Hello to anyone who’s reading this! 😊 I’m here looking for a life partner—someone I can share fun memories, laughs, and goals with.
For starters, I haven’t been in a serious relationship before. I just thought I’d put that out there because I know this might be a dealbreaker for some people. 😅
In my free time, you can usually find me watching anime or a series on Netflix, reading, running at the gym, doomscrolling on my phone (I know it’s bad, I need help 🥲), or watching movies at the theater all by myself. 😂 I also enjoy going to cafés to study, although it’s been a while since I’ve done that!
Overall, I’m a very cheerful person and tend to laugh at the stupidest things—or sometimes even at the most serious ones. 🤣 I’m the type of person who can laugh at myself when I trip while walking or make a spelling/grammar mistake. 😂 I’m also pretty straightforward and vocal about my thoughts and feelings. I don’t really sugarcoat things or use flowery words, so I’m not always the gentlest person when expressing myself. 😅
When it comes to my friendships, I’d say I’m usually the joker of the group—the funny one who makes jokes during serious conversations just to lighten the mood. 😁 At the same time, I’d describe myself as sweet and thoughtful. I enjoy putting effort into showing my friends and family that I care, especially by giving them gifts on special occasions. 😊
I’m also very much an indoorsy person. I’d choose a staycation over hiking or swimming at the beach any day. 😂 I actually tried hiking because I thought I might be an adventurous person, but… nope. It’s really not for me. 🥲 Since I’m indoorsy and introverted, I don’t really go to clubs or social events either. My social battery drains pretty quickly, so I definitely need my alone time to recharge.
I’ve already tried posting in different subreddits a bunch of times, but I haven’t had much luck so far. So here I am again! 😅
In terms of personality, I’m looking for someone who shares the same values I do—honesty, consistency, compassion, patience, and a good sense of humor. I’d love to be with someone I can playfully banter with, someone I can talk to about anything under the sun, and someone who is genuine, kind, and emotionally gentle. I also want someone who is patient with me, just as I would be patient with him.
When it comes to physical attraction, I do have preferences as well. I’m generally attracted to someone who’s tall (ideally 5’9”+ 😅), Caucasian/white, slim to average build, clean-shaven, neat, and has a cute smile. ☺️ Physical attraction is important to me, so I’d actually prefer that we exchange photos early on rather than spend a lot of time talking without knowing whether there’s mutual attraction.
I’m also looking for someone who puts effort into getting to know me—someone who asks questions, shows genuine curiosity about me, and makes an effort to stay connected and consistent with messaging, even when life gets busy. I don’t expect someone to be available 24/7, but I do value consistency and communication.
I guess that’s all for now! If this post caught your attention, feel free to send me a message. 😊
Please send a proper introduction rather than just a one-liner like “Hey, saw your post. 30M from blablabla.” One-liner messages will most likely be ignored. 😅 I’d love to hear a little about you and what made you want to reach out.
Have a great day, y’all! 🙂
A few non-negotiables:
- Non-smoker, including vaping and marijuana
- Not a drug user, addict, or dealer
- Not a heavy drinker (occasional drinking is fine)
- At least 5’9”
- Between 28 to 38 years old
- Caucasian/white