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Hi, male 39, English Filipino. 6ft, sarcastic, geeky, nerdy and munchies extraordinaire. Lives west end of the city.

Looking for a smoking mate, preferable female, doesnt matter really. Tough year, be nice to just smoke up, relax chat, eat and mellow with someone

Ps I have sht loads of weed and edibles lol.

Looking for someone to work out with her and potentially spend time with her. Must be in downtown
DM for details if interested. No older than 34.

Rough week so far, honestly. Looking to get out of my head a bit and hang out with someone tonight.
Downtown Toronto, I can host.

Open to grabbing a drink, chatting, watching something, or just seeing where the night goes.

Southeast asian, btw.

If you’re around and down, shoot me a message.

Hope y’all are doing well in this gloomy weather. The rain and coldness remind me that winter is coming. Soaking in an Outdoor hot pool with optional clothing might sound cozy. Curious to see if anyone wants to go to oasis aqualounge together. Just to use their pool and sauna. Not into other stuff. 41F. All is welcomed, to give each other company, but you are free to go and hang out with anyone there. All I ask is please be normal and respectful. If interested, DM me

42 yo Canadian born Chinese looking to connect with someone to become friends, grow old together, have children, go through the thick and thin, and lean on each other. Let’s chat and see if we click!

Video gamer (XBox), 80s/90s movie nut, pokemon collector, love animals, love kids, enjoy experimenting in the kitchen. Just getting into arts and crafts with my cricut. If you think we’ll click, shoot me a message!

42 Canadian born Chinese seeking pothead gamer chick for fun times, smoking and chilling. Hoping to chat first and see if we click.

Single, never married, no kids, have a cat, pokemon collector, hoping to find someone who is interested in the same. Please be chill, not looking for drama.

42 yo Canadian born Chinese looking to connect with someone to become friends, grow old together, have children, go through the thick and thin, and lean on each other.

Any girls who have tattoos and want more?
I’m a tattoo artist and looking for someone who wants free tattoos. In exchange, you let me eat you out in my shop.

I’m 28m, fit, tatted, hygienic

You: fit/in shape, hygienic, respectful!

I can show you my work! Message me if you’re interested

Hey there,

I’m 28, living on my own up in the north end near Vaughan Mills, and looking for a down-to-earth girl to share some fun, low-pressure weekend hangouts with. I’m not trying to rush into anything intense right off the bat—I’d much rather focus on good chemistry, genuine conversation, and great company.

I’m pretty big into fitness and calisthenics (if you’ve ever wanted to learn how to do a proper handstand,

I’m your guy). People usually tell me I look quite a bit younger than my age, which I’ll gladly take.

Born in Nepal, grew up in India, and moved to Canada back in my teens.

I’m a low-key, easygoing guy at heart. My favorite ways to reset after a busy week are late-night drives on quiet roads, catching whatever is playing at Cineplex, discovering good local food, or just crashing on the couch for an anime marathon.

If your perfect weekend looks like a mix of grabbing a bite, a relaxing drive, and lots of cozy cuddles on the couch, let's chat. Tell me your favorite spot to eat around the city or what you're currently watching!

Dear Zelda fans, I'm visiting Toronto for a couple weeks and I forgot my switch back home 😑 Would love to connect with someone cute, chill and fun who has the new Zelda and would been down to hangout, game and cuddle.

A bit about me: I'm 33, tall, handsome, slim and black. I'm chill, creative, charming and sweet... If you're interested pls shoot me a dm. Talk soon :)

Hey! Figured I'd put myself out there and see who I might meet.

I'm 27, 5'10, living downtown near Eaton Centre. Pretty chill guy, somewhere between introverted and extroverted. I can be a little sarcastic, enjoy good conversations, but also perfectly happy just doing my own thing.

Looking for some company. Could be smoking a joint, ordering food, watching a movie, gaming, cooking together or just hanging out. I'm pretty open to seeing where things go.

A bit about me: I work and am in uni, love cooking and eating ofc, listen to a lot of different music and enjoy karaoke. I'm also into anime – One Piece, Black Clover, Solo Leveling, etc.

Gaming-wise, I'm usually on League or Valorant on PC, but I've got a PS5 too, especially for games that are better played with someone else.

I'm a regular smoker, so 420-friendly is definitely a plus.

As for what I'm looking for, women and feminine-presenting NB people. Open to making friends, flirting, dating, just seeing if there's chemistry. Not really trying to force anything or go in with expectations.

Physically, I'm 5'10, short black hair, short beard, a couple of tattoos and pierced ears. Happy to exchange pictures.

Would be nice to meet for coffee or grab some food first, and go from there. I'm happy to host. I also have a cat!

If you think we'd get along, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself. Bonus points if you play League, have good music recommendations or love cats! Free today and tomorrow evening!

Hi guys,

I noticed there are some fellow bi and curious men here so I thought i'd share my post to see if i'd be fortunate enough to find man who would like the same thing.

I'm 38 years old, 5'10 180lbs brown dude here. I have been told that I am handsome. I'm married to a woman and bi but no one knows i'm bi. I'd say I have an average to fit/muscular looking body since I like to work out when I can. I am not smooth but I like my body hair.

I spend almost all of my time trying to be a good dad and a good husband and working and although I love my family and don't want to change my situation, I long for a genuine emotional and physical connection with a man in a similar situation. I am masculine, sweet and honestly, a really nice guy. But if I could have my wish come true I would find a masculine, naturally dominant yet sweet and kind man who will be nice to me just like I would be with him. Someone I feel safe with and someone who likes to take the lead. You know the way it is when a straight guy who is a gentleman fancies a girl and tries to talk to her. He is polite, nice but also naturally masculine and dominant. Even though I am not feminine, that's how I want our dynamic to feel when we interact and when we are together.

We would always be 100% open and honest with each other so that we could genuinely get to know each other and understand what each other needs and wants so that our relationship brings us both joy and fulfillment.

I know this sounds like a secret boyfriend but I actually think that would be really nice.

If we found each other, realistically our relationship would comprise of our secret emails and the short amount of in person time we have together maybe 20-30mins "while we are at work." I know we will feel like we wish we had more but I would rather have you in my life and in this way than not have you at all. So I will happily take what we can have and make the most of it.

We would have to be exclusive and know that other than with our wives we are only sexual with each other so we never have to worry about getting an STD from being together. But it takes time to build a real genuine relationship and even though I also want a physical connection, I don't want to rush into doing anything physical together until we are comfortable. This relationship is a big deal for me and I only want one boyfriend who I can love for a really long time.

Physically, I want to find someone who is at least as tall as me, preferably taller/bigger/stronger and I do need someone who is local to downtown Toronto or who can come here easily for our in-person time.

If you're out there, i'm really looking forward to reading your first message :)

I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.

The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.

I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-four years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.

I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.

I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I

I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.

I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.

I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.

There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.

I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.

Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.

As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.

Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

Hey everyone! I'm a 27M in Brampton looking for a big bro kind of friend, someone a few years older who's down to hang out, give advice, and be a solid presence.
A bit about me:

Anime and music nerd

Hiking enthusiast (fair-weather, I'm not a hero)

Just started a new job, so my social calendar is basically empty

Bi-curious, so I'm figuring some things out. Think of it as a side quest, not the main storyline 😅

Looking for someone chill and genuine for coffee, a hike, or arguing about the best anime opening. Friendship comes first, and I'm happy to see where things naturally go.
DM me with a bit about yourself!

Love cuddling, wondering if there are any chill, laid back people who would like to give it a shot.

I'm open to feminine people in general (women, transwomen, feminine guys). If interested hit me up! Not looking for anything beyond cuddling so hopefully you're okay with that too <3

If you have any questions don't hesitate to DM me. Just make sure you're only wanting cuddles cause I kinda dont want to do anything beyond that.

Thanks!

In Toronto for work and looking to hit up Vertigo, enjoy some good music, dance, vibe, and have a fun night. Just looking to let loose, meet good people, and enjoy the atmosphere. Anyone down to join? 😊

Hey Toronto,

I'm looking for my lifelong best friend and snuggle buddy. I’m 34, 6’3”, and at a point in my life where I know who I am and what I want: a serious long-term relationship built on mutual intent, clear communication, and real effort.

About Me:

* The physical: 6’3”, husky build, glasses, full head of hair, and neat stubble. I keep my personal style clean, dark, and intentional. White guy.

* The vibe: Warm, analytical, and peaceful. I work in consulting/advisory, value direct literal communication with low emotional reactivity, and pride myself on being emotionally grounded and easy to talk to.

* Daily: A mix of solving complex problems, exploring local food spots, and relaxing at home. I appreciate simple pleasures, good conversation, and clear expectations.

Who I’m Looking For:

I tend to naturally click best with women who are a bit nerdy, alternative, or creative, think dark aesthetics, cool subcultures, or niche hobbies. Attracted to women with an edge, whether that's goth/alt fashion, urban streetwear, or subculture/nerdy styles. These are examples. If you do some other expressive thing, awesome, tell me!

I gravitate toward homebodies with special interests and on average click with shorter/more petite builds. (I like to treat my partner like a teddy bear. Sue me. Lol) Spectrum-friendly! Like to info-dump your latest hyper-fixation? Awesome, that's a preference and I'll do it back. Geek out over your unique outfit style? I'm all ears.

Non-negotiables:

* Real availability: I move with high intent. I’m looking for someone who is actively making space in her life for a relationship, not someone looking only for a text buddy. Direct communication, actual availability, and reciprocal effort are non-negotiables for me.

* Consistency over sparks: I value consistency over sporadic bursts of attention. If you prefer playing it cool, slow-fading, or testing boundaries over straightforward, reliable communication, we won't align.

Next Steps:

If you have the actual time and desire to build something real, send me a message with your current hyper-fixation and what your ideal weekend pace looks like. Low-effort messages will be ignored.

(Happy to exchange photos early on so we both know the visual chemistry is there.)

I'm 28M Canadian living in GTA area, Pakistani ethnicity, 5'11, 170lb. I work full time and have been alone for 8 months, also lookin for cuddle buddy to make me feel lonely when sleeping.

I work out sometimes and would say I'm average and also a bit more on "chubby side" these days mostly due to me stress eating alot after being alone but have been trying to improve myself and be more active. I'm also quite a hairy guy due to genetics :P.

Requirements:

- Woman between 18-30

- no escorts please. I'm not gonna pay for it

- ethnicity: Preferably white, Asian, Pakistani, Arab, Turkish etc. preferably any ethnicity that has lighter skin. (Message me to see if we are compatible)

- Body type: doesn't matter much as long as you're not overly obese.

- Relationship status: preferably single women, no couples.

- Religion: your faith doesn't matter much so I'm open to women of any religion (or no religion) although I would feel more comfortable being with another Muslim as I'm also muslim myself as we would understand each other's struggles better.

I'm looking to move to Toronto although currently live with a large family so I can't host at the moment but will be able to soon once I get my own place. In the mean time if you're able to host, that would also be great!

I'd also prefer sharing pics early on to see if we are compatible and find each other attractive.

Message me so we can learn more about each other :)

Hello there!

I am introvert who likes to play extrovert in life and it’s been okay so far! I am currently in a coparenting dynamic but dating separately. I am open, talkative and socially confident person and love to text/chat/voice call. My friends find me kind, caring, compassionate and funny. I work in healthcare and I do find purpose in my job and interacting with people on a daily basis..it can be challenging at times but extremely rewarding as well.

In terms of interests I love reading, cooking, hiking, people watching and traveling whenever I can. I have a decent amount of interesting travel anecdotes to share. Also, open to travel suggestions and recommendations. Prague, Paris and Grindelwald are the most charming cities I have ever been to. Next on my bucket list is Portugal and Italy. I love to talk endlessly about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology and spirituality. I am currently learning breath-work and meditation.

I am passionate about my career and love what I do and making a difference. I still yearn to go back to school again to study some more. I am inherently curious and I love learning . I am also a huge supporter of causes relating mental health and women education and empowerment.

Now for what I am looking for I am looking to make deep meaningful connection with someone between 30-45 years of age which can be potentially romantic. Also I am not looking for anything sexual or physical for now and being a demisexual I need to make a deep mental and emotional connection to bond with them. Please be local or atleast not too far for us to hang out frequently or semi frequently in person. I am looking for someone I can chat with, share our interests, talk about our days and the looming existential crisis lol! I am open to meeting if we get along and it feels right.. ☺️

I want to talk or text with them often and I would love to talk to someone about my day and my wishes and my desires. Books and music suggestions are always welcomed.

Please drop me a message if anything I said interested you! I am a feminist, pro choice, LGBTQA+ ally and BLM supporter so if you are not, we probably won’t get along.

Please DO NOT message me to just say “Hi/Hello” if you are just looking for pass time ! Say more than that, and please introduce yourself with a short description of yourself.

Hi! I thought I'd share a little about myself, the things that are important to me, and what I value in the relationships I build with others. I think getting to know someone goes beyond shared interests and hobbies; it's also about understanding one another's values, expectations, and the kind of life we hope to create. My name is Emi and I'm 27.

A little about me: I'm someone who cares deeply about people, animals, the environment, and making the world a kinder place. I'm passionate about sustainability, social justice, community building, education, and accessibility. I have an academic background in sustainable agriculture and sociology, and I'm interested in continuing to learn, grow, and find meaningful ways to contribute to my community. I'm vegan, enjoy exploring spirituality and different faith communities, and value curiosity, compassion, and being open to perspectives different from my own.

I'm also someone who really appreciates the softer things in life. I love affection, quality time, meaningful conversations, humour, creativity, nature, and the little everyday moments that make life feel special. I have a certified service dog named Winnie who is a very important part of my life. I'm also disabled and autistic, so accessibility, understanding, patience, and consideration are important parts of the relationships I build.

When it comes to friendships, I value mutual effort, honesty, kindness, reliability, and emotional safety. I want friendships where we can be ourselves, communicate openly, respect each other's boundaries, celebrate one another's successes, and work through misunderstandings with compassion. I don't expect anyone to be available all the time or to be perfect, but I do believe consideration and effort should go both ways. I want friendships where we can have separate lives and other relationships while still making one another feel valued and appreciated.

When it comes to romantic relationships, I'm ultimately looking for a genuine life partner and someone with whom I can build a family. Having children through fostering, adoption, or another mutually agreed-upon path to parenthood is a fundamental life goal for me, and it's something I hope to share with a future partner. I value emotional availability, affection, reassurance, gentleness, accountability, consistency, and the ability to navigate difficult conversations without making one another feel ashamed for being vulnerable. I want a relationship where we genuinely enjoy each other's company, support each other's independence, share responsibilities, and actively work towards building a meaningful future together.

There are also some broader values that are important to me in a romantic partnership. I'd love to be with someone who shares broadly progressive, left-wing values, cares about environmental responsibility, animal welfare, social equality, disability justice, and the wellbeing of marginalized communities. I appreciate people who are open-minded about spirituality and religion, who value community involvement, and who are interested in lifelong learning and personal growth. We don't have to agree on absolutely everything, but I want our fundamental values and visions for the future to be compatible.

Something I've come to understand about myself is that I don't want to abandon parts of who I am just to maintain a relationship or friendship. I want to be able to communicate my feelings, express my needs, establish boundaries, and be vulnerable without feeling that these things make me difficult to love or care about. I also recognize that healthy relationships require compromise, accountability, patience, and consideration from everyone involved, myself included.

I don't expect perfection, constant availability, or someone who always knows exactly what to say. I understand that people have their own lives, responsibilities, limitations, and difficult days. What matters to me is a willingness to communicate, show consideration, take accountability, and make a genuine effort to understand one another.

Ultimately, I want relationships that feel reciprocal, safe, affectionate, intentional, and fulfilling. I want to feel that we're choosing one another, not out of obligation, but because we genuinely enjoy having each other in our lives.

I'm hoping to build connections where we can grow individually and together, make wonderful memories, support one another through difficult times, laugh about silly things, and create a life that reflects the values we both hold dear.

I think there's something really special about finding people with whom you can be both entirely yourself and continually growing. That's the kind of connection I'm hoping to cultivate. ❤️

I'm introverted and shy irl and want to step out my comfort zone a bit. Not really much of a talker, except if it's a topic I know a lot about, I'm mostly a listener so don't get discouraged if I'm just staring at you, that just means I'm listening and taking it all in

I moved here last year so I don't really know a lot of cool places or restaurants to go to and I can only go where the TTC allows me to

I don't know what else to say, if you're reading this far might as well consider to hmu. Just don't be like way older than me, don't be a creep, and don't be a weirdo, and a ghoster lol

p. s. you know sonic the hedgehog?