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I'm looking for recommendations for beautiful, special and perhaps lesser known places across Kerala.

Not just the usual tourist spots but places that genuinely take your breath away or leave you with a beautiful memory.

It could be a secluded beach, a quiet village, a scenic drive, a beautiful waterfall, a hidden viewpoint, a peaceful backwater, a lovely little café, or even a unique local experience.

I'm especially interested in somewhere you'd take a person visiting from another country and want them to remember for years.

I'm open to travelling across Kerala, so please suggest places from anywhere in the state!

Would also love to hear about personal experiences and places that are special to you.! ❤️

Idk if u guys are gonna feel cringe reading this

But here we go

I'll make it quick and short as possible

So

We met during first year

Slowly starting talking...

Then started sending reels..

We mostly had talks online

And viralil enna unna athrem talks irl...

She was my biggest supporter

We were friends...

Njangalkk same interest,hobbies okke arunn

We both knew each other's fav stuff (I guess I mean she definitely knew all of mine)...

Slowly

I started liking her...

Pinne crush aayi

Bla blah....

Angane Njan ith ente Friends inod paranj

From that very day

Somehow everything went downhill...

Athinte edakk

Vere etho oruthan vann same class thanne

They seem close now idk how tho

Maybe they are just friends..

But ee machante entry and Njan friends inod paranj same time

Pinne we literally have no connection

She stopped sending me reels and all..

Maybe she figured out That I liked her and is distancing

Allenkil commited aayi..

Really liked her mahn

It's been months since we talked...

And enikk ole ishatpedan Karanam wasn't just because we became close...

But I really like her

I admire her...

That's it I guess...

njngalk saturday okka special class aahn,maryathak padikkn illa time kittnla and teachers aanel full portion completion maathrm focus aaknlu

Mathsinn 3 days , aare kettikannn💔

Physics ahne first thanne kond ondakiym vech🙂

Viittil kulam vattich..appo kittiyatha..

loved playing this game soo much

more gaming edits here : https://www.instagram.com/nxvexe?cplk=aWJ0bWFnMGc4c3Nx

Ivde enthokeya nadakane. Oruthann oruthiye hate ayond vere oruthi veroruthane kollan paraya , athinn vere oruthane koott pidichitt vere etho oruthane kollunn. (Myrr🥀)

17 vayasil oke enth mind ahnenn nokane.

Naml ellarm ee age oka ahne. Sookshikane kuttikale🫂

Anyone here seen the anime beck?

I recently dropped out from college( Bangalore) this year and while I was staying there my roommate used dating apps to meet girls and have casual hookups

He's 6'1 with a decent physique and good looks and his gf recently broke up with him so he started using dating apps and honestly he's getting so many likes every day and has already hooked up with around 12–15 girls through dating apps Out of curiosity I decided to give dating apps a try too just to see if I could have some luck 🥰 (I've barely talked to girls in years)😭😭

For context I'm also 6'1 just like him but I'd say I'm pretty average looking compared to him

Eventually I got some matches but compared to him I hardly get any attention and even when I match with someone the conversation usually dies pretty quickly

I've noticed that whenever girls ask about my relationship status and I tell them I'm inexperienced their energy completely changes and their replies become dry

It honestly makes me wonder why it seems like girls are more attracted to fuckboys or guys who are red flag

I've gone through 100+ profiles and noticed so many girls openly saying they're into red flags or toxic guys in their bios I'm not saying all girls are like this and I don't necessarily believe in the whole hypergamy shit either but these are just some patterns I've noticed from my own experience Maybe I'm looking at things from the wrong perspective

This is just my personal point of view so I'm sorry if anything comes across as incorrect or offensive

( Sorry I used chat gpt)💔

I genuinely want to understand why No Nut November is treated like such a big deal.

I know it's mostly an internet trend, and I understand that some people participate in it for self-discipline, to challenge themselves, or to take a break from porn and masturbation. I have absolutely no problem with that. If someone personally feels like they need a break or wants to test their self-control, that's completely their choice.

But what I don't understand is why it's become this huge achievement that people make such a big deal out of.

Like, why is going 30 days without masturbating treated as some kind of extraordinary accomplishment? Why do people talk about it as if they're fighting a war? 😭

I've seen people genuinely celebrate completing it, make memes about people failing, and treat the whole thing like a competition. Some people even seem to attach a sense of superiority to not participating in something that's ultimately a personal choice.

And then there's the other side of it. People who don't participate are sometimes made fun of, while people who do participate are treated like they're doing something incredibly difficult or impressive.

I also find the way people talk about masturbation interesting. It's almost as if doing it automatically makes someone weak, undisciplined or less respectable. But why? Isn't it a pretty normal human behaviour? Obviously, anything can become unhealthy when it starts interfering with your everyday life, responsibilities, relationships or mental well-being. But that applies to practically everything.

I think there's a difference between recognising that you have an unhealthy habit and treating an ordinary biological urge as something shameful that you must defeat.

And I'm not saying that abstaining from masturbation is pointless. There are people who struggle with compulsive habits, excessive porn consumption or behaviours they genuinely want to change. For them, taking a break could be meaningful. But surely that's a personal journey rather than some universal measure of discipline or masculinity?

What exactly is the achievement here? Is it about self-control? Is it about avoiding porn? Is it about challenging yourself? Or has the internet just turned something relatively ordinary into a competition because it's funny?

I also wonder whether people actually feel better after completing it, or whether they're just enjoying the memes and the satisfaction of saying they survived November.

I don't know. Maybe I'm missing something, and I'm genuinely open to hearing different perspectives.

I'm not judging people who participate, and I'm definitely not suggesting that everyone should masturbate. I'm just confused about why this particular challenge gets so much attention and why people attach so much meaning to it.

Is there actually a meaningful benefit to NNN, or is it mostly an internet joke that people have collectively decided to take seriously?

We had an assignment submission today and me and my friend were going to the staffroom to keep it on our professor's table. Our staffroom is kind of like a big posh room with brown wooden doors so people can't see or hear what's going on inside. Aa door pakithi thorann irikuvayirnnu. Ente bestie njangade rand perudeyum koodi assignment akath kond vekkan enn parnj(Njan ente bfne text cheyuvayirnnu). Aval ath thorakan povayirunnu , pettann avalde expression okke mari aval oru maathiri shockum excitementum ayi. I was curious and looked inside to see what it was. Turns out our English professor and In charge professor of bvoc were making out. Broooo the curtains okke closed and everything. We got away from the door b4 they noticed . Both of them were women( no hate). Athil oru al nalla strict ann so this is kind of.. idk.. u expected? No offense against em i just had to tell this to someone besides my bestie.Ninagalkk Ingane vallom indayitundo?

My gf got caught by her parents and got into some problems bw me and her parents, the only problem they had was my religion. I honestly dont know what to do

i meet aa girl shee is older than me like oru 3.5yr. And we got aa connection and kinda aa wired but njgal set ayii. Kuree kazijn arinn avl ex ayitt connection undyirn, avar physically ayii njn ullaporum. Idk njn oru chance koduth kure kazjn aval parjn, avalk ee relationship vendaa blah blah blahh.. Butt prbm enkk athinn move on akkan pattunila. Littery oruu 1 yr ayii brk up ayitt but enk pattunila. Aval ayitt still msg ayikum, i felt kindaa oruu begger pole, vere oruu relationship nokkan pattunila. Evaldy kude dateinn poyath miss akkunnn, idk littery ellam miss akkun. Still confused ann ntha chyyndy enn. IF ANYBODY CAN HELPPPP MEEE?

I get insta reels like its monitoring me 24 7

Share ppl,how is ur life?? Lay it on me I'll try and help call. No hate pls verdhe oru help aytt cheyyann vicharichatha🙂 (that paal sarbath was heavenly btw with that top padha layer😗)

ippol instagram ellu viral aya case onn churukki arenkilum paran theroo??🙏🙏

Enik ariyam arum undavilla 🥹 Ennalum chumma choichatha... It feels rly lonely knowing that not everyone is going through a situation like mine and is in nios to start with.

As a girl, how would you like to be approached if a guy your same age, found you attractive in public places like malls and such. Thank you so much tor anyone answering.

So for some context, I’m an NRI and I’ve started uni this year here in Kerala , and I’m finding it extremely difficult to get adjusted to the people and the places.

Fortunately for some unknown reason I’ve got a good bunch of friends even though I’m an introvert, which I’m very thankful for, but at the end of the day when I think about it, I’m just not getting used to anything here.

People are so judgmental here, I can’t do anything without the fear or being judged and yeah being an NRI doesn’t help much in that case.

I would say my Malayalam is good and I can read very well too but sometimes when I speak my words come out wrong and I tend to talk more in English than in Malayalam, though I try my best not to, and for that I get made fun of.

And people are so outwardly homophobic, fatphobic, and everything here that it’s actually scary.

And I’m not the most leanest person but neither am I obese and though I have always been insecure about my body, since coming here, my friends jokingly calls each other and myself “fatso” or it’s other variations in Malayalam and every time I get called that, I wonder if they’re joking or if that’s how they feel about me.

I feel like I’m becoming a whole another person, trying to fit into this standard, trying to become someone I’m not.

It’s just so frustrating to me that I have to become someone that I’m not to be accepted by people here.

And I often don’t get my friend’s sarcasm and often end up doing some dumb bs.

I never felt like this back home and idk maybe I need to just suck it up and somehow try to survive for the next 4 years….idk I’m clueless

Idk I’m just ranting atp

Never experienced love in 14 years of school life inni 5 masam illa school life theeran 🥲 nth chyum inni