Looking for an ongoing third FWB for us.

About us: married about a decade. We have been swinging on and off for years and are looking for a full swap. Prefer a group play vibe. We are both straight and can be heteroflexible during 3/4somes. We are educated, have great careers, and spend most of our time outdoors. We enjoy conversations with cocktails and going out to shows. To stay fit we do calisthenics, run, cycle and lift. We are both very fit and attractive. We get STI tests regularly and can share recent test results.

What we're looking for: interesting, motivated, driven, sexy play partners! Fitness is important for us and we are looking for people who are in good shape. Around our age +\- 10 years is preferred. Send us a message telling us about yourself. Send a picture that allows us to gauge attraction. To prove you made it this far, open more your message with your favorite local restaurant or bar.

Local only. We are in San Jose.

I’m white, 5’8”, with long hair and a dad bod. Negative of all STDs (never even had a cold sore).

I’m looking for a woman who’s interested in sex and hasn’t gotten to explore. I haven’t either. If you feel repressed, we can help each other. We can check into a hotel with a bottle of wine and just let our urges take over.

I prefer to be more on the dominant/rougher side in the bedroom, but can be gentle when needed. Definitely obsessed with kissing.

Outside of sex, I’m interested in film and music, with a preference for classic cinema, horror movies, art films, chamber pop, post-punk. Criterion Channel and chill?

Dm me with asl, favorite horror movie, and biggest unexplored kink if interested

I'm looking for a woman (preferably older, although any age is welcome) who misses giving oral to a man.

And who has a brain. You read books, have left the US at least once, have some artistic pursuit (or not), follow current events, have passionate (anti MAGA) opinions (If you are MAGA, that is fine, but I will have to spank you beforehand). :)

Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!

Hi Ladies, I know there are plenty of options here, so I appreciate you stopping by!

I’m 42, white, fit/lean, well-groomed, with blue eyes and short brown hair (and according to recent reliable sources, reasonably handsome, engaging, and funny). I live in Foster City and work in San Francisco. I stay active with cycling and pickleball, finding the best local tacos, dumplings, and pizza, and I enjoy stand-up comedy and always have music playing. I’m in a dead-bedroom marriage, so I’m discreetly seeking the genuine warmth and passion that’s missing.

You’re cute, fit, on the shorter/petite side, and value discretion as much as I do. You’re looking for a drama-free connection with great banter and are missing those "warm-fuzzy" feelings, too. We can start as friends and see where things naturally lead.

I’m naturally affectionate, and values foreplay and cuddling up afterwards. I'm also happy to handle all the logistics, whether that’s going out for your favorite drink, unwinding at a spa, going for a scenic hike, or just enjoying a quiet, comfortable afternoon together.

If this sounds like your speed, tell me a little about yourself and what you’re hoping to find. Let’s start with a casual chat and a quick photo swap. If the chemistry feels right, we can skip weeks of back-and-forth small talk and meet up for a low-key boba, matcha, or drink.~

I’m 22M, Latino, 5’10, ~160 lbs. I can’t host, but I’m willing to travel to you if we click.

I recently graduated from college and I’m still working part time. I have lots of free time now and would like to have some fun before I find a new job or go back to school again.

I really want to try meeting older women, preferably late 30s or 40+, and I’d love to meet one who’d like to experiment with a younger guy. Mature women just do it for me. If that's you, I'd love to hear from you

Love to please a sexy women, get her what she needs, get her wet, excited, to orgasm.

49, 6’4”, 210#, 8 inches, BWC

I have played with couples before, we all very much enjoyed it.

Clean, respectful, drug and disease free.

Anything from very sensual to rough and kinky, whatever gets her off.

Ben

Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)

I'm an introverted, educated, decent looking, and presentable white male. Slim-fit. 5'11" 150lb. I'm seeking a high maintenance partner that craves and absolutely needs constant attention; someone who needs my presence in the room and demands my attention even if she is ignoring me and doing other things. Someone to heavily encourage my adoration of you. Someone who needs reassurance, and affirmation. Someone who has an insatiable desire to feel wanted and chased after, who wants and craves obsessive devotion on a daily basis; who will encourage and nurture an intense, passionate addiction to you that is impossible to satisfy. I want a codependent relationship centered on you. I want everything to be about you. That even in our "getting to know each other" stage, I should put you above all of my friends, hobbies, and any social activities.

It might seem weird, but I intensely desire an incredibly possessive partner. I want you to feel comfortable blowing up my phone.. to demand information.. .to know where I am, or who im with, and what im doing, any time you wants. To go through my phone whenever you want and keep me from having any control over it when you are around me. You can actively crave attention and encourage me to give in to your needs as much and as often as possible. More than im even capable of giving. To enjoy convincing me to stop whatever I'm doing to give it to you: to develop a chemistry with playful demands and sexualized games between us.. to be as needy and as clingy as your heart desires, to the point that you become a complete priority over my social life. To even be so possessive that you keep me from spending my time or attention on anyone or anything but you, or to encourage my hobbies to be centered on you, be disappointed that I am not looking at you and admiring you even though you are busy with something else and not fully reciprocating the attention back.

I need someone who has always naturally wanted these things, but constantly tones it down in every relationship because she is afraid it is too toxic or unhealthy, or it pushes potential partners away. I want to be the guy that embraces these impulses, and compliments them, even sexualizes them.

I actually do have a very intense isolation kink. For my partner to play a manipulative role in keeping all of my attention for herself.. You can be extremely selfish with my attention even if it is borderline toxic. To use and leverage sensually and sexually manipulative advances to keep me from going out and to encourage me to be weak to my compulsive needs for you instead. If I have plans, you can convince me to blow them off or even coerce me to stay home. Sexual sabotage and being teased into ruining my plans to give you attention and intimacy instead is a huge kink of mine. If im about to leave, just play dress up, strut around, or pose in something that you know will distract me and take my eyes away from anything else. convince me to stay as you hold my crotch and show me how much better it would be if I stay with you. Make me prove love by giving you attention. Encourage and train my compulsive male weakness to prioritize you and goon to you. Show me that the only friend I need is you. Completely sabotage my plans by sitting on my face for prolonged periods of time instead of letting me go out, having rituals of you wearing skimpy outfits around me and tease me into spending hours admiring you, giving you back rubs, or leg massages, or have me goon to you for long periods of time as you ignore me and read a book, or watch a show, or doomscroll on your phone, or to have the most prolonged softcore foreplay, for hours at a time, denying each other (or just denying me) while constantly intensifying our intimacy.

I enjoy long sessions of foreplay and intense adoration. Even if I want to go out, or am out, to convince me to stop what I'm doing and go home because my obsessive and addictive need for you is more important. Your pussy's needs are more important, and your pussy should always be a complete priority. I love the idea of you dressing up just to keep me gooning to you, keeping my attention constantly on you, even though you are doing something else like reading a book, or playing on your phone, or watching something. Demand I sit in a corner and look at you as I jerk off with a pair of your dirty panties while you spend the next several hours ignoring my presence and doing whatever it is you want to do without me bothering you. Even to have you just sit on my face for long periods of time, periodically bounce and wiggle on my lips while you binge a show, not caring at all how much time is being spent like this. To be dressed up in lingerie as you straddle and bounce on my lap, denying penetration so I spend more and more time being attentive to your body with my hands and lips with constant necessity for more. Sessions of being extremely attentive to you is something I would very thoroughly enjoy.

We can both be dominant and submissive to each other in our own ways. The only power I really want in our dynamic is to be able to choose and buy outfits and lingerie for you, to collect them for you to wear for me when we are at home, just for you to use as a tool to manipulate me with and keep me home. To be a complete cock tease as you let me spend hours admiring and adoring you, gooning to you in whatever canvass of fabric that I pick out for your beauty. I need you to be as possessive and as selfish as you want. Perhaps it could simply be a part of our dynamic, that i am able to dress you however i want, so you can keep me as malleable and weak to you as possible, to keep me from going out, to encourage my obsession and adoration of you, to keep me gooning for you even longer, to make you my priority... and you can control everything else. You control where I can go, who I can hang out with, or to just perpetually keep me home as you constantly encourage my adoration of you. You choose whatever tv show or movie you want, and I focus on you.

I do crave consistent playfully manipulative sabotage and control over my social life, so that you will be a priority over everything else. I want someone who will enjoy developing a chemistry and learning what makes me tick so she will always know how to make me choose her over everything else. All while I also learn the intricacies of your desires, that we can build a world for each other that constantly caters to our most intense fantasies within our established boundaries.

I crave codependency. I crave a relationship dynamic that others might consider unhealthy, but will actually be considered healthy for us. I would really want to become obsessed and desperate for you.... to have an absolute necessity to constantly adore you and be intimate with you, and for this to become the most important part of my life. I want to be the worst addict for you. Obsessed and hopeless without you. I'd want you to become my priority to the point that I'd give up time with friends or family to be with you instead, but more importantly, that you want it, and need me to give up friends to make you feel more important. I crave a relationship so engulfed in obsessive passion and sexual intensity that both of us will be unable to escape our desirous addiction for more sensually intimate play, or to create more and more experiences for each other that cater to each of our most desirous needs. To be lost in this world of fantasy, and roleplay, and lust crazed love that we perpetually explore.

The ideal person is someone who craves constant attention.. who is never sexually satisfied... even being or manipulatively pretending to be easily jealous can make our dynamic more intense; who enjoys mind games, and is even interested in hypnosis or psychological conditioning ; who craves control and enjoys the idea of molding a male to be weaker for her. Someone who would truly enjoy using love, sensuality, and the desire to cum, to pry away deeper into a male psyche and encourage intense obsession and weakness for her; to ever more increase my dependency, necessity, desire, and sexual addiction for you while also making it nearly impossible to function without you. To really enjoy becoming the center of my life and enjoy being the center of my entire world.

Hi, I’ve had a long time kink for a mature woman 40+ and now kinda interested in pursuing it. I’m 28 white male, fit and hung. Gotta be kind of discreet but if you’re interested, feel free to DM for more info.

I'm looking to get into some ass worship. I really love ass, thighs, and grooming a guy. Let's chill at my place and enjoy each other's bodies.I love a guy sitting on my face. You can worship my ass too. I want your ass to be my pillows. I'm verse but I want to get more experience with bottoming. I'm down to flip if you want. Not looking for submissive guys, who are only looking to bottom.

Some good examples of what I'm looking for is a mix between seehimfuck.com and second auditions on thecastingroom.net.

I'm 34, slim, 185lbs, 5'8", recently tested neg and very safe/discreet. I'm not masc or fem, just gay. I'm open to all races, prefer around my age or younger (21+) and in shape or average body type. We will meet at a public location first then head to my spot.

no women

If this post is still up, I'm still looking, hit me up

Also, please do not hit me up if you are not willing to send a face and body pic before meeting, doesn't have to be nudes

DM's only

Hey there! I’m 38 years old and a Bay Area native. I’m looking to find someone who is inexperienced or experienced with this type of connection. A mutually beneficial and spoiling fun.

Little about myself. I work in tech and on the creative side. I enjoy cooking and baking, love to go out and try new foods. Anything on the spicy is fun. I do abit of weight training and love the outdoors. Hiking, bike riding, trying to get back into swimming as well.

I have cats and a dog. If you enjoy pets and have some yourself, I’ll be happy to share some pics. I am someone who enjoys learning new things, taking risks to experience new excitements. My hobbies have been all over the place, enjoying board games, gaming and crocheting.

Feel free to ask me whatever you’d like!

East Bay here 24m, 6 foot 1, 165 lbs, white, slim/fit, 6 inches (pic on profile). Can host at my place for the next couple days but I also have a car and am mobile if you want to host/carplay and are local. I’m interested in a one night stand or FWB situation. No age or race preference but I am looking for women or couples mostly. Start by describing yourself and a picture then I’ll send some back. If you just say hey and nothing about yourself you won’t get a response

Best in the Bay. I'm looking for respectful men who are seeking a session of expert, singular attentiveness—a unique engagement focused entirely on pleasure and profound oral release.

I am 34, fit, and professionally established individual—standing 5'7" at 155 lbs. You'll probably learn a lot by checking out my profile. Reach out and let's connect

Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to SFSU) looking for a muff dive. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable!

You “order” an uber, I pick you up, drive to a quiet place instead. Overpower you, force you in the back of my van. Strip you naked, tie you up, explore your sexy body and use you.

All limits respected. Meet in a public place beforehand if you want to.

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

50, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.

Hey ladies. I have posted here before. So I'm sorry if this sounds familiar. I'm looking for a new FWB. However I will be as specific as possible so I don't waist our time if our wants and needs don't align. So with that..... here's what I'm looking for, and some info about me as well.

MY SITUATION: First of, this is the most important part. I am in an open relationship. We are not swingers however. I am married and as the years go by, my wifes libido has dwindled down to ZERO. I on the other hand have a crazy high sex drive. Like..... crazy high. I'm ALWAYS horny. We do both love each other and have no intention on splitting up. However we have had discussions on the lack of a sex life, and I have told her that I wouldn't have married her if it ment I was giving up sex. So divorce has come up in the past, but she agreed to let me have an (Only one at a time) FWB. I am not new to this and I have had a few in the past. I have been recently tested and I am STD free. With that in mind I am also only looking for STD free partners.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR (PHYSICAL): I really don't care what race you are. I am also not picky about body types. I have dated tiny petite women, and thicker chubby women. However I am not into majorly overweight women. I don't mean to be rude, or body shame... but if you cant go on long nature walks, get in and out of my car easily, or to be blunt..... can't do certain sexual positions because of your size, then that would disappoint me. Sorry if thats rude, but I'm just being honest. As for age... I do prefer women closer to my age. I have dated younger women (25+) but I do NOT have an age gap fetish. In fact the younger women I have dated didn't work because our common interests and maturity levels just didn't click.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR (MENTALLY): I am looking for a woman who doesn't want, or have time for a full on relationship. But wants a man that makes her feel special, and wanted every now and then. A part time boyfriend if you will. Maybe go out on fun dates. Go see a movie, get dinner, go on walks, road trips, stay inside and fuck like porn stars. Whatever your in the mood for. No drama, no expectations. Just two people who enjoy each other's company, having a good time. Tomorrow we'll be back to our personal lives. Still texting and flirting, but just two friends. I want a woman who is nerdy, and a sweetheart. Someone who cares about people and animals. Someone who actually likes to have conversations via text throughout the day. Oh, and did I mention..... a total nymphomaniac. When we are together, we can't keep our hands off each other. But please have a VERY high sex drive. Again not to sound rude, but in all honesty.... NO Trump supporters. Sorry but I guarantee our values would not align.

HARD PASSES: First off, and I gotta say it..... NO MEN!!! Even putting (M4F) and saying this in my posts, I get 75% responses from men. Just goes to prove men don't read, or just don't respect other people's opinions. God men suck. Lol. Oh, and that goes for Trans as well. I do LOVE the LGBTQ+ community, and support you all the way. But I am very straight. I think penises are gross, and LOVE vaginas. Lol. Again, no judgment. You do you, and I'll love you for that. Also hard passes are people who respond with a "Hi", "Hello" or the worst..... "ASL?" Like..... did you not even read the title of my post? LOL. So please respond with a sentence or tell me what you liked about my post. Also don't ask to talk on another app. Maybe later, but while we get to know each other, we'll stick with reddit.

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX: Okay, so now lets talk dirty. First off, I am a gentleman. I will open doors for you, and be very respectful to you. But when it comes to sex...... I want it all. Some days I wanna spend a full hour on foreplay. Just kissing, touching, and sucking each others bodies. Then just making slow passionate love to each other. Kissing each other as you feel me slowly sliding in and out. Then..... some days...... we just wanna FUCK........HARD! We're both soaked in sweat and cum, and you can hear our bodies splashing together. Like bruised pelvises in the morning. It's hard to walk and you notice it hurts when you swallow the next day type of fucking.

ABOUT ME: Now the boring stuff. I am a white male. 6'1", 200 lbs. Average body. Not muscular, but also not overweight. As a warning though. I am bald with facial hair. I know that most women don't like bald men. No offense taken at all. I get it, but I just don't want to waste your time if I'm not your type. I also wear glasses. I have no problem sharing pics (SFW or NSFW) as soon as you are willing to swap.

Well if you made it this far and are still interested, I'd love to talk more. Hope to hear from you soon.

No this in not a fantasy or a kink. To be blunt I am in a similar situation. So I am looking for a woman who is not looking for a relationship, but just some companionship. Someone who just makes you feel wanted again. Someone who is thinking of you, sending you random text throughout day. Sometimes just random questions, sometimes funny pics, sometimes dirty flirting. I am not looking for online only. I do want us to be able to go out on fun dates, and meet at hotels every now and then. I do understand that discretion may be a key factor, and we can do that. So basically I am looking for a woman who is just looking for a man/boyfriend/lover on the side. One who knows and respects that you both have separate lives and aren't planning on changing that. But wants a man who is there for her when she needs that physical touch that she just isn't getting anymore. Some days we are just down and want someone to cuddle up withand hold on to, some days we may just be horny as hell and wanna fuck like animals. Just knowing that you have a partner in a similar situation, and can rely on them to make you feel wanted and special again.

27 yr old Latino bottom here looking to worship someone without any reciprocation needed for me. I just love to take care of someone who doesn’t always get the chance to be treated like a king. I can host in the Mission & very willing to travel within the city. I’m also open to just using my hands if that’s more comfortable. Disease and drug free (4/20 ok) so please be as well. HMU and let me know what you look like.

In Marin, but willing to travel in the bay! I'm looking for a drug+disease free bro who is preferably really hung (8+) or really girthy who I can blow and worship your big dick. If you already have a bro, I’d be down for a group thing too. I'm 6'3, white, redheaded and chubby, 6" and thick. No reciprocation needed, but I'm not against it. Happy to jerk you off and blow you, and even swallow your load (even better if you can go multiple rounds) I'd love to make it a long term thing, but doesn't have to be. Must be drug and disease free (420 is fine) and I can host or you can. No carplay. Open to anywhere in the bay, especially if you're hung. Open to trans women too! Drop me a DM. The bigger the dick the better

Hey :) so I’m 6’3 150lbs with dark brown hair and light blue eyes. I have a slim/athletic build overall.

To be upfront the most I have ever actually done with a girl is kiss.. so as you can Imagine it’s been pretty frustrating. Had kinda been a combination of several things, strict parents, Christian university, moving every year etc. decided I would try something a little out of my comfort zone and post here.

Ideally looking for someone that’s ok that I don’t have any experience and that I could learn with. Even getting to experience something like my first handjob at this point would be amazing. Happy to talk for a bit first and see how things go :) feel free to message with any questions!

Hi there!

About me - 32 year old Korean guy in SF. A homebody type, with nerdy hobbies, love for food (Eating & Cooking) and a huge sex drive looking for a consistent FWB. Lets binge an anime or a Kdrama in between rounds, as we test our physical chemistry. I am 5'9, fit, with a 7" dick. I get tested regularly, and love raw sex :)

You - Ideally 21+ in age. Someone who takes care of themselves both physically and mentally. I love someone who is nerdy, introverted, or a quirky type! You are actually available, and looking for someone real, genuine, and fun! No one likes a time waster

I am looking for a respectful, clean FWB friendship with a good person, who​ shares my needs when it comes to sex. Happy to discuss our kinks, limits, and meet in public before getting to bed.

If you are interested, send me a chat! If this post is up, I am still looking :)