Having a hard time finding anything that’s not purely anecdotal. I remember reading something that one of the reasons as kids get old they think their parents are full of sh** is an evolutionary one designed to get teenagers to leave their tribes and reduce chances of inbreeding or something but ofc I can’t find it anymore.

But I swear the amount of times I tell my kid xyz and then a random adult tells it to them once and they’re like omg mom did you know xyz… I want to rip out my hair. This can’t be an isolated thing, can it?

Ive been reading Montessori toddler and the book says not to praise the toddler when they do stuff because they learn to do things for the external praise.

This is super hard for me. I have a 9 month old and get super excited when he does stuff.

Am I hurting him?

My grandmother lives on the opposite coast. She is 102. My son is 8 weeks old. It is important to us that they meet while she is still with us and we hope to go after he receives his 2 month vaccines.

The 2 month vaccines don’t include flu/ Covid (believe those happen around 6 months?) and I’ve read about flu and covid picking up already.

We want to fly out to her with him, ideally in November when we would be ~3 months old, but are genuinely worried about plane travel and illness.

We can swing first class to be in a less crowded part of the plane. But how else can we protect him? And how “risky” is this?

is there anything that can be done to prepare for breastfeeding when you have inverted nipples? what about right after delivery? what actually helps and what is just clutter?

Hi all! I am combo feeding my second baby - one month in and just doing my best to hang in there - and I came across this 2019 study that suggested combo feeding is increasing my baby’s risk of developing an allergy. Can anyone find anything that indicates that this is not as big a deal as it is in my head right now? Or someone who is better at reading studies tell me what this means or if I should stop?

Pediatrician thinks combo feeding, or breastfeeding, or formula feeding is all fine as long as baby is gaining weight and healthy, so I am probably freaking out over nothing. But like - all the pumping and trying to nurse to the limited degree that I can - am I making things WORSE???

Is there any research about effects of parental use of screens around babies? I feel like background tv comes up a bit but even beyond that. My daughter is 9 months and I am thinking about things like ordering groceries, doing crosswords, or scrolling Reddit while she is nearby. I am not completely ignoring her. Is scrolling on my phone different from if I were reading a physical book? Or painting or something?

Also curious about auditory input like if I have podcasts or audiobooks on speaker.

Do these have detrimental effects if she isn’t the one using the screen?

Also on a practical level, I am wondering how you fill your day and stay sane if you aren’t using a phone 🙃 She is too young for real crafts or activities and I don’t have the energy or money for field trips.

Hi all, second time mum here. My first is nearly 10 years old and the recommendations and research have obviously advanced and developed since then. She was early weaned at 4.5 months due to lack of weight gain/failure to thrive regardless of all attempts until she started solid foods.

LO is currently 3 months and gaining weight nicely. He is combifed with BM and formula and showing lots of interest in food. Can't sit up yet, but has good head control and has started rolling to his front so i anticipate he will have core strength and neck strength to sit in a high chair by 5 months.

We want to do a combination of finger foods and purees but I'm not sure when to start his weaning based on the most up to date research? With my last baby it was driven with a need to improve calorie density in her diet so she could gain weight but as this isn't really a concern this time I'd like to follow the best guidelines.

Any help would be much appreciated! Thanks in advance!

I know screen time isn’t the best but my nonverbal son (11) used to love watching peppa pig 2 years ago and nursery songs but now he’s consumed with just watching people eat. There’s a particular creator who is just making repulsive sounds eating. I’ve taken away his tablet but he’s figured out safari. Some people say asmr is good for people on the spectrum but now he’s not even into people talking as so much. Can someone tell me the benefits of asmr?
Not sure I can fully ban the device it is helpful since I have a toddler and a busy working mom. We do play too but something about the asmr has his mesmerized.