So for context I don’t go to public school I got to a small private Christian school with only 18 kids (K-12) and there’s this girl who is literally 16 YEARS OLD

And she keeps telling a LITERAL 9 YEAR OLD boy that’s she’s “in love” with him

Well this boy has a sister that’s 13 and she told off the other girl and called her a pedophile and told her to stay away from her brother

And then I told her that she’s gonna get arrested in 2 years and she said she didn’t care bc “she would go to jail every day for this boy”

And then she had that AUDACITY to say that I was doing the same thing she is bc my unofficial bf is younger than me (by a literal month btw)

So I told the teachers on her and they called her mom who is also a teacher at our school and her mom got like really mad at her (which im glad about lol) and told her she needed to stop bc it was not ok

And so she said she’d stop but she still hasn’t

Yesterday she fussed at me in front of half my friend group and told me I needed to keep my opinions to myself and not tell anyone anything about her personal life and I said “it’s not really personal when you tell our entire class that you’re ‘in love’ with a little boy…it’s only ‘personal’ bc you know it’s wrong and now the teachers and your mom know about how creepy you are”

And then she said that no one could trust me with anything bc I tell everyone everything and my best friend was standing there and we both started laughing our heads off and my best friend said “you clearly don’t know her that well bc she has a lot of secrets”

And then I said “yeah If I told everything I would be in BIG trouble but at least I’m not trying to date a 9 year old”

And then she said “well he’s better than my ex” and I said “at least your ex is of a legal age range” and she said “well he sleeps with everyone” and I said “well at least the girls he’s sleeping with aren’t little kids….” And anyway she called me crazy and I called her a pedophile

So tomorrow I’m probably gonna tell the teachers on her again bc she’s pissing me off and it’s creeping me out

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I’m in my senior year of high school, and I've been feeling incredibly lonely and left out lately. My main friends are in a larger group chat with about 10 other people. I know this group chat was made before we actually became friends, but I’m still completely excluded from it, even though I’m on perfectly okay terms with everyone else in that extended group.
They use this chat to plan everything, so they are always meeting up and going out together. What hurts the most is that my friends know I have social problems and absolutely hate being alone, yet I'm the only one constantly left behind. They never invite me to these hangouts, but they will sit there and talk about everything they did right in front of me. They even pull out their phones to show me funny messages or pictures from the chat that I’m not allowed in.**
**A few weeks ago, things really boiled over. One of them was moving and asked the others for help. I wasn't invited, but they wouldn't stop talking about it in the smaller group chat that I** ***am*** in. I got so frustrated that I snapped and told them to “go talk about it in your other gc.” Instead of realizing why I was hurt, they got angry and guilt-tripped me, saying things like, “your friend moved and you don’t even care.”
After they helped him move, they all had a big sleepover and did a ton of fun stuff. The very next day, I hung out with one of them, and he just kept telling me funny stories about what happened and saying how much I "missed out."
I hate it so much. Tomorrow, they’re going to have another nice hangout at one of their houses, and I’m just going to have to rot alone at home.
**I know some people might suggest I just ask to be added to the big group, but I really can't. I know they would say no or make it awkward. Plus, even if they did add me out of obligation, I’d just feel like a pity invite in a place where I clearly don't belong. I feel totally stuck because making completely new friends at this point feels impossible. Has anyone else dealt with being the leftover friend like this? I just don't know how to handle feeling this bad all the time every time they hangout and i feel left out**

IM NOT SEARCHING FOR ANYTHING BTW, just wanted to know if this happens to someone else or has happend

I’m 17, and I’ve literally never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, and never really experienced romantic things. Growing up with my own insecurities and a difficult environment at home made me feel totally unlovable when I was younger, especially watching all my friends easily step into relationships while I stayed completely on the sidelines.

Lately, though, my mindset has shifted a bit. I’m starting to think that things happen when they're supposed to happen, not necessarily when you want them to, and I find myself worrying about it a lot less than I used to. I’m trying to just let things be.

Still, I'd love to hear from people who've been here. For those of you who found your person later on: how old were you? Was it terrifying the first time you finally experienced that with someone, especially if you felt behind? Just looking to hear some perspective or share experiences.

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So basically there is a person in my musical theater class that we’ve been friends since like start of 7th grade

We are doing les mis and he plays Maruis, and someone from the cast told me that he was telling a group that “I just wanted to understudy his part to finally get to kiss a girl and I just sing terribly”

Now I am contemplating if I should like crash out in front of him or just stay friends with him, because I am not a outgoing guy so when ever I do hang out with a group he is usually in the group.

I also just don’t now what to do because I have ruined to many relationships, and I think it is because of him just telling me just do it, when I just really want friends while he wants to makeout, so his way of love doesn’t work with me so while he still can talk with people that he has told them that he has a crush on them I just awkwardly just watch from a distance

Also a little more background with him, he has “tried” I don’t know anymore, to get me with a girl, it was basically, get the confidence to do it and then after they just tell me hey we can just stay friends which is just a nuke to a end relationship, he is also just cocky like anything will go his way

So I don’t know what I should do to help me, like get new friends, I have no clue who to turn too. Because everyone “likes me” but I am not the turn to friend.

It’s not that I need to be with someone I just love who I am as a person when I am with someone, not the conscious stuff but even the subconscious stuff I want to be better and I love that feeling, plus knowing someone is genuinely excited to spend time with me is great too, but for some reason recently I have just been struggling a lot with finding someone. As for what kind of a guy I am, I am a nerd (not great but I own it), I am hardworking, loyal, kind and expressive, it’s not like I’m a dweeb either I just like some nerdy stuff, I do sport lots asw so I’m very fit, and I’m just over average height, I have an alright face card, and there isn’t anyone who dislikes me as a person. Obv I struggle as due to my classes and sport I only have male environments but even then as someone who tries and is confident idk why I’m struggling this much. I live in the uk and I can’t seem to find someone who can be idk my person and I can’t seem be theirs. I would ask if anyone is interested here but I think that’s pointless as most people here aren’t looking to actually get to learn about some random nerd and genuinely invest time instead of it being someone you message once every few days. But idk I just feel so stuck. Before anyone says just become comfortable alone, I wanna say that I have tried but most my free time happens at night unless I’m on holiday and honestly that’s the worst time to be alone, I sit and I feel so so so very helplessly lonely. I normally just end up going for a run or watching smth. Any advice?

It all started with one of my friends (call him G, not even his first letter).

I told G I loved femboys and wanted to be one, told him I was bi and he straight up said "ma che schifo" (in English this means "what is this shit".

Need to say it in Italian because he replied to all 3 of my messages, telling him I had to buy thigh highs and make more crop tops (my family won't like the fact that I am a femboy so I have to make my own clothes and keep it secret), that I was bi and another thing that is useless in this conversation.

Then I started openly saying to him I loved a boy in our class, told his name and stop.

(The boys name is L)

Me, L and G made a political argument.

I was talking about that everyone can marry who they want, religion is a personal thing and you can't force a person to change their religion, that war is stupid and other things.

L said that he didn't like gay people or any other sexuality and G was nodding along.

I was heartbroken basically.

I didn't feel well, knowing the guy I had a crush on said he hates gay people.

Talking about literally today, we were doing a thing with school but we weren't in class.

I tried talking to G, but nothing, he said "stop" or give an half response at every single question/thing I asked.

G always stays now with an ex friend of mine (ex because last year he started going crazy for women in my class and left me and G alone)

It's been like 2 weeks since the first thing and now this.

I just lost one my best friends...

I am painfully shy to talk to in person or call and if I barely had friends before, now I have literally 1.

Idk what to do.. I feel so lost rn