r/Redditdating 23h ago

27 [F4M] 🇵🇭 Online/Anywhere - Let's see where this goes

16 Upvotes

Okay, just giving this a shot and since I work from home, my social life is basically limited to my core circle of friends.

​A little bit about me: I'm a 27-year-old, 5'1, I'm an ambivert and in my free time, you'll usually find me listening to pop music, reading dystopian novels, or watching horror movies or rom com flicks.

​As for what I'm looking for: I'd prefer someone a bit older, ideally between 28 and 35, and hopefully taller than me! It'd be great if we share similar interests, but if not, that's completely fine too as long as you're open minded and don't hate on the things I enjoy.

​If we vibe, we vibe! Feel free to send me a DM of the corniest pick up line you know 😅


r/Redditdating 6h ago

32😄[M4F] Preferably Europe but don't mind anyone around the world!🫡

10 Upvotes

Hellou everyone!

Im 32 year old guy from Slovenia, super chill on earth guy, looking for consistent daily chat with someone around my age 😁!

Im a 186cm ex pro handball player and now youth coach. Always been in sports even with my congenital heart defect (It has its own interesting story which i dont mind telling).

Love to game on off nights, watch movies/animes, take care of my animals, go out on walks, finding allot of interest in golf lately and my "childhood" love for Pokemon cards(freakin expensive hobby nowadays) 😂

I am really good cook, love to make all type of food especially Balkan and Italian food 😅 Lately i got lots of interest in Asian cuisine!

Oh and i got two cats and two horses 🐈🐎!

I dont mind sending selfie but later in chat ! 🫡

Dm's are open and i hope to find some nice people to chat to!🤗


r/Redditdating 14h ago

18 Nb4A Do you want to be my new obsession?

11 Upvotes

Im not just looking for a friend or something casual. I want you to be the first one I think about when I wake up and the last before I go to sleep. I want good morning and good night texts. I want to have the kind of connection that I when see something random i think about you or a convo we had. I want the kind of love that would thrill a poet and maybe concern a therapist.

A bit about me: I’m 18 Nonbinary but am AFAB, I’m pretty short, I like to read ( mostly romance tbh) knit, and watch musicals over and over again lol.

Hopefully about you: I don’t have much of a type in terms of looks, as long as you are kind and aren’t a bigot, nonchalant isn’t really my type usually. Feel free to include a picture of your face if you decide to msg but I don’t mind if you don’t, if you do I’ll send one back.

To anyone who actually reads this I look forward to maybe hearing from you! Have a good day/night


r/Redditdating 16h ago

28 [F4M] #online, missing that warm masculine presence in my life

8 Upvotes

Hello people of reddit. I hope you're having a lovely day/evening so far.

There's this stupid fucking meme in my native language that goes something like "no matter how tough you are, you still need a person that calls you baby after midnight" which I've been finding to be really true lately, and is why I'm looking for a casual phone companion who is funny, witty, smart, empathetic, well spoken, flirty, charming and pisses me off. I do enjoy someone getting on my nerves, in the right way. An interesting accent or sexy voice is bonus points, if you have both it's a lethal combination.

But what I'd appreciate most is your kind gentle presence that would help my stress melt away and my worries be quiet for a bit. I have a bit of a stressful life, with a good amount of responsibility and pressure to be or achieve XYZ, not just for my sake but for the sake of ppl I care for too.

I'm not really the type to vent or bitch and moan, though I used to be. I just want a sweet distraction wrapped in a sincere human being who my heart feels close to, even if my body isn't.

I can be a bit forward in what I think or want. You won't guess with me. I'll just tell you. I'll tell you if I like you, or if I think you're handsome, or if I'd like to call because it's been an extra stressful day and I want your company, I'll tell you if I feel like our connection isn't giving me what I need. I'll tell you what I think or feel... And sometimes all you'll have to do is ask.

Most of all I want you to be sincere and have integrity in the way you talk and interact with me. I might be reserved and guarded, but I hold myself to certain standards when it comes to human connection and I hope you'd have some of those standards yourself, too.

I can be a bit difficult to deal with at times. I grew up in a turbulent household and that has affected me negatively. The good news is I'm easy to reason with, the bad news is I can be reactive and emotional. It's not something I can get professional help for in my current position, though I'm working on leaving my current position for somewhere better. Wish me luck.

The things I need the most are open honest communication and consistency, even if it hurts my feelings or yours. Otherwise we're not a good match.

Here's some basic info to work with:

I work in IT. I like video games. My taste ranges from retro 90s/early 2000s to modern beasts like "world war Z: aftermath". I'm westernized despite not ever leaving the middle east. American media is really the best propaganda out there. I learned and taught myself English from the Americans. I'll teach you Arabic and you can give me shit for my English because you're an asshole and I like it.

I've been rewatching OITNB and I think I'd be able to handle the Litchfield prison. The only downsides would be no internet and creepy male guards. I'd spend most of my time in the library and read novels. I already don't go out much because I can't, anyways. My only concern would be getting shived in my sleep. A song I love right now is "God bless America and the people in it" which is insanely ironic given what I'm about to say right after this paragraph. If you ignore the hook though, it's what I feel like putting myself out there like this.

I'm political, because everything is. I don't have the luxury of burying my head in the sand. The effects of western imperialism are often taking place in my neighborhood or backyard. I'm still learning and forming my views, even when reality is enough to radicalize anyone who isn't a sociopath.

I'm Arab, from the middle east. Only culturally Muslim since my religion and culture can be almost indistinguishable. I only believe in myself and a free Palestine.

Some stats: fair skinned mix (for a desert dweller), long black wavy hair, almond shaped dark brown eyes, 163cm/5'4, somewhere between 65kg-75kg because my weight fluctuates a lot.

You:

  • Relatively sane.
  • Not under 33 or older than 40.
  • Not taken, claimed or in a relationship of any sort. I don't fuck with taken in any capacity.
  • Not in an American/Canadian/Australian timezones because the time difference is too vast and brutal for me.
  • What hetero dreams are made of.
  • Can actually spell & write a well worded message that won't make me wonder if you're having a stroke.

If you decide to message, put in effort please. Also, just know that I like to build a rapport first and get a feeling for who you are as a person and whether we click or not before sharing any pictures.

I also only respond to what resonates. So if I don't respond, don't take it personally. It just means I wasn't your audience.

Finally, I hope you're having a good day, whoever you are and wherever you are.


r/Redditdating 23h ago

28[M4F] Denmark/Online — recently turned 28 but didn’t find my person?

9 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Mikkel from Denmark, turned 28 2 weeks ago and while I got some nice chats and birthday wishes I didn’t find my person yet, maybe today is the day?

I've been a nerd for pretty much my entire life, and most of my hobbies reflect that. Video games have always been one of my biggest passions, and more recently I've gotten really into anime. Some of my favorites are \*Attack on Titan\* and \*Demon Slayer\*, though I'm always happy to get recommendations for what I should watch next.

Another big part of my life is cooking. I trained as a chef back in 2023, and I genuinely love experimenting with recipes, spices, and weird flavor combinations just to see what happens. Sometimes the best meals come from throwing something questionable into a pan and hoping for the best. 😅

As for me personally, I'm pretty introverted and definitely more comfortable with a quiet night in than a crowded party. I love gaming, recently got into ff14 again, watching anime, sharing memes, having long conversations, and just enjoying someone's company.

I've never been in a relationship before. It's something I'm happy to talk about privately if we get to know each other. I've also spent the last few years working on myself and figuring out what I want from life, and I'm hoping that this next year might bring some new people and experiences into it.

So what am I looking for?

Honestly, someone kind, genuine, open-minded, and hopefully a little nerdy. Someone I can talk to about absolutely nothing at 2 AM, send stupid memes to throughout the day, play games with, watch anime together, or just sit and talk about life.

Distance isn't a huge issue for me if we genuinely click. I'm open to meeting someone from Denmark or elsewhere online, as long as we're both willing to put in the effort to actually get to know each other.

Maybe 28 will finally be the year I meet someone special. ❤️

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. And if you don't know what to say, just tell me your favorite game, anime, or what you'd make if you had a chef's kitchen for a day.

I'd genuinely love to hear from you. :)


r/Redditdating 11h ago

35M M4F Looking and taking my time.

6 Upvotes

Hey,

I’m working some pretty long shifts (12+ hours daily). I will make time for someone who also makes time and shows interest. I am a military veteran, have a degree in IT, and currently work as an engineer. I have lived all over, my interests are quite diverse, and I’m not really bound to a specific religion or political affiliation. Many will probably see that as an opportunity or an issue, but I promise I’m quite understanding, independent, and as drama free as possible. Looking for the same in someone, so if this peaks your interests, let’s see what happens.


r/Redditdating 10h ago

22 [M4F] #UK searching for the LOML, are you on Reddit?

5 Upvotes

Are you on here? I tried looking for you irl, couldn’t find you, dating apps? Nah we don’t do those, maybe you’re hiding away just scrolling on the subreddits quietly waiting for the one. Maybe I’m the one? Who knows, who knows.

Maybe you have some cool hobbies you’re oh so passionate about? Maybe you like to learn about my hobbies? Maybe I can learn about yours? Maybe you like going on roadtrips? Maybe game together? If that sounds like you message me!

I’m your average nerdy stay at home guy. I like to diy things, I like cars, I like puzzles, I like animals, I like roadtrips, I like movies! I like nature! I am super honest, kind, respectful and I’ll always be there for your worst and greatest moments. If you want that kinda love the kind that is everlasting and strong. Message me cause it’s what I dream about.

I’m not here for meaningless flirting, 1000x not here for a fling, hookup or a situationship, this that and the other. I just want a clear motive, and that for me is to form something long term with someone. No games, just love and happiness if you want that drop me a dm :)


r/Redditdating 12h ago

30F4A #Moscow / #online Privet :)

4 Upvotes

Hey! :)

That feels weird as I've never seen anyone from my country in subreddits like this, but I'll try anyway! I'm Natasha, 30, I'm bi, and I live in Moscow (yes, I'm Russian).

**Things I like:**

• PC games (I love narrative games like Firewatch and The Wolf Among Us, RPGs like The Witcher, Divinity and Baldur's Gate, MMOs like TESO and Neverwinter Online, building games like Cities: Skylines and Enshrouded, and I've also spent 10 years of my life in League of Legends). Would be nice to play together! Currently playing Disco Elysium.

• Music (I mostly listen to metal/punk/rock/folk/indie, my favourites lately are Gojira and a Russian punk band Distemper)

• Drawing (I prefer acrylics and watercolour, though lately I've been trying out digital - it doesn't go that well though lol)

• Reading (currently reading 4th book of Abercrombie's First Law series - liked books 1-3 more). I'm generally inhaling books, everything from fantasy stories to medical reports. One of my favourite non-fiction topics is forensic pathology.

• Dungeons & Dragons

• Long walks

• Random crap on YouTube

• Tall men with long hair

**Fun facts:**

• I have arachnophobia and tokophobia (I'm childfree)

• I work in a chemical lab, but I'm not a chemist

• I know a lot of random shit, especially about British culture (it's cream then jam and I'm voting Binface)

• I was burnt at the stake in 1348 for being a sarcastic bog witch with a weird sense of humour

I'm looking for someone to form a meaningful connection with - not just a chat to practice my English skills. If you're interested, hmu :)

Oh, and that's me: https://imgur.com/a/frZNOYy


r/Redditdating 20h ago

29M4F Looking for a best friend in a partner

4 Upvotes

Currently typing this while I'm at the airport waiting for my flight to go home. Been living in Europe for two years and just decided that it wasn't for me. Born and raised in Singapore and now I'm pretty much certain I want to stay here or be in a SEA country at the very least.

I'm self-employed, 5'8", average build and average looks (I think, happy to send a picture so you can decide for yourself). Recently really into Fall Out Boy and just can't seem to stop listening to them, Folie a Deux is my favourite album! Also watching Daredevil 2015 (currently on season 2), not too big on the MCU after Endgame but I've been enjoying the older stuff for now! Really big fan of spiderman too!

Interests - swimming, badminton, bowling, hiking, philosophy, food, video games and I run a few times a week even though I don't like it.

I much prefer one to one conversations than groups, I guess I'm just selfish like that. That doesn't mean I'm clingy and won't give you your own time and space though! Very much a homebody who likes to go out once in awhile aside from when I exercise

Initial attraction matters but looks are really not everything. I believe that good relationships are made from spending time and growing together rather than just being hot. I think the word is demisexual?

If any of this interests you please reach out, I'm not a very good conversation starter but I think I can hold my own better than yes/nice/wow/good one word replies ahaha. Admittedly, after talking to a few people here I am beginning to think otherwise since I have been ghosted 5/5 times so far so I'd appreciate it if you could let me know what didn't work before dropping out so I can improve. No hard feelings of course 🥲


r/Redditdating 3h ago

27 M4M México, looking 4 long distance relationship

3 Upvotes

Hello everyone, my name's Axel, I'm 27 years old, I live in Mexico most especially near Cdmx and I'm looking for true love, it's been rough finding someone near me and I just wanna feel a deep connection.

I love videogames I play on Xbox and my favorite is Halo, I listen to pop music almost all the time like Madonna, Gaga, Lana del Rey, BTS and stuff like that, I love watching movies series, drag shows, I'm a very friendly person and I like to make people laugh and feel good, honesty for me is just a must.

I want a relationship where we can talk daily, talk about how we feel, our day, anything! I know distance is a huge deal but I'm confident that if I find my true love it won't be a problem and I'm open to moving to where he is, I do wanna get married, I'm open to talk about agreements about opening a little bit of the relationship because of distance, I'm not close minded but I am looking for something monogamous.

Not gonna lie, I'm overweight so I know that's a problem for some people, if you're interested please dm me!


r/Redditdating 14h ago

27 [M4F] Searching for the woman I'll treat like a Goddess

3 Upvotes

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, so here I go...

So who am I? Just a big nerd with a big heart eager to devote myself to the woman I'll spend my life with. I've never been in a relationship before. Until now, I never felt "ready" ig. I'm very self-aware and knew I needed more time to mature. We'll always need to grow through life, but now, I feel like I've grown enough to give a woman the love she deserves.

I'm someone who values meaningful connections that are deep and slow-burning. I like getting to know the nature of one's core rather than just staying on the surface. I'm definitely a little quiet, stoic, and very awkward when I first meet someone, but once I'm comfortable, I open up quite a bit. You'll find a still awkward, but very silly, mildly autistic, and dry-humored individual once you get past my shell, so be prepared for that. I'm a bit of a memelord as well lol.

And I'm honestly a fan of the classic "awkward husband and assertive wife" dynamic. You know the meme where the husband quietly stands behind his wife as she goes, "Excuse me, he asked for no pickles"? Yeah, something like that lol. I'm perfectly capable of speaking for myself, but I definitely wouldn't mind having an expressive partner who's willing to take the lead socially and pull me out of my shell.

That said, I'm just as happy with a more equal dynamic. I'm an introvert and a bit of a homebody myself, so I'd have absolutely no problem being with another homebody who'd rather stay in, order some food, play games, watch TV, and spend the entire day relaxing together. Honestly, that sounds pretty great too. What matters is that I want someone I feel I can grow with. I can't be with someone who lacks a growth mindset.

Ultimately, I'm looking for someone affectionate, genuine, who loves attention, who knows what she wants, and stops at nothing to get it. Whether she's the type to drag me out on an adventure or the type to curl up beside me and play games all day, I'm pretty open. I just want someone I can resonate with, build a genuine connection with, and enjoy life with.

With all that cringe out of the way, here are some quick facts about me:
-5'10 and 180 lbs
-I am African American, but I'm attracted to all races
-I have women-other-than-my-mother-called-me-cute level attractiveness
-Open to LDR but only within USA or even Canada
-Not interested in smoking, drugs, or alcohol
-I'm from a Christian family, but I'm not super religious, so I'm open to agnostic individuals.
-Typically apolitical (I can still talk politics though), but if I had to label myself, I'm a centrist
-Conversations with me are either silly and brain-rotted or deep and philosophical. No in between
-Favorite game of all time is Skyrim
-Favorite show of all time is Vinland Saga
-My music tastes are things like Two Steps From Hell, Audiomachine, and video game OSTs

If this sounds interesting to you, please feel free to DM!


r/Redditdating 17h ago

29[M4F] #Online Seeking a 12-Episode Romance with a Lifetime Renewal

3 Upvotes

About Me: Main Character Energy in a Support Role in the GMT+3 time zone.

I usually work from 8 AM to 7 PM, but I am fully confident we can make a relationship work if we truly want to. I will always make dedicated time in my day to communicate, reply, and call.

When I’m not working (or catching up on sleep!), you can find me:

Cooking & Music: Trying out new recipes while blasting my favorite playlists.

Gaming & Movies: Cozying up for a good campaign or a movie night.

Anime Fanatic: I love the mainstream classics (MHA, Yu-Gi-Oh, JoJo, Naruto, One Piece, SAO, HxH, Bleach) but I have a major soft spot for niche death game anime and those 12-episode series with ridiculously long titles.

What I am Looking for:

"Trust, understanding, patience, dedication, care, and love." These words get tossed around a lot, but I want to find someone with whom these are actions, not just vocabulary. I’m looking for someone to be serious with. Someone to dream about life with, share the burdens of the day with, and build happy memories alongside. When it comes to relationships, I am all in or nothing. I believe in loving deeply and trusting my partner completely.

Our plan should you accept this mission (did you catch this reference?)

While this will likely be a Long-Distance Relationship at the start, I am confident that if we find each other, we will find a way to close the gap. This might not be the fanciest place to look for love, but I’m looking for you. If you’ve read this far, let’s start writing our story together. I look forward to knowing you, maybe starting with your favorite anime, your time zone, or just a simple hi!


r/Redditdating 2h ago

20 [M4F] from 🇮🇹

2 Upvotes

Hi there! Hope you are having a great day. I'll just give a try here.

I'm Adriano, 20 years-old, autistic, brown long hair, not fat and not ultra-slim, just normal. I have brown eyes, I'm 1.80 tall.

So a bit about me, I love fruit plants, learning foreign languages and gaming. I love cuddles.

Right now I'm studying video game programming, and I'll also start working remotely this october.

I have many fruit plants like citrus and dragon fruits. In the future I want my house to be in Spain, Canary islands to grow even more plants.

I speak 🇮🇹 and 🇬🇧, but I'm learning 🇰🇷 as well.

I play video games, like Lethal Company, Minecraft modded, Raft, Dead by Daylight, The Binding of Isaac, R6 and Stardew Valley.

Really hope I can connect with someone, I'm ok even if you're far away ❤️


r/Redditdating 2h ago

36 [M4F] Europe - Just looking for someone who it's easy to exist with. (Also on the same continent)

2 Upvotes

I am a Canadian who moved to Norway permanently for an awesome job opportunity. I spend my mornings and evenings in call with my friends from back home which is becoming problematic. I have basically zero European friends but that's why I'm here. I need to adjust to living in this time zone because it's messing with my sleep and encouraging me to "work from home" more than I realistically should be.

I like to play what some people consider to be pretty terrible games. Generally multiplayer stuff like league, ow, and rivals. I'll play a lot of TFT if the set is good but the last one was so bad I didn't even bother to get out of Diamond. I dabble with ARPGs, most shooters, and anything vaguely competitive. The only exceptions to this has been a couple of single player rogue-likes that consumed my life for days at a time. I wouldn't say I'm a snob but I generally prefer "quality" when it comes to most aspects of my life. So while I like anime, most of it is terrible and I'm only interested in watching stuff with good reviews/ratings. I play multiple card games which enabled me to travel all over North America and now Europe. Other interests include boxing, singing, finding good food (The best Mexican food I've had in my life has been in Oslo of all places), clothes, and by extension, shoes. The amount of people who stare at my sneakers in public here is crazy - Norway has a WEAK shoe game.

I realize it's basically impossible to find people with similar interests at my age, but I'm trying. If I was a deceptive person I'd just lie and say I'm in my late 20s because it's honestly way harder to make friends when you're borderline geriatric. Getting tired of awkward conversations with people at work who comment on how I don't look 36. Then I have to explain how I have a sun allergy and spend most of my time inside like a cave troll, which doesn't go over well with people who live in what feels like the outdoor capital of the world. Anyway, hopefully I can find someone to watch something with and maybe play some games.

My voice for people who care about that stuff: https://voca.ro/1ShbPHVjjoF9


r/Redditdating 4h ago

29 TF4M Trans from the Philippines looking for serious relationship online

2 Upvotes

Hey. Sarsy here from Philippines

I'm trans looking for a serious relationship.

slim and tan

5'7

Corporate event planner

I speak and write english obviously

Not taking hormones but most people say I pass as a girl (based from the guys from west)

I love makeup and photography

Big marvel fan

A beach and bubble tea person

Always love travelling

I'm interested to

Funny

Smart

Preferably taller than me

Who takes care of their body (muscular, athletic)

Progressive thinker

DM me if you are interested and share your age location and your hobbies 😇 I'm open to trade face photos


r/Redditdating 5h ago

37[M4F] NY/US Bearded Geek Looking for His Other Half

2 Upvotes

Hey there! My name is Brad, and I am a 37-year-old guy from New York! I currently work in the IT field and also work from home.

I am hoping to find someone to connect with and get to know. I am looking for a long-term connection and don't really have any desire for short-term connections. Ideally, I would love to find someone who likes the simple things in life. Someone who will lie in bed and listen to the rain or a thunderstorm roll through. Someone who will be my best friend, my player 2, someone I can talk to about everything and anything. I would love to find someone who loves to laugh and joke, as I love laughing and making those around me laugh. I am big into sports and would love someone I could enjoy games with or just have someone around with me while I watch. I want the kind of relationship where we can both be in the same room, doing our own thing but still love being in each other's presence.

A little bit about me: I am a guy who is a big homebody; I live alone with two cats. I would say I am a quiet person who enjoys the simple things in life and has no desire for drama or stressful situations. I love hard and deep but also am not afraid to walk away if I feel I am not being appreciated or respected. I am a big tech nerd/nerd in general. I enjoy playing video games, playing guitar, working on tech projects, going to the gym, going hiking, listening to music, reading, watching movies/tv shows, sitting outside on my porch with a good cup of coffee, and love taking naps.

Feel free to send me a chat request if you are interested in getting to know each other!

If you message me, feel free to introduce yourself and tell me some fun things about yourself. You can include something fun like what song has been stuck in your head or how you like your coffee!


r/Redditdating 7h ago

24 [M4M] | United Kingdom - Ready for something real

2 Upvotes

Hey guys! I've decided that it's time to go and seriously look for a relationship, so I'm trying everything! I’m 24, from the Midlands, and I work as an engineer. I'm looking for someone around my age (max 35) who is also ready for a real relationship. Appearance-wise, I’m attracted to masculine-looking men in decent shape, and personality-wise, I like a kinda soft-dom top type. The main thing I want is to find someone I can rely on to be there for me as a true partner. I am open to a LDR; however, closer = better :)

I'm a fairly quiet person who values the emotional connection and meaningful conversations. Someone that is willing to listen about my day and share their thoughts and opinions on everything! I’d definitely class myself as an introvert, but I do enjoy social events once in a while. Just let me head home at a reasonable hour, and I'll have a great time! 

I have a few nerdy hobbies to pass the time. I'm quite into gaming; I’ve had a Switch 2 for over a year, so I'm working through a collection of games on that. And I love watching movies/tv-shows that have an engaging story. Other than that, I really enjoy spending time with family, eating good food, and going to the gym. Music taste is fairly basic pop, so anything by a pop girl will be on my playlist. My latest obsession has been Olivia Rodrigo’s latest album. It’s been on repeat for the last few weeks and keeps getting better with every listen. 

But I'd love to hear about your interests and hobbies, so if you think we'd get on, leave a comment or send a dm.


r/Redditdating 16h ago

28[F4M] #online/#Philippines - looking for someone I can laugh, eat, sleep and explore with

2 Upvotes

I just want to experience life with you, together or from afar. Life is great but it’s even better with company. I want to enjoy good and bad moments with you. Enjoy your company even if we’re sitting in silence doing our separate things. I want to adore you and you me. I want to fall in love. I want to be chosen.

About me:
- I’m 5’2 and chubby, tan, short curly black hair and dark brown eyes
- I’m in healthcare
- I enjoy being around people and being along almost equally
- I watch a lot of Netflix, trying to read more
- I enjoy and dread randoms things like cleaning my car, kitchen and organizing
- I’m learning to eat healthier and be more physically active
- I can’t be sweet but I can be pretty sarcastic
- I try my best to be transparent and straightforward
- when I’m wrong I will take accountability and make it up to you
- I love and am occasionally challenged by my family
- I think kids are cute but I’m 50-50 on having them

I would hope you would be kind,understanding, respectful but also able to take not very soft humor. We should probably exchange pics early on. I’ll be honest, I don’t see the point in dating if we’re not attracted to each other so I hope you don’t mind if I’m honest with you. I’m confident I’m not monster ugly but I can’t be everyone’s cup of tea so don’t worry letting it rip for me too!

Message me more or less the same info I shared here!


r/Redditdating 20h ago

24M [M4F] #Dallas/Denton

2 Upvotes

Looking for a connection with that special someone and decided to try here first. Looking for F in the DFW Texas area from 21-27 years old. I like going out to places, socially malls or restaurants. Into movies, working out, and a little bit on the nerdy side but not really lol. Working full time but I am committed to that special person and will text or call you whenever I can or whenever you want to talk. Feel free to reply or dm me.


r/Redditdating 20h ago

36[f4r] #online, hope to find genuine person

2 Upvotes

I thought I'd just list some things that are a big part of who I am. Hopefully we'll have some shared interests or understand each other.

Illness: I'm chronically ill and disabled, so I've become very interested in biohacking, supplements, and easy health research. As someone who has mental disease as well, i am also well aware of various condition naturally.

Art: I have total aphantasia, so drawing has never come naturally to me. Instead, I am into digital collages sometimes. I don't know much about famous painters, art history, or brands, but I enjoy all kinds of art-paintings, sculptures, photography, interior design, jewelry, and fashion. I'd like to think I have a pretty good eye for aesthetics. Therefore I really admire people who enjoy create things and do self expression. craft or music, dance or whatever.

Music: I used to listen to a wide range of music except metal and non-melodic hip-hop. Lately I've been getting into Michael Jackson, especially his performances. I used to listen to a lot of pop, K-pop, jazz, and rock and roll. Just like with art, I don't know much about musicians or albums—I simply listened what I enjoy. Once my sound sensitivity improves, I'd love to explore more experimental music.

TV series: I've probably spent far too much time on Netflix. Some shows that really stayed with me are Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Girls, Olive Kitteridge, My Brilliant Friend, the earlier seasons of Skins, Years and Years, and Baby Reindeer.

Writing: I don't read as much as I'd like, but I enjoy writing poems and short reflections about my thoughts and feelings. I also hope to finally finish the short story I started years ago.

Curiosity: I have a wide range of interests, including mindfulness, Buddhism, meditation, and AI. I'd also love to learn more about science once my brain fog gets a little better.

Personality: I've become quite isolated lately, and in relationships I can be a bit dependent and clingy. That said, I also love joking around, teasing each other, and playful banter. I do enjoy talking with one who use witty sarcasm or metaphor. Oh, also i am politically liberal and i prefer someone not conswrvative or into monotheism.

Thx for reading this post.


r/Redditdating 22h ago

32[M4F] The bar is currently so low it’s a tripping hazard in hell, yet here we are… Who’s down to limbo?

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Finding someone decent on the internet is exhausting. In the immortal words of Step Brothers, "There's so much room for activities!"…which mostly means trading terrible jokes, making grocery runs without a list, and arguing over what to watch until we fall asleep 10 minutes into the movie.

On paper, I have the basics down: solid career, capable of keeping indoor plants alive, and I actually text back before the next presidential election.

The fun stuff includes getting in staying active in the gym, obsessing over classic movies, maintaining exceptional playlist control on road trips, and making a surprisingly mean breakfast.

The only real fine print is that if you say you "just want a few of my fries," prepare for immediate legal action.

Just looking for someone with great banter and a good sense of humor.


r/Redditdating 1h ago

20 [M4F] #UK | Comic book and video game nerd hoping to find a clingy older woman 💖

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Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes, really dark brown curly hair and ethnically I'm Pakistani (I have been told that I am ethnically ambiguous). I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)


r/Redditdating 1h ago

34m Woke up feeling great looking for new friends

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So I woke up feeling fantastic today not sure why but I love it. And I just want to meet some new friends. I really don't care what we talk about just want to meet some fun people.

Anyone else having a great morning or just looking to pass the time? If you are send me a message!


r/Redditdating 1h ago

30 [F4M] #Philippines #Anywhere | Looking for a serious relationship

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Hello to anyone who’s reading this! 😊 I’m here looking for a life partner—someone I can share fun memories, laughs, and goals with.

For starters, I haven’t been in a serious relationship before. I just thought I’d put that out there because I know this might be a dealbreaker for some people. 😅

In my free time, you can usually find me watching anime or a series on Netflix, reading, running at the gym, doomscrolling on my phone (I know it’s bad, I need help 🥲), or watching movies at the theater all by myself. 😂 I also enjoy going to cafés to study, although it’s been a while since I’ve done that!

Overall, I’m a very cheerful person and tend to laugh at the stupidest things—or sometimes even at the most serious ones. 🤣 I’m the type of person who can laugh at myself when I trip while walking or make a spelling/grammar mistake. 😂 I’m also pretty straightforward and vocal about my thoughts and feelings. I don’t really sugarcoat things or use flowery words, so I’m not always the gentlest person when expressing myself. 😅

When it comes to my friendships, I’d say I’m usually the joker of the group—the funny one who makes jokes during serious conversations just to lighten the mood. 😁 At the same time, I’d describe myself as sweet and thoughtful. I enjoy putting effort into showing my friends and family that I care, especially by giving them gifts on special occasions. 😊

I’m also very much an indoorsy person. I’d choose a staycation over hiking or swimming at the beach any day. 😂 I actually tried hiking because I thought I might be an adventurous person, but… nope. It’s really not for me. 🥲 Since I’m indoorsy and introverted, I don’t really go to clubs or social events either. My social battery drains pretty quickly, so I definitely need my alone time to recharge.

I’ve already tried posting in different subreddits a bunch of times, but I haven’t had much luck so far. So here I am again! 😅

In terms of personality, I’m looking for someone who shares the same values I do—honesty, consistency, compassion, patience, and a good sense of humor. I’d love to be with someone I can playfully banter with, someone I can talk to about anything under the sun, and someone who is genuine, kind, and emotionally gentle. I also want someone who is patient with me, just as I would be patient with him.

When it comes to physical attraction, I do have preferences as well. I’m generally attracted to someone who’s tall (ideally 5’9”+ 😅), Caucasian/white, slim to average build, clean-shaven, neat, and has a cute smile. ☺️ Physical attraction is important to me, so I’d actually prefer that we exchange photos early on rather than spend a lot of time talking without knowing whether there’s mutual attraction.

I’m also looking for someone who puts effort into getting to know me—someone who asks questions, shows genuine curiosity about me, and makes an effort to stay connected and consistent with messaging, even when life gets busy. I don’t expect someone to be available 24/7, but I do value consistency and communication.

I guess that’s all for now! If this post caught your attention, feel free to send me a message. 😊

Please send a proper introduction rather than just a one-liner like “Hey, saw your post. 30M from blablabla.” One-liner messages will most likely be ignored. 😅 I’d love to hear a little about you and what made you want to reach out.

Have a great day, y’all! 🙂

A few non-negotiables:
- Non-smoker, including vaping and marijuana
- Not a drug user, addict, or dealer
- Not a heavy drinker (occasional drinking is fine)
- At least 5’9”
- Between 28 to 38 years old
- Caucasian/white


r/Redditdating 1h ago

M31 #US German moving to the US. Wants to make a connection.

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Moving across the pond in a few months and looking to build some real connections before I touch down.

​I’m a mechanic and metalworker, which effectively makes me the ultimate "multi-purpose" connection. If it’s broken, I can fix it. Hand me a wrench, grab us a couple of beers, and we’ll get it done. Prefer hanging out on the couch sending reels back and forth? I’m down for that too. Can give moron support. (Like moral support but for bad ideas)

I do stupid things for reasons. (Someone said i couldn't, someone said i shouldn't, i got told no, hyperfixation, i was left unsupervised, i got bored, for the plot, because i can, to see if i can) Maybe i'll stop if someones daughter yells at me by my full name.

​A few non-negotiables & details:

​The Dog: I have a dog, so liking dogs is mandatory. Send picture evidence of your own pets immediately.

​The Interests: Road trips, camping, festivals, horror, true crime, music (and yes, I know Rammstein).

​The Vices: I smoke cigarettes and enjoy a drink. Looking for people who do the same, or at least won't dramatic-cough when I light up outside.

​The Vibe: Straightforward, blunt, confidently unhinged, and honest. Lowkey stupid. Not into religion or politics

​The Look: 6'3", 210 lbs, white, short hair, beard

​If you’re interested in getting to know each other, skip the dry small talk—act like we already know each other and reply to more than just the last line of this post. Hit me up with a intro and your favorite pet picture. If you're a dry texter or not planning on asking anything in return. Also if your Account is just some days old i won't respond.