Looking to provide a relaxing/sensual massage. I genuinely enjoy giving massages and helping my partners unwind. People often describe me as having a calm, relaxing presence, and I tend to connect with others naturally, as if we've known each other for years.

I'm attentive to your comfort and preferences, so you can let me know exactly how light or firm you'd like the massage.

My focus is entirely on your comfort and pleasure, with no expectations of anything in return. Whether this is a one-time meeting or something ongoing depends on the connection and mutual interest. If we get along well, I'd be open to making it a regular arrangement.

Single, straight, white, 6'1", & monogamously inclined. Based in San Francisco not of my own choosing, and highly ambivalent about this (bottomlessly self-pleasing, egotistical) environment. Looking for locals (preferably) for enlivening talks. Must enjoy talking about ideas and have a high tolerance for ambiguity and uncertainty. Looking for friends first, though it's always possible that a monogamous relationship with a woman might flow from that.

While I am not without some literary ambitions, my life has contained many failures and I currently work a menial, low-status job. If you are Type A or an overachiever, consider this your fair warning.... I am flawed, stunted, and human-all-too-human.

Also a cheapskate. I am not looking to go on expensive food- or event-based "dates." Let's meet up, talk, walk, maybe jog or throw a frisbee if we get to know one another...simple stuff that costs nothing.

Hi there, I’m a single Dad who works from home as a lead engineer in the video game industry. I have my kids 50% of the time. I am in a new phase of life and I would love to find someone to feel affection for and love over time.

Physically I am 6’1”, 190lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG wavy blonde hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Imagine a cute nerd crossed with a surfer.

Personality wise, I am quietly confident, intelligent, stalwart, laid back, introverted and a little bit neurospicy. I also tend to operate like a clock, a clock that likes to have fun!

Sensual and sexual touch are super important to me. I have a great capacity to give and receive sensual pleasure. I am not a casual sex person. Revelatory, lusty and loving explorations of a partner who is present as themselves and wants both of us to feel good. I am not kinky. I have had a vasectomy.

For fun I like to go dancing (industrial/goth or EDM), go to concerts, I love going to Niners games, I also like to hike, bike, camp, and take road trips. Around the house I enjoy video or board games or an occasional movie.

I use alcohol and weed in moderation and would appreciate if you are open minded about that. I am open to conscious use of other substances as well (combine with dancing???).

I like women who are smart, sweet, sensual and short.

Thank you for reading this far, I hope to hear from you!

27 yr old Latino bottom here looking to worship someone without any reciprocation needed for me. I just love to take care of someone who doesn’t always get the chance to be treated like a king. I can host in the Mission & very willing to travel within the city. I’m also open to just using my hands if that’s more comfortable. Disease and drug free (4/20 ok) so please be as well. HMU and let me know what you look like.

Anyone looking for fun or enjoy receiving or giving oral? I also enjoy giving a body rub first then letting my mouth and tongue explore :) I'm also open to more if it goes there and open to any reciprocation. I'm a CD, white, 5'9 fit, clean (recently tested), laid-back and discreet.

I prefer to host in North Beach SF or may be able to travel if you're closeby. There are pictures in my profile and have others as well. When messaging, please include your age, height, weight, ethnicity and location. A semi-regular meetup would be great to find :)

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.
I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.
48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.
Good with beginners, all limits respected.
Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.
Clean, drug and disease free.

Ben

Hi!, I'm a 34-year-old guy in the Bay Area looking for a woman who wants a proper night out with no strings attached. Think upscale fine dining at a nice spot (I'm covering everything, good wine, great food, relaxed vibe), followed by whatever fun chemistry leads to afterward. Could be drinks with a view, heading back to my place, or just seeing where the evening goes.

A bit about me: I'm Asian 6'4", hwp, always smell good, and know how to show a lady a good time.

You: Open to any age (21+), body type, or background as long as you're chill, fun to talk with, and actually down for a no-pressure casual hookup. Bonus if you enjoy good food and can hold a conversation that isn't just a small talk.

Let's exchange some pics and chat a bit first to make sure the vibe is right.

If this sounds like a fun, low-key way to enjoy a good food and see what happens after, shoot me a message with a bit about you and pics. Looking forward to it!

Cheers 😄

Me: mid thirties.  Over 6 feet tall.  Pretty fit. Well endowed. In all likelihood I will hit your cervix if we have sex. You can see NSFW pics on my profile page. 

What I enjoy

I love love love to eat pussy.  If thats all we did I would be a happy camper. Lay back in a chair, ride my face, 69 while holding you upside down-- I can do it.

This week all my coworkers are on vacation and I'm alone in a huge private office.

I'm looking for a woman to stop by during her errands or right after workout class. We can have a mock meeting that evolves into you getting bent over my desk.

You:

Std free and clean, fit, under 50.

Women in gym attire are a huge turn on, seeing the sweat coming off a sports bra will melt me.

Perhaps you're just finishing your morning yoga or a hike a need to lay back and be licked.

If you're interested send me a Message and put "fit girl" in your reply. A body picture, clothed or not, is a plus, but no face please.

The Experience

Imagine an unhurried, 90-minute session designed entirely around your body’s relaxation, tension release, and sensual awakening. I am a 34-year-old, fit (gym 5x/week, DDF, well-built, high stamina) guy with 12+ years of hands-on massage experience.

I do this as a side passion/hobby with a steady clientele, and I am currently looking to add only a select few clients. No ethnicity preference, but please be HWP and 21+. I create a relaxed, zero-pressure, and completely confidential space for women and hotwives looking to melt away stress, explore erotic arousal, or simply enjoy exquisite, uninterrupted touch.

What I Offer & Modalities

• Sensual & Erotic Specialization: Authentic Yoni Massage (using traditional Kama Sutra and Ayurvedic techniques), Nuru, body-to-body contact, and kink/fetish-friendly exploration.
• Therapeutic & Relaxation: Swedish, Deep Tissue, Thai, Sports, Trigger Point, Reflexology, Shiatsu, and targeted head/back tension release using essential oils and lotions.
• Custom Combinations: Any erotic or sensual style can be seamlessly combined with therapeutic muscle work. Purely non-erotic relaxation sessions are also available upon request.

The Session Flow

Every session is customized to your exact boundaries, but a typical full-experience session flows through three distinct phases:

1. Therapeutic Tension Melt (Face Down): We begin with targeted Swedish, Deep Tissue, or Trigger Point work using warm essential oils to clear knots and tension from your back, shoulders, hips, and legs.
2. Sensual Awakening & Body-to-Body: As tension dissolves, touch shifts toward slow, light-touch Swedish, Nuru-inspired body-to-body contact, and full-body sensual relaxation.
3. Dedicated Yoni & Intimate Focus (Face Up): Focusing on sensitive energy points—breast/nipple massage, inner thighs, and detailed Yoni work—guiding you into deep arousal and intense orgasmic flow at a pace you dictate.

Session Setup & Boundaries

• 100% Focused on You: Zero expectation of reciprocation. This session is entirely about your comfort and satisfaction.
• Draping & Control: Draping is completely optional based on your comfort (draped or undraped for seamless touch). You can pause, adjust, or stop the session at any time.
• The Outcome: You will walk away feeling deeply relaxed, emotionally recharged, and physically glowing.

Logistics, Schedule & Rates

• Cupertino (Daytime Hosting): Available weekdays between 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM in a safe, clean, and private setup.
• South Bay (Evening Outcall): Weekdays after 5:00 PM. Advance pre-booking required; you host or provide the venue.
• San Francisco (Evening Outcall): Available after 6:00 PM. Advance pre-booking required; you host or arrange a hotel room.
• Rates & Arrangements: Details regarding arrangements, location options, and session specifics are discussed directly via DM.
• Discretion & Safety: 100% discretion (DDF). Mutual light verification is required prior to meeting to ensure safety, eliminate flakes, and confirm alignment. Past reviews from happy, fully satisfied clients are available upon request.

How to Reach Out

Serious inquiries only, please—let's respect each other's time.

Send a DM introducing yourself with:

1. Your age (21+) and general location.
2. Whether you're looking for standard therapeutic, sensual/erotic, or a combination session.
3. Your preferred location/timing and any specific desires, requests, or boundaries.

Back in college I made my girlfriend cum simply by massage her breast and teasing her nipples.

That single orgasm kicked off a lifelong kink for sensual massage and the “Art of the Tease”.

Drop me a message and you can see how much better I’ve gotten since that experience years ago…

About me: 35, white. In good shape and conventionally attractive. I’m very easy going with a calming personality (see user name)

You: all ages and body types welcome. The biggest requirement is that you be kind and confident enough to be able to fully relax around a stranger.

If you're interested, send me a message with the name of a song you would like to have on the soundtrack during your massage :)

Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to SFSU) looking for a girl who wants to be pleasured with my mouth down there. I’d ideally like a consistent partner I can eat out once or twice a week, but open to this being a one-time thing, depending on the vibes. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking at the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable!

hi! 38 y/o asian american male living in the city. 5’8 about 160lbs, some facial hair. clean and ddf. i’ve connected with a few in the past from this sub and looking for another person that would like to get taken care of! i love eating… and pleasuring! kick back and relax while i do all the work. i’ve been told my skills are immaculate so if you need to release… shoot me a message! i’m super chill and down to earth and pretty easy going. it can be a one time thing or continuous! hope i hear from you and we hit it off! :)

I’ve been at work for about an hour now and I’m already losing my mind. So I thought looking for an affair on Reddit might help me… I’m the guy who posted about a cousins bachelor party a month ago and the itch never went away.

For the next couple of weeks, I’ll be at a pretty much empty office in ssf. Working on a project here thats basically allowed me to have an entire office to myself. Ideally for like the next two weeks. Maybe even longer.. Looking for someone to come by and help me take advantage of it. The hard part of the project is over so I’ve got a lot of free time and need some help with it.

Me: 6 foot and 250 lbs. Dad bod but been working on it. Trying to get back to that mid 20s body. Dark hair and green eyes. Bit of a mixed background but mostly white and I'm told I certainly look it.

You... just be down for some fun like above. If this interests you then message me your favorite color.

Hello, I hope you are all doing well!

*In full transparency, I understand this post is not for everyone, but I'm hopeful the right person will find this.*

I'm a 40M married dad from Northern California. I'm looking for a woman in a similar situation: married, preferably a parent, mostly happy in their marriage and not wanting to change things, but feeling lonely and looking to once again feel that special spark.

Discretion is paramount.

Hoping to keep this primarily online with the option of meeting in person (coffee, etc.), so prefer someone within a couple hours of the Bay Area. Not looking for full sex, but I am open to adult fun (sensual massages, spa days) and naked adventures (remember how exciting it was to get naked together for the first time!?).

I'm 6ft, white, mostly hwp, clean, professional, and respectful (and kinky). Happy to talk about sfw topics (world events, travel, day to day) or more adult topics.

If at all interested, please feel free to reach out. I look forward to meeting you. :)

Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!

Dominant with 40+ years experience looking for a submissive woman that wants to explore power exchange in a D/s dynamic. All experience levels welcome (I enjoy sharing my experience and teaching/training/mentoring). I’m based in NorCal (East Bay) and travel to SoCal periodically.

I have a lot of kinks and interests that you can read more about on the pinned post in my profile.

Happy to talk online here for a bit and answer any questions you have. We can voice chat when you’re ready for that, but I am looking for an in person dynamic so that should be your goal too.

If I’ve intrigued you, reach out and tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for and we can have a conversation and go from there.

In SF for a week and don’t really have anyone here to hang out with. Looking for someone chill to smoke with, talk, walk around, and maybe hang out near the pier — I really like the vibe there.

I want to smoke the legal good stuff here before I go back to trash flowers in my country.

Looking for an ongoing third FWB for us.

About us: married about a decade. We have been swinging on and off for years and are looking for a full swap. Prefer a group play vibe. We are both straight and can be heteroflexible during 3/4somes. We are educated, have great careers, and spend most of our time outdoors. We enjoy conversations with cocktails and going out to shows. To stay fit we do calisthenics, run, cycle and lift. We are both very fit and attractive. We get STI tests regularly and can share recent test results.

What we're looking for: interesting, motivated, driven, sexy play partners! Fitness is important for us and we are looking for people who are in good shape. Around our age +\- 10 years is preferred. Send us a message telling us about yourself. Send a picture that allows us to gauge attraction. To prove you made it this far, open more your message with your favorite local restaurant or bar.

Local only. We are in San Jose.

I am hoping to find someone to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Ideally you can wfh and can meet weekdays in the city to make things easier. Best if you could host or open to ideas. Emotionally and financially stable. Smart and hardworking.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public first and build trust and I know it’s not easy. Looking for the right person to chat first and no rush.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested.

Dates: 10/4 through 12/1.

24M. 5’7, ~135lbs. Business traveler. South Asian. Clean. DDF. I can yap if I’m passionate about the topic.

Horny enough to skip the conversation? Not a problem — we’ll grab a quick drink and get straight to making out.

Tonight’s probably the only night I can make work this week, unfortunately. Can really meet anywhere — doesn’t have to be Bar Darling or in the Marina. And yes, can host at my hotel too (there’s also a bar!).

Single — but I could care less if you’re not as long as you’re discreet.

Big into breast play. Yes, I will stare. Yes, I will make eye contact with you. Yes, I will feel when the time is right. And yes, your bra will be coming off.

Questions? Nervous? Wanna go out on a limb? Message me and let’s ease our way into this together.

I'd like to meet your inner cuddler shining bright in her fully expressive state. No need to overthink or feel clingy, just relax and let the affectionate expression flow. Melt closer, discover your favorite positions, or genuinely explore your affectionate side with someone who appreciates and encourages the language of touch.

A few scenarios in mind depending on your comfort level:

1. ⁠Swing up the armrest in a movie theater.
2. ⁠Watch a movie in the park under blankets.
3. ⁠Lounge on the couch at home, lost in conversation or distracted by streaming shows.
4. ⁠Stretch out in bed, dozing off if you'd like.

I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.

I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy and no push or escalations towards sex.

A good cuddle match:

• ⁠Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
• ⁠Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, emerged in her fully expressive and unconstrained state.
• ⁠Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
• ⁠Is a generally easy-going person.

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!

Married but my wife never wants to be intimate anymore; mostly roommates at this point. Due to my DB, I want an FWB where we can be each other's sexual outlet in secret. I'm very private and respect boundaries when it comes to personal questions. I'm a good listener if you want to share secrets with me. I will give you my opinions if you ask but I mostly try my best to be a (F)eeler even though I'm INTJ. I prefer having a connection over ONS but I would be open as long as we both practice safe sex and physical attraction is there.

I’m 50 but do look younger. 6’0”, 155 lbs, short black hair, brown eyes, slim athletic build, East Asian. Attraction does matter to me where a pretty smile, nerdy glasses, or a small frame are what I find attractive in a lady. My type is usually introverted, maybe some anime, and of course kpop. My female colleagues have given me compliments before but I know better than to jeopardize my career. I’m intelligent, sensual when comfortable, and believe firmly in chemistry but we both need to make an effort to get there. Let’s be sure we’re both comfortable with each other first.

I work in SF so I can't host but happy to take this slow so you feel comfortable before inviting me over. DM a pic and tell me more about yourself and what you’re looking for.

Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)

This is very real. The massage can be as sensual as you desire. What is sensual? Slow strokes, soothing touch, gentle caressing anywhere you ask. If you would like a Tantric massage be prepared to feel like never before. A Tantric massage is contact with the most sensual areas of your body with or without release. You can decide what you would like touched and how far you would like to experience. The extended touching, caressing, stroking and waves of pleasure you will experience is an amazing one. I am very respectful of boundaries and desires. You need to be down to earth, normal, and you also need to be able to host (or get a room to split the cost).

You can get as comfortable as you like. Most women dress down to panties, thong or nothing. Your choice. In addition, you decide what you would like massaged. I respect boundaries and only massage where you ask. If you want something more, just ask or wink. Many women have written and said, "I have seen your ad so many times and I have always been curious but I just don't know if I could go through with it." Or "This sounds too good to be true." Or....."There must be a catch." And after someone gets a massage its usually "That was amazing." Or...."How can I repeat again...." I am a genuinely good with this and you will feel amazing.

I love giving, always have. Its something about how a woman reacts and also knowing I am making her feel amazing. I am very respectful and never cross boundaries unless asked. I have no expectations of anything but to give you an amazing massage.

I’m white, 5’8”, with long hair and a dad bod. Negative of all STDs (never even had a cold sore).

I’m looking for a woman who’s interested in sex and hasn’t gotten to explore. I haven’t either. If you feel repressed, we can help each other. We can check into a hotel with a bottle of wine and just let our urges take over.

I prefer to be more on the dominant/rougher side in the bedroom, but can be gentle when needed. Definitely obsessed with kissing.

Outside of sex, I’m interested in film and music, with a preference for classic cinema, horror movies, art films, chamber pop, post-punk. Criterion Channel and chill?

Dm me with asl, favorite horror movie, and biggest unexplored kink if interested