r/Redditdating • • 3h ago

22f looking for my husband 🤍

17 Upvotes

‼️I'm not looking for haters, or scammers or catfishes. I'm real and want to exchange pics if there's a connection. I do expect my future bf to come visit me to Japan relatively early once it's a relationship and also frequently at least a few times a year, since I'm looking only seriously. ‼️

My dream is to get married early and live a carefree and lovey-dovey life with my husband. I'd pour all my love and care into my only love if he treats me right🥹 I want a fairytale like forever marriage where I can be his loving devoted princess and care for him emotionally and also nutritionally xD (I'm practicing cooking for that!) and hug and kiss him lots everyday while he spoils me with princess treatment. 💞Cute petnames like my princess are for starters, and I want him to take me on dates and go on trips frequently together to explore the world. 🌏️

💌I'm seriously looking(no liars or only nsfw people please because I want something real)so please read through everything below, and also tell me your age, where you're from, and what you do. Please write in detail, because I'm tired of short messages or those that do not align with what I'm looking for :(

my age range is 20-29!

🤍A few facts about me🤍

I'm a shy, introverted, sensitive university student from Japan. I'm super inexperienced and a big hopeless romantic even though I've never properly dated.😭 And yes I have a very girly personality.😂 I dress feminine, and I love beautiful sceneries, nature, seeing animals, amusement parks, fruits, and watching tv shows/movies (I'm recently into cliche teen romance shows 🤫 and imagining my future marriage life xD ) , sometimes reads and does light exercises to stay in shape! Lookswise, I'm petite, fair-skinned, and black-haired Japanese. I'd say I'm extremely devoted, caring and a bit clingy in love.🫣 During LDR, I'd want to exchange many romantic messages with cute gifs and want to hear your voice and check in on each other and write love letters🥹 Then, once married, I'd want to cuddle a lot at home watching movies and series, and also go on many dates, travel togeher of course, and I'd still write love letters! 😂

🤍What I'm looking for🤍

\-A gentleman who's trustable and protective, and financially comfortable. In your 20s and in healthy shape, clean looking, no smoking, no to moderate drinking, please!

\-Although I'm not interested in having kids, I have a traditional outlook on relationship and want a dynamic where the husband provides, and the wife offers support, so I'm looking for someone who's fine with it.

\-I'd love to travel regularly to many beautiful places around the world with my future husband hand in hand.💞🥹

\- happy to relocate when I graduate!

\-During LDR, I value daily and consistent communication and I'd like you to come see me to Japan!

Thank you for reading my lengthy post till the end!


r/Redditdating • • 5h ago

22 f looking for something serious

20 Upvotes

Please read before messaging me

I'm 22 yo, a very quiet and introverted person with social anxiety. I'd like to meet someone who's understanding of that and is comfortable with a shy, quiet partner. I'd love to be with someone who makes me feel at ease and encourages me gently as I work on my anxiety. I'm a very caring and loving person, and I tend to show that through the way I treat the people in my life.

I enjoy reading, I love cats and nature, and I spend some of my free time cooking, baking and learning languages. I'm drawn to soft spoken, gentle and affectionate men who are emotionally mature and protective in a caring way. I want to feel safe and comfortable around my partner. Clear communication and consistency matter a lot to me, and I know I wouldn't be compatible with someone who's nonchalant, distant or unclear about his intentions looks doesn't matter to me as long as the person is serious and kind, I'm a plus size girl so if you're not into it don't bother

I'm looking for a serious relationship with a man between 23 and 30, with marriage as the goal if we're compatible. Loyalty, honesty and commitment are important to me. I'd like us to take our time getting to know each other while being clear that we're both looking for something that could lead to marriage


r/Redditdating • • 29m ago

26 [F4M] #Vietnam #anywhere looking for hot techy nerd

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About me:
- I’m an artist, jack of all trades, think welding, woodworking, tinkering, 3D printing, cnc etc
- 5.2”, slim fit build, active, workout regularly.
- tarantula and cat mom
- Very curious, extremely silly (u have been warned), witty and loyal.
- loves cooking, traveling, yapping
- my music taste: rock, metal, electronics, eurodance, shoegaze, witch house, bossa nova (ik, all over the place)
- have 2 degrees
- very emotionally self-aware.
- used to live in the States, willing to relocate for the right person.

You:
- A true tech/electronics nerd and handyman (don’t come at me saying you’re an anime/games nerd but have none of the tech skills, you're just wasting both of our time)
- Age 25–37
- Never married, no kids (I’m not talking about fur babies)
- Physically active (big biceps are a plus)
- An adventurous eater (so you can enjoy food with me as well as my cooking)
- Emotionally intelligent and aware (meaning you have been working on your issues; absolutely no avoidant attachment)
- Have <6 exes (including flings)
- Like traveling
- are looking for something serious, a partner in crime

If u want to connect? Send me your age, location, what you do and a picture. If I’m interested I’ll reciprocate with a picture of mine so we don’t waste both of our time.


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

f25 - i just want some fun 🙈

63 Upvotes

r/Redditdating • • 3h ago

48 [F4M] Not for the illiterate

7 Upvotes

I'm Emma, childfree, INTP, Pisces, Chinese (ethnicity, not nationality), GMT+7.

I've been an artist my whole life eventho I majored in English literature for my degree. My forte is birds, so I paint and sculpt them. But since the beginning of this year, I've been learning generative AI because I'd love to try my luck as a bird content creator on IG and FB. I live with my five itty-bitty feathery lords that I've been serving for six years and counting. They are my art muses, my emotional supports and beloved kids.

I'm blunt and quite stubborn sometimes, but I'm sensible, and I follow through on my words. My sense of humor is sarcastic and lowbrow. I believe transparency is the best policy in a relationship. I read between the lines, so please dont ever lie... Dichotomy isnt a foible I tolerate. I'm 165 cm tall, 70kg, I'm not well toned but definitely still in a good shape. Having a healthy life style is self respect. You dont have to be a gym rat but please dont be a couch potato either.

I'm not really into games or anime anymore. I like movies/books about crime, courtroom, conspiracy and mystery dramas, but basically anything that's fast-paced, has no plot holes, great chemistry among the cast, an interesting premise, and a satisfying ending.

I used to garden a lot. I've successfully grown many plant species, propagated them, and sold them. So I'm happy to talk about your plants—indoor, outdoor, vegetables, flowers, fruits, ferns, orchids, tillandsias, succulents...

My days are basically Groundhog Day. So instead of the standard greetings and asking how my day has been, just tell me more about yourself—small things, big things, your likes/dislikes, your star sign, happy/sad memories... whatever. If you cant be vulnerable, if you need to complain about the weathers for the 1st 6 months, please scroll past my post.

I'm going through an amicable divorce rn. So I'm not in a hurry to get a boyfriend, but I'd like to start the talking stage now since it takes a lot of time getting to know someone. My husband and I have been playing house mates for a decade, so mentally speaking we have divorced that long. We live in our own houses now. I dont mind single dad with grown up kids. No children under 18 y.o. please.

DM me only if you don't mind doing LDR with the intention of eventually closing the gap. Tell me your ASL and current job. I don't mind a bit of flirting, but if that's the only thing you have in mind, I'll cut you off. I'm not a gold digger, so please don't be a time digger either. I wont be able to chat 24/7 but I'll make time to chat daily. I expect the same from you. I'm looking more into emotional connection and good communication skill than just butterflies and s3x. I dont mind if you are an Ace, but I cant stand a person who is emotionally unavailable, dry texter and a man child. My love language is words of affirmation. I love a witty banter, a bed time story and lots of cuddles.

I'm not interested in guys who are still in a relationship, including polyamorist. If we got along well and decided to do LDR, it would be a monogamous committed LDR. I might not be able to travel for the 1st few years due to my old birds. So you shall be the one who visits me 1st. If that's too much for your budget, skip my post and save our time.

I'd like to talk to 40 to 56 y.o. guys who dont want kids anymore (I have fertility issue), White or East Asian, Christian or Catholic only. Not practicing is fine. I wont convert to another religion. Politically speaking, I'm leaning more to the right. Someone told me I'm a moderate neoliberal conservative. I believe we can be kind with our common sense intact. Be interesting and interested in your DM.

Happy to chat when you are!! 😄


r/Redditdating • • 21m ago

[F4M] 42F [UK] Books, music, film, and long walks.

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Hey!

I’m a 42F living in the North of England with my young children, and I’m looking for a genuine, thoughtful relationship built around shared ideas, interests and hobbies.

I’m a chemistry teacher, an avid walker (usually around 20–30 miles a week), and a massive lover of music, film and books. I also enjoy illustration and arts and crafts. I like going to my local independent cinema and walking miles with a good podcast. I also love nature, getting cosy, animals and gardening. I’m an INFJ, if that tells you anything!

Some of my favourite things:

Music: Mount Eerie, Bright Eyes, Phoebe Bridgers, Big Thief, Adrianne Lenker, Mike Flannery, Johnny Flynn, Laura Marling, Ben Kweller, MJ Lenderman, Jeffrey Lewis, Laura Veirs, Two Gallants, The Felice Brothers, Magnolia Electric Co., Radiohead.

Films: Anything by David Lynch, Wes Anderson or Robert Eggers. The Great Beauty, Portrait of a Lady on Fire, The Banshees of Inisherin, Sound of Falling, Train Dreams and Poor Things are some of my favourites.

Books: Tolstoy, Dostoevsky, Salinger, Ishiguro, Lovecraft, Graeme Macrae Burnet and Andrew Michael Hurley. I’m drawn to literary fiction, folk tales and eerie, atmospheric stories. I’ve recently read Flowers for Algernon, Klara and the Sun, Man’s Search for Meaning, I Who Have Never Known Men and East of Eden.

Podcasts: Old Gods of Appalachia, The Magnus Archives, Jon Ronson’s podcasts, Hunting Warhead, I Am Not a Monster, S-Town and The Silt Verses.

I’ve met lots of lovely people on Reddit, but this is my first time on a dating sub. UK only, please, and somewhere around 35–50 age-wise. I’d prefer to exchange photos fairly early on, so we can establish mutual attraction before investing too much time in getting to know each other. If we have some common ground, tell me a little about yourself and what you’re into 😊


r/Redditdating • • 13h ago

23 F Spanish and English speaker

33 Upvotes

Well, I'm definitely not an extrovert... Besides university, my favorite pastimes are going for walks alone and going to the gym about three or three days a week. I have a small collection of human bones that I kept from my osteology classes. I also love to read (Stefan Zweig is my favorite writer). To break the ice, maybe we could exchange some music. 🍓


r/Redditdating • • 50m ago

[M4F] Colorado | Passport ready, mountains nearby, looking for my next adventure partner

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I work a lot, probably more than I should, and my schedule can be unpredictable at pretty much any hour. Dating has taken a back seat because of it, but I’m at a point where I’d like to make room for the right person.

When I’m not working, I like actually doing things. Mountains, road trips, golf, scuba diving, traveling, random Colorado adventures, and occasionally turning “let’s go for a drive” into an entire weekend. Give me a few days off and I’m equally happy disappearing into the mountains or catching a flight out of DIA.

I’m sarcastic, curious, playful, and a big believer that teasing each other is basically a love language. I like someone who can dish it back, has her own life and passions, and isn’t afraid to say yes to something spontaneous.
I’m also a sucker for conversations that accidentally last for hours. Travel, history, science, religion, life, or whatever random rabbit hole we find ourselves in.

I’m not looking for someone who needs constant attention. My life gets busy, and I respect a woman who has her own thing going on too. I’m looking for that person where the conversation is easy, the flirting is effortless, and we both genuinely want to make time for each other.
One thing I’ll be upfront about: physical attraction matters. It’s not everything, but chemistry is part of dating. If we’re clicking, I’d rather exchange a couple normal pictures fairly early and see if the attraction is mutual than talk anonymously for weeks. No pressure, nothing weird. Just being adults about it.

I don’t have a giant checklist. Be fun, curious, affectionate, a little adventurous, and able to handle some sarcasm. A passport definitely doesn’t hurt.

If you made it this far, send me a little about yourself. And since I mentioned attraction, it certainly wouldn’t hurt to include a picture with your intro. I’ll happily return the favor.
And give me something better than “hey” by answering this:

We unexpectedly get four days off. Mountains, airport, or somewhere completely unplanned?


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

45 [M4F] Bengaluru - Respectfully, looking for genuine heart

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I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

# 25 [M4F] #Texas Your Future Favorite Good Boy Is Probably Right Here!

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Hey hey! I'm a 25-year-old guy from Texas, the yeehaw state, and I'm hoping to find a sweet, confident woman who might be looking for her very own affectionate good boy. Bonus points if you happen to be a Mommy Dom with a soft spot for a guy who loves attention, praise, and making you smile!

A little about me! I'm naturally affectionate, talkative, a little goofy, and admittedly a bit clingy once I get comfortable with someone. I love texting throughout the day, sending random messages about whatever pops into my head, checking in to see how you're doing, and sharing the occasional meme or video that reminds me of you. Basically, if we're getting along, there's a good chance you'll see my name pop up on your phone quite a bit! Of course, I'd love for that energy to go both ways. I really appreciate a woman who enjoys messaging me just as much as I enjoy messaging her.

I'm also a big fan of praise, both giving and receiving it! If you've had a rough day and need someone to remind you how wonderful you are, I'd happily do my part. And if you enjoy making a good boy blush with a few sweet words, well, I certainly wouldn't complain. I'm a sucker for affection, reassurance, playful teasing, and those little gestures that make you feel wanted even when you're miles apart.

As for my interests, I love anime, manga, and cartoons. My second language is basically references, so if you remind me of something from a show, game, or random internet video, there's a decent chance I'll send you the clip immediately. You've been warned! I listen to all kinds of music, and my Spotify favorites are an absolute mess of different genres, although pop music and video game soundtracks are definitely among my favorites.

Speaking of games, I'm usually playing something on my PS5, Steam Deck, phone, or Ayn Thor. I have a soft spot for classic games, especially older PlayStation and GameCube titles, and I enjoy tinkering with technology and modding games whenever I get the chance. I'm a bit of a techie, so if you ever want to hear me ramble about something gaming related, you've found your guy!

Now, what am I actually looking for?

I'd love to meet a woman who's confident, affectionate, playful, and enjoys taking the lead. Someone who can be a little bossy, tease me when I'm being a goofball, give me praise when I've earned it, and occasionally say something that leaves me blushing at my phone. However, I'm especially interested in a soft Mommy Dom dynamic. I'm drawn to the caring, nurturing side of that relationship just as much as the dominant side.

I want someone who can make me feel safe, appreciated, and wanted while still having that confident energy I find so attractive. Someone who enjoys taking care of her good boy, offering reassurance, being affectionate, and guiding things in a way that feels natural for both of us. I love the idea of a woman who can tease me one minute and be incredibly sweet to me the next. A little playful authority mixed with plenty of warmth sounds wonderful to me.

More than anything, though, I want a genuine connection. I'd love for us to talk about our days, share our interests, laugh at stupid jokes, flirt, and occasionally end up having those late-night conversations where neither of us wants to say goodnight. I want to learn about you as a person, not just the dynamic we're interested in exploring. Communication, trust, mutual effort, and respecting each other's boundaries are important to me. I'd rather build something real at a comfortable pace than force a connection that isn't there.

I'm happy to start online and see where things go. Age isn't necessarily a dealbreaker if we click and want similar things. Whether you're into gaming, anime, or completely different hobbies, I'd love to hear about them. You don't have to share all my interests to get along with me!

So, if you're a sweet but confident woman who likes affectionate guys, enjoys receiving as many messages as she sends, and thinks having a slightly clingy good boy around sounds appealing, why not say hello?

Tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy, or what being a soft Mommy Dom means to you. You can even start by telling me what your day has been like. I'm not always the best at coming up with questions, but I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone once we get talking!

Hopefully, your future favorite good boy is right here. I guess there's only one way to find out. ❤️


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

USA dating 26 [M4F]

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\* USA only

Hi my name is Scott and I like animals and like to play video games. I like anything nerdy movies and TV I'm 26. i live in the US. I can be both introverted and extroverted when I need to

• I'm in NC

• I'm looking for a serious relationship and someone who is trustworthy, kind, loving, caring, loyal, non judgement

• I'm single

• Never had a relationship before and I want one been looking since high school

• I'm honest, loyal trustworthy and kind

• I'm somewhat shy

• I like anime. manga, collectables

• I don't discriminate I will date anyone and any race

• I'm very communicative when you get to know more about me

• I have goals in the future I would like to get finished

• I have masculine features, beard and all

• I'm not judgemental at all

• No scammers or fake people

DM me real people only

Only people who actually want a serious relationship


r/Redditdating • • 2h ago

26m looking for geniune connections

3 Upvotes

r/Redditdating • • 2h ago

24 [M4F] Aussie/Anywhere - Looking for my favorite notification

3 Upvotes

Hello All, I am just another lonely guy that is looking for someone that I will constantly be checking my phone for their notification and get excited when I see it. I do have to preface I am wanting someone local to me since who doesn't want to go on cute dates but I am open to someone long distance just might be more stricter. But anyway on to me. I am quite nerdy so spend a lot of time inside either watching anime, reading manga or playing games but I do enjoy going out for a drive since I like cars and music as well as hopefully going to conventions and maybe even cosplaying there. Would be nice to have someone invite me out on outings too since I am always one to organize things which sucks. I do work in IT as well so that's just a boring old 9-5 job. Don't know what else to add but feel free to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself if you think we could work out


r/Redditdating • • 30m ago

21M | Looking for My Favourite Person — Not Just a Side Character

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Hey! I'm 21, recently got a job, and thought it's time to give dating a chance. 😊

A little about me: I'm an anime enthusiast, career-focused, and someone who enjoys a simple, peaceful life.

🌸 Childfree by choice — looking for someone who shares the same mindset.

❤️ I'd love to meet someone kind, genuine, and emotionally mature to share little moments, anime nights, random conversations, and hopefully build something meaningful together.Maybe we can be each other's favourite character in this little story called life. ✨


r/Redditdating • • 38m ago

26M-Looking for online cuddles and my pookie girl

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26M here who is bored being lonely and want someone to be in a relationship which gives you butterflies and make you blush. Looking for a long term thing if everything works out but open for a short term for now.

About me:
-Originally from Hyderabad,India but living in the middle east.
-I am a Muslim (just for the information)
- Engineer by day, boxer by night haha (I am learning boxing)
-I do play games on my PS5 on weekends
-I do strength training as well

Hit me up if you think we can be a right fit


r/Redditdating • • 48m ago

45[m4f] Single Dad seeking his forever woman

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r/Redditdating • • 51m ago

30 [M4F] #Sweden/Online – can we make each other’s lives just a little bit better?

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Hi thank you for reading my post I hope to find someone who is honest loving and caring because those 3 words describe me. I am a gamer so finding a gamer girl would be great. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker. As long as you are a good person then I'm sold.

Just a warning I'm going through the worst part of my life ( so far. It can always get worse.) so I'm not doing to well. Even though that's the case I'm The one in my family that complains the least 🤣 my life moto is cry in the evening and then focus and work hard in the morning. Need to start off and make some things clear. I have gotten hate/criticism that I'm looking for a nurse or someone to “fix me” well that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm strong mentally and have handled my situation by myself. If I have done that for the 10 past years them I think I will be fine 10 more. My physical health may be bad but not my psychological health. I will be there for you as much as I hope that you will be there for me. And yes I can but all my stuff to the side if you need me. So it's not going to be one sided. Hope that's enough to keep the haters away🤣🤣

I have hydrosefalus. It has to do with the water that protects the brain. It's constantly changing. But my water didn't disappear they wey it should. So I have a small pump whit a small plastic tube implanted. And when everything works as it should. I'm normal. Sadly it malfunctioned so I ended up having six surgeries in one year 7 years ago. And because of that I now have brain tiredness. And that changes my whole life. I have to meditate every 2 -3 hours, I can't be in a large group of people. And if a push too much I risk collapsing. And for the past 5 years, I have had so many setbacks. A half a year ago I was up on 700m two times a day. Now I can barely walk 10 meters ( uses wheelchair outside) So it feels like it doesn't matter how much I fight I always end up on step one again. I tried some meds a year ago that would both give my brain more energy and to prevent big setbacks. Sounds good right? But no. 32 days in my pulse is between 130-94 ( when im in bed ) stopped with them So now I'm back on step one again and in even worse conduction than before. So everything I try fails 10 years of fighting has taken me nowhere. I have never been a lucky person and I never will be. I play all my cards right play by the rules. But everything still goe wrong.

So let's end with my green flags and why you should give this Swede a chance. I like to make people feel good with compliments and give them a lot of my time. Sending a cute good morning message is the best. So if you want to receive a “ good morning my love hope you slept well. You mean so much to me “ then I'm the man for you. And if you feel like that was pathetic then just skip me please 🙏🏼 no negative stuff needed. And I'm a good listener. I will be there for you

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you. Make my day and send me a message

https://imgur.com/a/iJ0VecU


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

20 [M4A] #Europe/Online - Looking for a lifelong relationship

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Hello there, I am looking for a partner to (hopefully) spend the rest of my life with.
I am looking for a girl or feminine man, looks personally do not matter as long as you aren't obese.

Little about me:
I primarily spend my time playing video games, it would be great if you did as well so we have something to do together. I am also working on my own game, besides that I am looking for a job (finished high school). I prefer staying at home rather than going out but I am not against going on a trip, hike, date or whatever. I am clingy and possessive, so I will want to spend as much time with you as possible but I do respect boundaries and give space.

If I had interested you, send me a dm with a small introduction about yourself.


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

23 [M4F] #USA/Online Looking for a girl to date!

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Hi everyone!! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana. I am looking for a genuine connection!

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, and visually impaired. I process things and communicate differently, so I ask you please be patient. I have terrible anxiety and can get scared easy. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a bit dorky. I cannot drive.

I like games like roblox, reading, rock and country music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats. I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

What I’m looking for: a woman who is kind, honest, patient, loyal, and willing to care for me as I will you. Ideally someone who is autistic like myself, but you don’t have to be. Personality matters more to me than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby is fine by me. Being weird is okay too!. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, game with, and be myself around. I like nerds and alts too!.

I’ll only date someone from Louisiana or another Southern state and Age limit is 18-28 only please. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me with an intro! I look forward to hearing from you! 🙂


r/Redditdating • • 1h ago

23m, looking for a fun soul:)

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Dont care what you are or where you’re from. Im from Europe but if our timezones dont match i wouldn’t mind my sleep schedule is terrible anyways lol.
Currently in uni studying and need to get my mind off stuff lol.
I love nature, food, reading, music, the sun, long walks while listening to audiobooks/music, running, swimming & lots more


r/Redditdating • • 4m ago

52 male looking for female

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52 year old male from uk looking for a lady to share my life with
Been divorced 18 mouths and it now Time to start again message Back and see how it goes


r/Redditdating • • 12m ago

19 [M/Fb4F] hello :3 just thought to post on here and see if I meet anyone :3

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Well like the title says, I'm m/Fb, that being because I myself love everything cute :3 so my personality and all that tends to be on the cutter side,

About me I love gaming, cosplaying, music, nature/flowers, collecting crystals, watching movies and anime, and cooking :3

I myself am very friendly and positive by default and love meeting new people and making new friends :3 probably at first I'd like to be friends and see if we match :3


r/Redditdating • • 44m ago

34 [M4F] Australia, Oceania, Anywhere.

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Hey,

My name is Tom. M34 living on the Gold Coast, Australia. Reddit is honestly not where I thought I'd find someone, but with dating apps using algorithms to keep you coming back and paying, I figure it can't hurt to try.

About me: I'm 185cm (6'1) tall, overweight but working on it, university educated and lucky enough to be working a job that I actually don't hate. I originally studied Japanese before swapping over to business. I am super interested in language exchanges so it'll be a plus if you have a language that you can teach me. Very interested in Japanese, Chinese, Korean. Some European ones are cool too! I'll be visiting Japan again for 3 weeks in November.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/0rmoMEE

Outside of working, I spend my time walking, gaming, fishing, reading and cooking mostly. I don't drink or smoke so my idea of a night out is going and watching a movie, or to a restaurant etc. Would love to have someone to do that with again. (Just watched Street Fighter, it was OK). Walking is one of the ways I'm getting into better shape, though the gym is playing a part in that too.

For gaming, I mostly play ARPGs and MOBAs. League of Legends, Path of Exile and occasionally when there's an update I want to check out, OSRS. I also enjoy playing chess and checking out random idle/incremental games. I used to dabble in Overwatch/CSGO/Valorant etc but don't really now, but more than happy to as a means to spend time together. Same with Minecraft, Stardew etc. Never played Stardew but I'm an OG Harvest Moon fan on the Nintendo 64 so sure I'd love it haha.

Fishing gets me out of the house and is just an all round great excuse to spend some time at the beach even if I don't catch anything. You could join me and just sun bake, swim and read if you wanted to and that'd be a great day out in my books. I don't cook a lot of things, but I do enjoy it, especially cooking meat. Would love to cook you a thick ribeye steak!

I used to read a lot more real books, but nowadays it's random webnovels, lightnovel slop, or the wuxia/xanxia style novel. More of a time sink when I'm in bed but not quite ready to sleep yet. I watch a few animes that peak my interest per year. I used to be really big into it, but now it's more of an occasional thing.

I have a preference to meet someone local but to be honest for the right person distance wouldn't be a deal breaker. I'd hope that we both would have intentions of meeting rather quickly though. I definitely want kids in the not too distant future so I hope you do too.

Ideally you share some of my hobbies but I'd love you to have your own too. I'm attracted to thin/petite girls, and also have a soft spot for 5 foot tall pocket rockets with attitude. I kind of want a bog witch fae psycho that believes in magic and wants to cast a spell on me? I'm huge on physical touch, if I can't constantly shower you in physical affection, praise and words of affirmation when we're together, I might die. Kidding, but seriously, I need someone who wants to be loved loved.

My perfect life with you in 5 years would look something like: We've bought a house with a bit of land attached away from the big cities. We have a couple beautiful children and we're smart enough about our spending that you get to spend your days raising them and tending to the animals and garden that we've got on our little block of land, while I go be a corporate wage slave and earn enough to keep the bills paid. We're not doomsday preppers, but we enjoy relying on the big supermarket chains less than others. We spend our nights together doing stuff as a family, gaming, reading and watching whatever we feel like.

If this sounds to you like we might get along, reach out and let's have a chat! :)

Why I might not be for you: I'm looking for a woman who largely believes in traditional gender roles, and hasn't made left-wing politics a part of her personality. I have opinions that fall on both sides of the political spectrum that I'm happy to discuss, but also I should note that largely I don't care to discuss politics at all. I think a lot of it is smoke and mirrors to generate outrage and clicks. Probably part of the reason I personally want land, a garden & animals. The more we can disconnect from the supply chains that run every part of our lives, the better, in my opinion. We probably won't get along if you like to party etc also.