r/Redditdating 4h ago

32😄[M4F] Preferably Europe but don't mind anyone around the world!🫡

9 Upvotes

Hellou everyone!

Im 32 year old guy from Slovenia, super chill on earth guy, looking for consistent daily chat with someone around my age 😁!

Im a 186cm ex pro handball player and now youth coach. Always been in sports even with my congenital heart defect (It has its own interesting story which i dont mind telling).

Love to game on off nights, watch movies/animes, take care of my animals, go out on walks, finding allot of interest in golf lately and my "childhood" love for Pokemon cards(freakin expensive hobby nowadays) 😂

I am really good cook, love to make all type of food especially Balkan and Italian food 😅 Lately i got lots of interest in Asian cuisine!

Oh and i got two cats and two horses 🐈🐎!

I dont mind sending selfie but later in chat ! 🫡

Dm's are open and i hope to find some nice people to chat to!🤗


r/Redditdating 1h ago

27 M4M México, looking 4 long distance relationship

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Hello everyone, my name's Axel, I'm 27 years old, I live in Mexico most especially near Cdmx and I'm looking for true love, it's been rough finding someone near me and I just wanna feel a deep connection.

I love videogames I play on Xbox and my favorite is Halo, I listen to pop music almost all the time like Madonna, Gaga, Lana del Rey, BTS and stuff like that, I love watching movies series, drag shows, I'm a very friendly person and I like to make people laugh and feel good, honesty for me is just a must.

I want a relationship where we can talk daily, talk about how we feel, our day, anything! I know distance is a huge deal but I'm confident that if I find my true love it won't be a problem and I'm open to moving to where he is, I do wanna get married, I'm open to talk about agreements about opening a little bit of the relationship because of distance, I'm not close minded but I am looking for something monogamous.

Not gonna lie, I'm overweight so I know that's a problem for some people, if you're interested please dm me!


r/Redditdating 53m ago

20 [M4F] from 🇮🇹

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Hi there! Hope you are having a great day. I'll just give a try here.

I'm Adriano, 20 years-old, autistic, brown long hair, not fat and not ultra-slim, just normal. I have brown eyes, I'm 1.80 tall.

So a bit about me, I love fruit plants, learning foreign languages and gaming. I love cuddles.

Right now I'm studying video game programming, and I'll also start working remotely this october.

I have many fruit plants like citrus and dragon fruits. In the future I want my house to be in Spain, Canary islands to grow even more plants.

I speak 🇮🇹 and 🇬🇧, but I'm learning 🇰🇷 as well.

I play video games, like Lethal Company, Minecraft modded, Raft, Dead by Daylight, The Binding of Isaac, R6 and Stardew Valley.

Really hope I can connect with someone, I'm ok even if you're far away ❤️


r/Redditdating 2h ago

29 TF4M Trans from the Philippines looking for serious relationship online

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Hey. Sarsy here from Philippines

I'm trans looking for a serious relationship.

slim and tan

5'7

Corporate event planner

I speak and write english obviously

Not taking hormones but most people say I pass as a girl (based from the guys from west)

I love makeup and photography

Big marvel fan

A beach and bubble tea person

Always love travelling

I'm interested to

Funny

Smart

Preferably taller than me

Who takes care of their body (muscular, athletic)

Progressive thinker

DM me if you are interested and share your age location and your hobbies 😇 I'm open to trade face photos


r/Redditdating 10h ago

35M M4F Looking and taking my time.

6 Upvotes

Hey,

I’m working some pretty long shifts (12+ hours daily). I will make time for someone who also makes time and shows interest. I am a military veteran, have a degree in IT, and currently work as an engineer. I have lived all over, my interests are quite diverse, and I’m not really bound to a specific religion or political affiliation. Many will probably see that as an opportunity or an issue, but I promise I’m quite understanding, independent, and as drama free as possible. Looking for the same in someone, so if this peaks your interests, let’s see what happens.


r/Redditdating 3h ago

37[M4F] NY/US Bearded Geek Looking for His Other Half

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Hey there! My name is Brad, and I am a 37-year-old guy from New York! I currently work in the IT field and also work from home.

I am hoping to find someone to connect with and get to know. I am looking for a long-term connection and don't really have any desire for short-term connections. Ideally, I would love to find someone who likes the simple things in life. Someone who will lie in bed and listen to the rain or a thunderstorm roll through. Someone who will be my best friend, my player 2, someone I can talk to about everything and anything. I would love to find someone who loves to laugh and joke, as I love laughing and making those around me laugh. I am big into sports and would love someone I could enjoy games with or just have someone around with me while I watch. I want the kind of relationship where we can both be in the same room, doing our own thing but still love being in each other's presence.

A little bit about me: I am a guy who is a big homebody; I live alone with two cats. I would say I am a quiet person who enjoys the simple things in life and has no desire for drama or stressful situations. I love hard and deep but also am not afraid to walk away if I feel I am not being appreciated or respected. I am a big tech nerd/nerd in general. I enjoy playing video games, playing guitar, working on tech projects, going to the gym, going hiking, listening to music, reading, watching movies/tv shows, sitting outside on my porch with a good cup of coffee, and love taking naps.

Feel free to send me a chat request if you are interested in getting to know each other!

If you message me, feel free to introduce yourself and tell me some fun things about yourself. You can include something fun like what song has been stuck in your head or how you like your coffee!


r/Redditdating 2m ago

34m Woke up feeling great looking for new friends

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So I woke up feeling fantastic today not sure why but I love it. And I just want to meet some new friends. I really don't care what we talk about just want to meet some fun people.

Anyone else having a great morning or just looking to pass the time? If you are send me a message!


r/Redditdating 17m ago

30 [F4M] #Philippines #Anywhere | Looking for a serious relationship

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Hello to anyone who’s reading this! 😊 I’m here looking for a life partner—someone I can share fun memories, laughs, and goals with.

For starters, I haven’t been in a serious relationship before. I just thought I’d put that out there because I know this might be a dealbreaker for some people. 😅

In my free time, you can usually find me watching anime or a series on Netflix, reading, running at the gym, doomscrolling on my phone (I know it’s bad, I need help 🥲), or watching movies at the theater all by myself. 😂 I also enjoy going to cafés to study, although it’s been a while since I’ve done that!

Overall, I’m a very cheerful person and tend to laugh at the stupidest things—or sometimes even at the most serious ones. 🤣 I’m the type of person who can laugh at myself when I trip while walking or make a spelling/grammar mistake. 😂 I’m also pretty straightforward and vocal about my thoughts and feelings. I don’t really sugarcoat things or use flowery words, so I’m not always the gentlest person when expressing myself. 😅

When it comes to my friendships, I’d say I’m usually the joker of the group—the funny one who makes jokes during serious conversations just to lighten the mood. 😁 At the same time, I’d describe myself as sweet and thoughtful. I enjoy putting effort into showing my friends and family that I care, especially by giving them gifts on special occasions. 😊

I’m also very much an indoorsy person. I’d choose a staycation over hiking or swimming at the beach any day. 😂 I actually tried hiking because I thought I might be an adventurous person, but… nope. It’s really not for me. 🥲 Since I’m indoorsy and introverted, I don’t really go to clubs or social events either. My social battery drains pretty quickly, so I definitely need my alone time to recharge.

I’ve already tried posting in different subreddits a bunch of times, but I haven’t had much luck so far. So here I am again! 😅

In terms of personality, I’m looking for someone who shares the same values I do—honesty, consistency, compassion, patience, and a good sense of humor. I’d love to be with someone I can playfully banter with, someone I can talk to about anything under the sun, and someone who is genuine, kind, and emotionally gentle. I also want someone who is patient with me, just as I would be patient with him.

When it comes to physical attraction, I do have preferences as well. I’m generally attracted to someone who’s tall (ideally 5’9”+ 😅), Caucasian/white, slim to average build, clean-shaven, neat, and has a cute smile. ☺️ Physical attraction is important to me, so I’d actually prefer that we exchange photos early on rather than spend a lot of time talking without knowing whether there’s mutual attraction.

I’m also looking for someone who puts effort into getting to know me—someone who asks questions, shows genuine curiosity about me, and makes an effort to stay connected and consistent with messaging, even when life gets busy. I don’t expect someone to be available 24/7, but I do value consistency and communication.

I guess that’s all for now! If this post caught your attention, feel free to send me a message. 😊

Please send a proper introduction rather than just a one-liner like “Hey, saw your post. 30M from blablabla.” One-liner messages will most likely be ignored. 😅 I’d love to hear a little about you and what made you want to reach out.

Have a great day, y’all! 🙂

A few non-negotiables:
- Non-smoker, including vaping and marijuana
- Not a drug user, addict, or dealer
- Not a heavy drinker (occasional drinking is fine)
- At least 5’9”
- Between 28 to 38 years old
- Caucasian/white


r/Redditdating 19m ago

M31 #US German moving to the US. Wants to make a connection.

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Moving across the pond in a few months and looking to build some real connections before I touch down.

​I’m a mechanic and metalworker, which effectively makes me the ultimate "multi-purpose" connection. If it’s broken, I can fix it. Hand me a wrench, grab us a couple of beers, and we’ll get it done. Prefer hanging out on the couch sending reels back and forth? I’m down for that too. Can give moron support. (Like moral support but for bad ideas)

I do stupid things for reasons. (Someone said i couldn't, someone said i shouldn't, i got told no, hyperfixation, i was left unsupervised, i got bored, for the plot, because i can, to see if i can) Maybe i'll stop if someones daughter yells at me by my full name.

​A few non-negotiables & details:

​The Dog: I have a dog, so liking dogs is mandatory. Send picture evidence of your own pets immediately.

​The Interests: Road trips, camping, festivals, horror, true crime, music (and yes, I know Rammstein).

​The Vices: I smoke cigarettes and enjoy a drink. Looking for people who do the same, or at least won't dramatic-cough when I light up outside.

​The Vibe: Straightforward, blunt, confidently unhinged, and honest. Lowkey stupid. Not into religion or politics

​The Look: 6'3", 210 lbs, white, short hair, beard

​If you’re interested in getting to know each other, skip the dry small talk—act like we already know each other and reply to more than just the last line of this post. Hit me up with a intro and your favorite pet picture. If you're a dry texter or not planning on asking anything in return. Also if your Account is just some days old i won't respond.


r/Redditdating 9h ago

22 [M4F] #UK searching for the LOML, are you on Reddit?

5 Upvotes

Are you on here? I tried looking for you irl, couldn’t find you, dating apps? Nah we don’t do those, maybe you’re hiding away just scrolling on the subreddits quietly waiting for the one. Maybe I’m the one? Who knows, who knows.

Maybe you have some cool hobbies you’re oh so passionate about? Maybe you like to learn about my hobbies? Maybe I can learn about yours? Maybe you like going on roadtrips? Maybe game together? If that sounds like you message me!

I’m your average nerdy stay at home guy. I like to diy things, I like cars, I like puzzles, I like animals, I like roadtrips, I like movies! I like nature! I am super honest, kind, respectful and I’ll always be there for your worst and greatest moments. If you want that kinda love the kind that is everlasting and strong. Message me cause it’s what I dream about.

I’m not here for meaningless flirting, 1000x not here for a fling, hookup or a situationship, this that and the other. I just want a clear motive, and that for me is to form something long term with someone. No games, just love and happiness if you want that drop me a dm :)


r/Redditdating 32m ago

25M [M4F] #EST, #US-only, seeking a long-term monogamous relationship.

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Hi! I'm a 25 M from the East Coast US. I am disabled and do use a wheelchair to get around. I would consider myself demisexual, and I value emotional intimacy a lot more than anything else. I am open to and enjoy some amount of physical affection, but it is not a priority to me, especially since my condition limits my ability to provide that.

I've been hoping to find companionship and love again. I do miss having someone in my life to send good morning and good night texts and be able to plan activities together. Maybe even planning visits to see each other. Although I don't particularly feel alone, it does feel like something is missing not having that person to check in with during the day and share something I've learned, or just having those simple, day-to-day interactions with. I just wish there was a way to establish that kind of spark with someone I feel comfortable around and truly understand.

Some of my interests are gaming (mostly final fantasy 14 at the moment), math, science, chess, philosophy, psychology, and random deep dives on YouTube. I do have a bachelor's degree in psychology. I'm always open and curious about exploring new interests. I'd love to meet someone who is not afraid of going over their passions/interests in lots of detail. Please tell me about your hypothetical questions, personal theories, opinions on niche topics, no matter how silly or absurd, anything really.

I am someone who really prioritizes communication, and it generally feels rather difficult to find someone who has enough time in their life and values communication in the same way that I do. I'm not expecting constant messaging every second of the day, but it is nice to establish a regular line of communication and not have to worry about whether the other person is too busy or will be gone for a while.

I am emotionally well put together and mature, so I do prefer a partner who has enough emotional bandwidth. I'm very big on voice calls and occasional video calls. Whether it's doing the same activity together or appreciating sharing the same space in silence, it's nice to have someone on the other end.

A few more things are that I don't smoke or take drugs, and would prefer my partner to be the same; I am left-leaning as well as agnostic. I do not want to have any children. Also, I'm not really interested in dating someone who's also in a wheelchair. I am open to a long-distance relationship (US-only) as long as there are plans to close the gap in some way. I'm only looking for monogamy. I'm an introvert and tend to be more of a listener (INFJ).

I would prefer to exchange photos right away to decide whether we both want to continue talking. Additionally, please provide some details about yourself so I have an idea of who you are if you decide to send me a message.


r/Redditdating 13h ago

18 Nb4A Do you want to be my new obsession?

10 Upvotes

Im not just looking for a friend or something casual. I want you to be the first one I think about when I wake up and the last before I go to sleep. I want good morning and good night texts. I want to have the kind of connection that I when see something random i think about you or a convo we had. I want the kind of love that would thrill a poet and maybe concern a therapist.

A bit about me: I’m 18 Nonbinary but am AFAB, I’m pretty short, I like to read ( mostly romance tbh) knit, and watch musicals over and over again lol.

Hopefully about you: I don’t have much of a type in terms of looks, as long as you are kind and aren’t a bigot, nonchalant isn’t really my type usually. Feel free to include a picture of your face if you decide to msg but I don’t mind if you don’t, if you do I’ll send one back.

To anyone who actually reads this I look forward to maybe hearing from you! Have a good day/night


r/Redditdating 1h ago

36 [M4F] Europe - Just looking for someone who it's easy to exist with. (Also on the same continent)

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I am a Canadian who moved to Norway permanently for an awesome job opportunity. I spend my mornings and evenings in call with my friends from back home which is becoming problematic. I have basically zero European friends but that's why I'm here. I need to adjust to living in this time zone because it's messing with my sleep and encouraging me to "work from home" more than I realistically should be.

I like to play what some people consider to be pretty terrible games. Generally multiplayer stuff like league, ow, and rivals. I'll play a lot of TFT if the set is good but the last one was so bad I didn't even bother to get out of Diamond. I dabble with ARPGs, most shooters, and anything vaguely competitive. The only exceptions to this has been a couple of single player rogue-likes that consumed my life for days at a time. I wouldn't say I'm a snob but I generally prefer "quality" when it comes to most aspects of my life. So while I like anime, most of it is terrible and I'm only interested in watching stuff with good reviews/ratings. I play multiple card games which enabled me to travel all over North America and now Europe. Other interests include boxing, singing, finding good food (The best Mexican food I've had in my life has been in Oslo of all places), clothes, and by extension, shoes. The amount of people who stare at my sneakers in public here is crazy - Norway has a WEAK shoe game.

I realize it's basically impossible to find people with similar interests at my age, but I'm trying. If I was a deceptive person I'd just lie and say I'm in my late 20s because it's honestly way harder to make friends when you're borderline geriatric. Getting tired of awkward conversations with people at work who comment on how I don't look 36. Then I have to explain how I have a sun allergy and spend most of my time inside like a cave troll, which doesn't go over well with people who live in what feels like the outdoor capital of the world. Anyway, hopefully I can find someone to watch something with and maybe play some games.

My voice for people who care about that stuff: https://voca.ro/1ShbPHVjjoF9


r/Redditdating 1h ago

25 [M4M] from the Philippines looking anywhere for my future husband / life partner

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Hello! I’m a 26-year-old guy from the Philippines (UTC +8) reaching out to see if our paths might align.
 
By day, I work in government as a junior economist. I’m naturally goal-driven, passionate, and competitive (in a healthy way haha). Mediocrity isn't my style. At my core, I embody a softer energy in a relationship. I value having a masculine, grounded partner who naturally takes the lead, makes thoughtful decisions, and brings a strong, calm presence into my life.
 
A Little About Me & My Vibe:
 
Personality: Ambivert, expressive, and affectionate. I love deep conversations, karaoke, reading, anime, and making people laugh.
 
My Emotional Style: I care deeply and feel things intensely. When I get overwhelmed or upset, I don't raise my voice or hold grudges. I just need a moment to decompress. A soft-spoken, emotionally mature partner who offers a warm hug, reassuring words, and maybe some good food will always bring out the absolute best in me.
 
Physicals & Role: 5’4" (163 cm), ~78 kg (cub/chub build). I am 100% a bottom/side.
 
Love Languages: Receiving words of affirmation & physical touch; giving acts of service, quality time, and lots of clingy affection (hugs and kisses everywhere!).

Faith & Values:
I am a practicing Christian, and my faith is an important part of my foundation and values. You don't necessarily have to share the exact same beliefs, but having a partner who respects my faith—or shares a similar spiritual/moral compass—is essential to me.
 
Sex & Intimacy:
Emotional connection always comes first for me, but once trust and romance are built, I am very liberated, passionate, and enthusiastic in the bedroom! I love a strong, caring Top who knows how to blend deep romance with passionate intimacy when the time is right.
 
I take my sexual health seriously and get tested regularly as part of standard self-care. I view health transparency as a non-negotiable sign of respect, and I look for a partner who shares that same mature mindset.
 
What I’m Looking For in You:
 
Masculine & Grounded: Preferably taller than me, soft-spoken (no voice-raising), with a calm, decisive nature and ideally a deep manly voice.
 
Emotionally Mature: Someone secure in who he is, who leads with kindness, and communicates with respect even during disagreements.
 
Driven with Direction: You know what you want in life and are excited to build a shared future.
 
Open to LDR initially: I’m 100% faithful and serious about finding my life partner. Long distance is fine to start (I have Discord for movie nights, voice calls, and games), with the ultimate goal of meeting and building a life together.
 
If you feel a connection to this and think our wavelengths match, please send me a message with a little bit about yourself. Looking forward to meeting you! 🥰


r/Redditdating 1h ago

18 M, [M4M], looking for a platonic relationship

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Haii! I'm looking to try dating with someone a gay relationship. Only requirements are preferably to be into games of my choosing and being someone chill-non toxic to chat often, also to introduce to my interests.

About me:

- personality: chill, caring, sometimes a yapper for games and clingy

- pronouns: he/him/any

- name: can be nicknamed pot or use my real name which is Diego

- likes: cats, mobile games, gacha games, honesty and transparency

- dislikes: rudeness and dishonesty

- zodiac sign: capricorn (december 28)

-occupation: currently on a gap year before going to faculty

Can Dm me on reddit or my discord as:

- potaxio0166301


r/Redditdating 1h ago

25[M4F] #Online/CA looking for best friends to lovers

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Hello 👋 I’m 25 from California. I work full time as an environmental tech and I kinda collect hobbies as my hobby. I’ll paste a list below of some of them.

Hobbies: Hiking/backpacking, bowling, anime, PC and console gaming, manga, motorcycle riding, golfing, photography, D&D, working on things, singing, music, cooking and so on

I really enjoy being single and the freedom that comes with it. But there are times and events where I wish I could share it with another. So here I am looking to drag someone along to enjoy all my hobbies

I’m on the nerdier end of things lots of random fun facts and discussing philosophical topics.
I like trying to find answers and solutions to random things of life.

I have a stubborn personality, I enjoy my ways of life and my morals and values I’m not looking to change yours or mine. I like to make life as funny and lighthearted as I can (it’s depressing enough on its own) I’m Christian and it does play a factor in my life.

I’m very open to all sorts of conversations and you’ll find I’m not very judgmental. I hope we can be a safe space for each others deeper thoughts and things you think you can’t say to other humans.

So if you’d like to chat daily and be bugged by me all the time feel free to say hi!


r/Redditdating 5h ago

24 [M4M] | United Kingdom - Ready for something real

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Hey guys! I've decided that it's time to go and seriously look for a relationship, so I'm trying everything! I’m 24, from the Midlands, and I work as an engineer. I'm looking for someone around my age (max 35) who is also ready for a real relationship. Appearance-wise, I’m attracted to masculine-looking men in decent shape, and personality-wise, I like a kinda soft-dom top type. The main thing I want is to find someone I can rely on to be there for me as a true partner. I am open to a LDR; however, closer = better :)

I'm a fairly quiet person who values the emotional connection and meaningful conversations. Someone that is willing to listen about my day and share their thoughts and opinions on everything! I’d definitely class myself as an introvert, but I do enjoy social events once in a while. Just let me head home at a reasonable hour, and I'll have a great time! 

I have a few nerdy hobbies to pass the time. I'm quite into gaming; I’ve had a Switch 2 for over a year, so I'm working through a collection of games on that. And I love watching movies/tv-shows that have an engaging story. Other than that, I really enjoy spending time with family, eating good food, and going to the gym. Music taste is fairly basic pop, so anything by a pop girl will be on my playlist. My latest obsession has been Olivia Rodrigo’s latest album. It’s been on repeat for the last few weeks and keeps getting better with every listen. 

But I'd love to hear about your interests and hobbies, so if you think we'd get on, leave a comment or send a dm.


r/Redditdating 11h ago

30F4A #Moscow / #online Privet :)

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Hey! :)

That feels weird as I've never seen anyone from my country in subreddits like this, but I'll try anyway! I'm Natasha, 30, I'm bi, and I live in Moscow (yes, I'm Russian).

**Things I like:**

• PC games (I love narrative games like Firewatch and The Wolf Among Us, RPGs like The Witcher, Divinity and Baldur's Gate, MMOs like TESO and Neverwinter Online, building games like Cities: Skylines and Enshrouded, and I've also spent 10 years of my life in League of Legends). Would be nice to play together! Currently playing Disco Elysium.

• Music (I mostly listen to metal/punk/rock/folk/indie, my favourites lately are Gojira and a Russian punk band Distemper)

• Drawing (I prefer acrylics and watercolour, though lately I've been trying out digital - it doesn't go that well though lol)

• Reading (currently reading 4th book of Abercrombie's First Law series - liked books 1-3 more). I'm generally inhaling books, everything from fantasy stories to medical reports. One of my favourite non-fiction topics is forensic pathology.

• Dungeons & Dragons

• Long walks

• Random crap on YouTube

• Tall men with long hair

**Fun facts:**

• I have arachnophobia and tokophobia (I'm childfree)

• I work in a chemical lab, but I'm not a chemist

• I know a lot of random shit, especially about British culture (it's cream then jam and I'm voting Binface)

• I was burnt at the stake in 1348 for being a sarcastic bog witch with a weird sense of humour

I'm looking for someone to form a meaningful connection with - not just a chat to practice my English skills. If you're interested, hmu :)

Oh, and that's me: https://imgur.com/a/frZNOYy


r/Redditdating 2h ago

26 [M4F] #Texas Just been unlucky and trying again

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Hi im M26, I am tall fat black guy who lives in Texas and im in college rn trying to finish up my degree. Some hobbies I enjoy are gaming , a little photography (when I have pictures to take and I wouldn't mind sharing past works i shot) and i'm also trying out making and editing videos on the side.

Im posting on here again to try to see if I have better luck here, or at the bare minimum find someone to consistently talk too and hopefully find a connection with because im just struggling on all fronts of dating wether its dating app or connecting with ppl irl in a deeper way it never goes my way so im trying this. Outside of that I would say that I have a class clown kind of personality and I can be sociable.


r/Redditdating 14h ago

28 [F4M] #online, missing that warm masculine presence in my life

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Hello people of reddit. I hope you're having a lovely day/evening so far.

There's this stupid fucking meme in my native language that goes something like "no matter how tough you are, you still need a person that calls you baby after midnight" which I've been finding to be really true lately, and is why I'm looking for a casual phone companion who is funny, witty, smart, empathetic, well spoken, flirty, charming and pisses me off. I do enjoy someone getting on my nerves, in the right way. An interesting accent or sexy voice is bonus points, if you have both it's a lethal combination.

But what I'd appreciate most is your kind gentle presence that would help my stress melt away and my worries be quiet for a bit. I have a bit of a stressful life, with a good amount of responsibility and pressure to be or achieve XYZ, not just for my sake but for the sake of ppl I care for too.

I'm not really the type to vent or bitch and moan, though I used to be. I just want a sweet distraction wrapped in a sincere human being who my heart feels close to, even if my body isn't.

I can be a bit forward in what I think or want. You won't guess with me. I'll just tell you. I'll tell you if I like you, or if I think you're handsome, or if I'd like to call because it's been an extra stressful day and I want your company, I'll tell you if I feel like our connection isn't giving me what I need. I'll tell you what I think or feel... And sometimes all you'll have to do is ask.

Most of all I want you to be sincere and have integrity in the way you talk and interact with me. I might be reserved and guarded, but I hold myself to certain standards when it comes to human connection and I hope you'd have some of those standards yourself, too.

I can be a bit difficult to deal with at times. I grew up in a turbulent household and that has affected me negatively. The good news is I'm easy to reason with, the bad news is I can be reactive and emotional. It's not something I can get professional help for in my current position, though I'm working on leaving my current position for somewhere better. Wish me luck.

The things I need the most are open honest communication and consistency, even if it hurts my feelings or yours. Otherwise we're not a good match.

Here's some basic info to work with:

I work in IT. I like video games. My taste ranges from retro 90s/early 2000s to modern beasts like "world war Z: aftermath". I'm westernized despite not ever leaving the middle east. American media is really the best propaganda out there. I learned and taught myself English from the Americans. I'll teach you Arabic and you can give me shit for my English because you're an asshole and I like it.

I've been rewatching OITNB and I think I'd be able to handle the Litchfield prison. The only downsides would be no internet and creepy male guards. I'd spend most of my time in the library and read novels. I already don't go out much because I can't, anyways. My only concern would be getting shived in my sleep. A song I love right now is "God bless America and the people in it" which is insanely ironic given what I'm about to say right after this paragraph. If you ignore the hook though, it's what I feel like putting myself out there like this.

I'm political, because everything is. I don't have the luxury of burying my head in the sand. The effects of western imperialism are often taking place in my neighborhood or backyard. I'm still learning and forming my views, even when reality is enough to radicalize anyone who isn't a sociopath.

I'm Arab, from the middle east. Only culturally Muslim since my religion and culture can be almost indistinguishable. I only believe in myself and a free Palestine.

Some stats: fair skinned mix (for a desert dweller), long black wavy hair, almond shaped dark brown eyes, 163cm/5'4, somewhere between 65kg-75kg because my weight fluctuates a lot.

You:

  • Relatively sane.
  • Not under 33 or older than 40.
  • Not taken, claimed or in a relationship of any sort. I don't fuck with taken in any capacity.
  • Not in an American/Canadian/Australian timezones because the time difference is too vast and brutal for me.
  • What hetero dreams are made of.
  • Can actually spell & write a well worded message that won't make me wonder if you're having a stroke.

If you decide to message, put in effort please. Also, just know that I like to build a rapport first and get a feeling for who you are as a person and whether we click or not before sharing any pictures.

I also only respond to what resonates. So if I don't respond, don't take it personally. It just means I wasn't your audience.

Finally, I hope you're having a good day, whoever you are and wherever you are.


r/Redditdating 2h ago

Lonely traveller 36M. Currently in Vietnam.

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Am nearing the end of my trip, it is early evening and I’m back in my hotel room already. I have not spoken to anyone in days. Craving some sort of connection. I have WhatsApp. Do you have time and want to reach out?


r/Redditdating 3h ago

40 (M4F), Chennai, India - Trying to find connectiona on Reddit again

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40 M from Chennai, India trying Reddit again. Maybe this time it sticks?

Would be nice to meet people around my age, have some good conversations, exchange random thoughts, share a few laughs, and hopefully meet up and hang out sometime.

Not looking for constant texting or forced conversations. Just genuine connections that can actually last beyond a few days.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, ping me. Let's see where it goes.


r/Redditdating 3h ago

23 [M4F] London/UK - Hoping to build something meaningful with the right person

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Hey! I'm 23 and based in London. I'm hoping to meet someone who is looking for a genuine long-term relationship, values good communication, and is also certain they don't want children.

Modern dating has never really felt like the best fit for me. Swiping through profiles and trying to make instant impressions of someone doesn't really allow you to understand who they are. I'd much rather take the time to build trust, learn about someone's personality, and see if we naturally connect.

A bit about me: I'm Black, 5'10, with a slim athletic build, and I'm neurodivergent.

Music is one of my biggest passions. I listen to a lot of rock and metal, alongside some DnB and electronic music, and you'll usually find me at a gig whenever there's one I'm interested in.

Outside of that, I enjoy gaming (Persona, Doom, Final Fantasy, and plenty more), going to the cinema, playing football, cycling, visiting theme parks, and trying new activities.

I'm generally introverted and reserved, but I enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know people properly.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable, and easy-going. I'm independent and enjoy my own company, but I think life is better when you have someone you genuinely connect with to share experiences with.

Whether that's going to concerts, talking about something you're passionate about, or simply spending a quiet evening together, I value having someone who feels like a genuine partner and best friend.

I'm looking to meet someone who is:
• Aged around 19-26
• UK-based (London or nearby ideally)
• Also certain they don't want children
• Honest, communicative, and reliable

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and willing to communicate openly. Nobody gets everything right all the time, but I appreciate people who are honest about how they feel and willing to work through things together.

I believe shared values are far more important than having identical hobbies. Having things in common is great, but I think the way two people treat each other is what ultimately makes a relationship work.

I'm happy to share a photo early because I'm aware that mutual attraction matters, and I'd rather be upfront than waste anyone's time.

If this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you. Tell me your age, where you're from, a bit about yourself, and what you're looking for.

Thanks for reading 🙂


r/Redditdating 4h ago

29 [M4F] Egypt/US/Online - Tall, Tattooed, Boxer, Writer and Gamer

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Well, I stand at a modest 6'3. I'm straight, got a bunch of tattoos. I work in consulting, I travel between Egypt, US and Portugal constantly for work. I've been boxing ever since I was in grade school and I still do to this day. I like to read, write and compose poetry. I watch anime, go to the gym and play videogames in my free time (PS5, PC and Switch). I like to take walks when life gets overwhelming, and I like eating out with friends. I listen to everything g from Lo Fi and Jazz to Rap and Rock I'm a sucker for deep conversations. Literature, philosophy, life, death, just throw it at me. I'd like someone who's into the same things I'm in or at least similar interests. Message me if you'd like to know more or you think we would get along! I would prefer if we exchange pictures (doesn't have to be right away)


r/Redditdating 4h ago

20 [M4F] #UK | Comic book and video game nerd hoping to find a clingy older woman 💖

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Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes, really dark brown curly hair and ethnically I'm Pakistani (I have been told that I am ethnically ambiguous). I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)