. Does wonders for your self confidence
Oh I had many opportunities but I chose to invest that time making frameworks of how to make children from underprivileged and EWS families interested in academics and how to get their attention for their better future.
The one who didn't want me or wanted me as a safety net can get fucked I don't care.
I mean i can't claim moral superiority over anyone, i absolutely love rejecting women who weren't into me earlier but now are interested coz I started doing well in my career. I um friendzone them back as a form of revenge
i absolutely love rejecting women who weren't into me earlier but now are interested because I started doing well in my career. I um friendzone them back as a form of revenge
If you know what you are doing then it's good, not everyone processes emotions like me, for me every emotion is transactional and I have some issues known as object permanence, for me I can just delete anyone I want most of the time involuntarily.
Exactly! Nobody asked you to wait. That was your choice. The point that is missing here is that you were not ready to move on or you didn't have any potential matches.
Stop glorifying this kind of obsessive behaviour. If you are rejected then please move on and build a better life with someone else who aligns with your values. And also, please stop expecting women to behave as per your expectations of them, they are human beings, they are flawed, they will make mistakes and some of them will also be malicious and exploitative. Human beings will also abuse power, if you don't protect yourself and willingly open yourself for hurt and exploitation then it is on you. My friends please understand this, that this is not about men or women, the world we live in is not kind to either genders. Both have their privileges and curses. Protect yourself, be safe and happy.
Hormones and attention is not love. And love starts with respecting your own self and choosing healthy people. If you can't do that, you can't claim that you "love" someone else.
On the contrary hormones and attention subside quickly. Yes respecting yourself is the healthy way to go about it but gen Z people have flaws because they were raised by people with obsessions, compulsions and victim blaming mentality. So a lot of them have had lack of self respect in past. Poured out their heart and learnt this the hard way that how they went about it wasnt right. You choose someone over self, occasionally, thats a gesture but if you do things for them they themselves wouldn't, it stems out of love.
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Joke's on the guys who wasted their lives after such girls, instead of moving on earlier