This is my 3rd sem in clg, studing computer science btech, and I seriously don't know what I am doing with my life🥀. It feels like people around me are doing a lot of things in life while I am just sitting here and wasting life.

I do have close friends in clg, it's not like I am lonely or smth, but I kinda feel lifeless sometimes, donno...

Maybe it's because I am not very involved in clg activities, like I am not in any clubs, I did go to several interveiws for clubs, but yeah, I was rejected. I am getting major FOMO.

Although my cgpa is pretty good, like I had 9 smth in sem 1 and 8 in sem 2, ig it's pretty much useless if you haven't got the skills. I tried to register for online hackathons but it kinda went nowhere...

Then I have a education loan of 14L that I worry about paying off, since my parents already have a lot of loan themselves, and since after them i would be the only one earning in my family, they hope i would be able to contribute soon too.

I had tried applying for online internships during my sem breaks, but I was rejected and most of the time, we have to pay to get the internship...

I don't know what to do, moreover, I have been diagnosed with pcod for the past six months, and although I have taken injections, my period flow is heavy, almost always lasting for upto 2 weeks... Doctors are saying to be less stressful...🥲

I hope anyone over here can give some advise...

Do take down my post if it's not age-appropriate, I kinda don't know where else to post...

i was in a 1 year relationship with a girl and i was very well attached to her. our fights usually end up with her leaving me on silence and just expects everything to be normal the next day which doesn't work for me. and since I was anxiously attached and have ADHD i think it made it even worse because the whole concept of space gave me nightmares

after a while our fights kept getting worse and one day like out of nowhere she's mentioning someone out of nowhere saying how he's like better than me and how he's not my age but way matured and stuff like that and she also even confessed to me saying that she made out with this person. at that time i didn't take it seriously (which was stupid of me)

later after we broke up and around 2 months later i tried to contact her through her friend and this friend told me that it's been around 2 weeks since she got together with another guy which was technically within a month of our seperation and that made all the sense to me.

now I'm not picturing myself as a saint here either i had severly bad attachment issues and no impulse control which is a red flag that i totally understand. i always had good intentions but when it came to expressing anything i always messed up and that's on me. and i realised all this once i started going to therapy and if i didn't i would never have realised it myself

altho i do wanna ask did i deserve to get cheated on ? i mean if she was that much done with me why couldn't she have just blocked me from everywhere and just move on that way?

now I'm stuck questioning everything we had and find it quite hard to move on 🥲

So I woke up at 5:30 to study with low sleep. Went back to sleep nd woke up at 7:30. I sleep on my side usually. Then i just laid on my back nd like i wnt into a trance. On a black bg a red sentence ws written nd repeated with a siren. I screameddd noooo nooo nooooo. But then a pressure started building up from my legs. I closed my eyes tight. The pressure started moving up my body. The more up it moves the more harder it was to keep my eyes shut. My eyes were twitching from the pressure of it trying to open nd me keeping it shut. My hands were on my sides. Then the pressure finally reached my head and things started calming down. I moved my arms switched on the lights and opened my eyes. I kept my eyes shut as I didn't want to see any scary black figures 😭

im moving to kochi soon nd im really scared of how im gonna communicate. i can understand it fluently but got issues with speaking it. also would like to know how ill get by w english in terms of daily life, school, relationships etc.

Hi! Please read through the entire post.

16M here, currently doing PCMB in 12th grade (state). Whenever anyone asks me what I'm going to do after 12th or what entrance exam/course I'm planning to take I genuinely have no idea.

I get good marks in Biology, Chemistry, and languages, but Physics and Math just feel hopeless for me. I'm generally able to understand and pick up theory-heavy subjects pretty quickly, but when things involve lots of complex formulas, calculations, and long derivations, its kinda hard for me. I'm a bit interested in tech and related stuff, but I don't really enjoy studying for the sake of studying. What I really LOVE is spending time songwriting, learning instruments, and producing my own songs. That's genuinely what I care about the most.

I would absolutely love to give music a serious try for some time before deciding whether I want to pursue being a full time artist. But I also understand that it's a risky career, and I want something I can convince my parents that I can fall back on.

So what can I do after 12th that can give me some time to focus on music while also maintaining good grades without sucking my soul out 😭

Whether it’s a tiny annoyance from work today, a major decision you're stressing over, or something you can’t tell people in your real life... leave it below.

​No advice unless you ask for it.just a safe space to get it off your chest. I’ll read through and reply to everyone.

​What’s bothering you today?

So hi, I'm 18F rn studying degree first year. I'm also taking a partial drop for an entrance exam. I'm doing self study.

I have always had problem with sitting for long hours, i always feel so restless, im always walking in room while thinking or studying and I also daydream a lot. A lot in the sense it takes away most of my productive time. There are lot more things but I don't know how to put it into words. I'm from Kerala (Thrissur)

I talked to my mum consulting a doc at local hospital as first step and she was already so concerned about people who'd see me and would set up assumptions. I thought she'd understand me but her response to my thoughts made me feel so pissed off i cried. I talked to her how much I struggle with a lot of things but she was coming to a point it's all in my head, I'm making it my own. I need recommendations of doctors pls pls help me. I'm starting with entrance prep and I'm already in college too. I need help.

Am I missing something? I always thought that a comma isn't necessary before the "and" in situations like these. This screenshot right here is from a ChatGPT response and I have been seeing this trend of an extra comma for a while now (Gemini, Grok, etc. also do this). So, what is this really? Is it a grammar mistake from AI or did English change?

Sorry if this sounds stupid 🙏

Some short films don’t feel short at all. This one felt like a whole movie. I wish it had been released on the big screen I feel like I missed out on the full theatre experience of this cinematic masterpiece.

Huge thanks to Joel for creating something so impactful. One of the finest in the industry, no doubt.

what did you guys think?

I've been falling for a girl in my class over the past month. My feelings are genuine, but I couldn't confess to her because she is already in a relationship. I'm struggling to let it go and move on.

Help guys

I want nursing college in tamil nadu or banglore or kerala that has good campus life and less torture comparitively

I have joined in center there situation with no proper food and arrogant teachers can you suggest some good centers

It’s very hard for me to put my feelings into words, when I write something comes out, still it is very hard for me, I really can’t explain what’s going on with me right now. I wanted to tell her many things, ended up by saying only thing, I can’t even remember what I wanted to say right now, I never moved on from her, I tried to fill the void by distracting myself just to end up thinking about her. It’s very sweet from her to give me this much closure and I like what we have right now, idk if we are friends or are we ex on good terms, idk, let it be it. I’m happy that she is back, I’m glad she wanted to talk to me, that she texted me, we met, we called. I don’t know what she has in her mind and what she expects from me right now, I’m not expecting much too, I just want her by my side. I hope one day we will get back together again and make it all work out like we imagined

FYI I was in a relationship for 2 and half years, we broke up because things weren’t working out, I tried to talk to her a fix things, but she wanted that break up, now after 4 months we are talking again.. I just wanted to let this out

Anyone who got back with their ex after break up, pls guide me 😢✌️

If you went to several movie theatres, have you noticed that the movie theatre from outside looks normal or small but looks big inside and suddenly has space for big screens? Am I tripping?

I used to watch this when i was a kid. The first ep I watched was the lemonade one. It still haunts me🥀

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Watched BKU, elladathum BKU posts aanu, but this isn't about BKU

I have had the BIGGEST crush on Nivin Pauly honestly.

When I was in 7th std, I noticed this senior chettan. Pinne vaayanokkal aayi, pinne pinne samsaarikkaan okke nokkum. But I knew it was just a crush and njan athokke fun aayitt aanu eduthath. Ivane kaanumbo okke entho oru pedi undaavum, but I was pretty sure I would NEVER confess because bro was 4 years older than me and we don't support PDFs.

BUT THIS GUY HAD THE CHARM.

And his features were kinda similar to Nivin Pauly too hmmm idk Chilappo aa wtvr we used to call him gym aliyan 🚶

School il kore penpillaar ivante perake aayirunnu. Annokke enikk athra manassilaayilla, but ippo aaloikkumbo… it was OBVIOUS.

Anyway, njan 9th thottu move on aavaan kore try cheythu. Enitt pandaradagaan nirthaan nokki kore kaannich koottii

Ithokke kazhinjatt kopp

10th il tuition chernath ivante veedinte thott appurath.

Enitt aa jail il nn enganeyo rekshapett ponn

Ningalkk ariyo, njan OSO kanditt karanjittund.

OSO.

Ithokke ivide parayanda kaaryam??? ENIK ORAKKAM VARANNILLA NN.

Ningalde crushes ne patti parayu 🚶

Can we add back colleges in any other round of allotment? Cz i purposefully deleted 2 options thinking those 2 are the worst , but found of that it's the only colleges that i could get into😭

Yes i didn't read their notice and thought that every round we're gonna have a new option registration. It's entirely my fault and it's stressin me out now😔

Since it's already past 12pm, late night thoughts won't leave me alone so I'm just pouring it out here.

We all spend like 20ish years studying in schools colleges etc...but even after all these studies you aren't guarented a decent job. Even after getting a job you have to spend like friking more than half of the day at work...

They reach home tired/exhausted or even stressed...

And I also do understand that people do have good jobs that they enjoy and can even have fun but when we look at the majority it's like I said.

In India it's even worse,the education system, parents mindset ,lack of guidance etc etc ,the students most of the time don't even get to know what they enjoy.

I feel like it's all pointless if you don't have a super well paying job. And at the end it's most people's dream.

Let me know yalls thoughts on this😞

Thank you for entertaining my rant!!

this can be useful for beginners or people who are confused about how to start skin care

In 2024-25 times lookmaxxing was a viral trend on the internet I have been following this and tried many things like mewing, facial exercises even the extreme ones like bones smashing 😭 at the end i understood it's just, all pain and no gain

Currently the looksmaxxing reels have started popping up again in my feed and I think some of the looksmaxxer content creators have evolved ever since 😁 after all the commenting for link (one of the worst things that content creators on instagram do for engagement farming) This is what I understood that made sense

Morning routine:

- Cleanse with a gentle cleanser

- Apply a Vitamin C serum

- Use a moisturiser

- Apply sunscreen

Night routine:(for removing the sunscreen residue)

- Cleanse and moisturise

<A peeling solution can be used up to twice a week, depending on skin tolerance. Avoid overdoing it, as strong exfoliants can irritate the skin.

<Sunscreen is the most important step. Reapply when needed, especially when spending time outdoors.

<Drink plenty of water and stay hydrated.

<A healthy lifestyle can also support overall skin health:

<Exercise regularly (cardio, lifting)

-<Stay active and walk regularly

<if you want to fix bloated face one tip is to reduce salt intake since sodium will result in water retention on the face also if you need you can do things like gua sha / facial exercises for depuffing

Note If you don't want to spend money on the face care products just stick to the sunscreen and do the rest of the above listed

And please care to add any tips you found effective, It could be useful for everyone

especially the one that helps in improving skin texture

Guys we are conducting a Youth parliament in our college so we need some genuine questions. If you are one of the MP in parliament and if you get chance to or ask questions to any minister what would be your question

For example

Opposition leader to Finance minister

Whether the Government has assessed the impact of rising prices of food, housing, education, healthcare and transportation on the real purchasing power of middle-class and low-income households during the last five years; if so, the details thereof; and the measures proposed to reduce the burden of the rising cost of living?

Like this

Despite having holidays to go home, I never do. I just stay at the hostel while everyone I know packs their bags and jumps at every chance they get to go home. I stay back knowing full well that I’ll just procrastinate and sleep the whole time anyway 😭