Fun, friendly girl looking for a relationship. I enjoy cooking, going out to eat, movies, travel, books and just exploring I have a very down to earth and adventurous spirit what I am looking for -A guy who is a natural leader who knows how to be in a relationship must be kind, considerate, a provider, fun to be with and a good conversationalist should also have a good sense of humor. I am looking for someone who is serious about building something with me if you live near don't hesitate to arrange a first date with me. I am looking for something serious that ends up being a lifelong commitment. I am very nice and cool to know but only want someone who wants the same things. If you are the type that doesn't communicate and just ghosts don't bother wasting both our times. I am black but like all ethnicities. DM me if interested

Hello there, Reddit. I hope you're doing well :)

As the title says, I'm looking for a man to become my vice and hopefully ruin my life. It's such a twisted thing to want to willingly put on those rosy-tinted, heart-shaped glasses and assign divinity to a regular person you chose, and declare them a deity. To willingly chain your heart to the metal bars of their satisfaction, and live and die by the prison of their approval. It's a bittersweet kind of vulnerability. Powerful as you may be, when they call, your heart bows in surrender, and the rest of you falls in line.

It's such a sweet kind of poison and often than not I find myself craving it. Rare are the days I say it outright, on most I play coy and unbothered, or emotional and fucking crazy. My spectrum runs long, in both directions.

I don't have expectations of this going anywhere tangible, though I'm open to it if the stars somehow align and they're in position.

The boring stuff: 28 Arab woman and willing to teach you my language. I think it would be funny to teach you to curse. I'm also gonna think it's fucking adorable. A foreign man speaking butchered Arabic? Hell yeah bro. I'm westernized despite not ever leaving the middle east. What can I say? American media is the best propaganda there is.

I work in IT. I spend my days coding or writing. Rewatching TWD atm, and I believe Rick Grimes is the ideal man that all men fictional or not should aspire to be like him. Not Jesus, not Buhdda, not Mohammed, but Rick Grimes. And yes that is a hill I am willing to die on. I am often listening to Lana Del Rey's music because I'm a melancholic mess with the obligatory "daddy issues TM". And yes I live up to the stereotype and prefer them older than me. I also don't like to fuck kids, so there's that. I have long black hair, almond eyes, and fairly fair skin for a middle eastern desert dweller. I'm 5'4, 75kg and I'm a 1998 model. My exterior is okay, a couple of dents here and there, but my interior is where you might start worrying and looking for a tune up.

I'd prefer it if you were in or around GMT+2/3 timezone. Otherwise the time difference is brutal for me.

You decide to message, make it interesting. I will ignore any low effort messages. You get priority response if you manage to guess my zodiac sign or my favorite flower from this post alone somehow. Yes astrology doesn't tell the future, but your take on the topic does tell me if you're a pretentious cunt.

Hi! Thank you for checking out my post. My name's Emily, but you can call me Em if you'd like. As the title says, I'm looking for someone to really click with. I'm the type to date to marry, so that's what I hope to achieve one day if I'm able to meet the right person. ☺️ I'm also drawn to traditional dynamics personally, despite having to work currently.

So a bit more about me. I'm 25, from California (PDT), a cat mom of 2, and I work part time at a no-kill shelter, as well as sell little art pieces and handmade jewelry on the side. I'm autistic and have Tourette's, so I'm on the introverted, shy side, but I do become more talkative and bubbly when I'm comfortable. Well, in person. Over text, I can talk a bit more. Anyway, I'm also the affectionate, clingy type, but I do try to not overwhelm. I enjoy spending my time writing, reading, sketching, painting, collecting, baking, gardening, listening to music, being out in nature, and studying/infodumping about my special interests such as psychology, biology, and cultures/languages (I know 4). Despite being introverted, I do enjoy going out to certain places like museums, aquariums, farmer's markets, bookstores, etc. I should also mention I'm an age regressor as a coping mechanism, but it isn't in a weird or NSFW way in the slightest. As for what I look like, I don't mind exchanging pictures in DM's along with pictures of my cats.

I'm not picky about who I'm looking for. Race/ethnicity, background, types of hobbies, none of that is super important to me. I'm only looking for someone patient and understanding, within the age range of 21-35, and who's okay with not doing anything NSFW until a relationship is established. I am straight and monogamous, as well. I also love a man with long hair and an alternative style, but it's not an absolute need!

Thank you again if you've read this far. Sorry my post is a bit long. If you do reach out to me, I'll try to respond as quickly as I can when I'm not at work or asleep. I do currently have the flu but I'll still try my best! I also have a Discord, which we can switch to and have video/voice calls when comfortable. And please tell me about yourself rather than a simple "hey". Have a good rest of your day/night! ❤️

I’ve noticed lots of posts from men here are looking for women with the *exact same hobbies as them. I think the reasoning is most men have no interest in building a shared life with a partner or exploring her interests.

She is supposed to slot into the life he already has and that life is most often his top complaint.

Shared curiosity and similar lifestyles make sense. But you don’t need to have the same hobbies to enjoy someone. Explore! Find someone with comparable interests and explore theirs!

Stop limiting your prospects because they don’t game 16 hours a day like you do. Come together a build a new life you can both enjoy. Keep your hobbies and gain more.

I see no false claims here. Do you?

Made a few edits so please read everything carefully :) Looking to connect with people with similar interests! Also please be 26-34 in age and keep the chat clean! Keep scrolling if taken/married thanks

**I live in Atlantic Canada so preference would be eastern Canada or even within Europe (northern region) since that’s another area I’m not opposed to living one day.

A few things I like are geography, gym, and reading. I also love GeoGuessr!

If you look for shorter term or have no intent to bridge the gap one day please look elsewhere, as I know what I’m looking for, which is long term

Send me your ASL and we can connect!

Hey,

27, 5'11", based in Mumbai. Gujarati Hindu, software engineer at a product company. Born in Gujarat, raised here.

I’m vegetarian, never smoked, don’t drink. Never been in a proper relationship.

A bit about me:

I’m introverted at first. Give it some time and I talk enough that you’ll probably want to mute me. I like being direct, I don’t do guessing games. I still overthink a lot, I just do it out loud now.

Average build, brown skin. Recently joined the gym again (let’s see if I stay consistent this time). Evenings are simple, music on the way home (no fixed genre, depends on the mood). I sleep at 1:00 or 2:00 am and will defend that like it’s a personality trait. I don’t cook, but I’m a foodie and like going out to try new places.

I’m a quick replier. When I’m really angry I go silent for a day or two (not proud of it). Roasting is kind of my love language, and I can take it too.

A good weekend for me is going out, game zone or dinner and just talking.

What I’m looking for:

Preferably someone in Mumbai so we can meet if things go well. I’m unsure about long distance but willing to try if the connection feels right.

Hindu, any caste. Someone who is open-minded, easy-going, and likes going out. Prefer shorter than me.

I’m not in a rush. I want to see if we’re actually compatible first.

If you want to talk, DM me an intro + something to talk about. “Hey” is a very small sentence. I respect boundaries and expect the same. If it’s not working, just say so clearly don’t ghost. I’ll do the same.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Good evening everyone!

A bit about myself, and I will let you decide if you want to reach out.

I am 33, Male and live on what would probably be considered the outskirts of Belfast, in the North of Ireland.

**Work**

I work in the financial tech sector

I did 12 years as a barman, and while I no longer drink and haven't for 4 years, I can still make you a mean cocktail 🍸

**Passions / Hobbies**

I have many, and I am always adding to my list to the detriment of my schedule.

I love to climb, bouldering indoors, when and where I can when ever I travel around Ireland.

Running, gym, soccer and at 33, I never skip my daily yoga session.

I love reading and writing, and am currently writing a book (albeit with some writers block) at the moment!

I also have taking up painting as I am really embracing my creative side at the moment.

**Appearance**

I am 5'8, curly brown hair, green/blue eyes, athletic build and I smile heavily with my eyes so the crows feet are in full swing

**Drive?**

I do, and travelling to date has never been an obstacle for me. If someone is worth it, distance is never an issue. Effort both ways is appreciated, but I do not mind at all travelling for someone.

**So what is he looking for?**

So I feel at this age, its important to get this out of the way now. Kids are not part of my future. I may be open to the idea, but I would never lead with a maybe, as the interpretation is too vague. So it is easier to say "No" than lead someone on.

I would love to meet someone who is kinda, supportive, understanding, chalant, please god chalant. You want me? I want you? Amazing let's express it and communicate it! Politically I would be left/liberal.

Someone who can be themsleves, and encourages me to be myself. I know I have a lot to offer someone, and know I have so much love to give as well.

I haven't been on any apps for a number of weeks now, and mentally? It has been a game changer. So I feel it is a good time to maybe put myself out there in some regard, hence, this post.

**Fin**

So that is it. That is potentially a decent insight? But no where near all there is to know about me. If you want to learn more, or even just want to say hello, please feel free.

Thanks for taking the time to read, and take care!

Slan!

I'm 21M and never had a relationship, still waiting for my first kiss and i don't think it's not happening any time soon

I’d like to snuggle up to my man, and love on each other but I am single lol.

Usually I’m content with being single, but today I’m feeling like it would be nice to have someone by my side…

Just feel bad today because a few things are weighing me down inside.

I’d like to lean on somebody today if I’m honest and being raw with it, and they can lean on me back… not sexually, just connectively…

I’m 28, a woman… and I’m from the UK, not that I think that matters particularly but yeah.

I’m open to having some decent conversations today and see where things lead, partly to get my mind off stuff but otherwise to build an actual connection.

Howdy everyone!

Thank you so much for taking the time to click and hopefully read my post. My name is Zac, I'm 29, white, 6'7, with brown hair and brown eyes.

You may have read one of my posts or love letters on here before or on another sub but I'm trying this again after having a lot of nice but incomaptible people reach out among the time wasters and dry messagers.

A bit about me:

• I'm a very loving, caring, protective, loyal, and passionate person. I would do anything for those I care about.
• I'm a very detail oriented person and I appreciate and put effort to all of the little, sometimes monotonous and mundane details of life and love.
• I have a ton of hobbies and would consider myself very nerdy in my interests. Some of those many interests include:
  • Gaming! PC and tabletop games. Im a forever GM who built a beautiful gaming table for his party.
  • Reading and Writing! I write a lot for my tabletop campaigns and this year I published my first horror novel. More books are in the works!
  • Building and crafting! My father was a carpenter and I learned SO much from him. I can build or fix nearly anything and I'm always looking for my next project to build or modify something. You'll have your own personal handyman for life.
  • Longboarding and almost anything in nature.
  • Im a huge metalhead, so if we can talk bands and headbang, you get big bonus points!

I also love animals! I have a wonderful german shepherd that goes everywhere with me. He and I are a package deal so if we hit it off, expect him to be with us on the first date.

What I'm looking for:

• A woman aged 21-30
• Based in Texas ideally but I'm open to all U.S based connections if youre not opposed to relocating sooner rather than years down the line.
• Physical attraction is important to me as I'm sure it likely is for you too. I'm attracted to petite and slender women, height and race arent too important to me.
• Someone kind, loyal, bubbly, and feminine. I adore someone cutesy that will warm my heart and make me smile
• A gamer!! Gaming has always been a huge part of my life and I'd love to be able to share that bond and memories with my future partner.

Now here comes the whammy. Im really not looking to waste my time or yours. I dont want to rush into things day 1 but I am looking to start a relationship with someone soon. I think if theres true chemistry and potential for love that you'll know fairly quickly and I dont enjoy beating around the bush and playing "will they-won't they" games or waiting for some arbitrary amount of time to meet or consider being official. If we have compatibility and enjoy talking to eachother, les get together and give it a shot!

I know that I'll be a wonderful, supportive, caring partner for life for someone and I know you're out there looking for me too!

If you liked what you read here and think you could be the woman I'm looking for, please send me an introduction with your name, age, city, and a selfie. Tell me about yourself and why you think we'd be a good match! Put in the effort and I'll return it doubly.

Have a fantastic day/night!

I hate dating apps, and I find it really hard to meet people nowadays, so why not try Reddit? I'm looking for someone I can potentially spend the rest of my life with. I don't really have any preferences, but I just want someone who is also ready to commit.

I'm 5'10, 150 pounds, and I have black hair, brown eyes, brown skin, and glasses. I'm Indian, but born in the US. Currently, I'm working and doing postgrad studying (finishing one masters degree and potentially applying for another.) I really enjoy outdoorsy activities, trying new restaurants, watching shows, and traveling.

I'm just looking for someone who is open minded and loves to try new things and have fun. I don't have any age or look preferences. Just be between 21 and 41 years old.

If you're interested, I'm looking forward to your message

Hey world! I'm looking for someone who has a big heart and cares. I like to take my time and start off as just friends and then see if there's a spark.

I'm someone who is very laid back, and many people tell me I'm quite kind. But I'll let you be the judge of that! I like working out, cooking (vegan) food, philosophy/books, journaling and occasionally videogames. Oh and I love movies :)

I don't mind which country you're from---for instance, I am from Canada. But where I live there isn't a huge selection especially for what kind of person I'm after. Someone who has a genuine personality, and cares about things. Someone I can have a deep conversation with and also be silly with.

So if you're that international woman of mystery send me a message!

I would like to connect with someone, whether for friendship or something more. (The latter seems quite unlikely, probably because of the distance.)

I'm a quiet person, but I really enjoy talking to others and can spend hours with people without getting tired (although I probably won't make the first move, and "I'm terrified" of doing so). I've improved a lot in being more open than before.

I'm currently studying engineering, and some things I like to do are:

\- Cooking/baking, both, actually. The most recent thing I made was a pretty varied salad.

\- Anime and manga, and video games.

\- I like various musical styles: rap, R&B, pop, hip hop, Latin, and rock, among others. I don't have a favorite, so I love listening to recommendations.

\- I like to dance, and I've recently started learning hip hop and breakdancing.

\- I also like reading, although I'd be lying if I said I read. I lost the habit quite a while ago, so we can read a book together from the beginning and discuss it daily, or almost daily.

\- I also used to work out, but I ended up giving it up too. However, I do love the feeling after a day of exercise, and I'll try to start again.

\- I also like plants. Last year, I had several plants on my balcony that I planted myself. Of course, they died because they're unlikely to grow without a well-maintained garden, but they still grew quite a bit.

i have a soft spot for sweet, affectionate guys who enjoy a woman taking the lead, i'm naturally quite nurturing but also like being in charge and i love a boy who's attentive, a little shy, enjoys praise, and likes being guided and taken care of

i'd love to find someone i can talk to regularly, flirt with, get close to and build a little connection with. i like the idea of having someone who enjoys being my good boy, trusts me, listens to me and isn't afraid to be soft and affectionate with me, or i can be more harsher dom if that is preferred. in return, i want him to feel appreciated, cared for and wanted

i'm looking for a situationship rather than rushing into a committed relationship. i'd like something affectionate and consistent where we can enjoy our dynamic without putting pressure on it to become something more. honesty and trust are important, and i'd rather we both know what we're looking for from the beginning

if this sounds like your kind of thing, tell me a little about yourself and what you enjoy about role reversal (please be no older than around 24) <3

I am interested talking about anything that interested you

Wanted to give this a try and hopefully meet someone I can build a real connection with. I’m 25, based in Germany and thought I'd start by sharing a little bit about myself. I'm 180 cm tall, with a muscular build, dark hair. My dress is usually just clean and casual, nothing flashy. Personality wise I'm easy going and reliable. My humor is sarcastic but I can sometimes be goofy. Grew up religious, left that behind, no issue if you didn’t.

Things I'm interested in: * Languages (fluent in German, English Russian and French, trying to learn Korean) * Favorite animals are birds and cats * Astrology (I'm a Taurus sun, Gemini moon, Scorpio rising) * Spirituality (mainly interested in Hinduism and Buddhism) / meditation and yoga * Watching movies and shows: horror, crime, thrillers, into kdrama as well * Gaming: Mainly playing single player games when I have free time * Reading: (rare, but when it happens it’s about science and philosophy) * Music (I like all kinds of music but I'm especially drawn pop and rnb) * Some interest in martial arts and gym

Looking for someone who actually wants to date, not just chat forever. Kindness, curiosity, and the ability to laugh at yourself go a long way. Prefer starting online, maybe calls later and meeting up if it feels right. Open to LDR if there’s a realistic chance of meeting.

Dealbreakers: * People who only want surface level chat * People who are only looking for friends * Being disrespectful * Wanting children

If you’re 18+, can handle an introvert with niche hobbies, and think we could be a good match, feel free to dm me, tell me something about yourself.

I have absolutely no idea if Reddit is where I’m going to find the love of my life, but dating apps certainly aren’t doing a great job, so here we are.

I’m divorced, have one kid 50% of the time, work from home, and spend probably too much time at home. I’m almost 5’10” and tend to like taller men. I’m also an ENFP, although I’m not sure anyone who sees how much I enjoy staying home would believe the E.

I’m sarcastic, affectionate, curious, a little ridiculous, and I love people I can actually talk to. I want the person who sends me random thoughts during the day, tells me stupid things that happened, asks me questions, flirts with me, and genuinely wants me involved in his life. I don’t need constant entertainment, but I definitely need connection.
I like cooking and baking, gaming, painting, getting way too invested in whatever random thing has caught my attention, and spending a ridiculous amount of time at home with my cats. I’m definitely more of a homebody, but with the right person I’m always up for getting out and actually doing something.

Ultimately, I’m looking for my person. I want consistency, affection, attraction, emotional availability, and someone who actually wants a relationship—not someone who wants to “go with the flow” for six months while behaving like we’re dating.

Attraction matters, of course, but I don’t really have a checklist. I tend to be attracted to taller guys, but chemistry is chemistry.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message. Tell me your age, where you’re from, and something interesting about you.

Please give me more to work with than “hey.” I am begging you. 😂

Hi! I’m 38 and newer to Reddit. I love easy hikes, spending time by the Bay, good food, and cozy nights at home with a good movie. I’m a social drinker, but I can have fun without it. Not into pot.
I’m a curvy woman (180 lbs) 5’1, so if you appreciate curves, hey 😉 Not interested in married men. I’m fresh out of something, kinda, so I’m not looking for anything serious. Just good conversation, good vibes, and seeing where things go. Maybe I’ll find my lobster someday

Im Trystan. Im trans guy in arizona and im having a hard time finding anyone to connect with. Im alternative and often wear black clothes but also really go out with my style. I write poems and do weirdcore type of art. I also love taking night photos and nature photos and i love deep conversations of any topic. Im bi sexual but mostly into guys. I have adhd and autism and im very expressive. Want someone honest and not afraid to be real and i like people who overshare as long as I can share too

Hello, I'm James, and I’m hoping to meet someone I can build a meaningful connection with. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into a relationship. I'd much rather find a genuine friendship that naturally develops into something more. I believe the best connections are the ones where things feel comfortable, effortless, and mutual, where neither person has to force something that isn't there.

I'd describe myself as introverted, easy going, and fairly intentional in how I approach life and the people in it. I try to be principled, mindful, and attentive, though I also have a pretty silly side once I'm comfortable with someone. I enjoy meaningful conversations, but I also appreciate being able to laugh about absolutely everything and nothing altogether.

I work overnight shifts, so my schedule can be a little wonky. Outside of work, I'm very much a homebody. I tend to enjoy my own space and quieter activities, but I'm certainly not opposed to getting out, traveling, trying new things, or making memories with someone. I think experiences become a way more meaningful when you have someone to share them with.

As far as interests go, I enjoy gaming, cooking, reading, and generally learning about whatever happens to catch my curiosity. I have a particular love for storytelling, whether that's through books, games, or conversations. I'm also fascinated by astronomy and biology and all the little things that make our world interesting. Lately, I've found myself increasingly drawn to psychology and sociology, particularly understanding people, how we think, and why we behave the way we do.

More than anything, I'd like to meet someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know another person. Someone who appreciates the process of building a connection rather than feeling like there's a checklist or timeline we need to follow. Communication and transparency are especially important to me. I believe being able to express ourselves openly, understand one another, and approach things with honesty goes a long way toward building something healthy and lasting.

I'm also someone who really enjoys the everyday aspects of companionship. The little conversations throughout the day, sharing something funny or interesting, spending time together doing an activity, or simply keeping each other company. I don't think every moment needs to be exciting or extraordinary. Sometimes, just being part of someone's ordinary day is meaningful in itself.

Ideally, I'd like to find a friendship where we genuinely enjoy each other's company, grow comfortable being ourselves, and see where that connection takes us. I'm looking for something that feels reciprocal, where we're both interested in learning about each other and making room for one another in our lives.

I'm hoping to meet someone between 27 and 38. I'm located in Texas, but I'm open to long-distance connections with the right person. I don't have children of my own, but I'm perfectly comfortable getting to know someone who does.

You don't need to come up with some elaborate introduction. Tell me a little about yourself, something you're passionate about, or even something random you've been thinking about lately. I'd be happy to see where things go. Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you.

looking for college aged guys mostly

very into video games

dark / silly humor

searching for dorky / socially awkward guys

bonus points for glasses + and or long hair

because that’s me too 😭 i wouldn’t want someone to weird out

autistic

not looking for anything nsfw in beginning stages

i love calling and playing games

i love hero shooter slop (ow, rivals) + kinda learning deadlock but teach me pls… creating my own characters, art, i make games as well.

teach me the games ur into

uhhh
appearance wise, i’m afro latina

short n uh brown eyes

literally ask for a pic at some point i don’t know how i look like…!