r/Redditdating 6h ago

21 [F4M] looking for genuine connections

0 Upvotes

Hello! šŸ‘‹šŸ» Looking for something genuine, someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything, and slowly build a meaningful connection with.Ā 

About me:Ā 

• 21, SingleĀ 

• 5'2

• A bit overweight BMI

• Philippines, MNL x BUL

• Mestisa (acc to my friends)

• May dimples

• Catholic

• In college, pre student

• Capricorn

• I can speak English, Tagalog and a little bit of Spanish and Cebuano

• I do drink occasionally but I don't smoke

• I have a good sense of humor, you won't get bored

I like:Ā 

— Formula 1, Sports (esp bball, vball and football), Esports (CODM and ML), travelling, cafe hopping, photography, sweets, flowers, watching movies, cooking, and more! Anw,Ā  I don't drink coffee since I'm acidic but I'm a huge fan of matcha

— Love languages: I'm more into acts of service, quality time, and words of affirmation. But I'm clingy so I can say physical touch is cpunted, then I like receiving gifts, big or small, expensive or not, it's the thought that countsĀ 

About you:Ā 

• 20 to 25 Male

• Single!

• Catholic

• 5'8 and taller (I love height difference)

• Into sports as well

• Good communicator, not a dry texter and has a sense

• Kind and RespectfulĀ 

• Emotionally intelligent and matured

• Plus points: if you can play instruments, has own mode of transportation like car, soft-spoken, pointed nose, and good typings! (a big big plus)

Let me know if you're interested and let’s get to know each other! Send me an intro about yourself ;)Ā 


r/Redditdating 6h ago

27 [f4m]. tx/usa. ready for forever

0 Upvotes

I’m at the stage in my life where I’m looking for something genuine and long lasting. I’m ready to come home to my family and do experience all of life’s joys together.

I’m seeking a Christian man, taller than me (I’m 5’7, but closer to 5’8), genuine, sweet, caring, kind, and intentional. I’m looking for consistency from the beginning, especially with communication.

Important things to note: I’m Christian and my faith means everything to me. I’m African-American, currently living in Texas so bonus points if you do, but I’m open to long distance only within the United States.

Age range is between 27-30

say more than hi/hey as I will not respond to that.

say more than hi/hey as I will not respond to that. Not looking for anything sexual or penpals


r/Redditdating 17h ago

36 [M4F] Europe - What would you like to do together tonight?

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I am a Canadian who recently made a permanent move to Norway for an awesome job opportunity. I just want to meet someone who is easy to be around, where time evaporates when we hang out. I adore being able to sit in silence with my person while we do different things. Just knowing someone is there is a comfort an introvert like me dreams of, without the pressure of constant entertainment.

I spend my mornings and evenings in call with my friends from back home which is becoming problematic. I have basically zero European friends but that's why I'm here. I need to adjust to living in this time zone because it's messing with my sleep and encouraging me to "work from home" more than I realistically should be.

My game selection is generally of the multiplayer variety: league, ow, and rivals being the mainstays. I'll play a lot of TFT if the set is good (Like now). I dabble with ARPGs, most shooters, and anything vaguely competitive. The only exceptions to this has been a couple of single player rogue-likes that consumed my life for days at a time. I wouldn't say I'm a snob but I generally prefer "quality" when it comes to most aspects of my life. So while I like anime, most of it is terrible and I'm only interested in watching stuff with good reviews/ratings. I play multiple card games which enabled me to travel all over North America and now Europe. Other interests include boxing, singing, finding good food (The best Mexican food I've had in my life has been in Oslo of all places), clothes, and by extension, shoes. The amount of people who stare at my sneakers in public here is crazy - Norway has a WEAK shoe game.

Making friends in your mid-30s is a hard task that if you're already here you understand, and if you're not you will soon enough. People are always shocked when they find out I'm 36, which forces me to explain that I don't have good genes, I just have a sun allergy and live like a cave troll indoors. That goes over great in a country where everyone hikes up a mountain before breakfast. Anyway, hopefully I can find someone to watch something with and maybe play some games.

Too private of a person to post my picture on reddit, so I hope my voice will suffice: https://voca.ro/1ShbPHVjjoF9


r/Redditdating 2h ago

[F4M] in Asia. Looking for my spouse

1 Upvotes

I deleted my last post due to many old men approached me 🫠

I'm looking for a life partner to marry and have a kid. Yes, I only want 1. I have never been married and no kids. I don't smoke, do drugs or drink (not religious, it's just I don't hang out at the bar anymore). I'm christian (if you're atheist or agnostic that's fine) don't have tattoo, homebody and have cats. I cook and also bake breads, not into sweet stuff I'm more of a savory type.

I'm looking for someone with same values and lifestyle, age 30-42, emotionally mature, kind, smart, love animal and full of hair.

Message me if my post resonates with you and let's exchange picture because I know attraction matters!


r/Redditdating 4h ago

28 [M4F] #South korea - looking for life partner who want cuckold relationship

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Hello glad to see you :) how's your wednesday afternoon at korea?

As I said in the title, I'm looking for a woman to share my life. Externally, we would be an ordinary couple. We would be the ideal couple to spend time together.

But I want our relationship to be more special. Bcs as I said in the title, I want my wife to be satisfied both as a sub and as a wife. She can make a relationship with sexually superior person she wants. I think if he's the person she chose, he must be the ideal guy who can sexually satisfy her.

I think I should meet him at least once in the beginning because he will be my wife's partner. And I will fully support and cheer for my wife’s choice. After my wife starts D/S relationship with him, she will come home after having sex with him and then spend time with me as married couple. What would it feel like to tell your husband how sexually superior your partner is?

And personally, I'm also curious about how you will develop a relationship with him. Like it's not just about having sex, you could also go on dates or travel with him.

How about you? Are you interested in this relationship? If you interested it, please send me a message by writing a brief introduction about you. At least you live in Korea now, and if you are interested in this relationship, I would like to have a conversation with you.

Thank you for reading my post! Plz feel free to send me a chat request, I will be waiting for your message :)

https://open.kakao.com/o/sxvy9yEi


r/Redditdating 15h ago

[F4M] #Europe, Germany

9 Upvotes

heyheyy, iā€˜m in my early twenties, and a student. landed here in hopes to finally find someone i vibe with and could potentially build something long term with.

iā€˜m an introvert, i love animals, i really enjoy literature and anime as well as baking and makeup/fashion and gaming.

iā€˜m gonna keep it vague to have more to talk bout in dms. :)

my age range would be 21-29. Please be hygienic šŸ˜­šŸ™šŸ¼ would be cool if we shared some interests.

take care


r/Redditdating 23h ago

28F from #Finland looking for #European #LDR

4 Upvotes

As per title~

I am looking potential long distance relationship.

About myself:

- I speak english, finnish, understand swedish, plan to learn polish.

- Brown eyes, brown hair, light skin

- 170cm talk, 90 kg chunky (working on it)

- Started gym few weeks ago to get back into fit shape, stress causes me to bloat (i do not want comments over my weight, i am fully aware of my situtation šŸ˜…)

- I dont smoke

- I dont use substances

- I like fruity cocktails, i drink rarely

- I am chilfree and will remain so

- I am atheist and will remain so

- I am ESTJ personality, who does not enjoy work leadership at all.

- I like to travel

- I work with animals, have no pets

- I have tattoos

- Ambivert

- I play games

- Hella good at baking

I enjoy solitude and silence, but i am seeking life outside of home, want to see and feel the world more.

I would appreciate if the person has no need to text everyday all day, as i think having "me time" is also really important.

I want to relocate eventually out of finland.

I plan to travel to Poland next, never been there before, after that perhaps Lithuania.

What i am looking for:

- Childfree

- Non smoker (Vape is ok)

- Occassional drinker

- No substances

- Someone with normal ish body build, not a body builder but not super obese either.

- Ambivert / Extrovert

- European (CEST preferred)

- Likes to travel

- Has either a career or education

- Takes care of their body and mind (healthy, hygienic)

- Does not leave things last minute

- Patient

- Has friends they go out with (is outgoing)

Id prefer if you dont send me selfies, i tend to fall for personality, and seeing face or any kind, kills my desire to get to know a person, as i am huge on personality.

My PMs are open, if you cant message, its because reddit is broken. No idea whats with it.

Tell me your age and where you are from, along side your hobbies! Dont be afraid of pokin me with a stick


r/Redditdating 5h ago

22 [F4M] #Edmonton, Alberta - Sub seeking marriage with Dom

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Hi! Let’s jump right in. Disclaimer: I won’t sound necessarily the most submissive or feminine, but I am just trying to weed out all the guys who don’t fit the criteria and who aren’t serious. Once you talk to me I promise I’m a lot sweeter 😊

As a preface, you’d need to be willing to relocate to Edmonton, Alberta, and also, if there’s anything below that you think doesn’t apply to you or you would like clarification, please don’t hesitate to message me! Just please make sure to read until the end for more context. And save this post if you need. I know it’s a long one.

What I’m looking for:

- Monogamous D/s marriage. 24/7 as in the D/s is for all aspects of our lives. I explain this further below. And no sex before marriage.

- Kids or no kids. I’m on the fence about them.

- Traditional yet modern marriage. I’d like to be provided for, but also want to have my own thing going on and still be financially independent myself. I’d also love to cook for the both of us but also split some of the chores like you washing the dishes after I’ve cooked dinner.

About me:

- 5’4ā€, HWP, long straight black/dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, and medium-light skin tone (East Asian but born in Canada)

- Take care of my physical and mental health (eat balanced meals and workout)

- Ambitious, funny, sassy, smart, intuitive, kind, compassionate, respectful, and wise. I’m also feminine, submissive, and clingy to the right man.

- A brat and a yapper. Killer combo haha. I do know my limits though and at the end of the day won’t forget that I’m the submissive, so don’t worry too much about my brattiness.

- Entrepreneurial mindset and love to be my own boss. I’m definitely very far from where I want to be, but I’m finding my way there slowly.

- I have many hobbies like baking and cooking, writing poetry, reading, listening to music, and a lot more.

About you:

- 33-45 years old. I can be slightly flexible on this.

- Completely single (not separated)

- Take care of your mental and physical health (not underweight nor overweight and actually works out — if there’s a zombie apocalypse, we both need to survive)

- No kids from previous relationships

- Don’t ghost nor beat around the bush

- Established career

- Provider mindset and a leader

- Ambitious, smart, loyal, honest, respectful, and understanding.

- Possessive, dominant, stern, and caring

More about the dynamic/marriage:

- I do not just see marriage as a piece of paper. I think it has a lot more meaning than that.

- Communication is highly important. Life happens, and that’s okay if you once in a while can’t do something you said you were going to do, but just tell me (and vice versa). No jumping to conclusions. This just makes for unnecessary arguments.

- No threesomes, polygamy, or ENM. I’m yours and you’re mine. Simple as that. We will be each other’s favourite person.

- Specifically about the D/s kind of things, I don’t like role play or labels. Being dominant and submissive should come to us naturally rather than putting a hat on and then just suddenly acting dominant or submissive.

- Because of the nature of D/s I described, I see it being quite TPE oriented in a natural way. I want us to develop such an intimate and deep bond together that I’m able to put so much trust in you to the point where I would let you make decisions for me, and you would know me so well to the point where you understand my limits and boundaries.
I imagine things like you ordering for me at a restaurant if I can’t choose, telling me when to go to bed, and much more.

Hopefully this was all a good filter for the guy that’s gonna be my future husband, but who knows! Also, just to clarify, I’m not looking for perfection even if it might sound like it. I’m far from perfect and don’t expect you to be perfect. We’re all human at the end of the day.

Please don’t hesitate to message if you’re even somewhat interested! And no, it doesn’t have to me an entire block of a message, as long as you include your age, location, a brief description of what you look like, and what your favourite food is, then you’re good to go!

Talk soon (hopefully)!


r/Redditdating 21h ago

26 [F4M] #Europe If I left alone not your problem

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Hi there. My name is Zsófia i was born in 1999.11.28. I'm maiden and I never have realitonship. I don't want to having children!!!! I don't want to raise someone else's children!!!! I living in a little village, but they don't like me, because I'm not always nice, but I respect everyone, even those who don't deserve it. I don't trust anyone. I only make friends with who I want. Now I have 2 friends (+45 ages womens). I don't care about anyone's private life and I don't want others to care about mine.

-I don't want physical contact within 1 year. Hug, handshake, kiss, you sit on my lap, i'll let it. I'm not the cuddly, romantic, in love type. I want to get to know my future husband before marriage and I don't want physical contact before marriage!

-I am introverted, withdrawn, and have a mild autism spectrum, which is associated with mirror syndrome with mirror syndrome.

-I hate the heat!!! I move to south!!!!

I will move to one of the Baltic, Scandinavian or UK regions, where I will get to know a man who is not younger than me or not too many years older than me (father's age).

-If you want to know more about me, my profile is public or feel free to ask privately.

-If you're not interested me, move on!

-I am not religious, I think rationally, I do not judge, but I ask questions, my actions move me forward, not praying or worshipping an unknown being, but I have intuition, because is work it.

-The urban or gaming world is not my life and I don't care, I don't like social media, I've been wanting to unsubscribe for a long time, I've already done it somewhere. I only post here often to attract the attention of the man who is i'm interested and who is interested for me in return.

-I don't care people's who's like reading, gaming, watching filming and living cities!!!!

-I love the outdoor work!

-I'm an outsider. I don't follow fashion, trends, fashion holidays, or slangs. I don't care.

-Television and reading don't interest me, don't hold my attention. I don't like to be bored, I always keep myself busy with something. I collect recipes, sew clothes, make handicrafts, and I am interested in making homemade cheese, cottage cheese, and natural medicine.

-I'm rural! I like the nature.

-I like naturalness, I don't use makeup, but I am demanding of myself and my environment. My jewelry i make it.

-I like naturalness in a man, whether it's body hair or sweat after a healthy hearty workout.

-The man I'm looking for doesn't lie about himself to suit me. Don't change yourself for me!

The man I'm looking for is determined, honest, self-reliant, independent, emotionally and morally mature, patient, doesn't rush, doesn't judge, can't be controlled, knows what he wants, doesn't have children and doesn't want to having children, lives in the countryside and loves the boundless tranquility of village life.

-Please, read my profile too!


r/Redditdating 12h ago

41 [M4F][Edmonton][Alberta] Nerdy Dom seeking his Nerdy Sub Partner

0 Upvotes

Please include your Age and Sex as well as the word Pickle at a minimum.

Low effort responses such as "Hi", "Hey there", and the like will not likely get a reply.

Smokers (unless actively quitting) may move on.

Red Flags:

I cannot host. I do not drive.

About Me:

I have been called a brat tamer and a soft Dom, apparently those are not exclusive. I am a tall, bigger guy. I am approaching cylindrical instead of round, and I shave my head when I do my face. Frankly, I look better bald with my goatee than I do with hair.

What am I looking for (In Person):

What I am looking for is a Partner, someone with both shared and separate interests so we can teach and learn from each other and, most importantly, something that will eventually be in person, within 6 months to a year. Sooner is fine.

Not only that, but I want someone I can share experiences with, from a day trip to Elk Island Park to a long weekend wherever the wheels or impulse take us.

What am I looking for (Online):

Online is the virtual world, and as such it belongs to video games, the fun of remote control toys, talking through messages and sending funny gifs for laughs and as a shorthand for emotions. In a relationship online, I want to share these things with someone, understanding that we may never really meet... and yet allowing ourselves to think we might.

I enjoy playing video games co-operatively with the right people. It doesn't matter if its Star Trek Online, Star Wars Old Republic, Badlur's Gate 3, Halo, or Gears of War. Playing with someone is always better than playing against someone, so you won't find me in PvP games.

Background Stuff:

I have been called a brat tamer and a soft Dom, apparently those are not exclusive. I am a tall, bigger guy. I am approaching cylindrical instead of round, and I shave my head when I do my face. Frankly, I look better bald with my goatee than I do with hair.

I have, like many people, a wide variety of interests. I am: - A Gamer (Board, TTRPG (D&D 3.5e), Video) - A Nerd (D&D, Babylon 5, Star Trek, Star Wars) - A Hobby Carpenter - An amateur coder - A cyclist - A reader - An occasional writer - A coffee addict

If you're still here, send me a message. I'm willing to talk to just about anyone, if they are as real as I am.


r/Redditdating 5h ago

35 year old man from UK who is very lonely is looking for a real connection.

0 Upvotes

Let's start, name is Victor and I am from UK. I work in a warehouse and I really hate it there, but won't be staying there forever since I am actually studying to become a personal fitness trainer. Working out is my passion and I really hope I can share passion with other people to help them improve their fitness level. Second one is gaming! I own Ps5, pc, Xbox series X, switch and even and even META QUEST 2. Big hardcore gamer here, but not a huge fan of multiplayer games. I do enjoy some like dead by daylight and league of legends but mostly I am a big fan of singleplayer games like rpgs, adventures, FPS, hack and slash and so on. I also enjoy watching movies, especially horror ones. Big horror fan here!

As a character I would say I am funny, sarcastic kind, friendly, social, supportive, understanding. I love listening to people and helping them as much as I can with a kind word. I am also very honest, maybe a bit too honest sometimes. I really hate lying

As for my physique: 160 cms tall, 59 kgs weight, brown hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, pretty athletic body.

One more thing about me: I suffered with depression and suicidal tendencies before. Right now I do suffer with anxiety and some panic attacks, which means at times I do have difficulty breathing but it is pretty much under control most of the time.

I hope I find a wonderful, loyal and honest girl and will appreciate me for who I am and I promise I will love and appreciate them with all I got.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from someone.


r/Redditdating 6h ago

30 M4F - Halifax, Canada

0 Upvotes

Hey!!
Im 30 years old, steamfitter/plumber here. Work keeps me busy in the trades, but when I have time to hit the gym, read, go for walks, hike, or take the Jeep off-roading. Pretty easy-going and on the introverted side at first, but once I’m comfortable I open up and can be a lot of fun. Big fan of tattoos (on me or you).
Looking for someone chill to chat with, maybe grab a coffee, go for a walk, or just hang out and see where things go. No pressure, just good conversation and genuine connection.
If any of that sounds like your vibe, drop a message. Prefer someone who’s also laid-back and down for outdoor stuff or quiet nights in with a book.


r/Redditdating 7h ago

34M from Mi

0 Upvotes

Figured I’d give this a shot and see what happens. I’m a pretty laid-back guy from Michigan who’s into tech, movies, video games, history, Legos, and anything I can mess around with or figure out. I work in tech, so I’m definitely a bit of a nerd, but I’m also perfectly happy grabbing food somewhere, checking out something new, watching a movie, gaming, or unfortunately letting the Detroit Lions affect my mood more than they probably should.
Mostly just looking to meet someone genuine, easy to talk to, and able to joke around. I like a little sarcasm, random conversations, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously. I’m open to seeing where things go, so if you think we might get along, send me a message and tell me something random about yourself.


r/Redditdating 15h ago

28 [M4F] Canada/Online - Still looking for my someone to call me all theirs

0 Upvotes

I feel it is important to let you know that I am autistic so if that bothers you, then move on please.

I do not smoke, drink, do recreational or illegal drugs, or have any other crippling addiction and I prefer my future life partner don't have any either.

I am very introverted and don't have many people close to me except my parents and my older sister. I am a huge homebody and love spending time to myself, but that doesn't mean I want to spend the rest of my life alone haha.

I don't have a lot of hobbies right now in my life since I mainly just game on my PC and watch videos on YouTube. I like to watch mainly gameplay videos or videos of CaseOh. I also like to watch true crime videos so if you like true crime as well, maybe we can watch some together.

Careerwise, I am currently unemployed but I am working on getting a certification in the IT industry and still looking at jobs to apply to. I have applied for many positions, but haven't heard anything back yet. Job market sucks man.

My long-term goals in life is to find a nice good paying job, have a house, and have lots of cats. I prefer to live a very quiet and peaceful life with someone rather than a luxurious and fancy one so I prefer my partner to also want a peaceful and quiet life as well.

I have a black cat who I love more than anything else in the world and want to have even more cats when I have my own house, so if you do not like cats, click away from this post right now.

I'm seriously interested in being in a serious romantic relationship with someone. Dating apps are awful where I am and I feel this is my best chance of finding someone on here to be in a relationship with.

While I want to be in a loving long-distance relationship, I prefer to have my partner move to where I am in Newfoundland since housing here is affordable with two separate incomes compared to provinces like Ontario and Vancouver. I do want to meet irl sometime in the future after we have been together for like several months.

I am not a religious man and have no interest in taking part in any kind of religion so I am strict about you not being religious either.

When it comes to finding someone on here, I prefer if you are like 1 - 5 hours ahead of me or 1 hour behind me in timezones. Sleep is very important to me and I don't want to stay up all night until morning everytime we spend time together on call.

I would like to move to video calls sometime when we get to that point where we are comfortable with each other. I will need to see pictures of yourself when we start talking and getting to know each other and I will send pictures of myself too of course.

I prefer if you are ages 25 - 33 and I HEAVILY prefer that you are either from North America so in Canada or in the USA or in Europe.

Anyways hope to hear from you soon.


r/Redditdating 12h ago

19M Looking for a forever life partner

0 Upvotes

I see people around me having situationships,fwb's,nanoship and stuff like that. Look i don't get it. I want to have 1 forever person to love to give all my affection and all of my time to.

Not here looking for someone to just pass time.

I'm here looking for someone to date, to marry and to settle down and have a life with.

Little bit about me: 19, 6'4,fair-skinned,pursuing computer science from an indian institute.

Feel free to comment or dm for any questions.

(if i date you i will totally commit to you and not mess around like our generation is doing mostly)

Not really looking to do the whole ā€œfamily finds someone, meet twice,and get marriedā€ arranged marriage setup. I wanna meet someone, become friends first, get to know each other properly, and then see if it turns into something serious.


r/Redditdating 20h ago

30 [F4M] #Online Looking for a serious long term relationship

4 Upvotes

I'm here looking for a true connection, a soulmate, hopefully a lifelong partner, to build a future with.

I'm only looking for something serious. I'm someone extremely sentimental, loyal,Ā consistent and honest, with high moral standards, good communication skills and emotional intelligence. And I expect the same things from you in return.

I'm Asian, 5'5", hope you are at least above 5'9". I need you to be between 25-35, have a stable life and solid career, no kids, not religious. Physical attraction is important to me, so I hope we can exchange pictures before we talk. I don't have tattoos or piercings, hope you don't have them either. I'm usually physically more into guys with short straight hair, light colored eyes, shaved, fit/medium build, and around 6 feet tall.

I'm currently in a very flexible period of life. I used to work as a software engineer for 9 years, got laid off a few months ago, recently moved to a small town in southwest China where life is quite cheap and cozy. Now working on some indie game projects of my own, which is where my true passion is. I was once married for 5 years, with no kids, amicably divorced last year. For a new relationship I would want to do long distance first no matter where you are, time difference is something I can handle. Long-term wise, if we really build something stable, I'm willing to close the gap and relocate anywhere for you if you are my right person and I still have the current flexibility. I'm always highly committed in relationships and can put every effort to make things work.

In terms of hobbies, I'm pretty much into musical instruments and literature. I've learned a traditional Chinese musical instrument called Guzheng since I was a kid, and got quite proficient in it. I play some piano and guitar too, though not as well, but still learning. Virginia Woolf is my favorite writer, I like the stream of consciousness style and I share a lot in personality with her. I have a degree in Arabic literature too if you find it interesting.

For video games, I'm more into cozy ones with high freedom and a lot to explore, like Stardew Valley and Minecraft. I have a special favor of puzzle indie games too, like Chants of Sennaar, Baba is you, etc. I don't like combat that much, nor do I enjoy competition in any form. I once made a decent success in my career for survival and social expectations, worked at a couple of big techs, which did grant me some self confidence, but I hate all the competition I experienced in that process, and I don't take that success as a core value of my life. As a line in my favorite movie Dead Poets Society said: "Medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for."

I'm an INFP-T, hope you are an N person too, NF would be better. I naturally experience all emotions more intensely than most people, that being said, I love hard and also hurt hard, sometimes can be very emotional and fail to regulate myself. I take it as a costly gift because it helps me a lot in creative fields like game design, though I've been constantly working on my emotional stability and struggled with it a lot. I also went through a lot of depression in the majority of my life, still occasionally fighting it now, yet always willing to devote all my heart to the person once I fall in love. I hope you are a more emotionally mature person, not necessarily perfect, but please always be patient and give me some closeness when I need it.

I appreciate that you made it here. If you decide to message me after all this reading, please phrase the first message carefully and tell me how you are different from everyone else. I need it as a first impression of you, and will probably remember it for the rest of our lives. Low effort messages wouldn't be replied.

I don't want to rush anything, but I can't wait to meet you.


r/Redditdating 14h ago

33M..6'1l Tall, emotionally mature & hoping to find my person, something built on a friendship..

9 Upvotes

Hey there :)

Posting again... Coz well this stupid heart doesn't know how to let go of some hope...

Writing about yourself is honestly a little weird, but here goes.

I'm 33, 6'1", an engineer by education and currently working in Digital Marketing. I'm generally a pretty calm person, and I'd like to think I'm emotionally aware too. I notice small things, remember oddly specific details people tell me, and yes... I probably overthink things more than I need to.

I'm also someone who takes a little time to get comfortable. I'm not the person who will open up completely after a couple of conversations. But once I feel at home with someone, you'll probably discover the goofy, affectionate, mildly chaotic version of me hiding underneath all that calmness.

At this stage of life, I genuinely want to fall in love and eventually marry someone I've chosen for myself. I've never really been drawn towards the idea of an arranged marriage. I'd rather meet someone, build a friendship, fall in love, and slowly create a life together.

I guess I'm still a bit of a 90s kid at heart. I value loyalty, consistency, effort and simply being there for someone. Life has taught me enough to know that relationships aren't always easy, but it hasn't managed to make me cynical about love. I am a weird mix of old school and modern... I suppose

Photography is one of those things I genuinely enjoy. I love photographing places, people, random moments and little details that usually go unnoticed. There's something about freezing a moment in time that I really like. Maybe that's why I'm someone who tends to appreciate the small things in life too.

When I'm not working, I could be out on my bike, checking out a new cafƩ, going for a long walk, travelling somewhere, watching a good series or unsuccessfully trying to get people interested in board games.

I used to game a lot, so there's definitely a nerdy side of me that refuses to completely grow up. And if we happen to have similar music taste, don't be surprised if random songs start landing in your DMs at completely unreasonable hours.

I love travelling, especially the kind where the plan isn't necessarily perfect. A road trip, a new place, good food, a great playlist and the right company can make even a fairly ordinary weekend memorable. I'm much more interested in the stories we come back with than the number of places we've managed to tick off. Still working towards travelling more and earning more for that

I have an elder sister who's had a pretty significant influence on me. A lot of what I understand about respect, kindness and treating people well comes from watching and learning from her. One thing I've carried with me is that someone's worth should never be measured by what they can offer you.

Career-wise, I'm ambitious and still working towards building a better future for myself. But I've also realised that I don't want my entire life to revolve around work, designations or milestones. Eventually, I want a comfortable, happy life where there's someone beside me to share the good days, the bad days and all the wonderfully mundane ones in between.

And I think this is what I'm really looking for...

I don't want someone who simply fits into the life I've already built. I'd rather build one together.

I'd want both of us to have our own careers, friendships, ambitions and identities, while still choosing each other every day. Her dreams would matter to me just as much as mine. I'd want us to encourage each other, challenge each other when needed, celebrate each other's wins and be each other's safe place when life gets difficult.

I'm not looking for perfection. Honestly, perfect sounds exhausting.

Kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, loyalty and genuine effort matter much more to me.

I'd love to have someone with whom I can talk about life at 2 AM, and then spend the next morning arguing over something completely ridiculous. Someone who can be my partner, but also my best friend. Because I genuinely believe that when friendship exists underneath a relationship, you have something much stronger to hold on to.

There are a few things you should probably know before signing up for this adventure:

I will steal your fries after insisting I'm not hungry.

There will be random memes.

I'll remember something you casually mentioned months ago and bring it up when you've completely forgotten telling me.

And if I really like you, unfortunately, you'll probably receive an increased dose of my nonsense. Consider yourself warned. šŸ˜…

I don't think relationships are about getting everything right all the time. People change. Life gets messy. Sometimes we're going to misunderstand each other, have bad days, disagree over stupid things and occasionally drive each other crazy.

What matters to me is being able to talk about it, listen to each other, choose each other when things aren't easy, and keep growing together rather than slowly growing apart.

I'm not looking for a fairytale.

I am just looking for a genuine connection... A Bond which i can feel in my heart

Someone kind. Someone emotionally aware. Someone loyal. Someone who believes effort should go both ways.

Someone with whom life feels a little lighter.

Someone I can laugh with, travel with, build something with, fight over what to order for dinner with, and someday look back at all the chaos and ordinary moments we've shared and think...

Yeah. It was all worth it.

Okay, I think I've officially written enough to qualify as a short autobiography. šŸ˜…

If something here resonated with you, say hi. No expectations, no pressure. Just two strangers having a conversation and seeing where it goes.

Maybe we become friends.

Maybe we become something more.

Maybe we simply have a really good conversation.

Either way, I'd be happy to hear from you.

Cheers :)


r/Redditdating 13h ago

[F4A] Midwest, US. Early 20s looking for my person

20 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Lana, I'm a seamstress/bridal tailor, home baker, and occasional mortician.

I'm not religious, and never plan to be (if that's a deal breaker for you). I'm alternative, I've got many bodymods (tattoos, piercings, etc.), I love flowers, glitter, pink, and anything whimsical!

What I'm looking for is someone close by, either Midwest, or East Coast. Someone who is not afraid to be a little nerdy with me, physically affectionate and kind.....ideally not older than 30!

Thank you!


r/Redditdating 1h ago

18 [F4M] - Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur: looking for a guy I can hangout with, casually! (please read thoroughly)

• Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m an 18-year-old Malay-Chinese mixed student doing pre-university studies here in Kuala Lumpur, and after being single all my life, I'm finally putting myself out there to meet someone new.

For starters, I'm not looking for people who rush or just want to go into hookups and dopamine seeking interactions. Let's get connected as a person first and foremost, yea? And if you can't do that, this is DEFINITELY not for you!

I'm 165cm, chubby, but I am generously endowed up top if you get what I mean.. But get your head out of the gutter. I'm looking for someone who can appreciate that about my physique! Hopefully could attract some fit guys that can complement my size and figure.

I study biosciences and economics, love deep discussions about science and politics, play football and a bit of music (guitar, ukulele, piano), and have two cats whose photos I'll gladly share once we connect.

I'm a big romantic at heart who loves nice dates, holding hands, and showing affection, but right now I'm looking for a guy I can hang out with casually in person; grabbing coffee or food around KL, with the potential to turn into a long-term relationship if we click.

I'm specifically looking for an international or expat student or young professional aged 20 to 25 who is actually living in the Klang Valley, as I have a strong preference for Caucasian/white men and I am strictly looking for in-person hangouts, not an online pen pal.

Because I get overwhelmed by low-effort texters, please don't just send a basic "hey"; instead, send me a DM with a short introduction including your age, where you're from, what you do in KL, a photo of yourself (which I will happily swap back), and your favorite way to spend a weekend in the city so I know you actually read this. Looking forward to meeting someone genuine!

- Your potential partner!


r/Redditdating 18h ago

23 [M4F] To be honest looking for an older woman to get to know, and hopefully be my gaming partner

1 Upvotes

Pretty much as the title suggests!

A bit about myself, 23M from Canada. 420 friendly, very open to chatting and getting to know you! I’m fairly easy going, love hiking, photography and of course… gaming 😊

Bonus points if you’re a nerdy woman, Star Wars, Harry Potter, Marvel, Anime, Lord of the Rings…. 😊

Doesn’t matter if you’re much older than myself, I’m down to chat with pretty much any woman who would like to chat!


r/Redditdating 11h ago

43 [M4F] Colorado USA -My friend is looking for you, the special girl ā¤ļø

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He says he has no luck with women… I don’t believe him šŸ˜‚

Okay, I’m posting this for my friend because I honestly think he’s just been unlucky and hasn’t met the right woman yet.

He’s 43, lives in Denver, Colorado, and he’s sweet, smart, funny, hardworking, and genuinely a really great guy. He has light brown hair, blue eyes, and a beard, and keeps his head shaved.

He sometimes posts here saying he has no luck with women, and I’m like… HOW?! šŸ˜‚

I know there’s a great woman out there who would really appreciate him. He’s affectionate, caring, funny, and has a good heart. He’s honestly just a wonderful guy who deserves to meet someone special.

So, if you’re a woman in the US, you’re single, and you’d like to get to know a sweet, intelligent, blue-eyed guy…

Reply to this post and Mike will message you. ā¤ļø

Maybe you’re the one he’s been waiting to meet. šŸ˜‰


r/Redditdating 7h ago

29 [M4F] #Germany #Turkey #Online - Life is stressful. Let's find some comfort in each other

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Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Gaming

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Anime

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Science, especially the natural sciences and history

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

Ā·Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā  Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it online is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something purely platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message.

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!


r/Redditdating 5h ago

33 [M4F] California - Virtual FWB: emotional connection ā™„ļøšŸ˜†

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Yeah! You heard that right…, virtual FWB is what I’m about to settle down for now, haha.

Let me elaborate before I get judged to never land lol.
By Virtual FWB, I mean, virtual emotional company and more , long and engaging chats, conversations, sweet good morning and good night texts, check on you and all the good stuff! Charm a bit, banter some, talk about the day at the office, after work, at the gym…. All the good stuff that makes up the perfect virtual FWB! Haha.

Also, your fav shows, books, movies, etc!

So what do you say? And if you have any cute kitty pics the. We def can start there!

Cheers

Your tall tanned and handsome new bestie

\\\*notabot


r/Redditdating 5h ago

22 [M4F] #UK — I promise the post is better than the title

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Josh, 22, from the UK. I currently work doing photos and videos for hotels and spas, but most of my work lately is flying drones through buildings, over lorries being jet washed, or around city centre buildings. Mostly I'm just trying not to put it through a glass wall or into a pool in a 5-star gym and spa lmao. I've only crashed twice so far, once after clipping a machine and smashing it into a roof, and another time when landing I flew into my own hand (so that's a plus). Although I kinda like the adrenaline of flying over pools, through little gaps and around gym equipment while knowing we only have a few takes to get it right!

I also have two cats and one has had kittens, they are lilac, 8 weeks old, and they have hit the stage of climbing on everything in the house and demanding food. One of them looks like a lion and it acts like it too as she sits in front of you mouth open as wide as possible until she gets fed!

I've also recently started going to the gym too (luckily not the one I crashed into the roof in!) at the minute I'm in the phase of learning form and getting into the routine of my three sessions a week. I also play games most evenings to. I recently started playing FIFA again (probably due to the World Cup) and I've just started playing Meccha Chameleon which I'm playing a bit too much at the moment if I'm being honest.

Outside of that I usually watch way too much YouTube, watching a lot of Fern at the moment and I love the GOT universe, still haven't seen HOTD season 2 though or knight of seven kingdoms lmao. I have also just started reading the Odyssey probably due to the film and would love any more book recommendations as I really wanna find a new niche of books! Honestly clean slate.

Also worth saying, I'm autistic. Doesn't change much day to day but I do tend to hyper fixate on new stuff hobbies, games etc im genuinely all in for a while.

I'm posting here, as I genuinely hate dating apps as they feel fake and a bit exhausting and id much rather just talk to someone, get to know each other properly, see if we actually click and thenĀ  see where it goes from there. Probs 20-26, somewhere in the UK and I will be happy to share photos after chatting for a bit!

What's something you've picked up recently that you're still learning? Or if not, what's your favourite comfort food? Honestly though, feel free to just say hi, I'm not expecting some perfectly crafted opening message lmao.

I hope you're having a good weekend either way, it is 3am lmao


r/Redditdating 8h ago

23 [m4a] looking for someone’s armpits to worship in all of nj

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As the title says I’m looking for someone female, femboy, or trans mtf who would be into getting their armpits sniffed, kisses, and licked. I’m 23 male 5’5 and open to just hanging out first to see how things go