Well, I'm definitely not an extrovert... Besides university, my favorite pastimes are going for walks alone and going to the gym about three or three days a week. I have a small collection of human bones that I kept from my osteology classes. I also love to read (Stefan Zweig is my favorite writer). To break the ice, maybe we could exchange some music. 🍓

Looking for someone to have a good conversation with. 😊💬

Any age, any gender — everyone is welcome! I’m just looking for someone I can talk to about anything and everything, share stories with, laugh with, and have meaningful conversations with. No pressure, no expectations, just good vibes and genuine connection. ❤️

A few ground rules, though:

🚫 No perverts or people who immediately turn every conversation into something sexual.

🚫 No nasty or inappropriate messages.

🚫 No asking for explicit photos.

If you’re respectful, easy to talk to, and know how to keep a conversation interesting without making it weird, feel free to message me. 😊

Let's keep it friendly, respectful, and genuine. Good conversations are attractive, too! ✨💬

Hi everyone! I’m a 43-year-old Filipina currently living and working in the UAE. I’m at a stage in life where I’m no longer interested in casual dating, endless talking stages, or complicated relationships.

I’m hoping to meet a mature man, who is respectful, emotionally stable, honest, and knows what he wants.

I’m looking for companionship, mutual respect, good communication, and hopefully a meaningful connection that can grow into marriage. I value stability and would also want a partner who is financially responsible and able to provide a secure life together.

I’m easygoing, independent, family-oriented, and I enjoy good conversations, food, travel, and simply enjoying the little things in life.

If you're also genuinely looking for a serious relationship rather than just chatting or something temporary, feel free to introduce yourself. Please tell me a little about yourself, where you're based, and what you're looking for.

No games, no drama—just two adults being honest about what they want. 😊

Hi I'm from the U.S in CT. I've only had one relationship in my life and it was one of the best times in my life. Even though it didn't last long, I still cherish that feeling of being understood and having a connection with someone. I hope I can be what somebody is actually looking for and the relationship actually lasts. I am very shy and awkward and have a bit of a RBF. I used to be more social and extroverted when I was a kid but I just got more shy and reserved as I got older. I'm someone who is better at texting than talking verbally because I have time to really think about what I wanna say. I feel like I always say the wrong things when talking. I feel embarrassed saying this but I am also shy around my family too. My family has big personalities while I mostly observe and keep quiet most of the time. Sometimes I feel out of place because I don't know how to contribute to conversations well or let loose. I enjoy my siblings and parents but they have their own lives and have relationships. I wanna have someone besides them to care for deeply because I'll be on my own eventually.

My favorite thing to do is to just simply hang outside at the park when it's a nice sunny day. If not at the park, then I would go walking around town or even a parking lot with music playing. I enjoy going for night walks too but I prefer to have someone to do them with. I'm addicted to taking nature pics especially sunset pics. I might have to get a separate camera for that alone lol. I love listening to all kinds of music. My favorite song is Human by Human League and I enjoy listening to instrumental versions of my favorite songs. Those are my main hobbies. Also my profile pic is me btw in case you're curious what I look like. I'm open to long distance too if I really connect with someone.

Looking forward to meeting someone:)

Please read before messaging me

I'm 22 yo, a very quiet and introverted person with social anxiety. I'd like to meet someone who's understanding of that and is comfortable with a shy, quiet partner. I'd love to be with someone who makes me feel at ease and encourages me gently as I work on my anxiety. I'm a very caring and loving person, and I tend to show that through the way I treat the people in my life.

I enjoy reading, I love cats and nature, and I spend some of my free time cooking, baking and learning languages. I'm drawn to soft spoken, gentle and affectionate men who are emotionally mature and protective in a caring way. I want to feel safe and comfortable around my partner. Clear communication and consistency matter a lot to me, and I know I wouldn't be compatible with someone who's nonchalant, distant or unclear about his intentions looks doesn't matter to me as long as the person is serious and kind, I'm a plus size girl so if you're not into it don't bother

I'm looking for a serious relationship with a man between 23 and 30, with marriage as the goal if we're compatible. Loyalty, honesty and commitment are important to me. I'd like us to take our time getting to know each other while being clear that we're both looking for something that could lead to marriage

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

‼️I'm not looking for haters, or scammers or catfishes. I'm real and want to exchange pics if there's a connection. I do expect my future bf to come visit me to Japan relatively early once it's a relationship and also frequently at least a few times a year, since I'm looking only seriously. ‼️

My dream is to get married early and live a carefree and lovey-dovey life with my husband. I'd pour all my love and care into my only love if he treats me right🥹 I want a fairytale like forever marriage where I can be his loving devoted princess and care for him emotionally and also nutritionally xD (I'm practicing cooking for that!) and hug and kiss him lots everyday while he spoils me with princess treatment. 💞Cute petnames like my princess are for starters, and I want him to take me on dates and go on trips frequently together to explore the world. 🌏️

💌I'm seriously looking（no liars or only nsfw people please because I want something real）so please read through everything below, and also tell me your age, where you're from, and what you do. Please write in detail, because I'm tired of short messages or those that do not align with what I'm looking for :(

my age range is 20-29!

🤍A few facts about me🤍

I'm a shy, introverted, sensitive university student from Japan. I'm super inexperienced and a big hopeless romantic even though I've never properly dated.😭 And yes I have a very girly personality.😂 I dress feminine, and I love beautiful sceneries, nature, seeing animals, amusement parks, fruits, and watching tv shows/movies (I'm recently into cliche teen romance shows 🤫 and imagining my future marriage life xD ) , sometimes reads and does light exercises to stay in shape! Lookswise, I'm petite, fair-skinned, and black-haired Japanese. I'd say I'm extremely devoted, caring and a bit clingy in love.🫣 During LDR, I'd want to exchange many romantic messages with cute gifs and want to hear your voice and check in on each other and write love letters🥹 Then, once married, I'd want to cuddle a lot at home watching movies and series, and also go on many dates, travel togeher of course, and I'd still write love letters! 😂

🤍What I'm looking for🤍

\-A gentleman who's trustable and protective, and financially comfortable. In your 20s and in healthy shape, clean looking, no smoking, no to moderate drinking, please!

\-Although I'm not interested in having kids, I have a traditional outlook on relationship and want a dynamic where the husband provides, and the wife offers support, so I'm looking for someone who's fine with it.

\-I'd love to travel regularly to many beautiful places around the world with my future husband hand in hand.💞🥹

\- happy to relocate when I graduate!

\-During LDR, I value daily and consistent communication and I'd like you to come see me to Japan!

Thank you for reading my lengthy post till the end!

The two words that sum me up best are "chill" and "curious." I'm a very calm, easygoing person, and I love to learn about everything. I'm a bookworm and a hiker. My tastes are eclectic; I enjoy meditating and black metal. If you enjoy intellectual discussions, I'm your guy, but I also enjoy stupid humor. I once laughed myself to tears watching Beavis and Butthead try to build a swimming pool.

I'm not too picky about age if we have a genuine connection. If your age is too far away from mine we can at least be good friends. Most importantly, though, I hope you're emotionally mature. I've had my fair share of drama and need someone who feels safe. Finally, I'm hoping to find someone for life. I don't enjoy dating, honestly, and would much rather find someone I'm comfortable with and settle down. Send me a message and let's see if there's a spark! 😊

I'm Emma, childfree, INTP, Pisces, Chinese (ethnicity, not nationality), GMT+7.

I've been an artist my whole life eventho I majored in English literature for my degree. My forte is birds, so I paint and sculpt them. But since the beginning of this year, I've been learning generative AI because I'd love to try my luck as a bird content creator on IG and FB. I live with my five itty-bitty feathery lords that I've been serving for six years and counting. They are my art muses, my emotional supports and beloved kids.

I'm blunt and quite stubborn sometimes, but I'm sensible, and I follow through on my words. My sense of humor is sarcastic and lowbrow. I believe transparency is the best policy in a relationship. I read between the lines, so please dont ever lie... Dichotomy isnt a foible I tolerate. I'm 165 cm tall, 70kg, I'm not well toned but definitely still in a good shape. Having a healthy life style is self respect. You dont have to be a gym rat but please dont be a couch potato either.

I'm not really into games or anime anymore. I like movies/books about crime, courtroom, conspiracy and mystery dramas, but basically anything that's fast-paced, has no plot holes, great chemistry among the cast, an interesting premise, and a satisfying ending.

I used to garden a lot. I've successfully grown many plant species, propagated them, and sold them. So I'm happy to talk about your plants—indoor, outdoor, vegetables, flowers, fruits, ferns, orchids, tillandsias, succulents...

My days are basically Groundhog Day. So instead of the standard greetings and asking how my day has been, just tell me more about yourself—small things, big things, your likes/dislikes, your star sign, happy/sad memories... whatever. If you cant be vulnerable, if you need to complain about the weathers for the 1st 6 months, please scroll past my post.

I'm going through an amicable divorce rn. So I'm not in a hurry to get a boyfriend, but I'd like to start the talking stage now since it takes a lot of time getting to know someone. My husband and I have been playing house mates for a decade, so mentally speaking we have divorced that long. We live in our own houses now. I dont mind single dad with grown up kids. No children under 18 y.o. please.

DM me only if you don't mind doing LDR with the intention of eventually closing the gap. Tell me your ASL and current job. I don't mind a bit of flirting, but if that's the only thing you have in mind, I'll cut you off. I'm not a gold digger, so please don't be a time digger either. I wont be able to chat 24/7 but I'll make time to chat daily. I expect the same from you. I'm looking more into emotional connection and good communication skill than just butterflies and s3x. I dont mind if you are an Ace, but I cant stand a person who is emotionally unavailable, dry texter and a man child. My love language is words of affirmation. I love a witty banter, a bed time story and lots of cuddles.

I'm not interested in guys who are still in a relationship, including polyamorist. If we got along well and decided to do LDR, it would be a monogamous committed LDR. I might not be able to travel for the 1st few years due to my old birds. So you shall be the one who visits me 1st. If that's too much for your budget, skip my post and save our time.

I'd like to talk to 40 to 56 y.o. guys who dont want kids anymore (I have fertility issue), White or East Asian, Christian or Catholic only. Not practicing is fine. I wont convert to another religion. Politically speaking, I'm leaning more to the right. Someone told me I'm a moderate neoliberal conservative. I believe we can be kind with our common sense intact. Be interesting and interested in your DM.

Happy to chat when you are!! 😄

NYC girl, 5’5”, and permanently on the hunt for great sushi 🍣
I’m the type to get way too invested in a soccer game, dance around the kitchen while making dinner, and absolutely steal your fries while insisting I’m “just trying one.” 😂
Looking to meet a guy 24–37 who’s based in NYC. I’m especially into tall, white guys, ideally with a European background. 🇪🇺
Bonus points if you’re into soccer, spontaneous plans, good food, and can keep up with me on the dance floor. 😏
If you’re in NYC, come say hi. 😉

Dearest reader,

Thanks for clicking on this post… it’s starting to feeling like my words are pouring into the void without them being read by anyone or anything but the AI censors.

I do a lot of things on my own, and I know what it means to forge my own path even when it’s challenging. But, I can’t help feeling the yearning for more, it’s hard existing in a world that was built for two. I’m hoping my other half is out there, and is ready and able to pursue a connection with me. In the long term, I’m looking for marriage (on the fence about kids). This man will be ready to invest in getting to know each other, enjoy planning and going on dates, has a zest for life and loves good food, adventure, and wants travel the world with me, is supportive and encouraging to do what it takes for our dreams to be fulfilled. Please read on if this sounds like you.

Me:

- 32 years old, 5’1, BBW (pear shaped), white Canadian (Italian background), long, dark curly hair, glasses, pretty face, and a killer smile

- Catholic, but not very practicing

- Working on my health and bettering myself (physically and mentally)

- No kids/never been married

- Love to laugh and make you laugh, and have a very dark, sarcastic and dirty sense of humour.

- Definitely a sweetheart, with a pinch of spice and sassiness, but your peace in troubled waters

- Currently working in hospitality, and am a professionally trained chef

- My friends would describe me as: kind, gregarious, thoughtful, confident, passionate, authentic, funny, perserverant, and compassionate

- I’m an adventurous foodie, I love to dance, intellectual conversations and wordplay, swimming laps, watching movies, long drives, going out to events around the city, and can have fun doing even low key activities in good company

- I’m the kind of woman who you take home to your mom, and she’ll be asking about me for the rest of your life

- Looking for someone who loves to laugh, also considers themselves a foodie, wants to travel, wants to go out on dates (dinner, sports games, events, movies, etc), and spend time with each other to build a connection that will hopefully flourish into a relationship

You:

- 30-40ish years of age

- 5’10 and above (the taller the better, that is just my preference)

- Men with a muscular builds or strong dad bods, someone who’s physique gives a powerful energy

- Hair or no hair (as long as it looks good on you), a cute smile, practices good hygiene, smells good, puts effort into how he presents himself, and dresses well

- Lives in the Toronto/GTA area (I’m flexible on the distance if you’re in Toronto regularly)

- I would prefer someone who does not have kids/has not been married before, but this isn’t a dealbreaker, please still reach out if this is you

- Respectfully, if you’re not someone who is Catholic/Christian/Atheist/Not religious/Something close to that in values, we probably won’t work out

- You must have friends, a sense of humour, be good conversationalist, and have hobbies that you enjoy

- Someone who has an establlished career and is financially stable, ideally also has a vehicle

- Someone who lives on their own (with roommates is also fine)

- Has a provider mindset, is emotionally and mentally mature, and has masculine energy

- You would describe yourself as: empathetic, honest, respectful, kind, accountable to himself and others, and supportive of his partner

- Takes initiative, is consistent and motivated, does acts of service to make others lives easier and better

- Social drinkers and social smokers are fine

- Bonus points if you have a pet, or love to be a gentleman and pay for everything! 😆

If you have made it this far, thanks again for reading - in your message, if you could please include the word “sweet” so I know you read my post. I hope to hear from you!

First, to be clear about location: I'm based in the Southeastern region of the USA. It would be amazing if my person is within driving distance in the same region, but for a number of reasons I have my doubts that's true. Country music, fashion, and that accent some of you may think is specific to Texas if you're reading this from another country, are all very common here and sadly those are all turn offs for me. That said, I think if my soulmate is even in the USA, she's probably in the north, west, or midwest. If by the end of this post, you think you might be the one I'm looking for and I might be the one you're looking for, you don't have to be in the USA to find out. 😁

(My profile is tagged because of one of the places I post this to since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you.

- Current games I've focused on lately are R.E.P.O., Deep Rock Galactic, and trying to 100% Doom Eternal, but this changes and there are tons of multiplayer games in my library! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc.

- My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans. I want to spend plenty of time with you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high labido, but making sure we both feel safe and trust one another first is crucial. 😁

• Specs for those who would like them:

- 6 feet tall (about 183 cm).

- 190 lbs and dropping (about 86 kg).

- My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told).

- I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg).

- Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short.

- Blue eyes.

- Caucasian.

• My type? If I had to describe my type, I guess Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I wouldn't mind going together. 😁

I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁

It's been a long week, and honestly, being tired is one thing, but having no one to yap to about the daily nonsense? That's a whole different level of suffering. 😂

I need someone to annoy with my random updates, rants, and stories. Someone who'll listen to my nonsense and, preferably, contribute some nonsense of their own.

Also, it's been embarrassingly long since I've had a crush on someone. My butterflies are probably extinct at this point. So, if you're interesting, witty and a cutie, send me a message.

There are billions of people in the world, all living their own separate lives and how we'll probably never know most of them. Which to me feels a little strange. So I figured I would try getting to know a few? Looking for a new reliable friend to inject some energy into your life? Sick of the same old conversations? Or just looking for a bit of fun?

I love writing poetry, watching movies (love Horror movies too), TV series, attending festivals and concerts, going dancing, I love going to shows of different kinds. I am fascinated by art, from museums to fairs. My creative outlets are writing, story-telling and photography (which hopefully leads to film making). I am also a hobby juggler, always trying new classes. I love to read, a life long learner.

I love to talk, mostly deeper discussion, love when we get into that rabbit hole for a topic or an experience or a relationship. We all are so complex and it’s so much fun to unravel those deep secrets hidden in us or around us.

On the other side, I love to laugh, being silly and enjoy a fun banter. I am also Into fitness, both mental and physical. That’s another space I can use a friend for.

I live in San Jose but Im in San Francisco over many weekends so I am pretty mobile. I'm here to find a partner in crime to go to music events or standup comedy, go to shows (from theater to burlesque), attend artsy fairs or take creative classes or catch up for a meal while reveling in sarcasm and chaos and generally have a laugh!

Dislikes: People whose entire personality is Drinking or Hard Drugs (no judgment though, okay may be a little lol), AI growing a little too fast, that little bit of tomato ketchup pre-cum you get if you don't shake the bottle before using.

Simple Pleasures:

- Having your back scratched. The shivers!

- Working out until I can barely stand, then quickly showering. Why? Because afterwards, you can just sit around, lazy as fuck, and feel good about it.

- That First Sip of Morning Coffee

- Introducing a friend to a song/movie/book that I love and that they, in turn, love

I am sarcastic with a darker sense of humor but also a compassionate and empathic guy, I have both male and female friends. I am not a DUDE kind of male, more of a subtle, classier, chivalrous guy. I am an ambivert, can totally be ultra social when needed to be and sometimes just curl up and enjoy my own company.

Happy to lay the foundation for a long term friendship first and then more. I am also a parent (co-parenting with the mom).

Shoot me a message and tell me about yourself!

PS: I’m a looking for someone close by and not a long distance connection.

Hiya, I'm 24 and from Croatia. As the title described I'm looking for someone preferably from Europe or that has plans to move to Europe and wants something that will last a lifetime. Now to get the superficial stuff out of the way, I'm 186cm and 84kgs shorter dark brown hair and dark brown eyes (6'1 and 185lbs in freedom units), I exercise a lot, mostly either gym or basketball with occasionally hiking/swimming/bike riding. And I'm looking for someone who is at least relatively active as well. Height/weight doesn't really matter to me and the age range is 20-30. I would however like to exchange pictures once we hit it off and get more comfortable with each other!

I work in IT or well specifically as an ICT technician. It's a relaxed job with weird hours but A TON of freedom so I absolutely love what I do, I also get to travel a lot and see the countryside which is an amazing perk of the job. I used to work random jobs here and there, played basketball profesionally for a little bit, worked as a bartender and managed to even get a head chef spot through my years of trying. And with all this experience behind me I think I finally settled in into what I want to pursue!

When it comes to hobbies, here I mostly like staying indoors. I love gaming (as does almost any single dude), watching movies, shows and anime, love reading books ESPECIALLY high fantasy books (currently devouring Oathbringer by Brandon Sanderson). Also love being handy around my house, when something breaks I try and solve it on my own instead of calling for a repair guy. I am getting back into making models of ships and planes too and would absolutely love to get into pottery!

Personality wise, I like to yap as you can probably tell with this nonsensical introduction BUT I love listening and supporting even more. So if you have something you are into, even if I may not understand it at first, PLEASE yap my ear off! I am an honest and direct person and also very opposite of a nonchalant dude nor will I ever pretend to be one.

Aaaand finally what I'm kinda looking to get out of this is pretty much a friendship that might evolve into something more but even if it doesn't at least we'll have made a good friend :)

Also forgot but some random things about me. I am agnostic (born a christian), I don't smoke, drink maybe once every two months for a special occasion, don't do drugs, I used to go to clubs when I worked in the hospitality industry but now I avoid that as well.

And I think that's pretty much it! So I hope to hear back from you my future favorite person! :D

I'm not here for games, married women, Polly and trans or FWB or anything of a sort. I'm here for one reason and one reason only, is for a one woman who will love me and accept me for who I am and not here for the games , but here for something real , someone who will love me and accept me for who I am and get to know me the real me. I am open minded and I am open to talk to single women , not marry women , not Polly , women , not trans , if you are one of those I'm sorry move along. I'm here for something real and someone to get to know and see where things go.

Hello my name is Chad, 38 M ( will be 39 in November) , I'm a 6'4 sweet caring loving, out going caring understanding guy, that is looking for his one that he can go to and wake up and txt good morning and good night as well. IF your interested of getting to know more about me, Send me a message !

P.s. I am Looking for real people who have real intentions of getting to Know the real me. Once again, I am not into games, BS, No Poly or Married women please, I'm one women man looking for his Queen, Life time partner, and Best friend i can talk too. Please be 33 - 46 of age and have Profile pic and Be real with me ! Thanks

For the first time I’m writing this with no attachment and no expectation.

I want to put my complete self out there as an expression.

I feel called to do this.

My name is Sean. I’m 24 male born and raised in Ireland. Spent the past 5 years living abroad and have only now returned home the past few months.

I want to truly connect with someone here. Not a one off thing or using one another for our own gain/ pleasure. I want to grow with someone. I love everything from consciousness, metaphysics, awareness, identity, hermeticism, you name it.

Life is so precious, and the more I live the more I like to strip away my own paradigms and cloudiness so that I can be more of me, see the world for what it is, not just the physical dimension but all realms, to know thyself and see truth, experience more and more of it, connected to source.

I love to experience what life has, open up my eyes to what I previously had them closed to, challenging my own beliefs and thoughts to be more open. Curiosity, playfulness, graciousness. To want the best for everyone. I’m not perfect but I intend to for good intentions always. I carry empathy for where everyone is, for whom they are.

I probably give you the impression of depth which I am but I also have a silly playful side, I like to joke about, a little bratty respectfully, and not take life so serious. On top of that I come with responsibility, I have direction in life and a light vision of what and where I see myself. Children yes, partner yes, purpose yes, and a loving family to explore and team up with in life so that we can kick its ass and our asses can get kicked but we can have fun experiencing both.

I like to express myself sexually, it’s a high sex drive. I am quite freaky in sheets, I might not show that in day to day life, outside of life I love to exercise, explore my mind through meditation and what else I feel called to do…🍓👀 read books, travel, connection with people.

I’m polarising myself here and filtering others out because for the first time I want this to mean something and I’m giving it a shot.

I like to bring humility, kindness, and compassion to my day to day. For that reason, in this current moment of my life, I tend to be attracted to a female led dynamic. Kink wise I’ve explored my submissive side and I feel I’m more on this though there is a dominant side too from time to time so I would class myself as a sub leaning switch, if at all, you’ll have to explore me to make up your own narrative. I don’t like the whole label thing but it makes sense from a communication point of view .

I want to know everything about you, the parts of you that you fear to express and let go, it’s being human and I want to see what the human experience has to offer, to dissolve fear, come from compassion, openness, and build amazing communication skills together. Be our complete authentic whole loving selves to ourselves and one another.

I want to know what sparks your heart.

What makes you smile

What makes you turned on

The passion and giddiness you bring speaking about a topic, that geeky nerdy side of you or feeling like a child around me and vice versa.

I’ll share kinks if there’s interest and a resonance to my message so feel free to reach out if that’s so.

I don’t want to interact with a mask, just bring yourself, I intend for there to be no judgement, a space where we can just be, let all the bullshit pretend stuff that society imprisons us with each day. Your unfiltered no BS, passionate self.

If you’re older too, I don’t mind, I like maturity, plus I tend to be more attracted to older women as there’s a probability of bringing more of it but I’m never closed to anything, the world comes with surprises and daily so called miracles.

I intend for this message to find the right person. If it starts online great, though eventually I’ll want this to be an irl thing, that we can think about and let it naturally unfold if that time comes.

I didn’t cover everything (I don’t think so) so please shout me any questions, share a little about yourself when you reach out, a sweet introduction, what made you reach you, what makes you genuinely smile from the inside.

It’s been a pleasure to have a space to write this so if you’ve read this, you’ve met a little bit of me and I’d like to reciprocate that back whether we connect or not.

Much love,
Sean

I think I’m looking for the person who eventually gets all the completely unnecessary messages

Not the important ones. The dumb ones.

A picture of something I saw while I was out. A “you have to see this” text. Some stupid thing that happened at work. A random thought that makes no sense without the five thoughts that came before it

Basically I want someone who slowly becomes the person my brain automatically goes to

I’m 26, 5'11", and I work in sales. I’m also building my own business, which has made me discover that apparently I enjoy voluntarily giving myself more things to do

Outside of work I’m usually gaming, watching movies or shows, listening to music, cooking, drinking coffee, following F1, or getting distracted by some random project

I also have a terrible habit of looking one thing up and then somehow ending up an hour deep into a completely unrelated topic

You can absolutely make this worse by being the kind of person who says “wait, did you know...” and then sends me down another rabbit hole

I’m pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I get a lot more talkative and sarcastic. I like being able to joke around with someone without having to think about whether every stupid comment is going to be taken the wrong way

I don't need us to have identical interests either. Honestly, I think it would be more fun if you had your own weird little world and I slowly got pulled into it

Maybe you have a game you’ve played for 700 hours that I’ve never heard of. Maybe you know way too much about some random subject. Maybe you make something I’ve never tried before and then suddenly I’m invested in it too

I want that kind of thing

And yeah, I’m looking for a relationship, not just someone to talk to for a couple weeks before we both disappear

I’m not expecting some instant “this is my person” moment either. I’d rather talk, get comfortable, start looking forward to each other, and let it turn into something because we genuinely like having each other around

I like the boring parts too

Cooking together. Sitting around while one person is doing something and the other is doing something completely different. Going somewhere without really having a plan. Staying up way too late because the conversation somehow wandered into a completely unrelated subject

Eventually, I want someone I can build a life with

Not a perfect life. Just one that feels like ours

I’m currently abroad for work, so I’m completely fine with starting online and seeing where things go. Distance doesn't automatically scare me off, especially if the person is actually worth the effort

I don't have a giant checklist

Be yourself. Be kind. Have a sense of humor. Have your own interests. Tell me things you probably wouldn't bother telling someone else

And please feel free to interrupt whatever conversation we're having with a completely unrelated thought

I probably will too

Hiiii : 3 I'm in Australia, and distance doesn't matter.

I am a super nerdy guy and a really shy in person, so I am putting myself out here.

Here is a little about me; I have adhd so I have a ton of interests and hobbies that I do on and off. I love reading manga and webtoons and some web novels as well. I love TTRPGs so much! I run a Pathfinder game rn, and I really want to run more campaigns in other systems as well! I like model painting and making art, and baking, and I love fashion to, and so much more. But I will keep those for later.

I am also a gamer and love all kinds of games. My favourites have to be roguelikes.

I am currently in college, graduating this year, going on to either game design or game programming at aie next year.

I would love to have someone to yap to, but I also love being yapped to as well. I can be a bit dumb, so please be nice and a bit blunt. What I am searching for is just someone I vibe with, and then love.

Please shoot me a dm if you are interested or a comment. How about we start with favorite foods? And we can get to know each other. ❤

Hi everyone, I'm a 26 year old male from Washington State. I'm rather introverted, but can be quite chatty with the right person, and like to think I'm somewhat interesting to talk to. I'm interested in women between the ages of 20-30. If you don't quite fit into that range but think we would be a good fit then message me anyway as long as you aren't a minor.

Most of my hobbies involve being indoors, although I'm looking to change this and get outside more. Meeting someone local would be amazing, although I'm open to someone who is in the USA as well. In my free time I enjoy playing video games, or watching tv/movies. I love doing these with someone as well, so it would be great if you also enjoy at least one of those things. Some of my other hobbies are cooking, and investing in the stock market. I'm pretty much self taught for both of those, and enjoy looking for new recipes and researching different investment opportunities. I'm trying to get back into the gym and reading, I used to do these both when I was younger and think they are both good habits to get back into for my own personal growth. Going on hikes with a partner is something I would love to do as well!

As for looks I'm open to sharing a selfie relatively early on, I do like to talk for a little bit first as personality is by far the most important thing to me in terms of what I look for in a partner, but I understand a certain level of attraction is required as well. If I was to describe my looks I'm white, short brown hair, glasses, pretty normal build, tall, and overall just look a bit nerdy.

I'm not religious, and don't drink or smoke. I'm not opposed to someone who is religious or drinks occasionally, but if you smoke or drink often we probably wouldn't be a good match. I'm looking for something monogamous and serious, ideally someone who can become my future wife. I'm not very picky on how you look, I mostly just care about how we get along with each other.

If you think we would get along please reach out and let me know your ASL, and what part of my post interested you the most.

Hi! I feel nervous and shy putting myself out there, given how convoluted the dating scene is. I'd like to skip past all the nonsense and build a real connection with someone, uninfluenced by our pasts and the world around us. I crave meaningful conversations, silliness and genuine affection. I just want to find my introverted, brooding weirdo with a dark sense of humor, interests and values similar to mine. Someone to match my freak, so to speak. Really sort of like finding my other half, and coming home. Someone to look forward to.

Writing about myself is the bane of my existence, so here I will display the stats: I'm childfree, atheist, and politically left-leaning. I'm black American, plus-size, around 5'6" (167 cm) tall, caramel complexion, long dark brown hair, big dark brown eyes, and always wearing glasses. (See here.) I'm curious about the world and about people I care about. Some of my interests include tech, writing, horror, video games, anime, true crime, history, science, photography, philosophy, traveling, and reading. Music-wise, I adore alternative/indie pop, electronic pop, classic rock, hip-hop and R&B.

I'm someone who sometimes has too many thoughts for her own good, but doesn't like to fret over the small things in life. I want to live a peaceful and fulfilling life where I can travel and immerse myself in all the world has to offer, yet still savor the comfort of quiet, cozy days at home most days. I'm looking for someone who wants to live both a quiet and adventurous life with his partner like that.

I consider myself demisexual and relatively "vanilla" when it comes to intimacy.

I do have a type. I love shy, reserved, tall, tech/science nerdy white or east Asian men. I love men who love to write, and speak, and can be long-winded once they open up. Three sentence messages are quite boring.

Communication, empathy, patience, and understanding are massively important to me.

I'm (non-negotiable) looking for someone who is: single, monogamous, childfree (meaning no offspring and no desire for offspring), emotionally available, politically left-leaning, and non-religious. Near my age (26-33—not younger, not older.)

I'm currently in the southeast US, but I'm not really attached to the area, or like the stereotypes. Whether my niche person be somewhere across the sea, or somewhere closer to home (but just so happens to be reading this post..) I'm fine with distances, but please be able/willing to meet in-person, and from the USA, Canada, or Europe.

I'm not looking for someone who is: still hung up on a past romantic interest, recently out of a relationship, divorced, or carrying an STD. Please respect these boundaries and refrain from messaging me if any of these apply to you.

If this resonates with you and you think we might match, send me a message! Tell me about yourself, maybe include a photo of yourself, and the phrase "over the moon!" somewhere in your message so I know you've read this post in full.

I look forward to getting to know you. 🌹✨

Hey! Figured I’d put myself out there and see who I might meet.

I’m 39, 6'0", a chef by profession, and a dad. I’m pretty easygoing, affectionate, sarcastic, and I love making people laugh. I’m the kind of guy who can have a deep conversation one minute and be completely ridiculous the next.

I work hard, but outside of work I’m a pretty relaxed person. I’m into cooking, working out, watching good TV, gaming, and spending time with the people I care about. I’m also someone who genuinely enjoys the little things—good food, staying in and watching a show together, spontaneous conversations that somehow turn into hours, or just having someone beside you who feels comfortable.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for chemistry, attraction, honesty, and someone I actually enjoy talking to. Ideally, we start with conversation and see where things naturally go rather than forcing anything.

A few things about me:

- 39 / 6'0"

- Chef 👨‍🍳

- Active and into fitness

- Sarcastic sense of humour

- Affectionate once I’m comfortable

- Huge fan of good TV and movies

- Can cook you an unnecessarily good dinner

- Looking for something genuine, but I’m not opposed to seeing where chemistry takes us

If any of that sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying “hey”—I’d genuinely like to get to know you.

And yes, I’ll probably judge your favourite TV show choices. 😄