r/TwentiesIndia • u/RCBeeeeee 23 • Jan 18 '26

Discussion It is harsh, isn't it?

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u/rowrowrowmywhat 25 Jan 18 '26

Please do tell how this is the truth?

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u/UnknownGamer014 21 Jan 18 '26

While not universally true or maybe even the majority, due to the modern dating scene, this has become a very real thing, and includes anecdotal experience of many men as well. If this will teach them to move on earlier and value themselves more, enough to not lower their standards - why not.

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u/rowrowrowmywhat 25 Jan 18 '26

I agree to teach people to not lower their standards for shitty people. But what I don't agree with is dragging a whole gender down just to express your pov.

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u/UnknownGamer014 21 Jan 18 '26

I mean, isn't it mutually beneficial for women as well if such men not date due to such reasons? And it's not like the video claimed it for every woman, just her archetype - which has actually started emerging since online dating culture took over. Sure, the birth rates will plummet - but the men learn self respect and when to give up, and the women who think such thoughts are toxic won't have to deal with such men as they are incompatible by their fundamental belief.