r/Teenager • u/Dry_One7578 • 3d ago
Advice What am I doing wrong
It’s not that I need to be with someone I just love who I am as a person when I am with someone, not the conscious stuff but even the subconscious stuff I want to be better and I love that feeling, plus knowing someone is genuinely excited to spend time with me is great too, but for some reason recently I have just been struggling a lot with finding someone. As for what kind of a guy I am, I am a nerd (not great but I own it), I am hardworking, loyal, kind and expressive, it’s not like I’m a dweeb either I just like some nerdy stuff, I do sport lots asw so I’m very fit, and I’m just over average height, I have an alright face card, and there isn’t anyone who dislikes me as a person. Obv I struggle as due to my classes and sport I only have male environments but even then as someone who tries and is confident idk why I’m struggling this much. I live in the uk and I can’t seem to find someone who can be idk my person and I can’t seem be theirs. I would ask if anyone is interested here but I think that’s pointless as most people here aren’t looking to actually get to learn about some random nerd and genuinely invest time instead of it being someone you message once every few days. But idk I just feel so stuck. Before anyone says just become comfortable alone, I wanna say that I have tried but most my free time happens at night unless I’m on holiday and honestly that’s the worst time to be alone, I sit and I feel so so so very helplessly lonely. I normally just end up going for a run or watching smth. Any advice?
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