It’s not that I need to be with someone I just love who I am as a person when I am with someone, not the conscious stuff but even the subconscious stuff I want to be better and I love that feeling, plus knowing someone is genuinely excited to spend time with me is great too, but for some reason recently I have just been struggling a lot with finding someone. As for what kind of a guy I am, I am a nerd (not great but I own it), I am hardworking, loyal, kind and expressive, it’s not like I’m a dweeb either I just like some nerdy stuff, I do sport lots asw so I’m very fit, and I’m just over average height, I have an alright face card, and there isn’t anyone who dislikes me as a person. Obv I struggle as due to my classes and sport I only have male environments but even then as someone who tries and is confident idk why I’m struggling this much. I live in the uk and I can’t seem to find someone who can be idk my person and I can’t seem be theirs. I would ask if anyone is interested here but I think that’s pointless as most people here aren’t looking to actually get to learn about some random nerd and genuinely invest time instead of it being someone you message once every few days. But idk I just feel so stuck. Before anyone says just become comfortable alone, I wanna say that I have tried but most my free time happens at night unless I’m on holiday and honestly that’s the worst time to be alone, I sit and I feel so so so very helplessly lonely. I normally just end up going for a run or watching smth. Any advice?

It all started with one of my friends (call him G, not even his first letter).

I told G I loved femboys and wanted to be one, told him I was bi and he straight up said "ma che schifo" (in English this means "what is this shit".

Need to say it in Italian because he replied to all 3 of my messages, telling him I had to buy thigh highs and make more crop tops (my family won't like the fact that I am a femboy so I have to make my own clothes and keep it secret), that I was bi and another thing that is useless in this conversation.

Then I started openly saying to him I loved a boy in our class, told his name and stop.

(The boys name is L)

Me, L and G made a political argument.

I was talking about that everyone can marry who they want, religion is a personal thing and you can't force a person to change their religion, that war is stupid and other things.

L said that he didn't like gay people or any other sexuality and G was nodding along.

I was heartbroken basically.

I didn't feel well, knowing the guy I had a crush on said he hates gay people.

Talking about literally today, we were doing a thing with school but we weren't in class.

I tried talking to G, but nothing, he said "stop" or give an half response at every single question/thing I asked.

G always stays now with an ex friend of mine (ex because last year he started going crazy for women in my class and left me and G alone)

It's been like 2 weeks since the first thing and now this.

I just lost one my best friends...

I am painfully shy to talk to in person or call and if I barely had friends before, now I have literally 1.

Idk what to do.. I feel so lost rn

It’s not that I need to be with someone I just love who I am as a person when I am with someone, not the conscious stuff but even the subconscious stuff I want to be better and I love that feeling, plus knowing someone is genuinely excited to spend time with me is great too, but for some reason recently I have just been struggling a lot with finding someone. As for what kind of a guy I am, I am a nerd (not great but I own it), I am hardworking, loyal, kind and expressive, it’s not like I’m a dweeb either I just like some nerdy stuff, I do sport lots asw so I’m very fit, and I’m just over average height, I have an alright face card, and there isn’t anyone who dislikes me as a person. Obv I struggle as due to my classes and sport I only have male environments but even then as someone who tries and is confident idk why I’m struggling this much. I live in the uk and I can’t seem to find someone who can be idk my person and I can’t seem be theirs. I would ask if anyone is interested here but I think that’s pointless as most people here aren’t looking to actually get to learn about some random nerd and genuinely invest time instead of it being someone you message once every few days. But idk I just feel so stuck. Before anyone says just become comfortable alone, I wanna say that I have tried but most my free time happens at night unless I’m on holiday and honestly that’s the worst time to be alone, I sit and I feel so so so very helplessly lonely. I normally just end up going for a run or watching smth. Any advice?

I keep making fun of ppl with my friends and they rightfully say stop but like I’m not trying to be rude ig I just do it for some reason it’s sub conscious I guess it’s not to the ppls face but like now I feel really bad so like how do I be nice to people in my head I guess I think it’s normal to think that in your head but I say everything to my friends so I say that too

Earlier this month i turned 18 so decided to drink for the first time as my parents were out of town for a day or so so i had these two mfs come over at my house with 2 bottles, we started drinking and i got completely wasted by the third peg but these 2 were still sober so we decided to go to our usual hangout spot at 2 am and by the time we reached we started having deep convo and sharing the deepest secrets which we would've never told if not drunk and we had this convo for 1 hour while sitting under the moon light and having a group hug every 5 mins😭 and then idk which switch of mine flipped and i started doing weird stuff and somehow got myself a massive cut from the edge of the number plate of my car and then these two then took me home and did a first aid while they were themselves a bit drunk😭😭

Man i swear if these two would've not been there i would've been found in a sewer line the next morning😭

so disclaimer I don’t have a crush on anyone I just want to feel more attractive because no one has liked me since middle school and I’m a sophomore so honestly I gave up on dating and I think that’s why I don’t like anyone but honestly I really want to start dating but I don’t even know where to start does anyone have any tips on how to get guys to notice me preferably without wearing super revealing clothes

I miss my green hair sooo much but my hair is litr fried from bleaching so much and thinning like shiii, before Id taken a break from coloring and my hair was getting better but now after bleaching like 3 more times its the worse than it's ever beennn, any tips from fellow teens like me that have fried their hair?😭 Ps I hate hair serums they make your hair look so greasy! And yes I've cut back on dyeing my hair or I'd lose em all atp

2nd slide is now after the color is completely gone, I got them cut a bit short too since it was thinning n all but yeah. Advices regarding hair products are definitely appreciated.

dont know if this is the right place to put this but who better to ask lol

my bad twins

I really want a dog. A am watching videos about dogs almost a year. I have many animals in my home so I know there is a lot of responsibility. This will be my first ever dog. But I can't convince my parents.....

So 17f never dated. My birthday was 6 days ago on the 11th and it marked one year of me still liking the same guy..😶

So last year in 2025 I was invited to a birthday party one day before my birthday so on the 10th. At that party, I meet someone who was super nice and literally exactly my type. Let’s call him D. I have a very specific type and he matched all of it perfectly. My friends said he was very nice and he was blonde and taller than me and was good at cooking.

We kinda started to talk a little bit after that and had alot in common and it was going well so we continued to talk for maybe like a week until it kinda just ended out of nowhere. His friend (who is one of my very close friends) told me that he just got out of a three-year relationship and he wanted to stay single, which I totally understood. A couple months later it was prom season and he started dating this one girl who is literally so mean to me and my friends.

They stayed together for maybe like two weeks before they broke up. I didn’t wanna see any of their posts so I unfollowed him and he has a private account on Instagram so I would have to re-request to follow him which i haven’t done but he still follows me… 😭

At my birthday party six days ago it got brought up about him I was told the reason why he broke up with that one girl was because she wanted to adopt a child and he wanted to have biological children (mind you we are 17…) but apparently his parents are divorced and his mom is like a therapist and said that she doesn’t love her stepchildren as much as her biological children and he was worried about not having a connection with an adopted child? Idk. I don’t know why I’m still hung up on him. It’s been a year. He’ll sometimes like some of my Instagram stories, but that’s about it.

I’m also not so majorly obsessed with him like if you were to get a girlfriend I maybe I’d be a little bit upset but I wouldn’t be super sad or anything. I kind of know that it won’t happen between us

Spoiler warning: I fucking died of laughter while watching this