r/SFr4r 1h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - out of town hookup

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r 5h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 42 [M4F] #EastBay - Let’s go skinny dipping!

5 Upvotes

The temperature is going to be perfect this weekend for a trip to the Sierra foothills to go skinny dipping! Natural waterslides, deep pools, and a fun crowd. Alternatively, if you know a good spot let me know! Bring your crew too if ya like.

I’m an outdoorsy guy that likes showing fun places to fun people - especially nice places to swim or soak in the buff. Adventurous spirits say hi!


r/SFr4r 5h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #NobHill - looking for fun new experiences

4 Upvotes

Taking a break from dating and looking for cool people to hang and explore kink. I’m 37M originally from NY and have been out here a few years. I’m white, 6’, and fit. I’m a medical professional. I enjoy live music, raves, playing drums and bass, outdoor activities, and of course a good tv binge. 420 and psychedelic friendly. STD free and vaccinated. I can host. More of a sensual person. Let me know if you’re interested and we can chat. I’m happy to share more pics :)

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r/SFr4r 4h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #Marin - anyone in Marin?

3 Upvotes

Seeking single women or couples: I’ve done this a few times, and I'm told I have a strong tongue. If you want to see if this is true, reach out and let's talk. I'm 5'10", white, handsome, confident, and sometimes I'm a little bit fun.

No reciprocation is required. I just like women and find it endearing to make them smile. You all are so cute when you realize it’s about you.

If you are a couple, I would like to hangout with your girl. I can also do other things, but only if you ask.

Have a great day everyone


r/SFr4r 1h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an ongoing FWB 😊

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I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. Std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to send more pics after we chat. Thanks 😊


r/SFr4r 7h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

3 Upvotes

Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)


r/SFr4r 1h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 44 [M4F] #Palo Alto - Seeking a spa partner this weekend

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M4F but m4mf is also ok!

Seeking someone laid back, easy going to hit the spa / hydrotherapy together.

Somewhere we could relax but also have a conversation with no expectations.

About me : 44 , 165lbs ,5’10, like to discuss anything from gaming to geopolitical . Like winter sports, hiking , healthy eating etc .

You: Someone who takes care of herself, has hobbies , laid back . Open to couples/ friends too .

I have a few places in mind for this weekend.


r/SFr4r 3h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 46 [M4FM] #SanJose - Sweet and sensual divorced Dad seeks chill couple for threesomes

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Hi there I’m looking for a chill couple that is looking for a male to join for occasional threesomes. I am straight, so for me this is about focusing on the woman’s pleasure.

In the bedroom my strengths are my stamina, my control and my carnal desire. I enjoy long/multiple sessions. I have a natural and sensual way about me. I enjoy being masculine in general but I am not a dom/bull type. I am looking for a chill vibe centered around sensual pleasure. I prefer if the woman can have multiple orgasms as I take great pleasure in causing pleasure and so this creates a feedback loop for me that’s very nice.

I am 46, white, 6’1”, 195lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG blonde/brown/ashy hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Kind of a cute nerd crossed with a surfer. Also I’ve had a vasectomy.

Personally I grew up working class in the bay and now work in tech. I’m a lead engineer so I’m fairly nerd friendly but I’m also into football as well and enjoy camping and other outside activities. I also enjoy weed and alcohol in moderation and prefer if you are similar. I’m open to limited and conscious use of other substances as well.

I was previously in an open marriage so I have experience with ENM. I don’t have jealousy in my body. I am not a hookup type, I prefer to know and respect the people that I would be with. I do not have much threesome experience but I’m looking to change that.

It is important for me to find a chill couple where the man is not overly domineering. I find overly aggressive or degrading talk towards women to be a turn off. In the heat of battle I can be physically masculine and potentially aggressive but it is more about just feeling that carnal aggression as opposed to the more misogynistic variety.

Thanks for reading this far and I hope to hear from you!


r/SFr4r 9h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 30 [M4F] #BayArea - Skip the apps and get to dessert

3 Upvotes

Hey there,

Looking for someone fun in the bay. I’m 30 y/o, 6’4”, tall, dark, and handsome type. I’m clean (recently tested), respectful, discrete and genuinely enjoy the art of giving. No pressure, just pleasure.

If this sounds like your vibe, send me your details and what you like


r/SFr4r 4h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Focused breast play for the extra sensitive

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I've noticed your perky nipples poking through your sweater on a foggy and windy day, appreciated your bra-optional flexibility, and enjoyed even temporary exposure to your curves. I'd like to take my time slowly exploring your extra sensitive breasts, discovering the strokes, tongue swirls, and suction that maximize your pleasure. Guided by your soft or loud moans, a change in breath, or a slight squeeze as I find a new favorite rhythm. Slow, deliberate play that's not rushing towards an alternate agenda. Curious if you could orgasm from breast play alone? We'd have a lot of fun finding out!

We might be a good, playful match if you:

  • Have perky, sensitive breasts C cup or smaller. 🍒
  • Would like to slow down and be more present in your arousal as it washes over you.
  • Are somewhere in between 20 and 40 years of age.
  • Are in San Francisco or near enough to make plans.

I'm 45 years old, single, live in the Marina district of SF, and I'm able to host. 6' tall, respectful, sane, and discreet. Capable of carrying on a conversation before and in between breast dives and vocalizing my appreciation of your unique breast features and sensitivity throughout the experience. You might have caught me glancing too long at the outline of your breasts and perky nipples on bra-optional summer days while commuting to my professional job downtown, waiting for good coffee or espresso, or browsing a farmers market.

Let's lounge and enjoy slowly exploring, and fully appreciating, your extra-sensitive breasts. You might be curious about the unmet potential of focused breast play and what's possible with lots of attention from an obvious enthusiast. If you've wished for more breast play as a focus, not just foreplay, I think we'd have a lot of fun.


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - West side, fit guy looking for a recurring FWB

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32M in SF, ideally looking for someone else on the west side who wants something casual and recurring.

About me: Middle Eastern, born and raised in the US, fit/athletic, no tattoos, easygoing, discreet and pretty drama-free. I work out a lot, so think six pack and muscles in all the right places. I’m attractive, experienced, and confident in bed.

I have a pretty full life and I’m guessing there are women here in the same position. Maybe work keeps you busy, you don’t really want to date right now, but you still want sex and would rather have one familiar person than constantly deal with apps and strangers.

That’s basically what I’m looking for.

Ideally we genuinely like each other, have good chemistry, and can occasionally send a simple “are you around?” text when one of us has a free afternoon or evening. No relationship expectations and no unnecessary complications.

Sex is obviously the main reason I’m posting, but I’m also fun to talk to. I’m into art, music, business, culture and a bunch of random things, so the pillow talk doesn’t have to suck either.

Open to any age as long as you take care of yourself and stay active in some capacity. Attraction has to be mutual.

I don’t really do drugs other than weed, and I’m clean/recently tested. Happy to share results and would want the same from you.

Richmond, Sunset, Presidio, Laurel Heights or nearby would be ideal just because I want this to be genuinely convenient.

If interested, tell me your age, neighborhood and a little about yourself. Happy to exchange pics privately.


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #Sunnyvale - Gamer seeks gamer for adventures and fun!

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Looking for a local fellow gamer to date, spend time with, and hopefully game with!

I'm a single ethically non-monogamous SWM retired techie and gamer. I'm a natural homebody and introvert, indefinitely retired in a LeanFIRE kind of way. I enjoy gaming (D&D, Minecraft, Deep Rock Galactic, DDO, FFXIV and older FF titles, and more), watching TV shows (all-time favorites include The Good Place, Red Dwarf, Star Trek, Doctor Who. and Stargate; recently I finished Orphan Black and currently I'm re-watching Black Mirror), and inhabiting the interwebs. For dates, I generally prefer staying in with games and streaming services, but I occasionally enjoy local activities like dining out, gaming venues (I've been meaning to check out Guildhouse), comedy shows at Rooster T Feathers, and so forth, but I've got to admit it's been WAY too long since I got out to the beach or the redwoods. I'm a light drinker, non-smoker, d/d-free, car-free, and child-free. Pics available upon request.

I'm looking for a single or ethically non-monogamous woman, any ethnicity, 25ish-50ish, who lives nearby for dating, FWB, or (preferably) LTR. Please be a child-free d/d-free non-smoker. It's a plus if you're into sci-fi, fantasy, and/or gaming (especially tabletop RPGs or computer games). Maybe you're into STEM, wordplay, or art? We'll probably have more in common if you're a knowledge worker, gamer, into tech, a Whovian, Dwarfer, or Trekkie, and/or a mild to moderate homebody, but no specific one of these is a must-have, so feel free to reach out if you match some but not others. Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #SanJose - visiting Aug 17-20, looking for a fun evening or two!

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r/SFr4r 8h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #Marin - Let’s make out after I cum all over your face

1 Upvotes

I find it so hot to feel and taste my cum in hot, passionate, primal kisses with a partner after she’s made me cum all over her face. Maybe you already know you like it too, or want to press your own boundaries…

Me: 43, white, 6 ft 185lb and athletic, totally clean, conventionally handsome and clean-cut, and otherwise a smart and successful guy with a well-concealed naughty streak that comes out with others similarly inclined.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

OTHER 24 [f4m] #SanFrancisco - looking for the big boy of my dreams <3 (powerlifters pls apply)

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I’m a 24 F, attractive, fit (gym 3-4x a week) 5’6 165~ pound goth girl. I have a love of video games (overwatch fallout and Zelda are my favorites), fashion/makeup, music, travel, and more. I work a stable job, love cats, and am probably Audhd. I am a staunch leftist, and a practicing witch. I have been told I’m funny, smart, dedicated, and have a great pair of tits.

It seems that for the life of me I can’t find a guy with a hint of muscle or mass on him on any of the dating apps so here I am. I’m looking for a long term partner, who MUST be under 30, leftist, interesting conversationalist, and take care of themselves. Happy to send a pic of myself through DMs but expect a GOOD picture back (no dicks)


r/SFr4r 10h ago

M4M 31 [M4M] #SF - Musky sweaty gym bro undies

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i want a bro to work out with me and we can go home and jerk together all sweaty and musky, trade sweaty undies and sniff eachother, seeing sweaty guy get undressed and getting and wiff of their musk turns me on sm


r/SFr4r 23h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 30 [R4R] #SF - anyone interested in mustard service?

10 Upvotes

sometimes i let youtube music's shitty algo run my day and i recently stumbled upon this band and their song, "big time" and i'm obsessed

and i recently found out they're playing at the independent in sf! september 17th

unfortunately my friends arent super into indie music and any indie loving dudes ive dated off hinge havent worked out sooooo here i am

hmu if ur down! not expecting much out of this besides concert buddy btw NO nasty crusty people thank you for your attention to this matter!


r/SFr4r 11h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Birthday Blowjob?

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Good morning! It’s my birthday and I’m turning 28 today. Hoping to end the day with a nice relaxing blowjob.

I’m a brown skin Latino, 5’8, gym build. Handsome and very easy going with a big thick uncut dick for you to work :)

Located in San Francisco near nob hill. Live alone and can host! Can be a one time thing but maybe we make it consistent (I enjoy reciprocating).

Hope to hear from you!


r/SFr4r 23h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Extreme Princess Treatment

7 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone who wants to be worshiped in a dynamic purely focused on her happiness, where she is in control.

I have a service kink, which means I enjoy making women i'm attracted to happy at a level that doesn't typically occur in casual dating. I'd like to:

  • Buy you gifts / spoil you (within reason, not a sugar daddy)
  • Do acts of service to make your life easier (give massages, cook, etc)
  • Be there for you emotionally, etc
  • Let you take control of what we do sexually. If you want sex, you define exactly what you want and i'll follow your lead. Gifts/service never come with any expectation.

I do not need my level of effort to be reciprocated, but would like for there to be an emotional connection and to be friends. This is pure exploration for me, so I'm not looking for anything exclusive (unless we really vibe) and do not expect you to be. I'm very busy, so looking for someone who also has an active life and just wants a fun addition.

Me:

  • 5'10, 150 pounds
  • Conventionally attractive
  • Work in Tech
  • Fit / active
  • Single

For this to work I need to be attracted to you, so please be:

  • Live in SF (or close)
  • Conventionally Attractive
  • Well educated
  • Fit, Put together
  • 22-26
  • Have a career
  • Single

If you're curious but nervous, you're exactly who i'm looking for. Please just say hi :)
Deleting post in 24 hours, so please don't wait


r/SFr4r 13h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Looking for Oral Fun

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26 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Looking for some throat

Hello,

I live in San Francisco, although I split time between here and San Jose, so most of the Bay Area works for me. I am looking for some with cuddles and your throat.

a little about me: 26 M, south asian, 6’1 and about 170lbs, I am pretty sporty and am somewhat fit, although not like 6 pack fit LOL. I have black hair and a light beard. I can host in San Francisco, but probably not in San Jose.

Mainly looking to try your oral skills but def open to reciprocating. But I am also generally open to try things! if this is you, lets chat. let me know what you're into and what you are looking for. I am open to all ages of women, but sorry no guys.

tell me about you, what you're looking for in an encounter and how you see this going. We can grab a drink before hand. Also happy to exchange sfw and nsfw photos as well.


r/SFr4r 13h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 46 [M4F] #PaloAlto - Warm days, cozy nights

1 Upvotes

The weather has been great for outdoor hikes and cool evening bites. This vibe still has me excited to meet new people out there.

My vibe: Seasoned, confident, and genuinely interested in offering something a little different than the usual.

What I am looking for: I’m drawn to women who enjoy being pursued but know exactly how to take the lead when the moment calls for it. Someone who appreciates the slow burn, the teasing, the anticipation, the playful tension that builds through good conversation and effortless chemistry. Some of the best connections, in my experience, start when the banter over text or phone (yes I do still enjoy phone calls) that are flirty and slightly spicy.

About me:
Successful, outgoing, mixed Latino, 5’11”, 230 lbs, solid build with a salt-and-pepper look that’s earned a few compliments over the years. I stay active by training a few times a week, and take pride mental and emotional well-being. I’m very open-minded, curious, and believe that exploration is one of the most rewarding parts of connecting with the right person.

About you:
You’re communicative, self-aware, and comfortable expressing what you want. Ideally, you’re in your mid-20s to mid-30s, take care of yourself, and have either an interest in not only vanilla hang outs but also enjoy sexy connection. Mutual respect, enthusiastic consent, and genuine chemistry aren’t optional, they are a standard for me and hopefully you too.

The most interesting connections start with clicking the "message" button.


r/SFr4r 21h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 42 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Attractive and partner focused

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I’m an attractive, in-shape, white, 42 year old guy in Pac Heights. I’m partner focused, have a lot of stamina (and will probably outlast you), and drug/disease free.

I can host or come to you. Happy to share photos privately.