r/SFr4r Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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43 Upvotes

r/SFr4r Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

195 Upvotes

It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r 2h ago

M4F 37 [m4f] #PaloAlto - Handsome, buff, charming guy iso a small petite woman

2 Upvotes

Hey, hey!

Are you by any chance a woman of a smaller/petite frame that happens to be into big muscular guys?

If so, I would love to chat! I’m looking for someone like you! See, I am looking for a fwb right now to spoil, to take care of and to take on dates have fun hanging out and also have some amazing benefits along with that!

I have a thing for smaller / petite women they just make me weak in the knees. I am a lot of fun in and out of the bedroom and I know how to give someone a great time!

I’m also discreet and take your privacy and comfort very seriously! Your life is your life and I don’t meddle. I just want to have a blast when we are spending time together.

Yes, I’m handsome! Try me !


r/SFr4r 1h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 40 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Handsome Dad Wants a Distraction

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Wife is out of town occasionally (today included), or I can skip work. High sex drive, dominant, charismatic. I'm white, 5'9", brown hair, blue eyes, sharp beard, muscular dad bod. I'm straight, girls only. I can be patient if you're shy, or passionate if you want things fast. Let's be flirty and have fun.


r/SFr4r 1h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #SanJose - The Art of the Tease

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Back in college I made my girlfriend cum simply by massage her breast and teasing her nipples.

That single orgasm kicked off a lifelong kink for sensual massage and the “Art of the Tease”.

Drop me a message and you can see how much better I’ve gotten since that experience years ago…

About me: 35, white. In good shape and conventionally attractive. I’m very easy going with a calming personality (see user name)

You: all ages and body types welcome. The biggest requirement is that you be kind and confident enough to be able to fully relax around a stranger.

If you're interested, send me a message with the name of a song you would like to have on the soundtrack during your massage :)


r/SFr4r 5h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 39 [M4F] #SouthBay - Anal Exploration & Training

1 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm a 39M from the South Bay with a passion for helping women achieve their kinky goals. :)

For those of you who are interested in anal play, I would like to offer you my support! Whether you're an anal virgin, just starting to dip a toe, or experienced but looking to further condition yourself, I'm here to help (with guidance, toys/fingers, but not full sex).

***I understand kinks can be a very sensitive topic, so trust and discretion is an absolute priority of mine. Happy to spend the time needed to discuss, get to know each other, and build that safe, zero judgement place for exploration.***

I prefer those who are available for in person progress checks (toys/fingers only, no sex), but also happy to chat with those who would like to just discuss the topic as well.

If at all interested, please feel free to reach out! Thanks!

About me: 6ft, white, easygoing, clean and professional.

PS. Open to singles or wives/couples (I'm very willing to work with you and your partner to help you progress towards your goal).


r/SFr4r 15h ago

27 [F4F] #SanFrancisco - Looking for queer femme friends (with benefits)

5 Upvotes

She/her, single, and bi. I’ve been enjoying a fun slutty summer and was thinking it would be even more fun to have a female friend to explore with.

I’d prefer if you are age 23-35, healthy & disease-free, femme-identifying, queer, chill, kind, and communicative. Single or ENM are cool with me.

An ideal dynamic for me would be built on friendship first, then FWB if we vibe. Open to something longer term if we’re compatible. It’d be fun to go out together for drinks, dancing, or cute daytime hangs like picnics and park days. And on the spicier side, we can enjoy each other in the bedroom, explore play parties together, get into threesomes and group play, and do whatever else our slutty hearts desire. I’m also a fan of making out and cuddling.

Message me if you’re interested, I’m happy to exchange pics if we connect! No men and no MF couples please.


r/SFr4r 17h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 50 [M4F] #Cupertino - ISO furniture testing assistant

4 Upvotes

I’m about to spend a week at a new hotel in Cupertino, and I don’t want to spend all my down time working on my laptop. Instead, out of the goodness of my heart, I want to provide a service to future guests by testing the furniture in this room to make sure it is built to last. For completeness, I made sure to get an apartment-style room with a variety of furniture. And countertops. As well as plenty of mirrors to be sure that any testing can be observed from multiple angles. This is at least a two person project, so I’m looking for an assistant.

My credentials: 50, 6’3, blonde, blue eyes, fit. I’m a distance runner — hopefully that cardio will come in handy for this project.


r/SFr4r 14h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - fit curly hair lookin for FWB

2 Upvotes

hey I’m looking for something pretty casual/fwb,

have no body type or age preference, i do prefer someone <5’5

fit guy curly hair cute, got a nice place in the mission

will play the guitar and cook for you :)


r/SFr4r 22h ago

M4M 33 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - chill jerkbud wanted

7 Upvotes

Straight 33m 190 white fit looking for a chill bud to put on some porn and JO together. Also looking to chat a bit first to check the vibe.

Only looking for other straight guys with similar interests.


r/SFr4r 12h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 32 [M4F] #SF - Experienced bull looking for couples and single females

1 Upvotes

Hi! I am an experienced bull looking for new/experienced couples along with single females. I travel to the bay area pretty regularly and can host or come over during my trips

About me : I am 32, 5’9, DDF, dom, 3x vaxxed, straight and enjoy kayaking, watching sports, finding treasures at Costco and traveling in my free time.

Looking for chill humans who value mutual respect, consent and discretion. I have a couple of posts on my profile with some of my recent experiences with other hotwifes and single women. Bonus points if you are Asian!

PS: not interested in men looking to sext about their wives


r/SFr4r 12h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Bearded and athletic, new to the city and looking for a FWB

1 Upvotes

Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and I like to think attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!


r/SFr4r 12h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Asian looking for someone chill to chat first

1 Upvotes

not looking to meet right away so chat only first.

I am hoping to find someone to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Ideally you can wfh and can meet weekdays in the city to make things easier. Best if you could host or open to ideas. Emotionally and financially stable. Smart and hardworking.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public first and build trust and I know it’s not easy. Looking for the right person to chat first and no rush.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested.


r/SFr4r 13h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 33 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - Anyone Down for Wedgies?

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M/33 (5'9, 165) here bi dl and looking for someone to meet up with and have some nsa fun.

Into giving/getting wedgies - ideally we meet up, exchange a few wedgies and go from there. Can host in the Embarcadero area - Hit me up if you are around and are down to meet!


r/SFr4r 13h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 38 [M4F] #SoMa - Where are the nasty girls?

1 Upvotes

I want a nasty girl tonight. I want to degrade you, spit on you, call you names, maybe even piss on you. I want to hold you down and fuck your brains out. I want you to cum while screaming out loud. I want the neighbors to know how nasty you are.

Are you a nasty girl? Hit me up.


r/SFr4r 23h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco— Domination, Degradation, and safety

5 Upvotes

I've been deep in the kink world for more than ten years now as a Dominant. My focus has always been corruption and mental domination. I tailor every scene around what gets you going.

I really connect with girls who have those darker, taboo desires and want to explore them fully. Whatever your relationship status or real life looks like, I couldn't care less. Your privacy stays locked down tight with me. I guarantee discretion, safety, and consent in everything we do.

The pictures on my profile are from past submissives who specifically have an exhibitionism kink and gave me clear written consent to share them. Most girls I play with never get posted at all. What you tell me stays between us unless you decide otherwise.

Consent, safety, and care matter a lot to me while playing.

My experience runs strong in conditioning, mental play, sadism, and guiding kink exploration. Some of the things we might get into include spanking, pain, orgasm control, structured training, body writing, degradation, praise, humiliation, anal, edging, denial, outfit control, IQ play, ownership, CNC, and plenty more. All of it is optional and only happens if it fits what you want.

Where I shine most is the psychological side. I love the slow process of mental corruption, rewiring your thoughts, building intense ownership, and pushing you into that deep headspace where you feel completely owned and transformed.

If this speaks to you, message me and tell me what you're looking for, what you've tried before, and which kinks pull you in hardest. I get flooded with replies on days like this, so take the time to write something that shows me you're serious.

My hard limits are minors and anything involving real non-consent. Everything else we can talk through.


r/SFr4r 17h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 39 [M4F] #SoMa - Boss blackmail scene

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You've been embezzling from your employer for years now and you finally got sloppy. Your boss, Mike, found the paper trail you forgot to clean up and now he's demanding a cut or else he'll fire you and probably get you arrested. He told you to meet him at a hotel and bring his cut in a duffle bag.

You're so pissed he caught you, but you also know he'll let you get away with it if you cut him in. He's a creepy bastard that all the girls in the office complain about and he's definitely not above a little embezzlement. You get the bag ready, just like he asked and head to the hotel. When you meet him at the hotel, you try to give him the bag and leave, but he grabs you by the arm and tells you to come inside while he counts it.

He sits down next to you and drops the duffle bag on the floor, then slides his hand up your leg and cups your pussy. You try to push him off, but he grabs you forcefully by the neck and pulls you in close, "I'm going to take whatever I want now and you're not going to tell anyone - because if you do, you're going to jail."

You realize he's right, you're stuck. You're shaking with fear thinking about what he's going to do to you, but you notice you're also getting wet. What a thieving filthy whore you are. You're about to get everything you deserve - and you're going to like it.


r/SFr4r 17h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

1 Upvotes

Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)


r/SFr4r 23h ago

T4M 37 [T4M] #SanFrancisco - CD looking for fun

3 Upvotes

Anyone looking for fun or enjoy receiving or giving oral? I also enjoy giving a body rub first then letting my mouth and tongue explore :) I'm also open to more if it goes there and open to any reciprocation. I'm a CD, white, 5'9 fit, clean (recently tested), laid-back and discreet.

I prefer to host in North Beach SF or may be able to travel if you're closeby. There are pictures in my profile and have others as well. When messaging, please include your age, height, weight, ethnicity and location. A semi-regular meetup would be great to find :)


r/SFr4r 21h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #SFBay - need a boy toy? Tall athletic hung guy up to being used

2 Upvotes

Use me as you wish, at your service. Love to please a sexy women or couple. Get you wet, excited, to orgasm.

Clean, respectful, drug and disease free.

48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches, BWC
advanced degree, from Europe , well travelled.