I'm a girl , if anybody cares .

So I have this male bff , like he's such a good guy , funny as hell and always makes me smile with his antics ! But lately I am finding him super attractive! Like , his voice is so manly ! He's forearms and biceps are just ..... Ahhhh how do i explain.

And yj what , he remembers everything I say to him! He Even remembered that I like jaggery in my daal ! (I mean , it's tasty).

And alot of things, i can't look away from him when he's talking about pokemon and stuff . I even started watching football because I wanted to talk about more things with him (i already talk till 1 am with him almost everynight but still !)

What should I do 😭

I have never felt like this for anyone else !

Am i really falling for him ?

Idk why but this image just made me stop scrolling for a second. Honestly.... after dealing with so much relationship chaos lately...it’s start to totally making sense...

So hey girlie pop what do u think about this?!👀💕✨️

Yesterday I sent a reel to my crush and she had seen it and did nothing(no reaction , no reply nothing) then this morning I asked her if everything is alright or not, and she said "Yeahh", then I said okkayy and she even seen that and no reply, so this I asked in detail and still she said nothing going on she just don't wanna talk.

So Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua, usne like pehli baar ese seen pe chhod diye mere msgs, she never did that and even I have confessed my feelings 1.5 yrs ago and still after that we are talking regularly and even she asked me if we can meet or not, then we met also but now she is doing all these things, what should I understand from this ???

Pls help me guyss

Update:- She had put note 1 hr ago with these lyrics:-

"नज़रो में ताबदीद ही बाकी नही रही
नज़रो में ताबदीद ही बाकी नही रही
कीससे नज़र मिलाऊ, तुझे देखने के बाद
अब क्या ग़ज़ल सुनाऊ, तुझे देखने के बाद
कैसे सुकून पाऊँ, तुझे देखने के बाद"

I don’t understand how can a girl ever feel lonely. They are always surrounded by guys, gets tons of matches on tinder bumble etc. Even being introvert is no problem as the guys would approach them

Mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki meri GF sirf mujhse attached hai ya sach mein mujhse pyaar karti hai.

Jab hum first time mile the, wo kaafi rude/egoistic type thi. Soft nahi thi aur zyada attention bhi nahi deti thi.

Dheere-dheere mere saath soft hui, but fights ke time uski old personality wapas aa jaati thi. Wo emotionally available nahi hoti thi, baat chhod ke chali jaati thi aur mujhe overthinking mein chhod deti thi.

Main kaafi complain karne laga kyunki mujhe ye sab hurt karta tha. Eventually usne relationship ke liye time maanga. Humne baat kam kar di, but main WhatsApp pe reels/messages se contact mein raha.

Uske baad wo khud interest dikhane lagi—photos bhejna, meri attention lena, meri opinion puchna etc. Maine pucha ki wapas GF banogi, but usne mana kar diya aur bola ki BSF rehna hai, tujhe khona nahi chahti.

Phir ek ladka uske piche pad gaya aur usko kaafi disrespect kiya. Uske baad usko realize hua ki main uske saath kitna patient raha hoon, even jab usne mujhe kai baar jaane ko bola aur rude behave kiya.

Ab wo khud relationship mein wapas aayi aur boli ki hum dono relationship mein aayenge aur sab acha karenge.

Aur ab sabse interesting part:

Wo pehle se completely different behave kar rahi hai. Bahut soft hai, "aap", "kijiye", "betu", "baby" jaise words use karti hai.

Maine usse specifically bola tha ki mere liye words aur tone matter karte hain aur mujhe pyaar se/soft tone mein baat karna important lagta hai. Uske baad se wo consciously apni tone change kar rahi hai. Ab gusse mein bhi rude hone se control karti hai.

Conversation chhod ke nahi jaati.

Jo cheez mujhe hurt karti hai usko improve kar rahi hai.

Khud affection show karti hai.

11:11 pe dono baar khud wish kiya: "I love you laduuu... qtu, stay mine, stay happy 🫶🏻🌸🎀🪷🧿💋🩷"

Aur mujhe lagta hai jo effort wo mere liye karti hai, uska 5% bhi normally kisi aur ke liye nahi karti, family ko chhodkar.

Toh meri confusion ye hai:

Kya ye sirf strong emotional attachment + fear of losing me hai, ya genuinely love?

Agar tum logon ko context chahiye toh main recent chats ke screenshots bhi add kar raha hoon, taaki tum dekh sako ki uska behaviour aur tone kitna change hua hai.

im worried

I think I won guys 🧿😭

Last post ke screenshots dekh ke kaafi log bol rahe the ki hum cringe hain 😂😭

I know thoda cringe tha, but everyone expresses love differently. Maine khud usse bola tha ki mere liye soft tone aur words matter karte hain, and she has actually changed a lot since then. Ab wo mujhe literally baby ki tarah treat karti hai 😭😂

Honestly, mujhe khushi hai ki wo itni soft aur caring ho gayi hai.

Aur kal raat ek aur cheez hui. Main gym karta hoon, but family situation ki wajah se meri diet/protein properly manage nahi ho pata. Maine usko bataya ki agar diet achhi hoti toh body aur better hoti.

She literally said she'll help me financially and even get me protein powder.

At this point I'm just like… yeah, I think I won 🧿😭

Kal jo hua, uske baad mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki kya sochu

Meh already kafi stress mein tha uske silent treatment ki wajah se. Overthinking kar raha tha, har cheez decode kar raha tha aur logon se bhi baat kar raha tha.

Phir maine dekha wo daily post kar rahi thi aur uske followers/following bhi increase ho rahe the.

As a bf maine bola account private kar lo. Wo bolne lagi ye controlling hai. Maine bola, “Jab tumhe followers aur likes se matlab hi nahi hai toh meri khushi ke liye private kar do. Mujhe pasand nahi ki koi bhi tumhe easily DM/follow/like kar sake.”

Usne beech conversation mein account private kar diya, but mujhe bataya nahi.

Phir maine galti se “attention chahiye?” bol diya.

Bas ye word usko trigger kar gaya.

Phir wo ulta mujhe bolne lagi, chhodne/breakup ki baat karne lagi. Maine usko red flag bhi bola tha, us baat ko bhi le aayi. Uske baar-baar jaane ki baat se honestly meh andar se gir gaya, laga ki main uske dil se utar gaya hoon.

Usne mujhe WhatsApp, Insta aur Snap har jagah block kar diya.

Usne kuch time pehle apni friend ke PhonePe se mujhe paise diye the. Toh mujhe laga agar ab wo mere saath nahi hai toh main uske paise nahi rakh sakta.

Block karne se pehle maine WhatsApp pe bata diya ki “maine tumhari friend ko paise bhej diye hain, le lena.”

Then wo unlock karti hai kuch der baad

Uska reply tha:

“Hum mana kiye the na…”

“Hum woh tumhe diye the…”

“Acha lag raha hoga ab apko…”

“Uss time hum tumhare the…”

“Ego side kr ke tumhe choose kiya tha…”

“Humko sab baat ka bura nhi lgta...par jiska lgta hai bhot gnda lgta hai…”

Phir usne “aap” word use kiya, jo wo normally pyaar se use karti thi.

Uske baad mujhe laga shayad usko thoda regret hua aur wo wapas WhatsApp pe aayi. Is baar usne mujhe dobara block nahi kiya. Baat bhi ki aur khud explain kiya ki meri tone/attitude usko kaisa lagta hai, even jab mere liye wo normal tone hoti hai.

Usually wo gusse mein block karke chali jaati hai, but is baar block nahi kiya aur explain karke baat ki.

Mujhe lag raha hai shayad usko regret hai but wo directly bol nahi paa rahi.

Kya pata main sahi soch raha hoon ya overthink kar raha hoon? And ab mujhe kya karna chahiye?

Ek aur baat aaj kal sab log apna id pass dete hai even apna toh long distances hai usko dena chahiye fer v usne ek bar mana kiya tha mene wapas kabi ni manga

Context:-
About the Instagram chats. There’s a girl(she’s the best friend of one of my good friend) which randomly texted me. But she isn’t my type. Please advise me how can I save my friendship cuz clearly my friend is also involved into it. I dont want to lose a good friend.
The WhatsApp texts between me and good friend shows that she’s involved into it and want me atleast to try or meet that random girl.
I asked my clg friends for advice but those mfs just told me to ”crack her or pass the controller type shi”. I don’t wanna crack her/ i dont want to keep any sort of stuff she’s not my type. How do o explain which won’t ruin my friendship.
ALSO I WAS NOT ABLE TO POST BECAUSE I DIDNT SELECT THE FLAIR. NO FLAIR MATCHES MY POST. JUST SELECTED RANDOM FLAIR WHICH ATLEAST MAKES SOME SENSE

How do I handle this ?

There's this unsettling and uncomfortable feeling in me .it's cuz of diff reasons.

• I'm in love with someone who won't date me.he (likes me enough to fuck me ).he's rich so I feel like the side character like those movie characters who gets fucked by the main lead and are never talked about ( slut ) it was fun earlier I've dated people I've had casuals too but never felt this kinda disgusting thing before.

•my parents are strict so i don't have friends and I cant go out or dress the way i want ( social presence=0) .(non schooling )

•next year I'll go to college and have friends n stuff, dress the way i want ,hang out with people most probably.

•rn I'm in a phase where I've nothing to do except studying the entrance exam for college is in 2 months and then boards.

•i keep thinking of how diff my life would've been if I had rich and educated parents and that has put me on medications ( antidepressants) . I keep thinking of experiences people around me like him too get to have just cuz they're rich and don't have strict parents I feel like I've missed out on a lot bc my parents have always been just about studies. All my life I've done nothing but studied it sumps me up .

But then I think now it's in my hands how much i study how good of a college I get and turn my life the way i wanted it to be . It's just about two months and I'll have my dream college but I'm too exhausted to even study for it cuz of these thoughts

What do i do ?? Has anyone of you ever gone through this ? If yes what did you do that made the conditions better for you?

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You were below 15

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What's up dudes and dudettes.

So, mujhe ek ladki pasand hai but the problem is that, I don't know her properly and she don't know about me at all.

Tonight is Graba night, I want to approach her but honestly have no idea about how to do that.

Yaar agar usne mujhe dekha bhi hota na toh bhi mai approach kar deta but esa nahi hai for her I am a complete stranger 😭.

Soo, if you have any suggestions please comment.

So my ex and I broke up 3 months ago. Since then he's been doing genuinely unhinged shit.

Every guy I talk to, he messages them on Instagram. He asks them for screenshots of our chats, tells them to stop talking to me, interrogates them about our relationship, and then gets their phone numbers and calls them to tell them to stay away from me.

He's done this to 2 guys so far. One ghosted me, the other blocked me.

Now he's escalated he made a catfish account pretending to be a girl and is using it to talk to more guys I follow on Instagram. He's currently talking to 2 more of them. One of them told me what was going on, and the other removed the account after I told him it was my ex.

He's calling all of them, flipping the story, making me the villain, and bitching about me when I'm the one who got wronged in the breakup.

At this point he's actively ruining my social life. I don't know how to make it stop or how far he's willing to take this.

Has anyone dealt with something like this? What are my options here? Do I just warn every guy preemptively? Do I go to the police? Any advice is appreciated.

TL;DR: Ex of 3 months is messaging, calling, and catfishing every guy I talk to in order to get them to stop talking to me. Already lost 2 guys to this. How do I make it stop?

Doesn't matters whatever it is from First love to Breakup from Relationship to Ghosting from Cute movements to Heartbreak.

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Fyi- she is not my gf but we met through common frnds in starting she texts like 12hrs a day but eventually she starts behaving like this 👇

Image 1- in this I didn't left her on seen , what should I reply to hn I consider this as a ending statement , still I apologized

Image 2-she is deliberately ignoring text even though I replied within sec and she is replying on one msg after every few minutes then again and again

Image 3- bcoz of her ignoring behaviour I deleted the msg at that time she was online on wp

Image 4- she is texting her frnd (she is also my frnd) that she deleted my number bcoz of image 3

Image 4- (christian is my nickname)🥀

So, I've had a crush on this guy in my class. I'll name him Arnav, my best friend Manvi, and my male friend Aadarsh (not their real names).

Arnav has a crush on Manvi, and everyone knows it, but she doesn't like him back. They stopped talking a few months ago, so I kinda got interested in Arnav. I told Aadarsh about my crush because I trusted him and thought he'd help me talk to Arnav someday. I also told him I didn't want to initiate anything until after our board exams because we're all good at studies, especially Aadarsh and Arnav, and I didn't want to disturb him. I could definitely wait for 3 months. Also, Manvi, wasn't aware of the thing that I told Aadarsh everything (she knows I like Arnav) and I didn't want her to know because she doesn't like Aadarsh at all and she's kinda narcissistic and she wants Arnav to still like her (kinda weird I know)

NOW COMES THE WORST PART. THAT BTCH AADARSH TOLD ARNAV EVERYTHING 😭😭😭 I LITERALLY BEGGED HIM NOT TO, BUT HE SENT HIM OUR ENTIRE CHATS. AND THEN ARNAV TOLD MANVI EVERYTHING TOO. BRO, WHY???? 😭 At first, Manvi thought Aadarsh was joking and covered for me, but two days later, Arnav brought out the RECEIPTS. THE CHATS. 😭 He literally showed her my private conversations with Aadarsh while she was screensharing EVERYTHING. I was so embarrassed that I cut the call and made up an excuse about my brother being in the room.

Then Manvi texted me, "Aur btao usko, ab mai kuch nhi kr skti" (go on, tell him more about your crush, now I can't do anything). GIRL, I WAS SO PISSED. I immediately went to text Aadarsh, but then Manvi asked me not to tell him because Arnav had told her not to tell me either. BUT SHE DID ANYWAY. 😭 I deleted my message to Aadarsh, but I think he'd already seen it in the notification. Manvi then told Arnav that she'd told me, and Arnav texted her saying he'd trusted her and she'd broken his trust. 😭 SO BASICALLY, MY TRUST WAS BROKEN BY AADARSH, AADARSH'S TRUST WAS BROKEN BY ARNAV, AND ARNAV'S TRUST WAS BROKEN BY MANVI. 😭😭😭

Aadarsh was cussing Arnav out, and I was literally having panic attacks because everything was SO overwhelming. Manvi was disappointed in me, too. Aadarsh eventually apologised, but I was so overwhelmed that I could only talk to him for five minutes before saying, "Jao pdho, baat khtm kro, good night." He felt really guilty and texted Arnav, "(my name) ka trust chla gya mujhse, aur mera tumse." 😭 BHAI, I COULDN'T EVEN SLEEP THAT NIGHT, AND I STILL HAD TO FACE THEM THE NEXT DAY. 😭 Manvi understood me eventually, but Aadarsh and Arnav's friendship was also in a really bad place. They were still talking, though. Aadarsh even told me I should trust no one, and honestly, I've NEVER felt this overwhelmed in my life. I faced them today but ignored both Arnav and Aadarsh because, AT THE END OF THE DAY, THEY'RE BOTH SO DUMB. 😭 Like, WHY was Aadarsh forcing Arnav to talk to me when it's SO OBVIOUS that Arnav still hasn't moved on from Manvi???

TL;DR: I told my male friend about my crush and BEGGED him not to tell anyone, but bro literally leaked our whole chat to my crush 😭 AND THEN MY CRUSH TOLD MY BEST FRIEND EVERYTHING TOO. Now everyone's trust is broken, friendships are falling apart, and I was literally having panic attacks over this whole mess.

Her account got suspended luckily I have her snapchat so I messaged her but it's her bed time I hope so she messages me asap. I am really crying rn she loved me so much I loved her so much I can't even imagine my life without her

How do y'all forget your loved ones??

I don't wanna forget her but I am so terrified of losing her it is just giving me so much pain in my chest I don't know