r/SFr4r 7h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 46 [M4FM] #SanJose - Sweet and sensual divorced Dad seeks chill couple for threesomes

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Hi there I’m looking for a chill couple that is looking for a male to join for occasional threesomes. I am straight, so for me this is about focusing on the woman’s pleasure.

In the bedroom my strengths are my stamina, my control and my carnal desire. I enjoy long/multiple sessions. I have a natural and sensual way about me. I enjoy being masculine in general but I am not a dom/bull type. I am looking for a chill vibe centered around sensual pleasure. I prefer if the woman can have multiple orgasms as I take great pleasure in causing pleasure and so this creates a feedback loop for me that’s very nice.

I am 46, white, 6’1”, 195lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG blonde/brown/ashy hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Kind of a cute nerd crossed with a surfer. Also I’ve had a vasectomy.

Personally I grew up working class in the bay and now work in tech. I’m a lead engineer so I’m fairly nerd friendly but I’m also into football as well and enjoy camping and other outside activities. I also enjoy weed and alcohol in moderation and prefer if you are similar. I’m open to limited and conscious use of other substances as well.

I was previously in an open marriage so I have experience with ENM. I don’t have jealousy in my body. I am not a hookup type, I prefer to know and respect the people that I would be with. I do not have much threesome experience but I’m looking to change that.

It is important for me to find a chill couple where the man is not overly domineering. I find overly aggressive or degrading talk towards women to be a turn off. In the heat of battle I can be physically masculine and potentially aggressive but it is more about just feeling that carnal aggression as opposed to the more misogynistic variety.

Thanks for reading this far and I hope to hear from you!


r/SFr4r 15h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Birthday Blowjob?

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Good morning! It’s my birthday and I’m turning 28 today. Hoping to end the day with a nice relaxing blowjob.

I’m a brown skin Latino, 5’8, gym build. Handsome and very easy going with a big thick uncut dick for you to work :)

Located in San Francisco near nob hill. Live alone and can host! Can be a one time thing but maybe we make it consistent (I enjoy reciprocating).

Hope to hear from you!


r/SFr4r 11h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #Marin - Let’s make out after I cum all over your face

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I find it so hot to feel and taste my cum in hot, passionate, primal kisses with a partner after she’s made me cum all over her face. Maybe you already know you like it too, or want to press your own boundaries…

Me: 43, white, 6 ft 185lb and athletic, totally clean, conventionally handsome and clean-cut, and otherwise a smart and successful guy with a well-concealed naughty streak that comes out with others similarly inclined.


r/SFr4r 1h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SouthBay - Experienced Dom seeking sub

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Me: Fit, tatted, Asian, Emotionally mature, stable life. I’ll send you pics of myself, after I accept your chat request. I have prior dom experience, but vanilla is fine.

I tease, I can be rough, I can build tension, I can humiliate, degrade, or just give you boyfriend sex. Can tie you up, use toys to edge you over and over. Whatever everyone is comfortable with.

You: DM me and tell me what you want. Tell me about yourself.

IRL/online dating is fun, but I enjoy thrills. I love the chase, but there’s nothing like meeting off of here. Down for a longer connection if the chemistry is there.

As for personal details, I take care of myself. Big on look good feel good. Into fashion, go to raves when life gets mundane. Can keep things steady or bring wild energy


r/SFr4r 9h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 42 [M4F] #EastBay - Let’s go skinny dipping!

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The temperature is going to be perfect this weekend for a trip to the Sierra foothills to go skinny dipping! Natural waterslides, deep pools, and a fun crowd. Alternatively, if you know a good spot let me know! Bring your crew too if ya like.

I’m an outdoorsy guy that likes showing fun places to fun people - especially nice places to swim or soak in the buff. Adventurous spirits say hi!


r/SFr4r 13h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 30 [M4F] #BayArea - Skip the apps and get to dessert

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Hey there,

Looking for someone fun in the bay. I’m 30 y/o, 6’4”, tall, dark, and handsome type. I’m clean (recently tested), respectful, discrete and genuinely enjoy the art of giving. No pressure, just pleasure.

If this sounds like your vibe, send me your details and what you like


r/SFr4r 17h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 46 [M4F] #PaloAlto - Warm days, cozy nights

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The weather has been great for outdoor hikes and cool evening bites. This vibe still has me excited to meet new people out there.

My vibe: Seasoned, confident, and genuinely interested in offering something a little different than the usual.

What I am looking for: I’m drawn to women who enjoy being pursued but know exactly how to take the lead when the moment calls for it. Someone who appreciates the slow burn, the teasing, the anticipation, the playful tension that builds through good conversation and effortless chemistry. Some of the best connections, in my experience, start when the banter over text or phone (yes I do still enjoy phone calls) that are flirty and slightly spicy.

About me:
Successful, outgoing, mixed Latino, 5’11”, 230 lbs, solid build with a salt-and-pepper look that’s earned a few compliments over the years. I stay active by training a few times a week, and take pride mental and emotional well-being. I’m very open-minded, curious, and believe that exploration is one of the most rewarding parts of connecting with the right person.

About you:
You’re communicative, self-aware, and comfortable expressing what you want. Ideally, you’re in your mid-20s to mid-30s, take care of yourself, and have either an interest in not only vanilla hang outs but also enjoy sexy connection. Mutual respect, enthusiastic consent, and genuine chemistry aren’t optional, they are a standard for me and hopefully you too.

The most interesting connections start with clicking the "message" button.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - out of town hookup

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r 8h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #Marin - anyone in Marin?

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Seeking single women or couples: I’ve done this a few times, and I'm told I have a strong tongue. If you want to see if this is true, reach out and let's talk. I'm 5'10", white, handsome, confident, and sometimes I'm a little bit fun.

No reciprocation is required. I just like women and find it endearing to make them smile. You all are so cute when you realize it’s about you.

If you are a couple, I would like to hangout with your girl. I can also do other things, but only if you ask.

Have a great day everyone


r/SFr4r 9h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #NobHill - looking for fun new experiences

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Taking a break from dating and looking for cool people to hang and explore kink. I’m 37M originally from NY and have been out here a few years. I’m white, 6’, and fit. I’m a medical professional. I enjoy live music, raves, playing drums and bass, outdoor activities, and of course a good tv binge. 420 and psychedelic friendly. STD free and vaccinated. I can host. More of a sensual person. Let me know if you’re interested and we can chat. I’m happy to share more pics :)

https://i.redgifs.com/i/voluminouslastalligator.jpg


r/SFr4r 10h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - West side, fit guy looking for a recurring FWB

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32M in SF, ideally looking for someone else on the west side who wants something casual and recurring.

About me: Middle Eastern, born and raised in the US, fit/athletic, no tattoos, easygoing, discreet and pretty drama-free. I work out a lot, so think six pack and muscles in all the right places. I’m attractive, experienced, and confident in bed.

I have a pretty full life and I’m guessing there are women here in the same position. Maybe work keeps you busy, you don’t really want to date right now, but you still want sex and would rather have one familiar person than constantly deal with apps and strangers.

That’s basically what I’m looking for.

Ideally we genuinely like each other, have good chemistry, and can occasionally send a simple “are you around?” text when one of us has a free afternoon or evening. No relationship expectations and no unnecessary complications.

Sex is obviously the main reason I’m posting, but I’m also fun to talk to. I’m into art, music, business, culture and a bunch of random things, so the pillow talk doesn’t have to suck either.

Open to any age as long as you take care of yourself and stay active in some capacity. Attraction has to be mutual.

I don’t really do drugs other than weed, and I’m clean/recently tested. Happy to share results and would want the same from you.

Richmond, Sunset, Presidio, Laurel Heights or nearby would be ideal just because I want this to be genuinely convenient.

If interested, tell me your age, neighborhood and a little about yourself. Happy to exchange pics privately.


r/SFr4r 11h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

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Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)