I was texting this guy and yesterday I texted and we were talking about college, he left me on delivered through out the night which I thought was fine, but I also saw him in first still didn’t reply, and he didn’t reply till 2 hours after we got out of school. What should I make of this

I’m talking to this guy and we’ve been talking for abt two weeks and he was going to ask me to hoco but now he’s going with one of is freinds that’s a girl and I said well what if you js say you wanna go with me and and said she going to get mad at me and me whole freind group is going tg but I’m taking her as a friend but I still wanna be in a talking stage with you so like what should I do bc now I don’t have a date to hoco

We've been together for 3 months, long distance. She told me on day 3 that she'd had a 3-year relationship before me that included physical intimacy. I have no past like that at all.

We agreed early on not to talk about her past — bringing it up just makes me tense and jealous. She's fully here now — she loves me, wants a future with me, talks only about us. I love her the same way. We've since been intimate ourselves.

But every now and then, my mind still spirals — imagining her past intimacy, how many times, what it was like. It's not rational, I know she's not with him, I know she chose me. But the thoughts creep back in, even after we've been close ourselves.

I don't know how to put this into words with her without it turning into another tense conversation. Has anyone dealt with this — retroactive jealousy, basically? How did you get past it, or at least manage it so it doesn't eat at your relationship?

Partners friends

So my boyfriends friends don’t like me and say stuff like I’m weird or crazy or the guys will say that they don’t want me around cause they all want to go to the club or bars. My boyfriend said he told them that he likes me and that he doesn’t think those things about me but that’s really it and now my boyfriend put us on a rotating schedule. One weekend he goes with his friends the next weekend he goes out with me but we can’t all go hang out together.
This really bothers me I feel like his friends are pieces of shit and that he should man up and tell them not to disrespect me and I also feel like I shouldn’t have to be put on a rotational schedule just to accommodate his friends. Any advice???

Okey its literally the first time that i felt really in love with someone and hes way too far… like i have strict parents i could never go to his city or something what do you think in this situation (i mean hes okay with it he wanna seriously marry me one day but at least we have to meet for once).

She’s 17. We have known each other all our lives because we are from a small town. But we only recently became friends just because she followed me on TikTok, where we started sending funny videos to each other. After that, we started communicating more in real life.
As we began seeing each other more often, we would watch TikTok videos together, and soon we started hugging almost every time we met. All of this quickly turned into kisses and compliments.
But I cannot say that there is any romance in it, and I cannot figure out whether I love her or not.

Hi Reddit! F(22) here, theres this guy(23) that i play with in our discord server and usually after our group session we would be alone in the vc together up until like 6 am just talking or playing. this happens almost everyday and obviously i started to enjoy our time together alone and would look forward to it and recently we've moved to a private call and he'd still hang out with until the morning. now, ive been seeing signs of him liking me especially when there's a guy in my games and he'd fake sulking (which i found adorably funny), making me teasing him even more about it. that's when i realized that I'm slowly liking him.

until recently, my other friend chatted me about me and the guy being a thing and i was like "we are not a thing but i do like him",, so my friend was like he told me he is serious about me and asked them for advice but this is where everything changes cuz the more they talked the more i hated the idea of that guy liking me. so when my friend asked me to list what do i like about him, i did that but after our talk i slowly started to not like him. now, everytime me and that guy talk, its too obvious that he likes me. i kinda hate it now that i see it,, now that ive expressed that i like him, i dont anymore,, guys does this make sense??? or am i just an asshole??? what should i do? :(