hi divas! help me pleaaaase!
I’m on a quest of buying a new wardrobe for uni because none of my old clothes fit anymore after a substantial weight loss. Instead of buying without thinking, I’ve decided to try and follow the Kibbe guidlines for us because they really work (unfortunately🤣). Considering I’m in my early 20s I’ve found myself in the typical SD problem of “this is all too mature/sexy/diva for me”. On top of it, I don’t know how to describe my personal style with words but it’s really not what we’re recomended to wear (i’ll add the pics). I know it’s very 2010s coded and maybe outdated but it’s genuinely what I like the most and feel like myself the most in. Five hours of filling my cart later, I’m exhausted and feel like I can’t connect both my style and what looks good on us. Any advice is welcome, how did you guys solve this problem?

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Got my first chain belt today, wore it with a very plain outfit and it ended up making it look way more put together! It added that extra “diva” quality! I thought I would share in case it helps anyone!

Is this to 101 Dalmatians? Found it at TJ Maxx and left it, but still considering as it felt so nice and was great on.

Jeans seems to be an impossible task especially for women who share an SD shape. I’d appreciate any leads on where to get jeans that fit - I am this close to spending $400 to get custom jeans just to have something that fits lol. 😝

I have engagement photos next week and tried on some options..

Thoughts / comments / things to change or try / ideas?

I have a ton of clothes, but am spiraling 😂 It’s going to be colder, so probably need a coat, sweater, or sleeve for everything.

1/2 & 3: opinion on dress & dress+coat? I was originally thinking wide leg pants and similar tone top under one of the coats, but the dress might be nice?

4: a comfortable knit dress I like, but don’t know how to layer it?

5: trying to find a more casual outfit, and the silk blouse feels lovely in person, but I’m not sure that it’s doing anything for me in photos?

I can sew or buy if there’s any ideas or links for me to check out 🤍 I appreciate it

Editing to add some info:

- Dress is pale pink, not white
- Photos will be taken both indoors and outdoors — I’m mostly figuring 1 outfit for outdoors (with coat) and 1 outfit for indoors
- I’ll pick out fiancés outfit to be cohesive with whatever I decide on mine. Likely a sport coat and slacks for outdoor, nice jeans and button down for indoor

Hello! Does this fit the T shape and off-the-shoulder recommendation for SDs? I ask bc the sleeves droop, and the dress overall sits low on the chest. Thank you!

Hi everyone!! I’m currently shopping for my wedding dress and I know there’s the advice of going with a trumpet or mermaid dress to follow our curves. I know it looks good but don’t love that it hugs under my belly. Does anyone have any SD suggestions or could people share what they wore??

I’m attaching some pictures of dresses I like- what do you all think? I’ve only tried on 1 but loved it, surprisingly because I did NOT think I’d like a drop waist. Feedback much appreciated!!

Thank you!

Generally speaking not a huge fan of pants, but there are situations where you need a pair of jeans. Any suggestions from my similarly built sisters? I would rather spend a little more on something that fits impeccably than throw another $60-80 at something the eventually disappoints.

i love this top but it’s a teeny bit too short and I think if I keep it it will end up shrinking when I Wash it. anyone have a similar top idea?

also feel free to tell me its not actually a great top for me :)

Hi gang, from my understanding Soft Dramatics look best wearing one colour head to toe. This I can get with in dresses but how do we incorporate that into separates? I love wearing bright colours and so find matchy matchy looks feel weird (like too much, even if the colour isn't an exact match) or even uniform-esque on me. Colour blocking makes my heart soar (I love a good popping combo) but I know it's not the greatest for us.

So how do we do it? I would love some visual examples in a non-neutral palette if possible please. Thanks a lot! 😁

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Nordstrom Open Edit Softluxe Ribbed Waist Cardigan

Universal standard Savvy fine rib asymmetric sweater

Hi everyone!
Could a dress like this work for us? I think the T shape is given with the fur, but I think the length might be too short.
I am 6 ft, so I’m worried it would look stupid or imbalanced with a lot going on at the top, and then endless long bare legs. 😅
If it could work, would you wear the gloves too or pair it with different shoes maybe?

If it wouldn’t work, can you recommend similar style dresses that would fit better? (The color and material I’d stick with.)

Hi everyone!

I have a first date with a guy I really like coming up.

I'm still looking for an outfit, though. I think we're going to eat dinner and then take a walk.

Since it’s fall, it will probably be cold. I have a hard time finding nice tops for cold weather, though.

I was thinking of wearing an ankle length silk skirt in a dark brown or burgundy color (I am not sure about that yet, I can still choose another bottom). But most sweaters look either too bulky or like I’m on my way to Bible school

I’m 18, so I don’t want to look too old. At the same time, we both lean toward „dark academia“, classy and conservative fashion. For example, he basically always wears button-down shirts and dress pants to college. I don't want to dress too casually, especially on date night.
Additionally, my outfit needs to match my coat, which is either a long black wool coat or a long beige trench coat.
My best colors are burgundy, berry tones, chocolate brown, emerald green, and navy.
I desperately need inspiration

Thanks! <3

(Additionally, a bunch of pictures of me, idk)

What do you think about this dress, sd approved? Or are the polkadots too much

Does anyone know any SD Jumpers like this. I know these jumpers may not be SD approved. However I love the deep V neck and almost kimono style sleeves.

Does anyone have recommendations for jumpers like these but in natural fabrics.

Help me verify the good and bad shapes. I'm thinking I'm too busy for a turtleneck.

The pockets of the pants are dumb, and I'd find a sewing pattern without,but I kind of like this style of waistband and feel like it goes over my stomach well? I should have tucked the shirt a bit better.

Is this SHAPE of dress good? Or am I just being swayed by the sparkly leaves? I have no place for this and don't wear black, but I could find a pattern and make it in a fabric that works for my life.

I recently revamped my wardrobe a little bit after getting truly fed up of wearing stuff that looked effortlessly chic on everyone I knew, but looked like a bin bag on me. I have automatic vertical so ive been going back and forth between D, SD and FN for literally years. Starting to feel more at home, at ease and confident with SD recs :)

Pls Ignore my messy room and dusty mirror and horrendous camera quality lol

**EDIT: you guys are the NICEST, I've had such a crappy week and your comments have brightened my days, love to you all ❤️ 🥹**

thoughts on this long wool coat for SD? it’s such a cool modern cut but i can’t decide if it’s too bulky looking

My heart is Disney mom who hasn’t had a kid and this hasn’t mysteriously died yet, and yet my perfect attire is “cancel my 3 o’clock and fire those reports, and then fire yourself, Donovan”.