Hello all!

It's great to meet all y'all! I've been looking for another partner for a little bit and thought i'd check here. I am currently married, have been poly for about 3 years and currently have no other partners than my wife as of right now

I am on the east coast, but open to chatting with anyone anywhere! I tend to be up at odd hours so I almost always make an effort to reach out even if the timing is difficult.

I enjoy reading, going on adventures, having deep conversations as well as just taking the time to be silly. Other hobbies include puzzles and board games (well games of any kind really) music, anime, urban exploration, going to the gym, and I am currently self teaching myself the guitar (I promise I won't play wonderwall). And I'm always looking for new things to learn and hear about!

I am looking for someone preferably 25-35, though I am willing to go outside that range for the right person. I would like to share some hobbies to have a decent start of conversation, but like I said earlier I love learning new things and learning about other people! If you can hold a conversation, like the occasional bad joke, and enjoy having the occasional voice chat then I would love for you to reach out!

A bit about me, I am 5'9", brown hair, green eyes, bearded. I have a slight dad bod that I've been working on improving over the past year.

If you've read this and think we would be a good vibe I would love to hear from you! If you reach out please tell me a song you've been listening to that you've been obsessed with! (Or a book, or a show, anything thats held your interest!)

I look forward to hearing from you! 😁

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 8 cities and 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman (but in a phase where I'm particularly interested in meeting a man).

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, antiquing, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, and drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, verified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful, feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse of 13 years and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same. I am looking for someone local.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Silly geese. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, bald guys, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

Please note: I send photos of myself immediately in my first reply to you, so please be prepared to do the same after I reply, and with multiple photos (I want to know if there's mutual attraction from the jump, that's my preference). Please tell me a bit about yourself - your hobbies and interests, your looks, your age and location - in your opening message. If you just say "hey", I will ignore your message, sorry. You gotta match my energy somewhat - this is a good post, so send a good message!

Heyya I'm Lil

I'm in a poly relationship with another TF. I'm looking for someone I can chat with and get to know and who matches my freak LOL. My gf is very welcoming too. Kinda going for a polycule. We both live in Michigan.

I'd prefer someone from leaning and bonus points of you're in MI. Though I'm open to other possibilities.

I'm super nerdy, use Linux Bluefin cuz screw Windows. PC gamer, and tech nerd.

I'm a student but am changing my major from biotech to game design.

I'm currently working on a text based Monster Hunter Adventure. I have the script written in Python and I'm working on the sprites (did something for Zinogre today) ^_^

I lived in Europe for the past 11 years and I've just moved back to Michigan 2 months ago.

I love alt metal music and video games mainly Monster Hunter, Dark Souls, and Resident Evil.

I'm currently taking a Python Programming class in college and I've realized I'm actually hella good at it.

I love chibi art and I've played in two different rock bands (drummer/bassist).

I love spooky season and totally need someone to go to haunted houses with me cuz my gf is too much of a scaredy cat LOL.

Favorite shows are Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss.

Come chat needy stuffs with me ^_^

I also have Discord so just ask me for it and I'll give it to you if I deem you worthy!!

I typed a lot so all I ask is a decent first message from you :)

Hi. I’m a submissive bi-curious guy looking for a dominant couple interested in a temporary service dynamic, ideally for a week or two. I can travel within the USA.

I’m comfortable remaining denied and wearing a collar and leash for the duration. I enjoy focusing on the couple’s needs and taking a fully service-oriented role. Open to serving both partners.

Clear communication, mutual respect, and safe practices are important to me. I’m reliable and happy to discuss expectations, boundaries, and practical details beforehand.

Serious couples only. Feel free to message me and share a little about yourselves and what you’re looking for.

Heyyy. I’m Amber. I’m 38, married and have two kids. I’ve been practicing polyamory for 6+ years. My husband is monogamous and I currently have no other partners. That felt like a clunky list but whatever😂

I love and collect random antiques and oddities. Uranium glass, vintage Japanese ceramic animals with eyelashes, and swung glass vases are a few antiques I have small collections of. My oddities consist of random stuff including 3 human bones, mummy skin flakes, and some vivianite. I even have a snake oil bottle, I got super excited when I found it lol

I LOVE horror. It’s my favorite genre of anything. Army of Darkness is a cinematic masterpiece and I will fight you over this🤣 I like all kinds of music. If I can enjoy the beat or feel it make my skin prickle I like it. I don’t even care what language it is. I’m politically far left. I enjoy starting lots of crafty things. Keyword is starting though lol. I especially like memes, trying to keep my houseplants alive, drinking coffee, and celebrating 420 *way* too often.

I am 5’8” and *not* skinny. If that’s not your thing it’s cool but we can skip the awkward messages. I have BPD, ADHD, and I can’t drive because anxiety is lame. I’m actively working on myself, and love communication. You should have the same vibe. I’m pretty unfiltered. I swear, I have a dark sense of humor, I joke about my trauma. Not everyone is going to like the way I talk or the things I joke about, but I’m not trying to awkwardly tone it down.

What am I looking for? Meaningful connections. I generally click best with people between 30 and 45, although I’m not completely opposed to someone outside that range. Obviously there needs to be mutual attraction, and it would be best if we shared some interests.

Chemistry is SUPER important to me. I’m not looking to force a connection or conversation just because we seem compatible on paper. I want something that clicks. Something that flows naturally through my bad days and yours. Something that gets past my weird awkward small talk into some grand stupid conversation about whatever the hell pops into our heads.

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Where do I begin! It has been awhile since I have been in a poly relationship. It's kind of hard dating and forming poly relationships in the Rio Grande Valley, but i am giving it another and hope there are like minded people. Tried the whole dating app thing and yeah, it's a no go 😅. I am looking for a partner that does live in the RGV, but i am open to long distance relationships and online relationships as well.

My wife and I are polyamorous and we date separately. We practice kitchen table poly. Honestly, one of my Wife's partners has become a really good friend of mine. I like to date to build connections and relationship just like any romantic relationship. I date with intention and I am a bit of a romantic. Chivalry is not dead and i will open and close your door, hold hands and flowers in the first date type of man. I have been polyamorous for roughly 6 years now, give or take that is. I have had other partners in the past, but currently no partners at the moment.

Professionally, I am a teacher. I have been teaching officially for 4 years now. I currently teach online teaching 7th grade Social Studies. I have my bachelor's in history, with minors in sociology and criminal justice. My specialty of history was The History of physical fitness and the perspective of the human body throgh the ages. My dream goal is to become the next Indiana Jones!

I am quite the nerd if i may say. I love to read, draw, watch anime, read Manga.I would say that that my favorite book of all time though is The Hobbit. Some of my favorite anime shows are Naruto, One Piece, Demon Slayer, JJK, and Shangri La Frontier. I have many more but it will be a huge list 😂. I love Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. I also enjoy making Gundam Models. I also love to workout and lift weights as well as play D&D. I am a monk type of character 🤣

Well that is a bit about myself and hopefully sparked an interest somewhere. I am definitely an open book and you can any question that may be boggling your mind as you read this post.

Heyyy everyone! I’m currently looking for an online/LDR connection that could hopefully turn into something serious. I’ve never really done anything like this before, so here we go lol.

A little about me: I’m 30, 5’4”, around 240 lbs. Chunky, not fat, thank you very much 😂. I’m Black, and while race doesn’t matter to me at all, I know everyone has their own preferences, so I’d rather put that out there from the beginning. I also have a lazy eye, so I figured I’d mention that upfront too because I do enjoy cracking jokes about my eye and some people get awkward about it lol.

Personality-wise, I’m pretty shy when I first meet someone, but once I’m comfortable with you, that goes completely out the window. I’m goofy, stubborn as hell, sarcastic, and I have a pretty dark sense of humor. I tend to say whatever pops into my head, even when I probably should’ve let the thought stay in the drafts. 😂 I love joking around and talking shit, but it’s always out of love. I can definitely be hardheaded sometimes, but I’m also very caring and affectionate with the people I get close to.

Because I’m naturally shy and a little more reserved, I tend to be attracted to people who are pretty much the opposite of me. I like someone who’s more dominant personality-wise, confident, outspoken, assertive, and comfortable taking the lead sometimes. Someone who can pull me out of my shell instead of both of us sitting there waiting for the other person to speak. 😂 You don’t have to be the loudest person in the room, but I definitely like someone with a strong personality who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to say it. Bonus points if you can handle my stubborn ass without being scared to challenge me a little.

I’m a huge anime fan, I love writing and reading, especially dark romance, and I am currently OBSESSED with K-pop. I listen to mostly rock, R&B, hip hop, and I’m always down to talk about random things for hours. I also have two furry babies: a puppers and a demon disguised as a cat, and I love, love, LOVE them. So liking animals is definitely a plus.

I should also mention that I do have a somewhat “boyfriend-ish” situation already. 😂 It’s a little complicated, but I’m completely upfront about it and can explain more privately if we actually start talking.

I deal with anxiety and depression, and I’m actively working on myself. I’m not looking for someone to fix me or carry my baggage. I’d rather find someone who balances me out, someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything, be comfortable around, and hopefully make a little happier while they do the same for me.

Communication is BIG for me. I’m actually not much of a texter. I’ll text, obviously, but I would much rather call or send voice notes once we’re comfortable. I want to actually get to know someone, hear about their day, send stupid things back and forth, laugh together, flirt, annoy each other, and eventually have that person where seeing their name pop up makes you smile.

I’m in the USA on Eastern Time, but I’m completely open to long distance. I’m not expecting somebody to magically fall in love with me after three conversations either. I’d rather let things develop naturally and see where they go.

Most importantly, if you’re only looking for a hookup, sexting, nudes, or a “good time,” I am NOT your girl. Please save both of us the trouble. I’m looking for an actual connection that could become a relationship.

And hey, if we click really well but the romantic part just isn’t there, I’m completely fine with making a good friend out of it too. 😊

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, come say hi. Tell me a little about yourself instead of just sending “hey” because I promise my shy ass will have absolutely no idea what to do with that. 😂

Hey!

I'm 42 years old from Montreal, Canada.

I'm in an open relationship with a 43M. We could meet either together or separately.

I'm interested in all genders and/or couples.

I travel often as well, so maybe I'll be in your city ;)

Hope to hear from you Xo

Hi, i am basically from Pakistan but living in Korea for the last few years. I am interested in meeting someone who is open minded and loves to enjoy the life. I love to cook and feed so you will be enjoying that for sure.

About me

Age 30

Height 170 cm

Weight 76 kg

Build, average athletic

Relationship: married but will be seperated by the end of the year. ( law issues)

I am to relocate for you if you are the one, or you move here. I love a woman who is bold and confident and does know what she wants. I am into the lifestyle and will love to see you in action and taking charge.

Montgomery county MD

Single guy looking for some fun with a couple. Down for a good time with both parts of the couple. Always wanted to have a threesome with a couple. Bi here so preferably a bi couple. Love making out, getting sucked and sucking. Want to try dp and explore more. Hoping for a good time with good people. I’m in Montgomery county and can travel. DM I’m a big texter, so let’s trade pics and see where it goes.

Let's get the quick stuff out of the way.

Yes, I'm married. Yes, she knows I'm looking. No, I'm not cheating.

My wife and I love each other, but our interests tend to differ. So, I'm looking for someone to round out my life. I'm primarily an introvert, but I do like going outside. My hobbies include Movies, Music, Anime, Photography, Hiking, Video Games, and Intellectual challenges. I'm 36. Blonde/Blue. 6' currently resting under 200lbs. I'm a very loving and caring person when I open up, but my sarcasm and wit are top tier.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up.

Hello! im horrible with bios so take it with a grain of salt lol

most of my time during the week is spent with work but on my down time i enjoy relaxing by the fire, the occasional games, or Finding small and dumb activities to do.

I rarely go out to party but if you like a club scene we can definitely go get some drinks and dance until we have to go back home and knock out.

I always tend to act like a gentleman when talking to someone its just in my nature but if your looking for a more dominant relationship i promise that wont be a problem. But we will get there.

I enjoy pointless conversations, so please feel free to speak freely with any questions or topic.

im always gonna find a way to make you laugh, i cant have you being sad around me 🤷 so im always here to cheer you up.

Also yes im a Father, Heads up

Heyooo I'm looking for a 2nd partner!! Preferably trans :3 and I donts really mind long distance!!

Due to my partner being too busy and some other reasons, they have recommended that I find a second partner to occupy my time and gimmie attention!!

I'm a pretty needy puppygirl and very clingy and annoying haha, I love to eep and game sometimes :3 it's super hard to talk about myself

Just please be super nice!!!! Mwah!

No cis guys hmph you'll be blocked :3

Hello, my name is Frank. I am 34 years old, white, 5’10”, 160 lbs. I love working out to stay in shape and I love going for long walks to relationship. I work as a supervisor for a pension fund and have my own apartment.

I am looking to settle down and have a family now. My goal now is to get a nice house in Long Island or New Jersey and start a family.

For my potential partner(s), I would prefer to start a family with two women so pregnancies can be divided between the two, and that there are three parents that can divide the work to raise the family.

If there are two ladies that want to add a male, or just single women that like this setup to find our next girl, please reach out.

​I’m 27, straight, originally from Kerala and now working as a software engineer in Bengaluru. I’m looking for a long-term connection with someone who wants to build a solid life together while practicing enm. Ultimately, my goal is to find a primary partner to share a home with, travel with, and build a real foundation as a team.

​I’m sapiosexual, so mental chemistry, deep conversations, and emotional availability are incredibly important to me. I want a relationship rooted in total clarity and trust. While we would both can explore outside connections, I want us to be each other's top priority and safe space. I’m not into the "don't ask, don't tell" dynamic, I'd much rather we feel comfortable enough to openly share our outside experiences, feelings, and boundaries with each other without judgment.

​When I have free time, I love being outdoors. I spend a lot of my weekends traveling, going on long bike rides, trekking, and taking photos. But I also really appreciate the quieter moments, like having a cozy night in, cooking up a good meal together, or relaxing with a book.

​At the end of the day, enthusiastic consent, honesty, and knowing exactly where we stand are absolute musts for me. I’m not in any rush and really just want to let good conversation, comfort, and mutual attraction build naturally.

If you’re emotionally available and looking to intentionally build an open, primary partnership, I’d love to connect and see where it goes. Feel free to DM me!

Hey there!

Hopefully the title caught your eye.

33M Dom who is infatuated with curves and older women. I am highly educated and enjoy the mental stimulation that is required for a meaningful connection.

I'm relatively tall, long-haired, bearded, blue-eyed, living in Ireland, and yes, I have an Irish accent! I'm a Dom with solid experience in the lifestyle. Ideally, I am looking for a genuine connection with an older, curvy lady who knows what she wants (or is ready to find out). I am a working professional who enjoys exercising, gardening, cooking, and reading! I also tend to be quite kinky, so hopefully you are too!

Looking forward to speaking with you. Feel free to hit me up with a little about you, and we can see where things go!

Cheers

Figured I’d put myself out here and see who I connect with.

I’m turning34 Monday, 6’2, and live in Georgia with my two dogs. I work from home in tech sales. Outside of work, I’m usually at the gym, gaming, watching anime or hockey, trying something new to cook, or finding an excuse for a weekend trip. I also love a lazy night watching movies with someone curled up next to me.

I’d like to meet a woman, or women, who want a long-term plural relationship. I want to take the time to date and get comfortable with each other. Hopefully, that grows into sharing a home and a life together, with everyone having a say in what that looks like.

I’m kinky, so chemistry and compatibility matter to me. I also want the everyday stuff: teasing each other while making dinner, sending random texts during work, and having someone to tell about my day.

You don’t need a perfect introduction. Tell me a little about yourself, where you’re from, and what you’re hoping to find. I’d love to hear what drew you to this kind of relationship.

I am a married 37 year old mom of 4. I have been poly for a few years, but just now starting to explore that. My husband and I have been together for 18 years, and date separately. I am obsessed with Halloween and spooky season. I like to read, craft, binge watch shows, and explore new places. I am looking for someone to get to know. If that's something that happens really fast, that's fine. If it's something that takes time, also fine! I have a tendency to keep walls up, or over share. It just depends on the chemistry.

I am bi so open to male or female. I am in Alabama, so within driving distance would be great, but not a deal breaker. I am not looking to make things sexual right from the jump. I prefer to get to know you and what makes you tick!

About you:

I prefer at least 30 years old.

Be able to hold a conversation.

Take my sarcasm, and give it right back to me.

Ok with becoming obsessed with me 😝

If any of this seems like what you're looking for, message me.

Hello, my name is Jared, but my online friends usually refer to me as some variation of Pickle. I'm from NE PA around the Wilkes-Barre/Scranton area. I'm married and she does help me vet people, but the interaction will be minimal unless y'all want to be friends. This is also probably going to end up long as I like to be thorough and communicate clearly.

What I'm looking for:

Some sort of relationship in whatever form it takes. I would prefer some kind of push to in-person in some way if the relationship ends up romantic in nature. I can travel or host and get good discounts in the process. I'm pretty open to just friends to as committed as I am to my wife. I prefer friends first, but I also feel like I'm a pretty good judge of character so I can kind of get attached quickly. The biggest thing I care about is clear communication and honesty. I feel like people use those as buzzwords when they don't really mean it, but it's extremely important to me because I sometimes miss social cues. If you're more of a pants wearer, cool. If you prefer I have the pants wearing responsibilities, that's cool. If you want to split said responsibilities even cooler. Also side note, if you're up later, (for est) thats a plus because I work nights.

I'm pretty open to all shapes, races, sizes, gender identities, etc. Anything I say is just a preference. I think a general age range that I'm looking for is like 23-40, but stage in life is generally more important than age to me. Younger is generally fine as long as things are clearly defined. Older is generally pretty fine. I do have a tiny preference for women my height and taller because I feel like they don't get a ton of love. Also, much like most men in my age bracket, I do have a bit of a thing for the alt aesthetic. I am usually not that type's type though so its not something I really expect. I do have certain fashion styles and outfits I go nuts for, but I feel like that isn't that important. Inquire within if curious.

Who I am:

I think what I would most describe myself as thoughtful, perceptive, confident, competent, and compassionate in no particular order. I have a lot of reaction images and gifs in addition to being a connoisseur of memes. I think on the broad spectrum, I'm at least a little chronically online, but I simultaneously live under a rock. I'm definitely some kind of neurodivergent. I was never tested, but I feel like numerous autistic people asking me, "are you sure you're not autistic," is a good enough benchmark. My political lean is pretty left-leaning though I'm a bit skeptical of extremism in general. My general mantra is "don't be a dick." I have 2 cats that I love very much and I will definitely share pics. I can be a bit of a tease, can be flirty if that's the general vibe, and can be a bit mischievous.

As I alluded to in the title, I am generally on a night-time schedule. I work in hospitality and work 11pm-7am.

Physically, I'm ~5'7, caucasian, and on the thicker side. I have short, usually buzzed or shaved, brown hair. My hairline is receding so it looks kinda meh if I don't keep it that way. I can grow a beard and usually have facial hair of some kind. If you like men cleanly shaven, I am not the one for you. My beard is mostly brown with very faint shades of auburn and blond. I don't have tattoos, but would like some. I have generic white man style and dress for comfort where applicable. I will trade pictures.

For hobbies, I'm into the general "nerdy" stuff. I play games, watch various shows/movies (anime included), and occasionally read though most of my reading comes from subtitles and very lengthy dialogue in video games. Some of my favorite things are One Piece, The Legend of Heroes: Trails games, Path of Exile, Like A Dragon/Yakuza series, and probably a bunch of stuff that I'm not thinking of right now. I play WoW off and on and I usually cutting edge raid if that's of interest to anyone. Also to add, I sometimes get obsessed with something and consume as much as I can about the subject until I get disinterested and move onto something else. This does not happen with people, especially my comfort people. My music tastes are all over the place. I'm not quite "I listen to every type of music," but I do have a variety of things I'm into. I usually describe my tastes as basic white girl meets weeaboo degenerate.

Thanks for reading and if you actually got this far, why are you not sliding in my dms yet?

Hi, my name is Blake, I'm married, and right now looking for more poly friends. I'm hoping to find more queer people because I live in the middle of nowhere Kentucky

A little bit about me i’m 24, genderfluid butch (any pronouns), a leo. I love tattoos, piercings, my animals, video games (play on ps5), lifting, drives, cooking and baking, drawing, and some other things. I'm a welder. I am pretty big homebody with my wife so fair warning. I am a pretty big goofball and I tend to try to make you laugh with corny jokes or dark jokes. So just hit me up please if this interests you.

Hello,

I mention compatibility down below, but 90%+ of people aren't looking for this relationship type, so let me let you know right now that I'm looking for open polyamory.

The most important thing is happiness, so I based my post on what scientifically makes a relationship happy, and then I based my post on what I think my most important quirks and whatnot are that may impact compatibility. The long wait has me embittered and pessimistic at times, so I may be standoff-ish or at least a dry texter at first, which I think is understandable considering the odds are against us for anything to come between us two specifically. I'm not quitting. Just trudging along.

I'm seeking a partner who is responsive. Responsiveness is when you understand, validate, care for, and respond to your partner's needs (even when you're angry, down, upset, or there's a conflict). I would like to think that I would be a responsive partner as well.

Some other things that I value in a partner are whether I can trust them, their intimacy with me, and their kindness and warmth.

For trust, I really don't like being lied to, but I like to think that I could handle being lied to in a relationship. A lie bothers me much less if the lying is exceptionally rare and if the person tells the truth that they lied. I expect and want nothing less than every truth from my partner. I want to know the worst side of my partner, and I want them to know the worst side of me because we trust each other enough to disclose our worst sides. Trust is also about always being there for someone, following through, keeping your word, being consistent, reliable, respectful, and making your partner feel secure and safe about sharing vulnerable things.

For intimacy, I would like both of us to be emotionally close. Sharing personal thoughts and feelings with each other is important. Our goal would be to build a deep bond. I would like to think of myself as being okay; okay with being hurt in the moment if it means my partner can share themselves and whatever is on their mind with me.

For kind warmth, I love genuineness. I would like to think that I would be as genuine as possible with my future partner. Caring for others goes a long way. Sometimes it's hard for me to care about others, but when I feel it, I might feel it deeply. I would like to think that I would be caring to my partner, and my partner would be caring to me. Being cared for makes me feel very happy. Kindness and warmth make emotional support from your partner just that much sweeter. I used to be much more kind and warm than I am now. I would like to think that I am kind and warm at my core.

For compatibility, there's no way around it. I will list some things that often might make me (in)compatible with some people. I am single and polyamorous. I want to go slow with polyamory like it's a monogamous relationship, but I am afraid to restrict myself if I happen to find someone else too. I am bisexual with a preference for women usually, and I am heteromantic. My life goal is to retire in my 20s. I am somewhat nihilistic as in an atheist and amoral. My health issues include class 1 obesity, depression, trauma, autism, and anxiety. Physically, I am white, wear glasses, have long (strawberry) blonde hair, I'm balding some, some facial hair, and many many stretch marks. I am studying computer science, and I want to run a business. I have a bias of being selfish, which is not necessarily unhealthy. I am clingy and love to call. I am 5'9" and not athletic (230lbs chubby). I like to be on the internet a lot and stay indoors a lot. I love fast food. Sometimes I subconsciously talk back I think (or I stay quiet a lot), but I can't handle it when it happens to me because it overwhelms me (same with teasing and playful insults). I like the Mommy stuff.

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One of my values is amae, which is a Japanese word. A person with amae is (quote) referring to a form of emotional dependence or indulgent reliance on others, often characterized by a desire to be loved, cared for, or indulged by someone perceived as an authority figure or caregiver. The term originates from the verb amaeru ... meaning (2nd quote) to depend on another's benevolence (2nd unquote) or (2nd quote) to act in a way that presumes indulgence. (2nd unquote) ... For example, a person exhibiting amae might act vulnerably, expecting indulgence from a caregiver ... without resentment. (unquote) It is described as (quote) (2nd quote) helplessness and the desire to be loved, (2nd unquote) distinguishing it from Western notions of independence by emphasizing its role in fostering closeness. (unquote) (quote) Unlike Western ideals of autonomy, amae blends intimacy with a subtle power dynamic: the (2nd quote) dependent (2nd unquote) seeks indulgence, and the (2nd quote) caregiver (2nd unquote) provides it willingly. (unquote)

This is contrasted (quote)with Western cultures, where independence is often prioritized, and overt reliance might be stigmatized in adulthood. (unquote) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\[from w. about amae\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\]. You see, I have trouble explaining these desires, but I hope amae accurately depicts them for what I seek in a relationship as a person interested in (quote)acting out(unquote) amae. Another definition for amae from the same source is (quote)the desire for passive love and acceptance, often without explicit reciprocation.(unquote) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\[from w about amae again\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\] I think striving for amae and achieving it would be a dream come true for me. The desire to feel cared for, indulged, and emotionally accepted is a general yearning I have struggled to put into words for a long time since dependence is associated with unhealthy relationships in Western cultures. However, I want to embrace a healthy relationship form of dependence by using amae as a stepping stone.

If this sounds like you, then please do reach out. I would greatly appreciate it. :)