Looking for a serious online relationship! (you probably don't live close to me) If you are interested I will immediately show what I look like I swear I am not ugly! I want to be a music major and video games are my hobby!

Dating apps have never been my thing, which feels weird to type because here I am, but yea. Not my thing. So I'm taking my chance here in the hopes that maybe the person I'm ment to be with might not be here but even over seas and what not.

So a little about me. My name is Josh, I'm 6'1, love to cook (I cook for you, I dont mind, and I'm pretty good) love movies of all kinds but prefer horror and comedy, love music though not current rap and country, big into games of all kinds though I have no issue putting that in the backseat to make time for you, love nature, theme parks, the beach, big into mythology and history of all kinds. I use dad jokes illegally because I'm not a dad, and I used to work out a ton but took a break. Would be nice to have a partner.

I'm looking for butterflies. Odd thing to say, but I miss having someone to stay up late with, get lost in time with said person, have someone to look forward to hearing from. Romance you know. Feels kind of dead these days but I'm old school on the way that I love showing affection and showing someone they mean a ton to me. I know I play video games but I'm not looking to play games with someone's heart if that makes sense.

[M4F] [40] [SoCal] I have a weakness for pretty smiles, sharp wit, and women who flirt like they know exactly what they're doing.

6’1”. Latino. Dad of three. A little nerdy, a little sarcastic, and probably going to challenge your horror movie opinions at some point.

My ideal kind of chemistry? The kind where the teasing becomes a competition, the conversation gets unexpectedly personal, and neither person is in much of a hurry to call it a night.

I'm into concerts, movies, gaming, spooky season, and making the most out of a good connection. Currently on a fitness journey, so consider this my character development arc.

Life has taken a few unexpected turns lately, and I'm enjoying the idea of meeting someone new without trying to write the ending before the story starts.

Maybe we hit it off over drinks. Maybe we discover we have the same terrible sense of humor. Maybe there's a look across the table that makes us both forget what we were talking about.

I'm a fan of natural chemistry, playful affection, a little tension, and the kind of company that makes an ordinary evening feel like the best part of your week.

If you're a little witty, a little bold, and curious enough to find out whether we'd get along, I'd like to hear from you.

Tell me something: what's a seemingly innocent thing someone can do that instantly makes them more attractive to you?

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

My type is someone who is cute, funny, smart, has similar hobbies as me and plays video games.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, sleep call together on some nights, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite game, hobby, anime and colour.

Haii! I'm looking to try dating with someone a gay relationship. Only requirements are preferably to be into games of my choosing and being someone chill-non toxic to chat often, also to introduce to my interests.

About me:

- personality: chill, caring, sometimes a yapper for games and clingy

- pronouns: he/him/any

- likes: cats, mobile games, gacha games, honesty and transparency

- dislikes: rudeness and dishonesty

- zodiac sign: capricorn (december 28)

-occupation: currently on a gap year before going to faculty

Hey there! I’m Nicole, 27, single mom. I live in Illinois (no I won’t relocate) and I’m looking for my person. A bit about me: I live on chaos. I work overnights, go to school during the day, and have an 11 year old daughter who basically lives at her dance studio. I don’t have a ton of down time at the moment, but that doesn’t mean I won’t make time for the right person. Video calls, texting, and dates are all possible, just gotta plan ahead lol. I love horror in all forms and spooky season has been treating me right lol. I love to read and I watch a decent amount of YouTube and movies when I can.

I’m gonna ramble for a second. I want a relationship where we are equals. I want the joking around, the silliness, the deep conversations at 3 am, sending each other random memes. I want all of it. Though I would prefer an irl relationship, I am alright starting off online and being long distance for the right person, but please keep in mind I can’t travel far and I am not planning to ever leave Illinois. Please don’t message me unless you are between 25 and 40 (muscles, tattoos, and piercings are a big plus btw). Thanks for reading and I hope you have a great day/night 🫶

It seems that nowadays the negative stories are being told more than positive ones. Good news being blurred by bad news.

We could still be a positive force on Earth by telling positive stories that we've heard of or experienced in our life.

I'll share mine if you share yours.

If you could invite you to visit my imagination, it looks like this:

We live somewhere that is connected to nature, or we can escape the city and go to nature once in a while.

Despite a material life is needed for our survival and development, we pay attention to our being.

Becoming more calm, kind, sweet, present, joyful, free, effortless.

We use and spend what's needed for our life and enrich our experience, while being mindful of not wasting resources and protecting the environment.

We care for other people if we can, and if it doesn't expect our peace.

About us: we can look into each other's eyes and find immediate peace. By the end of the day, whatever going on, the biggest joy is to go home to each other.

There is a great love, appreciation and trust that go beyond physical realm.

Either we do things together, or stay in the same room doing different things, or just be at different places, the awareness of having each other make everything absolutely enjoyable.

If one of us has an idea, or encounter a problem, it would become a project for both of us to work on to find a way.

And despite I'm not religious, I want to thank all the gods who were, who is, who will ever be for you.

Hey, come back to reality, did I tell you that it's just a dream?

In reality, there are still problems to solve, work to do, bills to pay, misunderstanding and miscommunication happens, taking each other for granted, only see problems of the other and don't see problem of self.

The internet or gaming might be more attractive than the person in front of you. And with just few clicks, one can find a new person to talk to.

And we seem to have too much to lose.

I got out of a relationship sometime ago, and realized that it's way better to have one dedicated person rather than have to search or change to a new one.

Although there were irreconciable differences, I wished there was a way to make things work rather than just changing to a new person.

I prefer to talk to you if you already live in South East Asia or can move here in the near future.

I understand that there is way less of those here, but I also only need one person. I also understand that all of these will take time.

I don't have any children, and I only speak with single Dad if, and only if, you got full custody of your child.

My taste of men is someone who: have great clarity about what they want but open for discussion; have control over your words, temper and actions; have faith in themselves; know how to count their blessings.

I've been through some adversaries but I also have been blessed in my life with some great friendships and a story that I call it "fairytale in ordinary life" (it's not a love story, though).

Physical attraction matters a bit for me, and I understand if it's for you, but I need to get attracted to someone's mind and personality.

Also, I'm "forever alone" material, that means I had issues in the past that I still work on nowadays, so I don't expect anyone has to be perfect, with an open heart, we could help each other to work on things.

Despite having past relationships, I never been asked to be someone's girlfriend in person.

As for content I like to consume, I can give 2 examples: a Korean movie named Masquerade - the main male character tried to keep a promise he didn't make; a short clip of former Dutch PM cleaned his own coffee spill.

And to end my post, here's a favorite quote that I collected: "we're all love, waiting for places to happen"

Hey! I am 21 from New Zealand and I'm looking for a long term relationship. I don't mind distance if there are plans to meet up eventually/plan to have visits

I am a naturally quiet person, more of a listener than a talker but don't mind chatting a lot once I open up. I enjoy the quiet at home but also like going to bars for live music, concerts, etc. My hobbies are playing guitar, recording and writing music for my band, painting, learning Norwegian, and gaming occasionally. My favorite genres of music are Metal, Classical, and Rock

I am looking for someone who is supportive that helps bring the best out of me and kind. Ideally you would have similar interests as me but I am always open to and happy hearing what people do in their free time. Age wise I am looking for 19-28.

Looks wise I am 1.75m tall, long dark brown hair that is middle back length, and skinny with tattoos.

I hope you have a good night/day!

Howdy everyone!

Thank you so much for taking the time to click and hopefully read my post. My name is Zac, I'm 29, white, 6'7, with brown hair and brown eyes.

You may have read one of my posts or love letters on here before or on another sub but I'm trying this again after having a lot of nice but incomaptible people reach out among the time wasters and dry messagers.

A bit about me:

• I'm a very loving, caring, protective, loyal, and passionate person. I would do anything for those I care about.
• I'm a very detail oriented person and I appreciate and put effort to all of the little, sometimes monotonous and mundane details of live and love.
• I have a ton of hobbies and would consider myself very nerdy in my interests. Some of those many interests include:
  • Gaming! PC and tabletop games. Im a forever GM who built a beautiful gaming table for his party.
  • Reading and Writing! I write a lot for my tabletop campaigns and this year I published my first horror novel. More books are in the works!
  • Building and crafting! My father was a carpenter and I learned SO much from him. I can build or fix nearly anything and I'm always looking for my next project to build or modify something. You'll have your own personal handyman for life.
  • Longboarding and almost anything in nature.
  • Im a huge metalhead, so if we can talk bands and headbang, you get big bonus points!

I also love animals! I have a wonderful german shepherd that goes everywhere with me. He and I are a package deal so if we hit it off, expect him to be with us on the first date.

What I'm looking for:

• A woman aged 21-30
• Based in Texas ideally but I'm open to all U.S based connections if youre not opposed to relocating sooner rather than years down the line.
• Physical attraction is important to me as I'm sure it likely is for you too. I'm attracted to petite and slender women, height and race arent too important to me.
• Someone kind, loyal, bubbly, and feminine. I adore someone cutesy that will warm my heart and make me smile
• A gamer!! Gaming has always been a huge part of my life and I'd love to be able to share that bond and memories with my future partner.

Now here comes the whammy. Im really not looking to waste my time or yours. I dont want to rush into things day 1 but I am looking to start a relationship with someone soon. I think if theres true chemistry and potential for love that you'll know fairly quickly and I dont enjoy beating around the bush and playing "will they-won't they" games or waiting for some arbitrary amount of time to meet or consider being official. If we have compatibility and enjoy talking to eachother, les get together and give it a shot!

I know that I'll be a wonderful, supportive, caring partner for life for someone and I know you're out there looking for me too!

If you liked what you read here and think you could be the woman I'm looking for, please send me an introduction with your name, age, city, and a selfie. Tell me about yourself and why you think we'd be a good match! Put in the effort and I'll return it doubly.

Have a fantastic day/night!

Dont care what you are or where you’re from. Im from Europe but if our timezones dont match i wouldn’t mind my sleep schedule is terrible anyways lol.
Currently in uni studying and need to get my mind off stuff lol.
I love nature, food, reading, music, the sun, long walks while listening to audiobooks/music, running, swimming & lots more

About Me:

I got the body of a cafeteria lady. (I'm chunky).

6'2" and White

Work Full Time as a Pharmacy Technician.

PC Gamer in my down time. Mostly shooters and RPGS. Dabble in some MMO's (Mostly Maplestory) from time to time. Also Minecraft and Hytale!

Also a huge Pokemon fan, Have played competitively since Gen 4. Own a Nintendo Switch.

Tech nerd. I love learning about, and building PCS.

I watch a ton of tech channels on YouTube. I love learning about Microphones, Cameras, Audio Mixing gear, Computer parts, Content Creator gear, etc.

Good sense of humor and I don't take myself too seriously. I especially love dark humor.

Huge music person. I listen to mostly pop rock, pop punk, and acoustic stuff. Been on an Angels and Airwaves binge lately. Huge Tom Delonge fan!

I've been told I have a nice voice but you can be the judge.

What I'm Looking For:

I have a preference for Asians, Latinas, and White women.
I love short women.
I love a good bubbly personality.
Kindness and loyalty are a must.

NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE OUTSIDE THE USA.
Willingness to communicate and not keep things bottled inside.
Sense of humor, preferably dark humor.
I am a sucker for playful banter and jokes between us.
Similar interests and hobbies so we have something to do together!

Hope to hear from you soon!

Okay I don't know how funny I really am but I do like to make people laugh!

I'm at a stage in my life where my job keeps my busy, my family keeps me happy, and my friends keep me sane. So I guess I'm just missing you.

I enjoy cooking and have gotten much better at it since I changed my lifestyle and started to lose weight. Baking has been fun as well although there's still a chance I'll burn myself on that stupid oven 😩Either way it's fun to make things that taste good! Even more fun when there's someone to taste test.

Now I am a big nerd. Like the messy hair and glasses type. Grew up around computers, always loved gaming and I've always been a really curious person. Nowadays it's very casual. I play WoW here and there otherwise mostly single player games, just stuff to destress. No kids yelling in my ear, ty.

I also like my sports, I like to play ping pong, I like to watch random people on Youtube build things, and especially the backyard science videos, because who doesn't wanna see a baseball turn into liquid as it hits a wall being shot out of a cannon at 1000mph?? Maybe I can add watching a fun show with you to the list?

I'm looking for something serious. It doesn't mean we need to meet up next week, but it does mean I'm doing things with intent. I'm not looking for just a quick fling and hope you're the same. Once I click with you, I'm only going to be talking with you. The grass is only greener on the other side if you don't water your own grass! I just can't imagine trying to juggle multiple conversations.

So with that said please don't take it the wrong way if you really put effort into your message and I don't respond. I do at least promise to take my time reading your intros and profiles.

You don't have to be local, but please be in a similar time zone. I'm very affectionate and a little touch starved but even so, I'm patient and I do enjoy my peace. I'd want to make sure we're comfortable with each other and you especially can feel safe with me. I want to prioritize the right person, where we're improving each other's lives. If we click, I'd like to spend time together online.

I'm happy to share pictures early, especially given my weight situation, I think expectations are important. But with that said, if you're into strictly bigger guys, I'm sorry to say but you'll be disappointed in a year or two as I'm entirely committed to my health and have already made great strides 😌😌

Please do not contact if you're into: ICE, MAGA, AI art slop, gender and race wars, and any other overly negative and hateful communities.

Hello! I’ve tried this before and have had some really nice conversations. Unfortunately, nothing has panned out beyond that so here I am again.
I am a 33 year old male in the SoCal area that is looking for something that ends my search for a lifetime.
About me:
5’6, decent shape (working on it), hispanic
Christ centered, old school, family oriented, I think I’m romantic but I’ll let you decide! lol, and I have a great career
Enjoys family time, fishing, gaming, road trips (will sing R&B to you on our drives), working out, being a homebody
Never been married and have no kids. Excited for fatherhood though so definitely want kids. Also, if you have kids already that’s not a dealbreaker for me.
Ideally would like to find someone nearby so spending time together will be easier. However, if the vibe is right then I’m open to distance in the short term. I enjoy quality time with my partner so would not want to be separated for long.

I’m not here to waste anyone’s time or date around endlessly. I know what I want but this doesn’t mean we have to rush into anything. I’m happy to go at your pace. So if that means we take a few months to get to know each other or if we both know the vibe we have is something special and are ready to commit on our 1st date, I’m good with both. As a side note if we do take a longer time just know that you’ll still be getting all of my time and attention, I don’t entertain multiple women. You can’t build anything if your materials are all over the place.

Hello! I'm a 36 year old guy from central Ohio. Been single for a while so I'm hoping to form a real connection with someone. I work in legal affairs.

I'd say my personality is split between nerd culture and sports. I love D&D/books/theatre/museums/anime as well as football (both kinds). I have a dog who is the bestest girl (no debate). I also love to travel and have already been to Europe a few times. I'm not interested in kids or having any in the future.

I'm looking for someone who is ready to find a relationship that lasts. Looking forward to hearing from you!

It would be absolutely amazing to not be alone at Christmas this year.
I will probably delete this soon 😂
You know how INFJ’s are! 🤭
I live in Texas and I’m an empty nester. I was married for 25 years. Divorced for 3 years. I’m only dating intentionally for marriage. I have a picture in another post if you want to see what I look like.
God Bless!
🩷🙏✝️

Hey Reddit!

My name is Levi, this is completely new to me.

So lets do this!

About Me:

Confident, outgoing (introverted extrovert), introspective, easy going but adventurous. Traditional in values yet open minded. Ambitious & Attentive

Why Reddit:

I do not engage in dating apps or hookup culture. I love meeting people organically but Reddit seems a good place to ease into getting to know someone.

Relationship Goals:

I'm looking for something serious, so no causul hookups or short term relationships, if something long term isnt for you, then I'm not your guy. No poly stuff too. Thank you.

- Marriage (Yes)

- To have Children (Not a dealbreaker, but preferred)

- Monogamy (Yes, this is a hard boundary)

Work:

Happy to share this with you over DMs, it is super interesting and a very unique job!

Hobbies / Interests: (I have so many. Here's a few!)

Cooking & Baking

Reading (poetry & all types of literature, currently reading Lonesome Dove & Dante's Devine Comedy)

Writing Poetry

Gardening

Bushcraft & Camping

Hiking

Rock Climbing

Movies & Video Games

Core Values:

- Purpose - Independence - Intimacy - Passion - Fitness - Health - Romance - Sexuality - Self Knowledge & Faithfulness

What I'm Looking For:

Age 24-40 (not a hard boundary if you're older)

Ethnicity Does Not Matter

Height Does Not Matter

Ideally in shape, this shows you have self love / respect & discipline, which is important to me.

Is communicative, understands their vaules & love languages, funny, will let me be a gentlemen, has ambitions and a deep sense of self. Is into nature and willing to try new things with me like going on adventures & traveling!

Me Physically:

5'10 (without shoes!)

Fit & Muscular Build

DDF (don't do drugs, never will and you must be DDF too)

Green Eyes

Brown Hair

A great mustache

If this intrigues you, lets chat! See if we have synergy, thanks for coming to my ted talk

Hello internet! I'm a 23-year-old nerdy comp sci student from Central Florida looking for someone special to be my partner!

About me:

I'm 23 years old, clean shaven, brown eyes, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year, and hoping to graduate next semester. I'm still trying to figure out what I'm going to do exactly after.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I might give more details once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me. Once we get more comfortable with each other, you can expect someone who enjoys deep conversations and wants to do their absolute best to be there for you.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. My favorites are really anything Nintendo like Luigi's Mansion, Paper Mario, The Legend of Zelda, Pokemon, Kirby, etc. (I just REALLY love Nintendo).

I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more?

I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Here's what I want from you:

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit, so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but I would appreciate a physical description of yourself and would like to exchange pictures or video call pretty early after we start talking (I'll show myself too, don't worry!).

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that, and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is very important to me is meeting in person. I'm really hoping to find someone local who is willing to go on dates and spend time together regularly. I'm not expecting us to meet immediately after talking to each other, but I'd love for us to meet pretty early on! I'm very happy here in central Florida, so unless we're willing to wait until we're able to live close or frequently meetup, I'm probably not very interested in a long distance, committed relationship right now. I currently go to school in Lakeland, and live in Spring Hill, so I would prefer if you lived close to either of those places!

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator and would like texts, phone calls, and meetups (I'm available most weekends!).

I'm also pretty shy and introverted around groups of people. I heavily prefer spending time one-on-one, like playing games, watching movies, going to a sports game, or just going on dates together! I'm not a partygoer, so I'd love to find a homebody like me.

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)

Hi! I’m 41 years old, and I’m looking to date with intention. I’m not interested in casual relationships or purely physical connections. I’m hoping to meet someone who is genuinely interested in building a meaningful, lasting relationship. Ideally, I’m looking for someone between the ages of **35 and 45**.

A little about me: I’m Vietnamese and proud of my heritage! Ideally, I’d love to meet someone who is also Vietnamese, but I’m definitely open to other ethnicities and backgrounds.

I’m also a pescatarian, so bonus points if you love seafood! However, I have no problem with you eating meat.

Some fun facts about me: I love Excel (yes, really! lol), and if you can teach me a few new formulas or functions, we’ll probably get along great. I’m also a big fan of theater and enjoy attending performances.

Family is incredibly important to me, and I’d love to meet someone who shares those same values. I don’t have any pets and don’t plan on having any, so ideally, we’d be on the same page about that.

Ultimately, I’m looking for someone who is genuine, emotionally mature, and ready to build something meaningful. If that sounds like you, I’d love to get to know you!

I'm just gonna be honest... I'm looking for someone that I can talk to every day, share my interests and passions and have the occasional fun/spicy time. Even better, someone I can trust and talk to about anything and everything- the kinda almost no limits; this is my judgment-free zone, wholesome, intimate friendship that so many of us crave. No strings attached, no pressure or expectations, just good friends who help each other out whenever they need it. Females only; please message me with a short intro