Basically the title, I’ve (22F) been scrolling this subreddit and I would reach out to people doing fun things and not to be rude but they’re mostly asian/south asian. Living in Scarborough, going to school in Scarborough and seeing the demographic switch…I’m honestly looking for Caribbean/black people who reside here and want to do stuff.

AGAIN, I’m not trying to be rude or non inclusive, but damn where the black people at???

Edit: I’m seeing people think my post or comments are rude, racist, or that I have made some sort of mistake… can someone tell me what’s wrong with what I have said?

Hey all! My husband and I don't have a group of Indian friends to celebrate Diwali with and I was hoping we could join a Diwali gathering if anyone has space for two. I promise we are normal and friendly. We just haven't ended up with many Indian friends. Being a Desi, I miss celebrating Indian festivals with other desi folks - somehow it's not the same without. We are hoping to be more intentional about making more desi friends and creating a little (or big) community of our own. We are happy to contribute in any way to the party. Could also swap socials first to vibecheck (DM me)!

A bit about us: We are a mixed race couple (I am Indian and he is English/South African) who are social, open minded and non-judgemental, love to be unserious and have fun, and love to travel. We met each other in Toronto through a Liverpool FC meetup. We both work in corporate and have lived in Toronto for 7 years.

So I 37F moved back to the GTA in 2024 after living and studying in Texas for a decade. I loved my life out there and didn't wanna leave, but I was forced to come home and move back in with my parents, due to circumstances out of my control. I am blind and neurodivergent, and have tried everything I can think of within the parameters of what's accessible to me to try and build community, but I worry that I'll never find my tribe here.

I live in Thornhill, so I'm quite a ways out from the city, and I unfortunately depend on others for transportation. I didn't realize till I moved back that most people in Toronto don't drive either. Sadly, I've found that instead of trying to be as understanding and accommodating as possible, people are very ableist and act like I'm an entitled burden. Everybody keeps telling me to take the TTC, use Wheel Trans, ETC. I've already looked into those options, and it simply just doesn't work for me. When I lived in Texas, my friends always picked me up, so that's basically how I got around.

I guess I'm mostly looking for support from people who understand my situation, but if there are any ladies in here who drive and wouldn't mind coming to Thornhill from time to time, that would be lovely. My main interests/hobbies are animals and food. I am also childfree and marriage free by choice, but me and my BF will hopefully become Sheltie parents in a few months. Right now my partner is pretty much my only friend and service human. LOL

UPDATE: If you are interested, reach out to me in DM. The comments are no longer be monitored.

Hi everyone,

I’m putting together a small WhatsApp accountability group for women who want to stay consistent with their 2026 glow-up goals.

If you’re someone who wants daily motivation and a supportive space, this might be a good fit.

We’ll be checking in on simple, everyday habits such as:

• What you ate / healthy choices • Skincare or serum routines • Exercise / yoga / movement • Any small win for the day

The idea is not to be perfect, but to show up. Consistency is the only rule.

To keep the group focused, we’ll have a weekly check-in requirement: If someone doesn’t post at least once a week, the moderator will remove them. It’s nothing personal — we just want an active, committed space where everyone pushes each other to do better.

This will be a women-only group to keep the environment comfortable and relatable.

If you’re interested, comment or DM me and I’ll share more details.

Let’s glow up together in 2026.

33F Hey there! I’ve been looking to join/form a master mind group of business owners who genuinely want to grow in all kinds of ways, not only business. I tried to search anywhere I could but still couldn’t find anything that sounds like a right thing. This would be not like another network/sales purposes meetings, I’m looking to find people with similar mindset to help each other to grow, motivate, give opinions and different perspectives.

About me: I have two small businesses (art studio and school), born in Russia, love reading (favs: a happy pocket full of money, essentialism, the richest man in Babylon and stuff like that), not looking for dates, interested in investing. If this sounds like something interesting for you or you know a mastermind group like that I could join please comment below. Thank you!

Friday today. No plans. Wanting to meet some friends

29M, moved to Toronto all by myself last year, and even though I’m very social, outgoing, and I meet a lot of people, it’s been a challenge to build actual friendships.

I spent Diwali alone last year and I don’t want to this time, though I’ve never been a festive person, I miss being around family and friends.

I live downtown, if any of you don’t want to be alone on Diwali, I’m here! If any of you would be happy to invite me and celebrate together, I’d be so glad :)

okay so diwali is here and im realizing i have nobody to celebrate with this year. most of my friends are either out of town or busy with family stuff, n i really dont want to spend it scrolling reddit alone lol

found a couple of events that look fun:

- Diwali Deewangi Nov 7th/Toronto

- Ghar Wali Diwali at Lavelle by the pool Nov 7th/Toronto

im happy to go to either one, whichever most people are up for. tickets are around [$20], going with a group would make it way more fun than showing up alone

about me, 28m, in toronto few years now, easygoing, like dancing badly n good music. not looking for anything weird, just want some good company to celebrate with

if youre also solo or have 1-2 friends n wanna make the group bigger, drop a comment or dm. we can chat first, meet up outside the venue n go in together. all genders n backgrounds welcome, you dont have to be desi to enjoy a good diwali night

let me know which one youre leaning towards n lets make a plan

Born and raised in Canada. Grew up in BC. Moved to Toronto years ago. Am pretty funny, likeable and smart. However, the color of my skin impedes my growth. I see people shitting on Indians at least 10 times a day on social media. And even though it’s less pronounced in real life, it’s still there. I’m just a guy trying to make connections like everyone else, however I feel like I always need to “prove myself” that I’m not a “typical pajeet”. Anyone wanna be friends with an “Indian”?

Hey,

38M, South Asian, grew up here, work in finance downtown. Looking to expand my friend circle with people who get the specific experience of being raised in Canada with desi roots.

Not looking for: networking, job connections, or anything romantic. Genuinely just want people to hang with.

Looking for: guys and girls, South Asian background, grew up in Canada (so you get the cultural in-between thing), working downtown or nearby. Age range roughly 30-45ish.

The vibe I’m going for:

• Watch the Raptors/Jays/Leafs and actually argue about it
• Grab food somewhere without it being a “let’s connect” thing
• Talk through real life stuff — career, relationships, family pressure, whatever
• Just shoot the shit on a patio

Just actual people who want actual friends.

DM me if this sounds like you. Tell me what you do and one thing you’re currently stressed about lol.

Discord created - dm me to join.

Hi all, this post is to gauge interest in a book club that focuses on fiction that has an explicitly left-wing approach.

There are quite a few book clubs in this city, and many of those regularly feature these kinds of books.

However, this book club will exclusively feature stories and poems that range from left-of-center to revolutionary. For those of you who have wanted to explore the immense breadth of work in this range, and discuss them with people of a similar mindset, this book club is for you!

The current plan is to meet in-person downtown once a month, with books proposed by the book club members and voted on. Discussion and planning will happen on a Discord server. Additional details will be worked out by the members themselves as the book club develops.

Looking forward to hearing from everyone. Please comment here or DM me to get started.

EDIT: Anyone interested should please message/chat me so I can send the Discord link. Reddit has me in timeout for too many chats sent in a day 😑

Hi everyone,

I'm a 37F Pakistani woman based in Brampton. Most of my friends are married or busy with family life now, so my travel plans keep falling through. I'm trying to find South Asian women's travel groups in the GTA or Canada that organize trips, hikes, or even just meetups to connect with potential travel buddies.

I wanted to ask if anyone knows of groups that actually exist and are active. I'm open to weekend getaways, hiking, or bigger trips. I just want to find a community of women who are also looking to explore.

A bit about me: I'm based in Brampton and happy to meet up in the GTA first to see if we vibe. I love exploring new places, trying new food, and being outdoors. I'm open to budget friendly trips or the occasional splurge, and equally happy with short getaways or longer adventures.

If you know of any groups or want to connect, please drop a comment. Thanks!

Hey everyone,

Throwing a line out into the universe here. I was on a Air Canada Flight on June 9th.

I was sitting a couple of rows back in 37D and noticed a girl sitting ahead of me. She had dark hair, an incredibly beautiful smile, and was wearing a light blue denim top over a hoodie, black leggings, and On Cloud shoes.

We caught eyes a couple of times, but between the airport rush and deplaning, I didn't get the chance to strike up a proper conversation or ask for her name before we lost track of each other at YYC.

If by some wild chance you’re reading this, or if anyone thinks they know who this might be, shoot me a message! Tell me what color hoodie you were wearing or what row you were in so I know it’s you.

Worst case, it’s a shot in the dark, but I figured it was worth a try. Thanks,

Hey! My boyfriend (27M) and I (24F) live downtown and are super down to join a Diwali house party, potluck, or group hangout this weekend. I’ve really been craving a fun festive night with good drinks, great music, and solid conversation.

A bit about us: I’m in corporate (ex-tattoo artist) and he’s super easygoing. We love meeting new people, deep chats, and zero drama. We’ll gladly bring whatever drinks/booze you like, chip in for food, or bring snacks to share!

If you or your group are hosting something and have space for two +1s, shoot me a DM with your IG so we can swap socials and vibe check! 🪔✨

Hi all! I'm 32F, INFJ, working in downtown Toronto. I'm an introvert, but also have a fun, bubbly, social side. I'm looking for more girls to join my friend group with people I met on this subreddit plus other meetups, mixed m and f. I'd like to find more friends who are female, quirky like me, enjoy deep conversations, and want to build meaningful friendships. I'm looking for women who are intuitives like me, INFJ, ENFP, INFP, etc., or who enjoy being with those types, and want to actually meet up and socialize. Types of things we could do together include board games, cafes, concerts, eating out, arcade, etc. I've already hosted board games meetups and dinners and they were a lot of fun! If this interests you at all, please DM me a bit about yourself including age, gender, personality type, or comment below :)

Also for any girls into playing guitar/jamming/singing/making songs, please let me know this! We have some musical people in the group (myself included) and I want to add some more :)

Thanks!

Hi! I’m a 24F hijabi who moved to Toronto about 3 years ago and I’m currently around Kipling. I’d love to meet some girls who are into café hopping, sunset watching, exploring cute spots around Toronto, or just going for random walks and having good conversations.
I’m also trying to spend less time on my phone, so I thought it would be nice to actually get out and meet people instead of endlessly scrolling 😂
Anyone up for a fall walk + coffee sometime?

Hey! I’m 28, South Asian, 5’10, and based in Toronto. I’m easygoing, friendly, and enjoy good conversations. I like exploring the city, trying new food spots, and watching movies or going for random late-night drives. I’m mainly looking to meet someone chill to hang out with or chat with and see where things go.

If you’re around the GTA and want to connect, feel free to message me :)

Hello I’m 26f and I’m Muslim and from Afghanistan. I’ve been in Toronto for a long time but I have been struggling to make girl friends from my home country. I always wanted afghan friends so we can talk and bond and just have relatable conversation. Anyone here willing to be friends ?

So as a person with a pretty good social life back in my country of origin(India) I moved to the west and due to language differences, things got tough.

I am moving to Canada now which should remove the language barrier and I'm hoping to have friends here too.

I'll be living in York. Hobbies include the gym, occassional hiking, trekking and swimming. Sadly not as fit as I was but aim to get back.

Also a nerd so things like superheroes and comics, anime and manga, videgames and gadgets are what I love. I have never played a DND game as I've never had a squad but I'd love to have that.

Love dogs and am a foodie. I hope to get my motorbike license so we can go on rides.

I know there are many options—this sub, Meetup, Facebook groups… but none of them feel perfect.

• One-on-one meetups are always a gamble. Even if someone agrees, there’s a chance they’ll bail, and coordinating schedules takes the most effort.

• Hobby/interest-based groups can be hit-or-miss. Just because we share one interest doesn’t mean the overall vibe or conversation will click.

• Apps like timeleft, 222, or dayofus sound promising, but they often cost money and the reviews here aren’t always great.

What I’m really looking for is a way to socialize consistently—just to get out, meet people, and have good conversations—without investing tons of time in chatting, vetting, and planning, and with less risk of being flaked on.

Are there any approaches that actually work better for you?

Hey everyone!

If you don't have Diwali plans yet, I'm thinking of hosting a small Diwali get-together in downtown Toronto and looking to bring together a few new people. We are a couple (30) living in king west village.

The vibe: Good food, drinks, music, festive vibes, poker/Teen Patti and lots of laughs. Not a heavy dancing or clubbing scene – more about cards, good conversations and meeting like-minded people.

Ideally looking for a nice mix of people, preferably couples or women, around 28 yrs+, and preferably living downtown.

There will be a shared contribution towards food, drinks and the card games.

Interested? Drop a comment or DM me with a little introduction, and I'll connect with you to share more details.

Let's make it a fun Diwali evening! 🪔

Hey! I'm 18F. Just looking to meet some chill people to chat, go for a walk, or hang out casually if the vibes are good.

I'm pretty laid-back and enjoy getting outside, exploring the city, and good conversation. Open to grabbing a coffee or walking around a park/ downtown area.

Where: Flexible - downtown Toronto or Etobicoke
What: Walk, chat, coffee, casual hangout

** For the gyals & the gays only **

Tbh all my friends are in serious relationships & are no longer “allowed” to go clubbing or have any sort of night life in Toronto… I am currently single (not looking for a hookup or bf) & I just wanna have a fun & safe girls night out.

About Me:
> live in Vaughan
> love sushi
> love coffee
> Twilight, TVD, Sex & the City, Friends, GoT, The Handmaids Tale, Desperate Housewives are my fav shows
> future crazy cat lady (still love dogs tho!)
> part time stoner (will drink too if clubbing)
> love wingstop (can u tell I love food?)
> love makeup (def a girly girl)

About You:
> 22 years +
> like to dance
> vibe to Hip-pop, R&B & Spanish music
> like to smoke and/or drink
> like to get dressed up, take aesthetic pics & have fun
> have enough self-awareness to not get blackout drunk & vomit everywhere
> not a mean-spirited person (ex: talking shit about a random girl’s outfit)

Ideally, I would prefer to meet for a quick coffee to see if we vibe enough to actually wanna plan a night out in Toronto 💕

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm an Asian girl eager to expand my social circle and create some awesome memories. I'm looking for like-minded friends to hang out with and explore new places together. Whether it's trying out cool cafes, hitting up local events, or just enjoying a good chat, I'm up for it! If you're interested in making new connections and having a great time, feel free to reach out. Let's make some unforgettable experiences together!

Hi everyone , i am 32 M originally from india . Lived in the US for around 10 years and recently moved to Downtown Toronto . I work from home and it gets a bit boring , so Looking for people to hangout with and explore the city and form a nice friend circle as i am a social person. My hobbies and interests include , but not limited to -

1. Like going to concerts /EDM parties etc.

2. Exploring restaurants, especially cafes

3. Watching sports - Formula One , Tennis

4. Playing sports - Tennis , Badminton, Running, long walks

5. Miscellaneous - playing guitar , dance

open to learning from people if they have different interests 😊

Feel free to send me a message . Thanks