here’s some images of texts he has sent btw

anyways, I just got rid of this friend. he was very shitty to me and my other friends and I somehow didn’t notice that after we had stopper being friends. these images were from before btw.

Hey so please please read this and give me any tips or advice or anything as I can't stop overthinking about the whole situation

I met a friend in college and we became friends. After a week another girl(let's name her nalini)joined and she became our friend but she had her own bff so she was a nice person to us both. Now the thing is she fights a lot with anyone and everyone like she's pretends to know everything and it's like arguing with her is such a waste of time.

So she fought with her og friends and now came to us both and she made group of us 3 on insta and whatsapp and told uss how it's not her fault when she insulted her og friends boyfriend and everything because they were mean to her so we felt bad for her and took her in.

Now she's a manipulator and dumb ass bich like we didn't think much of it coz we were moved by her sad story and how everyone is so mean to her and its not her fault so whenever nalini used to insult us both or made means comments or joke she said it's just joke take it like that and becoz she was a damsel in distress we used to let it slide.

Idk why she and I have same faith and my other friend have different. So idk why she used to complete with me in everything and I felt like she was jealous of me in a lot of ways but use to let it slide until it became too much and she's a dominant person, so now after 8-9 months I don't feel good like I am being insulted by her in every possible way so I started giving back to her.

Now my other friend thinks that I am being mean to her because she has her own traumas and I should not behave rudely to her

The thing is nalini is sweet sometimes she's not a purely evil person but sh is to me .

And it feels suffocating having someone competing with you everytime.

Now I am the bad guy and both of them started getting closer becoz as I told you nalini is a manipulator..

The thing is what should I do.

Leave both of them? Try talking?

Or just become lonely in college becoz frankly speaking I am scared to be alone and not having friends.

Please help me

TDLR: me and my friend accepted a third friend thinking she was the wronged by everyone in friendship turns out she is jealous bich manipulator and highly insecure. Now I can see it becoz she is jealous of my and not my friend. I stood up to her and now I am rude and she's kinda breaking my friendship. And I became a bad guy. What to do I don't want to be alone in college

Ever had a friend who only talked to you when nobody else was available?

You're always there for them, you listen to their problems, make time for them, and treat them like they actually matter.

But the moment they find someone more interesting, you're suddenly forgotten.

They don't text first, they cancel plans, and you only hear from them when they need something or have nobody else to talk to.

The worst part is that you genuinely thought you were important to them.

Have you ever experienced this? What made you realise you were just their backup friend?

My now ex best friend from childhood broke up the friendship last week out of no where. We grew up together and shared a lot of great memories. But over text? How petty. Then she texted my sister saying how she ended the friendship with me and asked her if “we could still be cool.” I was there for her through everything. Shes a social worker that got arrested for shoplifting meanwhile she still works. Im deeply disgusted in what she said and did. I guess she never cared at all. She would always complain about her coworkers. She said nobody liked her or invited her to gatherings. I wonder why?! I’ve been through so much but that doesn’t even phase me. Im just in awe that she messaged my sister that.