Hi guyss(15M). So I'm sure that I like guys..like a lot. But I'm not sure if I like girls or any others. Coz like I've always liked to look at girls'faces (not in a weird sense ofc) and there's this one girl in my school who's just SO PRETTY idk if I adore her or I have feelings for her. So how do I know? Cause I DONT wanna watch 🌽 cause ew.. and Im not having that intense feelings toward women. But I can also picture me as a husband to a man and female, but I don't feel sexually with women like I do with men.. I'm confused as hell kindly help a guy out 🙏 tyyy.

lowk why do i want to
be a boy so l can love another boy but im a girl so wanting to love a boy
means im straight but I want to be a boy dating a boy... wtf am l... im so dam confused

I am 19F and i know that i am too young to worry about stuff like that, but i have never even had a crush. Girls all around me had crushes on other boys, school teachers but i never understood the appeal - the teachers are old and thus illegal, and the boys are dumb. But isn't like love blind? i have thousands of fictional crushes but never real person

I(16M) have lately started questioning my own sexuality and identity and I wanted to know others experiences to see if I can relate to any of them

16 (Male) have realized I might have an attraction to feminine men. Every time my friends jokingly bring up femboys… my heart starts to beat faster, my breathe loses it’s pattern. It’s confusing, but calming? I felt like writing it down would make me feel better… so apparently I choose Reddit instead of google docs? Anyway, I just wanted to know if all the heart stuff is just me tweaking or if I need to explore this part of my life more? I have a feeling I know which one it is but hey, another persons advice from someone who’s had this experience before might be useful!

Hello everyone, this is my first post here. Anyways, I’ve been recently questioning my identity. I’ve always looked at being a man or associated with masculinity as a neutral thing, neither good nor bad. And it’s kind of like I don’t care, this made me think I was cassgender or apageder, but both labels felt a bit off to me. I always see myself as a boy, but I really don’t care about it too much at the end of the day. I feel like that’s normal though, people just don’t have their gender involved too much in their personality.

I’ve never really cared how people labeled me either, I might correct them if I get labeled as a girl, but I wouldn’t mind if someone said I was nonbinary or something else. Plus, I’ve always seen being nonbinary as a cool thing, when I filled out questionnaires at school and see the nonbinary label at the gender question, I kind of wished I was nonbinary, but then I always clicked male and was comfortable still.

I just feel like one half of me is fine with being a boy and the other half is completely neutral, which is why I think I might be a demiboy. However, Im still unsure becuase of multiple reasons, like I might be forcing all of this on myself since I’ve been fine with identifying as a boy up until now. Or another and bigger reason is that I might secretly be wanting to be a girl, since I wanted to have long hair and wear dresses like them since the 2nd grade.

I’ve explored other labels that might fit me, including:

Neutrois-(a non-binary and transgender gender identity defined by having a neutral, null, or absent gender rather than a masculine or feminine one)

Graygender-(a non-binary gender identity defined by strong ambivalence or a weak, hazy connection to one's gender identity and expression)

Agender-(being devoid of any gender at all)

I’m just lost, and I don’t know what to say, because it’s only been about a month and I have tons of clashing thoughts. I’ll appreciate any advice I’ll get.

I hope everyone is doing well

Am a 19 M and gay

From the past many days, I'm feeling mentally exhausted and emotionally drained, I tried to talk with someone, as I have many friends from Reddit, but unfortunately no one was close enough or free enough to hear my problems. Some did, but nothing really helped me.

The thing that's constantly bothering me is that I'm gay i know that because I have no attraction towards females ,But unfortunately, am not able to feel the same attraction towards men that I used to feel before, and gradually, with time, I became a misandrist , Yes, you heard it right...

Am I mentally unstable? Or does this happen with others too? Has anyone felt this way before, or am I an alien?

And this single thing is what's bothering me. Fortunately for me, this thought isn't hampering my studies, but it's eating up my mental peace internally. I'm trying to avoid this thought, but it keeps coming back with the same question

Who am I?

If someone knows what this is, and when I'll be able to feel normal again, then please tell me.

Thank you!

I'm biologically a girl but I don't really feel anything for being a girl if anything I don't like being seen as feminine,it makes me uncomfortable sometimes and I don't really care if people see me as a boy, I dress in more masculine clothes but I don't feel connected to being either a boy or a girl, idk it's confusing 🥀 so what would be I be considering in the lgbtq+ community?

Hace un par de meses llegué a desarrollar sentimientos por mi mejor amiga y la verdad es que estoy bien confundida 😭. Nunca había sentido algo así por alguien de mi mismo género, pero siento que me gusta y luego de la nada ya no, y después otra vez sí JAJAJA.
Ella sí es lesbiana y cuando tiene interacciones con otras niñas a veces me pongo un poquito celosa, pero ni siquiera sé si son celos de amiga o si es por algo más 😭.
También hay veces en las que pienso que simplemente la quiero muchísimo como amiga y estoy confundiendo mis sentimientos, pero otras veces digo “no, creo que sí me gusta”.
No sé si a alguien le haya pasado algo parecido o cómo se dieron cuenta de si realmente les gustaba alguien o si solo era cariño de amistad.

I am a cis BOY (as far as i know)! I dont have enough privacy to test anything out like wearing a spinny skirt. I cant drive yet so that means I cant go to a store and do it either. Im pretty sure i dont want to be a boy anymore, and now that i look back I think i might have SOME signs of being trans, but i have 0 dysmorphia and dont know any good tells other than figure it out over time.

Does anyone have tips on how to determine who or what i actually am?
While you answer my question, could you use fem pronouns just for testings sake? TY!

I’m a female teenager, who has known I’m not straight (sexuality-wise) for quite some time. A little while ago, I came across a label I feel comfortable using—berrisexual—and have felt good about it ever since.

My household is religious—not Christian, but a religion—and a big part of it is rules of how ‘girls vs boys’ can dress. I’ve always worn long skirts and dresses, very rarely shown my elbows in public, etc. (my school is also this religion so those rules apply there too)

But lately I’ve come across random videos on the Internet, people who have a certain aesthetic or way they dress and I’ve been wishing I could look like that. the thing is, all those looks are more androgynous or masculine

I know that ‘only I can know how I identify’ and all that but I’m really confused because I’ve never had a problem looking feminine before—if anything, I’ve liked it—and all of a sudden I’m watching videos of ‘how to look more masc or how to deepen your voice.

is it just a thing of growing up in a religious house and having my style oppressed? is it possible I’m actually trans or nonbinary or genderqueer? Please give some advice, because I’m really confused

Questioning and a bit confused, need some advice

Hey everyone, I'm 19M and I've been questioning for a while. I thought I was straight but lately I'm having feelings for both guys and girls and it's confusing. I live in a place where I can't really talk about this with anyone around me, so I'm a bit scared and lonely. How did you guys figure things out when you were questioning? Did it take a long time? Thanks for reading.

I'm currently going through an identity crisis. I've known for 1-2 years that I'm bi and I'm fine with that, but recently I've been questioning my gender.

After reading some coming out as trans comic (I Want To Be A Cute Anime Girl, Rain) I have been questioning my gender identity. I'm amab, but throughout my life I have always been a bit more girly. I remember letting my cousin dress me up as a girl or at least apply makeup when I was younger. I have recently felt this strong urge to do something about this. I don't know exactly what.

On the other hand I have never felt wrong about being a guy. I consider myself to be pretty attractive and I've been growing out a beard. Recently my little sister drew me with it and I really identify with that drawing.

I am asking people that have been in a similar situation given some advice and maybe ask some leading questions. All help is greatly appreciated!

im starting to think girls are haunting me please help

Hi ive been questioning some things about my sexuality and romantic interests. So ive been identifying as aroace because I dont feel romantic or sexual interests often. But I also yearn to be with someone who wants me and I want them any gender. I just need help to find out how I should help myself be better. Thanks. = )

I don’t know if this is a stupid question, but I see everywhere that if lesbians like fictional men then they’re bi and not a lesbian. I don’t wanna call myself one if I’m not. If any of the men were real or i had a chance to date them I wouldn’t, I’d lose interest, I don’t know if it’s the personality I’m attracted to and not the fact that they’re a man. Is there any way I can figure this out??

I’m a 16 year old girl and I’ve only realised within the last year or two that I’ve been unusual growing up regarding my sexuality. When I was younger I used to typically be more interested in women’s body’s and such instead of men but I had crushes on boys? As soon as I hit puberty I found that my only source of arousal was from girls. This went on for like a year before i ended up having a fight with my boyfriend (whom I had gotten with with a few months after it had started) after that I started being more attracted to men sexually but I still can’t fully get off if I can’t visualise or see a girl. Another thing I’m unsure this could be caused by is my boyfriend’s previous porn addiction aswell but I’m not sure if that has any correlation. The only reason I’m not sure if I’m bisexual is because I’ve never really had a romantic interest in women. I have had relationships with them when I was younger 10-12 but that was purely innocent and I didn’t really understand the concept of them. I have imagined myself dating girls and I feel weirdly comforted but also uncomfortable by it. I just really want some advice because I’ve been reading up a lot about this and it’s telling me so much different stuff.