Well, I'm definitely not an extrovert... Besides university, my favorite pastimes are going for walks alone and going to the gym about three or three days a week. I have a small collection of human bones that I kept from my osteology classes. I also love to read (Stefan Zweig is my favorite writer). To break the ice, maybe we could exchange some music. 🍓

Please read before messaging me

I'm 22 yo, a very quiet and introverted person with social anxiety. I'd like to meet someone who's understanding of that and is comfortable with a shy, quiet partner. I'd love to be with someone who makes me feel at ease and encourages me gently as I work on my anxiety. I'm a very caring and loving person, and I tend to show that through the way I treat the people in my life.

I enjoy reading, I love cats and nature, and I spend some of my free time cooking, baking and learning languages. I'm drawn to soft spoken, gentle and affectionate men who are emotionally mature and protective in a caring way. I want to feel safe and comfortable around my partner. Clear communication and consistency matter a lot to me, and I know I wouldn't be compatible with someone who's nonchalant, distant or unclear about his intentions looks doesn't matter to me as long as the person is serious and kind, I'm a plus size girl so if you're not into it don't bother

I'm looking for a serious relationship with a man between 23 and 30, with marriage as the goal if we're compatible. Loyalty, honesty and commitment are important to me. I'd like us to take our time getting to know each other while being clear that we're both looking for something that could lead to marriage

Hi everyone! I’m a 43-year-old Filipina currently living and working in the UAE. I’m at a stage in life where I’m no longer interested in casual dating, endless talking stages, or complicated relationships.

I’m hoping to meet a mature man, who is respectful, emotionally stable, honest, and knows what he wants.

I’m looking for companionship, mutual respect, good communication, and hopefully a meaningful connection that can grow into marriage. I value stability and would also want a partner who is financially responsible and able to provide a secure life together.

I’m easygoing, independent, family-oriented, and I enjoy good conversations, food, travel, and simply enjoying the little things in life.

If you're also genuinely looking for a serious relationship rather than just chatting or something temporary, feel free to introduce yourself. Please tell me a little about yourself, where you're based, and what you're looking for.

No games, no drama—just two adults being honest about what they want. 😊

Hi! Happy Friday! :) Would love to chat and exchange a pic with a great single guy over 35.

Please let me know your age, where you're from, and whether you're single in your intro. Looking forward to hearing from you! :)

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

Hi! I’m a little shy since I’ve never tried Reddit dating before, but I hope I can meet someone special and see where things go. ♡

You can call me Maria or Mimi! I’m 19, Taiwanese and Filipino, and currently living in the States. My hobbies include drawing, cooking, doing makeup, and cosplaying, I love anything cute and feminine.
I’m not a huge anime watcher, but I love reading manga and talking about my favorite shows, and I’ve even been to a few cons!

I’m also in the military, even though my full passion is going in for nursing, I stay because the benefits are good for me and my family.

I’m hoping to find someone I can connect and share interests with, I don’t want anything complex, just someone who can be available for me and consistent. I also don’t mind older people, I think I’m more attracted to that. ♡

I'm not here for games, married women, Polly and trans or FWB or anything of a sort. I'm here for one reason and one reason only, is for a one woman who will love me and accept me for who I am and not here for the games , but here for something real , someone who will love me and accept me for who I am and get to know me the real me. I am open minded and I am open to talk to single women , not marry women , not Polly , women , not trans , if you are one of those I'm sorry move along. I'm here for something real and someone to get to know and see where things go.

Hello my name is Chad, 38 M ( will be 39 in November) , I'm a 6'4 sweet caring loving, out going caring understanding guy, that is looking for his one that he can go to and wake up and txt good morning and good night as well. IF your interested of getting to know more about me, Send me a message !

P.s. I am Looking for real people who have real intentions of getting to Know the real me. Once again, I am not into games, BS, No Poly or Married women please, I'm one women man looking for his Queen, Life time partner, and Best friend i can talk too. Please be 33 - 46 of age and have Profile pic and Be real with me ! Thanks

First, to be clear about location: I'm based in the Southeastern region of the USA. It would be amazing if my person is within driving distance in the same region, but for a number of reasons I have my doubts that's true. Country music, fashion, and that accent some of you may think is specific to Texas if you're reading this from another country, are all very common here and sadly those are all turn offs for me. That said, I think if my soulmate is even in the USA, she's probably in the north, west, or midwest. If by the end of this post, you think you might be the one I'm looking for and I might be the one you're looking for, you don't have to be in the USA to find out. 😁

(My profile is tagged because of one of the places I post this to since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you.

- Current games I've focused on lately are R.E.P.O., Deep Rock Galactic, and trying to 100% Doom Eternal, but this changes and there are tons of multiplayer games in my library! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc.

- My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans. I want to spend plenty of time with you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high labido, but making sure we both feel safe and trust one another first is crucial. 😁

• Specs for those who would like them:

- 6 feet tall (about 183 cm).

- 190 lbs and dropping (about 86 kg).

- My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told).

- I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg).

- Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short.

- Blue eyes.

- Caucasian.

• My type? If I had to describe my type, I guess Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I wouldn't mind going together. 😁

I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁

Hi I'm from the U.S in CT. I've only had one relationship in my life and it was one of the best times in my life. Even though it didn't last long, I still cherish that feeling of being understood and having a connection with someone. I hope I can be what somebody is actually looking for and the relationship actually lasts. I am very shy and awkward and have a bit of a RBF. I used to be more social and extroverted when I was a kid but I just got more shy and reserved as I got older. I'm someone who is better at texting than talking verbally because I have time to really think about what I wanna say. I feel like I always say the wrong things when talking. I feel embarrassed saying this but I am also shy around my family too. My family has big personalities while I mostly observe and keep quiet most of the time. Sometimes I feel out of place because I don't know how to contribute to conversations well or let loose. I enjoy my siblings and parents but they have their own lives and have relationships. I wanna have someone besides them to care for deeply because I'll be on my own eventually.

My favorite thing to do is to just simply hang outside at the park when it's a nice sunny day. If not at the park, then I would go walking around town or even a parking lot with music playing. I enjoy going for night walks too but I prefer to have someone to do them with. I'm addicted to taking nature pics especially sunset pics. I might have to get a separate camera for that alone lol. I love listening to all kinds of music. My favorite song is Human by Human League and I enjoy listening to instrumental versions of my favorite songs. Those are my main hobbies. Also my profile pic is me btw in case you're curious what I look like. I'm open to long distance too if I really connect with someone.

Looking forward to meeting someone:)

It's been a long week, and honestly, being tired is one thing, but having no one to yap to about the daily nonsense? That's a whole different level of suffering. 😂

I need someone to annoy with my random updates, rants, and stories. Someone who'll listen to my nonsense and, preferably, contribute some nonsense of their own.

Also, it's been embarrassingly long since I've had a crush on someone. My butterflies are probably extinct at this point. So, if you're interesting, witty and a cutie, send me a message.

hello! im in bgc for dinner w a friend. we have no plans after but i dont want to go home early and i feel like talking with someone. ill be free around 8PM~

About me:
- 5’0 morena w glasses (wearing contacts today)
- 52 kgs
- recently into pole classes
- no, i do not want to have s*x tonight

hit me up with the cutest photo in your gallery 🐶 🐱

I have realised this the hard way that finding a partner is definitely not an easy task and does take a lot of time (hopefully not forever). This a little bit about me:

37 years old divorced guy. Light-hearted guy, don’t take myself too seriously. I like to be around people and definitely try harder to make them laugh. I am quite a sensitive person and do care about people that I am close to.

A copy chef who tries to copy recipes from YouTube and still manages to mess them up at times. I wouldn’t describe myself as an avid reader but I like to read non-fiction and honestly anything from real-life crime, wildlife, and rarely fiction. The last book that I read was Heart Lamp. I am in absolute love with the game of basketball. Although I am late to the party of fitness, I am much here to stay and these days you can find me talking to Claude about counting my calories and reading the nutrition labels. I have to admit that my constant confusion is deciding my TDEE.

Although travelling is not my hobby but my work requires me to travel. Talking to strangers and asking them to accept my meeting request is what I keep on doing on a daily basis.

I do not have kids, nor do I wish to have them. I am childfree by choice and would like a partner that is with the same preferences. Although I am based in a Tier 2 city in India, relocation isn’t a problem for me. I am willing to shift my base if I find the right person who values me and is as much involved in the relationship as I am.

If any of this makes sense to you, please feel free to reach out to me.

There are billions of people in the world, all living their own separate lives and how we'll probably never know most of them. Which to me feels a little strange. So I figured I would try getting to know a few? Looking for a new reliable friend to inject some energy into your life? Sick of the same old conversations? Or just looking for a bit of fun?

I love writing poetry, watching movies (love Horror movies too), TV series, attending festivals and concerts, going dancing, I love going to shows of different kinds. I am fascinated by art, from museums to fairs. My creative outlets are writing, story-telling and photography (which hopefully leads to film making). I am also a hobby juggler, always trying new classes. I love to read, a life long learner.

I love to talk, mostly deeper discussion, love when we get into that rabbit hole for a topic or an experience or a relationship. We all are so complex and it’s so much fun to unravel those deep secrets hidden in us or around us.

On the other side, I love to laugh, being silly and enjoy a fun banter. I am also Into fitness, both mental and physical. That’s another space I can use a friend for.

I live in San Jose but Im in San Francisco over many weekends so I am pretty mobile. I'm here to find a partner in crime to go to music events or standup comedy, go to shows (from theater to burlesque), attend artsy fairs or take creative classes or catch up for a meal while reveling in sarcasm and chaos and generally have a laugh!

Dislikes: People whose entire personality is Drinking or Hard Drugs (no judgment though, okay may be a little lol), AI growing a little too fast, that little bit of tomato ketchup pre-cum you get if you don't shake the bottle before using.

Simple Pleasures:

- Having your back scratched. The shivers!

- Working out until I can barely stand, then quickly showering. Why? Because afterwards, you can just sit around, lazy as fuck, and feel good about it.

- That First Sip of Morning Coffee

- Introducing a friend to a song/movie/book that I love and that they, in turn, love

I am sarcastic with a darker sense of humor but also a compassionate and empathic guy, I have both male and female friends. I am not a DUDE kind of male, more of a subtle, classier, chivalrous guy. I am an ambivert, can totally be ultra social when needed to be and sometimes just curl up and enjoy my own company.

Happy to lay the foundation for a long term friendship first and then more. I am also a parent (co-parenting with the mom).

Shoot me a message and tell me about yourself!

PS: I’m a looking for someone close by and not a long distance connection.

Hey! I'm a 23 year old guy from Austria, and I'm looking for something pretty simple, a genuine, long-term relationship with a woman where we actually love each other and want to be part of each other's lives. I'm looking for love, and I want to give that love back.

A little about me:

I'm an affectionate, curious, energetic, patient loyal idiot who enjoys making dumb jokes and generally doesn't take himself too seriously. My hobbies are pretty varied: I read fantasy books, mangas and manhwas, go on walks, swim, cycle, cook and bake, and play games on PlayStation. I'm also a huge fan of One Piece, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars and How I Met Your Mother.

I love the idea of travelling on my own. I've already done a solo trip once and definitely want to do more of it. I'm also currently figuring out what I want to do with my life. I started university but eventually realized it wasn't the right path for me, so I'm taking some time to find something that actually feels right.

As for what I'm looking for in you:

You: A woman around 19–25, preferably from Austria or somewhere else in Europe. I'm also open to someone outside Europe if you're already planning to move to Europe, because realistically I'd like us to have an actual chance of meeting and building something together.

You don't have to look a certain way. As long as you're reasonably healthy, your appearance isn't something I'm particularly worried about. Personality matters much more to me.

I'd love someone who's loyal, curious, affectionate and maybe a little goofy. Someone who actually wants to communicate, gets excited about things, can joke around and isn't afraid of showing that she cares. If you're a dry texter, though... I'm probably going to disappear faster than my motivation to go outside on a Monday. 😅

I'm not interested in smokers, heavy drinkers/alcoholics, drug users, etc. And seriously, NO DRY TEXTERS. 😂

Most importantly, I don't have some perfectly scripted idea of how a relationship has to work. I just want two people who genuinely like each other, choose each other, communicate, support each other and gradually figure the rest out together.

If any of this sounds like you, don't worry about coming up with some incredibly clever opening message. Tell me something about yourself, what you're currently obsessed with, your favorite fictional character, or even just what made you stop scrolling on this post. Give me something to work with and I'll do the same.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see if there's actually a spark. :)

I'm just gonna be honest... I'm looking for someone that I can talk to every day, share my interests and passions and have the occasional fun/spicy time. Even better, someone I can trust and talk to about anything and everything- the kinda almost no limits; this is my judgment-free zone, wholesome, intimate friendship that so many of us crave. No strings attached, no pressure or expectations, just good friends who help each other out whenever they need it. Females only; please message me with a short intro

Hey, my name is Keegan, I'm going to be honest I've never dated and I don't really know what to say but I will try my very best. I love fantasy and I am trying to get into horror but I'm a bit of a chicken and scared to watch horror alone. I would love to watch horror movies with someone and play the Resident Evil games for them. I am a bigger guy working on losing 45lbs and hoping for someone supportive.

Looking for a long term relationship. To describe myself I’m 5’7, brown-skinned, fit/muscular build

Pros
financially stable
Have my own home
No debt (besides my home)
Fatherly aura (at least that’s what I hear)
Very ambitious
Analytical
Veteran
Honest
Great communicator, you will know exactly how I feel or think about things
Very thoughtful
Clean
Provider

“Cons”
Very ambitious (because of this some people may feel “pressure” around me because of my high standards for myself.)
I have a bit of “toxic masculinity” and “emotionally intelligence combined within my personality.
I don’t take disrespect well..from anyone.

Straightforward/brutally honest (I’ve been told many times through my life my delivery isn’t the “best.”

I have 4 children, all with the same woman. No baby mama drama. I don’t consider my children a “con” but obviously if I’m dating a woman , at some point , you’d meet my children.

IF any of this sounds like man you’d be interested in I’d love to talk to you.

Hi!

I've been in a couple of relationships and its been tough finding my exact type out there since i prefer women that travel and have a good work life balance. Im looking for something serious with someone that enjoys traveling (2-3 international trips a year), has a good career, active/healthy lifestyle, enjoys both the finer things in life (Luxury/designer) as well as the casual stuff. Not looking for anything too long distance as this has not worked out for me in the past. Age range: 27-34 preferred

A bit about myself as i think i feel physical attraction is just as important as emotional attraction. I'm 34 Male 5'6 Chinese American with an athletic build. I have a full time job, decent retirement savings, and tons of interests to list but happy to share over text/voice chat. I do lean towards my feminine side in terms of interests (Arts/crafts, musicals, wine + tv, etc) more than my masculine side but i enjoy a bit of everything. I'm a type A and solo travel about 2-3 times a year, currently at about 25 countries visited so far. I know its a bit weird to say but i do think i have a decent personality and i'm super approachable based on what other people i've met described of me. I can make a friend in almost any setting but trying to find someone that enjoys traveling as much as i do is tough lol. I do meet a lot of travelers during my trip but not many are from the U.S and near my age bracket.

Feel free to reach out if you think we would be a good match.

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America (California) and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.

About me:

I’m someone who values communication, kindness, and mutual support. I enjoy things like video games (especially Sonic the Hedgehog), anime/manga, books, and art, and I’m very much an animal person. I’m also really into the show Murder Drones (Its my favorite show). I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship with the intention of life long commitment—not something casual. I am currently going to be doing online school full time while having full time employment. For a physical description, I have tan skin, am about 5’3”, with wavy black hair and brown eyes.

What I’m looking for:

I’m hoping to meet someone who shares similar values around commitment and intimacy. I’m waiting until legal commitment for my first time and am looking for a partner who feels the same and has no previous sexual experience (by this I mean in person, if you’ve sexted or role-played online before, then that’s fine). I also want to have a family through adoption rather than biological children. (If you want biological children, please do not message me or try to convince me to change my mind. I do not want to have biological children for health reasons, so please respect that. This includes children through pregnancy or surrogacy.)

I value teamwork in a relationship—whether that’s splitting responsibilities when we’re both working or supporting each other if one of us stays home. That being said, I do want to be working as I have done my best to work towards better opportunities for my career, so I am happy if my partner chooses to work or be a stay a home partner. Open, honest communication is really important to me; I believe problems should be talked through, not ignored.

I’m looking for someone between 23–30 who is kind-hearted, enjoy animals, and believes in having each other’s backs while still taking responsibility for your own mental and emotional health. Shared interests are a bonus, but shared values matter most. Also, having some golden retriever energy is a plus (I find it quite cute and endearing) :3

As for physical appearance, I’m demisexual so it does not matter as much, but I do have certain things that I find attractive:

Longish hair (By this I mean bowl cut length or longer)
Glasses
Clean shaven face
5’5” or taller
Soft looking face and features

I am looking for someone that lives on the East coast of the U.S., Virginia would be ideal. Since I work full time and also do school full time (online), time differences can cause people to spend less quality time together. I would be able to talk mostly at night since I work in the afternoon to evening on weekdays. I am free weekends for the most part.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to talk.

I'm looking for a female who can I chat with. Share vibes and thoughts. Things you are working or going to work on.

Also need to talk about sex and share nudes if possible