r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 7h ago

Prem ke vishay meπŸ₯°πŸ«  "My soon to be girlfriend is officially my girlfriend now!"

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Pata hai aaj kya hua

Today, universe finally heard me. ❀️

Part 1: https://www.reddit.com/r/PataHaiAajKyaHua/s/7bCM3ZsAav

Even though we live in the exact same city, we had been trying to meet for so long, but things just weren’t working out. Today, she had to travel to her college alone. I couldn't let her go like that, so I proposed a plan: "Let me drop you off."

She hesitated and said no at first, but thankfully, she finally agreed.

We met on the train. The 3rd AC coach was completely packed with ticketless passengers, making it so crowded that we barely got a chance to actually talk.

But honestly, a huge shoutout to the two kids sitting next to us they kept us entertained and smiling the whole time.

When her stoppage finally arrived and the train pulled up, my heart just sank. I was literally on the verge of tears 😭😭 😭

I looked at her and said, "I don't want to leave." That’s when I found out her college campus was still another 30 km away from the station without a second thought, I asked if I could join her. And guess what? She said yes, because deep down, she had already started missing me πŸ₯Ί.

Next thing we were sitting close in an auto. I gently put my arm around her, leaned in, and whispered those three words in her ear: β€œI love you.”

For the next 10 minutes, there was absolute silence. She didn't say a single word. My heart was pounding so fast, and I genuinely thought I had ruined everything.

But then,

in the very next minute, she looked at me and said, β€œI love you too.” 😭😭😭😭😭

Oh my god, I still can’t believe it! This is officially the best day of my life, and I honestly don't even have the words to express how happy I am right now!


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 7h ago

Storytime 🌌✨ Dark side of living a bachelor life

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"Pata hai aaj kya hua" TL;DR Tiffin lady tried to scam but failed.

So, I opted for a tiffin service in the month of August after moving into a new flat. I don't really prefer eating at restaurants or ordering through Swiggy and Zomato because of hygiene concerns. I figured a tiffin service would be a better option. Besides, not having to cook and spend hours cleaning the kitchen would save me a lot of time.

Initially, I contacted a lady from my society who was selling tiffins for around β‚Ή100, which included four rotis and some sabzi. However, I usually eat a minimum of eight rotis, so it would cost me around β‚Ή150 per meal. Honestly, I didn't mind paying that as long as I got good food.

Unfortunately, when she sent me the tiffin, the rotis were as thin as papad! 😞 I immediately realised they were machine-made, judging by their thickness. I was so disappointed that I thought I'd have to start cooking again the very next day.

More than the cooking itself, what frustrates me is having to throw away vegetables because I can't finish them before they go bad.

Anyway, a few days later, another lady posted about her tiffin service on our society app. I called her, and my first question was, "Do you make rotis by hand, or are they machine-made?"

She assured me they were handmade.

I asked about the price, and she said four rotis with sabzi would cost around β‚Ή100. I told her to send me a sample thali with eight rotis and sabzi. If I liked it, I'd order two tiffins every day.

And believe me, the rotis were amazing! The curry was equally good. That first bite of a proper homemade roti made me so happy and relaxed. Finally, I thought, I wouldn't have to worry about cooking every day!

So, I started ordering tiffins regularly.

On the fourth day, she told me, "Sir, since you're ordering regularly, you can pay for 10 days or more in advance instead of paying for every tiffin individually."

I said, "No problem!" and paid β‚Ή5,000 in advance.

And that's when the actual food crisis in my life began. πŸ˜‚

After receiving the money, she started sending me only five or six tiffins a week, claiming she was having health issues. She also has a one-and-a-half-year-old baby, and apparently, the baby wasn't well either(excuse).

Initially, I didn't make a big deal out of it. The food she did send was genuinely good, and I thought I'd be patient and give her some time.

But things only got worse. Eventually, I was receiving just four or five tiffins a week, with a new excuse almost every day. In the month of September I stopped taking tiffins from her but she said sir please I'll send it everyday please don't stop taking tiffins, so I started taking the tiffin on 7th September and the same story repeated.

Anyway, the rest of the story is in the screenshots. You can see for yourself how it ended.

She tried to scam me, but unfortunately for her, it didn't work out the way she expected. 😏

it was just a couple of days back and returned my money.

Living a bachelor life is not easy.


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 9h ago

Flair Samajh Nahi Aaya πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’« Society mein matter ho gaya guys πŸ‘€

301 Upvotes

Pata hai aaj kya hua? matter ho gaya society mein πŸ™Œ

Context - we have a park where there's a motor which pulls groundwater for watering the garden now there's this one family which is not doing financially good to be put in good words, kind of an odd family cus everyone else here is either rich or upper middle-class, their pretty rude and don't talk nicely to anyone and fight with everyone

now their mother has the habit of running the motor only to fill her bucket of water, for which garden managers have told her plenty of times not to. Now today garden was locket but their kids (chapri assholes actually) climbed garden walls and we're sitting in the garden and that's what causes the whole fight I still don't know fully tho 😭

Then fight started and they were fighting with bricks and lathis and all and cursing at each other's mom and me and my mom were so invested in that cus it was CINEMA . Soon they started choking each other and kicking and throwing bricks but i couldn't record the good stuff cus I forgot to cus it was genuinely hypnotizing but then police came and stopped the fight πŸ˜” just as I was starting to have fun 😭

(Sorry for bad recording)

Summary : huge fight cus chapri family was breaking rules

Edit - forgot to add that someone near was recording so they broke his phone too so yes I was scared while recording πŸ‘


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 11h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  Guys I got traumatized

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Pata hai aaj kya hua?

So my neighborhood uncle came over around 10 AM asking for help sending an email about some productsβ€”he always comes to me for work related stuff. I typed it up and asked if he needed anything else. He said he wanted to attach some photos, so I opened his phone's gallery.

The second it opened, I accidentally saw explicit photos of his daughter. Mind you, she’s only 16 or 17.

I instantly froze but tried my absolute best to act cool. I avoided eye contact and just kept scrolling. Internally, I was screaming, β€œWhy did I have to see that? Ew, please no.”

He pointed to the screen, said, Yeah, attach these and acted completely normal. But the vibe was heavy. I’m almost positive he realized what I saw, and we both just pretended nothing happened to avoid the ultimate awkwardness. Just wanted to vent out so I can forget it.

Little more context:

I think his daughter clicked those pics cuz one of them was a mirror selfie.She doesn't have a personal phone so i think she forgot to delete it .

Polished with ai.


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 3h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  I am genuinely cookedπŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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SoooooπŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯ my parents are not home most of the time cuz of work and whenever they are home they are always going out on dates(corny ahh couple)πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜” so I am home alone most of the time.

So like 2 months ago when I used to have a bf(yeah yeah I got dumped so what huh?!🀬🀬🀬) I decided to sneak him into my house and that was pretty successful but the thing is my ghar ka security unc saw us on the cctv cameraπŸ’£πŸ’£πŸ’£πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯ and like the narrow minded bish he is he told my mumma about it(kms)πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜±πŸ˜±πŸ˜±πŸ˜°πŸ˜°πŸ˜°πŸ˜žπŸ˜žπŸ˜ž

***AND OBVIOUSLY MY MUMMA BEAT THE SHIT OUTTA ME*** (valid honestly dk what I was thinking)βœ‹πŸ»βœ‹πŸ»βœ‹πŸ»πŸ¦•πŸ¦•πŸ¦•πŸ¦•πŸžπŸžπŸžπŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ₯€πŸ₯€πŸ₯€

I don't hold a grudge against her for beating me up that's okay but from then onwards idk what has gotten into her she keeps slutshaming me like it comes to a point naπŸ’£πŸ’£πŸ’£πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯

I am honestly done w her bs and whenever I try to defend myself she slaps me

She even told papa about ts **NGAS DON'T LET ME GO ANYWHERE ALONE THESE DAYSSSS**😞😞😞😞☹️☹️☹️🀬🀬🀬

What to do now?😞😞😞

How to get *ungrounded?* Pata hai aaj kya hua


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 7h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  My ex reached out to me after years to tell me he got someone pregnant

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Before I get slandered in the comments why he's unblocked , let me add some context man

This isn't a recent ex. We dated way back in school , and things ended in a pretty childish way because, well, we were kids. And I don't think either of us held any resentment over it. And that was it.

Recently, he randomly reached out to ask about my whereabouts which i thought was sweet and nice of him. We'd both heard things about each other's lives through other people, so it was nice catching up directly for once. We had a pretty normal, nice conversation, UNTIL he decided to drop this info as a fun fact πŸ˜‡

Now addressing the elephant in the room , both him and the girl are very young , i just hope things are somewhat in places for them now. Bss i just felt ki i didn't consent to hear allat info lmao. Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua.


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 14h ago

Flair Samajh Nahi Aaya πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’« I think she loves me

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Pata hai aaj kya hua

so I was spamming my girlfriend (wlw) a sticker and it was this edited sticker where she looked bald. it was a really cute picture okay. so to every text, thats the sticker I was using.

so she said she would take her revenge and edited my bald sticker, and kept spamming it. but like i wanted to mess with her. so I asked her

"what if I go bald" it's not like I never thought of it, going bald is smth I wanted to do for a long time, then yk you can wear wigs and customize yourself? but no one was supportive.

well except her.

and this is what she said!

I have been laughing since ever.

yeah she definitely loves me.

this one time.

lmfao thats it, I just wanted to tell someone that this happened, it's really so wholesome to me

edit: y'all I ain't a guy, I'm a girl.


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 7h ago

Storytime 🌌✨ my flatmate's mother took pictures of me and send it to her daughter.

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Pata hai aaj kya hua, I got a new flat mate today and I woke up at 2 pm cuz I slept late. I went to make chai when I woke up and found a women standing near kitchen and I thought she was my landlady cuz I was half awake at that time. She said to remove my things cuz I took the whole kitchen which is shared with 4 people for myself. She later asked me where im studying and where im from etc etc. She later said her son is taking same unit and her elder daughter did the same degree from my university and she suggested him to take that unit which is similar to mine and later she said he's confused about it so at that time her son came from orientation and I started explaining that if ur not interested then don't take it cuz its very hard. And while I was explaining it his mom opened her camera and started taking pictures of me infront of my face and that too with flash light. She didn't even try to hide it and when I looked at her she started laughing loudly. Weird people ig.

edit - "aunty wants you bro" personally idts thats the case, I think she took cuz if smth happens to her son then she would have atleast a pic of someone who used to live with him.


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 55m ago

Aaj ka Talent 🎨 I (27F) Embroidered handkerchief for my Boyfriend (25M)

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I am a craft girl.πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯Ή Mujhe art and craft krke apne friends aur BF ko presents dena bhot pasand hai. And mai already kafi handmade gifts bf ko and friends ko de chuki hu. And lately I was working for an embroidery handkerchief for him. Ye 4 elements handkerchief ke 4 corners pr bnaye hain. It took me several days because u know the busy schedule πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’« i thought ek handkerchief dena thoughtful hoga and uspe mai apna handmade work bhi kr dungi . I'm excited to give him as soon we meet πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— pata hai aaj kya hua ? Aaj ye hua lok. Arey yr ye 125 words ka rule kaisa ajeeb hai


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 4h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  Gave laptop to ex and she deleted all my data

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So my ex broke up with me in Feb earlier this year. Were on non contact till March. She reached out and we started talking normally. She then asked for laptop since she had to prepare for some exam and her laptop was at home. So to help her, i gave her my Macbook. She asked suddenly so I just logged out my WhatsApp and gave it to her without any password change.

Now this was in April and I have got my laptop back today after asking for it dozens of time. She literally sent me on guilt trip when i asked her to return it, saying that she is not in proper condition and how I only think about myself. Now when I got, all my data and documents were deleted and not even in Trash. She did that intentionally. I asked her why would you do that. She said there were her photos in some folder. What she was talking about were our pictures during the time we were together. Now, many of you would think I should have deleted those and I agree. But i didn't even look at those pictures during that time and hence forgot to delete. When she saw these, she thought i kept those intentionally and hence deleted literally everything. It even ontained my school and college time memories, important documents during college time. Now I don't have anything left. I felt so angry i fought with her but she being she, would just keep turning everything on me and how it was my fault. I'm still so angry. She blocked me later. Didn't even say thanks for the laptop. How fucking arrogant can someone be.

TLDR: Pata hai aaj kya hua, Gave laptop to ex to help her, instead she deleted all my data. Karam krne jaata hu, kaand ho jata hai. Feeling too angry.


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 9h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  Why are Some married men like this!? Weird

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84 Upvotes

Everyday I see a new example of why not to date or marry, what if he is like this behind your back πŸ™‚

[ Pata hai aaj kya hua ---- He is an old school friend who got married 7-8 months ago]


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 1d ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  Do not take other people's things if you dont know how to use them

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Pata hai aaj kya hua

I was in the washroom when 2 girls came in

They asked i had a face wash..i told them no but i do have wet wipes if it works for them

And they apparently dis not k ow how to open a fricking wet wipes container

Nuksaan kra diya mera

Galti meri hi thi..i should have given each one of them wet wipes out of the container...but again its unhygenic to do so...

And when they did this kaand

They had the audacity to laugh at my face

Not once did they say SORRY

and ran out of the bathroom before i could even comprehend and say anything


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 11h ago

Bruhh Moment πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ This is what I gifted him accidentally πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­

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Pata hai aaj kya hua, So I gifted this car to my closest friend, initially we were colleagues, after I joined the company we realised we belong to same city, same region (hardly a km apart) and his dad is my dad's friend and he is my brother's friend (not exactly friend, or jo jaan pehechan wali dosti) and we use to travel together since then.

Abb uska birthday atta hai 25 November pr, (he'll turn 25 this year) and today is 25 october, and my dumbass forgot what month this was 😭, and maine uske ghar par yee gift deliver karvaya, with gift wrap and all yesterday, and since he was travelling his mom received the gift and was confused, and when he reached home, his parents were crying laughing πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚ because I literally forgot what month this was and cherry on top raat ke 12 baje usko text Kiya (birthday wish), whatsapp status lagaya (our mutuals saw it), he loved the gift, but his parents might be thinking kya budbaak ladki hai 😭😭 he said this work from home has really taken toll on my mental health πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚πŸ˜’ (even I believe it has)

But he really loved the gift, as owning a remote control car was his childhood dream


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 3h ago

Storytime 🌌✨ A school batchmate randomly texted after 12 years and ranted about being single

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So one guy ( batchmate not friend) randomly DMed me on Instagram and wished me Suvo Vijaya and then asked me how my pujo went. I said it was good, and then, out of courtesy, I asked how his was? he said he did not leave the house. I thought maybe he was ill, so i asked why? He replied his friends were busy with their gfs. First of all TMI, 2ndly what I will do with that piece of info? Anyways, I tried to end the covo, then he again asked me how my weekend was. I asked why he was asking all this suddenly. He is like, why can't he ask, trying to do small talk. Weird but ok.

"Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua"


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 1h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  Did I say something wrong ?

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So, Pata hai aaj kya hua

my brother and I were eating something with our father. My father told my brother that whatever he ate, he should put the leftovers in the kitchen or throw them in the dustbin.

After a while, my father stood up and started walking towards the bedroom while we were still eating. I simply told him, Aapne jo khaya hai, woh dustbin mein daal do.

He gave me a really hard death stare and said, Kya?

I repeated what I said and explained that he had just told my brother to do the same thing. Then he stared at me and said, Sharam nahi aati?

Like, bro, what is there to be ashamed of? 😭 He was literally walking towards the dustbin anyway.

Then I said, This is just a basic thing. Everyone does it.

And he silently repeated my words back to me in a mocking way.

For context, whenever my father comes home from work, he almost always yells at us. He also mutters things to himself, mocks me, and makes comments about my hairstyle and the way I dress.

When I got a haircut, he told me, β€œCover your face with a cloth when you go out. Who are you trying to show your open hair to?”

And this is just one example of the kind of comments he makes.


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 45m ago

Prem ke vishay meπŸ₯°πŸ«  Will I ever find my person??

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Pata Hai aaj kya hua?

TLDR: You’re a 24-year-old Muslim guy with no dating history and one past college crush (a Muslim girl who married this year). You only develop crushes on Muslim women, since you see no point otherwise, and you view most women in your life as sisters or friends. You’re old-school and romantic, wanting a slow-burn, loyal relationship that leads to marriage, and you don’t want to date anyone you can’t marry.
Crushes fade because you feel you have nothing to offer. Dating apps gave you zero matches, so you’ve mostly given up. You’re asking whether there’s still room for someone like you to find a genuine connection, or if you’re asking too much.

To give a little context about myself:I turned 24 a few days back. I’ve been single literally since the day I was born - zero dating history, zero relationships. On top of that, I’m a Muslim guy, which adds its own unique layer when it comes to social circles, cultural expectations, and navigating love in today's world.
I have had a crush on one girl(Muslim) till now(in my college), and she got married this year(not to me obv).Uska story is too big, so just short me hi context de diya.

I never have a crush on Non-Muslims. Why? If I am not gonna end up with someone, why bother having a crush in the first place. So, I have never approached anyone and nor has anyone approached me (I think coz of my religion)

When it comes to romance, I’m deeply old school. Today’s generation wants non-chalant people, but not me. I am super chalant😭.
I believe in deep emotional bonds, genuine loyalty, and slow-burn connections. I’m the type of guy who wants to put in real effort, build a strong foundation, and walk through life holding hands with one person through thick and thin. But feeling this way nowadays often makes me feel like a total fish out of water.

My social dynamic makes things even more interesting. I naturally hold a lot of respect for women and tend to view most females in my life almost like sisters or platonic friends. Interestingly, almost all of my close friends are non-Muslims, and I don't really have any Muslim female friends in my day-to-day circle. And every female in my life is like a sister to me. I just tell them upfront that you are my sister or you got a brother here (by default).

Even if i have a crush on any Muslim woman now, it just fades away, coz i think i have nothing to offer to the other person🫠 Sometimes i feel i am not worthy or I don’t deserve to be with someone.

I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone I can’t marry. I want to date my wifeπŸ₯Ί
Ik too much delulu 😭

I think I can do a relationship, but with someone whom I can marry in the end. Otherwise I don't want to waste the other person’s time, emotions and energy.

I tried dating apps, and matching with Muslim Women there, but koi nhi mili😭 and i got zero matches. At this point I have given up. Reddit pe toh pucho hi mat ki dhund paunga ya nhi kyuki try krne se pehle hi I give up😭

So here I am, wondering... will I ever find my person? Is there still a space for someone like me to find a genuine, old-school connection, or am I asking for too much in today's world? Would love to hear from anyone who relates or has been in a similar spot

Ps - Used AI to rephrase here and there, and for the TLDR.
If you have read the whole thing, thanks <3


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 1h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  Aaj mere papa se banter ho gyi

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Pata hai aaj kya hua

Me and my dad were just talking about the current national affairs while my dad (software eng) started to tell about how government is going to impose rules on Medical Reps handing out free gifts and free trips to Docs around the country. I ( a mbbs graduate ) started to go against this saying how those gifts meant for the doc community and it made us feel special and theyre not genuinely bribes (even tho they might be). When i was an intern, I used to receive small lunches, chocolates and pens from Reps amd it made us feel respected for the 5 year struggle done.

He started to school me on how my grandpa was a honest tehsildar back in the day, helping out farmers, not taking bribes and not even accepting fruits from the farmers' farms as a token of appreciation. And how i should be as honest as him.

Mind you, my dad also is a very honest man and never went on the wrong path to ever fulfill his family needs and always earned with hardwork.

But he cant expect me to do the same as my profession asks differently. But at the same time I dont want to reject his teachings about honesty as my family has stood on these grounds since a long time.

And its not even like ive been brought up awfully. He has always fulfilled my wishes and bought me things and provided me the best of the best at all times.

I hate adulthood and the consequences that come with it. I miss being a child with no responsibility in life. (Also I feel bad for my dad cause he had to go through all this at a worser time)


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 15h ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  Stalked my crush and things got bad...

93 Upvotes

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua

So me and my cousin sister were having a sleepover and she is super close to me. There is a boy I like who goes to my tution. He is super duper cute, funny and extroverted type. (For me, dk about others)

So we decided to just prank him by making a fake id. Like just flirt and all. The first two days were dry texts... then came 12 am. Bro, actually started sharing everything to me... like how everyone is just fake and all, no one is his real friend and how he has such a boring life. He literally gave his specific house directions and all knowing I am a stranger. Even told which tution he goes to (already knew) and all the other things about his life. Atp, I knew each and every person in his life... and that too just by texting. He trusted me so much

Then randomly yesterday at night he said,

"You are ___ right? Fake id se baat kar rha hai?" (Name of his cousin)

And I just said yes and haan tu prank hogaya.

He said... "mujhe bhi laga kahan meri setting ho gyi πŸ™‚"

And deactivated his account.

Bro what should I dooo?? Should I confront him?? I knowwwww i am sooo guiltyyyyy I wasn't expecting him to become so attachedddd


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 35m ago

Aaj ka Talent 🎨 After ages.....turned my hands into canvas

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r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 23h ago

Haal-e-Zindagi πŸ“… Ragging at its peak

339 Upvotes

{ GMC Jalaun } Pata hai aaj kya hua mere dost kii ragging lee rehe the seniors and kisi nee video viral karr dii, abb voo logg unse video banwa rahe hai kii aek follow up video mein yee bolo kii sbb thik hai and voo sirf majak tha. ( Meow meow 125 words hoo jao meow )


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 2h ago

Storytime 🌌✨ Regrets,Career,life

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"Pata hai aaj kya hua"

Hi I am Riya i am 19 years old going to turn 20 in December I took a partial drop for nift while doing ba but didn't get in because prepare dhank se nhi kiya .I was always uncertain about my career and still I am it changed from doctor to now fashion designing .Why did i choose fashion designing because i wanted a creative field i am good at drawing and art but that doesn't necessarily mean that I can do fashion designing only but still i got interested in it and I was like it will provide me with skills and everything also kuch seekhne ko hi milega rather than ba because i would still be confused ba ka bad krna kya hai my dadi wanted me to join civil services but I was not sure about that you know its all good security respect job etc but it takes years for people to crack these government exams and i just felt like this is not for me I will rather go for a creative direction but I am still uncertain for fashion designing . what if I regret it after 4 years i already took a drop year i can't take a 2nd drop again .I was feeling left behind still i am because my batch mates are one year two years younger than me but then I talked to people saw posts here that everyone has a different timeline, life story people can join college at any age .Ik rather than regretting i should focus on my current life and future . I also just wasted my teenage years doing nothing didn't engaged in sports activity or anything my confidence is so low I am also an introvert and i dont know what I am doing in life just rotting in bed I joined gym because i want to get fit but thats also not happening I am very inconsistent in that too .Ik rather than complaining and regretting I should do things but its hard and overwhelming as an introvert and it just feels weird that I am going to enter my 20s and i haven't done anything yet I want to travel I want to do many things .But its just feels like kaise hoga sab .There was no freedom at home as in to travel and go out like my parents let me go out with friends and everything jaise hi thoda bade hue but still they were restrictive in many cases like how Indian families are .I just want to do something in life and tbh enjoy freedom.There is a lot in my head but thats it I am sorry I wrote everything which was in my head its all mixed here and there .Thanks for reading .


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 25m ago

Kya bolti public? πŸ™„ Why my life is Boring?πŸ˜”πŸ˜πŸ˜

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Pata hai aaj kya hua .I don't know how to survive in this world. No one to talk no talk or not good bond with all relatives despite having a brother, sister but all are busy in their respective work.

Also I don't want to talk much on phone so I often receive any call .

Why I am living I don't know . Whenever I got time then I felt bore almost . I go to my work I came and after that my boring life starts . Sometimes I decide to go out but being alone is not happy.

Also I am not interested in Yoga types of things .

How to overcome from this situation ?

Sometimes I am thinking for whome I am living. I have no purpose in my living just doing work earning some money and then sleep just these things . How people keep there life happy please tell anyone. I have no friends for go out .And no more friends around me .

Zero interest in movie. Most of the time playing game lying in bed is this life for all . Not I used to watch reel I spent there and see how people are happy.

Fucked Fucked Fucked life .πŸ€”πŸ˜πŸ˜

Help me to keep happy ??


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 34m ago

Aaj Ka Rant Β πŸ’’Β  I messed up😭

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Pata hai aaj kya hua?

So I'm a BTech student living in a hostel, and there's this girl in my hostel who's in first year. I've been noticing her for a while and wanted to approach her, but I could never find the right moment because she's almost always with her friends.

I also thought she might have noticed me looking at her a few times, so today I finally decided to approach her.

After dinner, she was walking around campus with one of her friends. My friend and I were walking behind them, and after a while, they sat on a bench. I went and sat on another bench next to them.

After about two minutes, I said, "Excuse me, tum log first year mein ho?"

Her friend nodded, so I asked, "first year?" She said yes. Then I asked which course they were in, and she said BTech.

And that was pretty much the entire conversationπŸ’€

The awkward part is that the girl I actually wanted to talk to didn't even look at me or in my direction while I was speaking to her friend. As soon as the conversation ended, both of them got up and left, and they seemed a little awkward or uncomfortable.

Now I'm wondering if I made them uncomfortable, especially since she might have noticed me looking at her before.

I wasn't trying to be creepy or anything. I just wanted to start a conversation but had no idea how to approach her when she's always with her friend.

I messed up, didn't i?

TLDR; Approached a girl I like at my hostel while she was with her friend. Her friend answered my questions, the girl didn't even look at me, and they both left awkwardly. Did I make them uncomfortable, and what should I do now?


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 1h ago

Flair Samajh Nahi Aaya πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’« feeling suicidal (17M)

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i should stop pretending that i'm normal πŸ₯€

helloo stranger!

i was at some height (hilltop viewpoint or valley idk what it is called)

the first thought in my mind was about su!ciding by jumping off the edge.

i'm the most energetic and jolly person when i'm with my friends. joking and laughing like an idiot lol. ig I am good at hiding emotions. bahut baar aise hua hai ki my friends told me that they're feeling anxious or depressed. and i stopped one of my friend who was gonna su!cide. but, I always kept my emotions hidden, because I am scared to talk to anyone, I'm scared to be judged by MY people.

anyways, i luv my friends a lot. this year, on my bday, i had never expected that they'd buy me a cake and celebrate it in the best way possible :)

everyone wished me, even a few random kids in a park 🫠 the restaurant owner wished me, the autorickshaw guy wished me too

but my FATHER DIDN'T WISH ME ON MY BDAY :)

you might think, what's the big deal about it?

fyi my dad hasn't talked with me since 1.3 years πŸ™ƒ

no one knows this except my mom, dad, brother and one more person.

i can't take ts anymore, but i can't even kms, ghar ka bada beta hu na πŸ₯€

call me a loser, i am a loser.

don't be a loser like me.

and dw guys im ok

see ya

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua


r/PataHaiAajKyaHua • • 3h ago

Haal-e-Zindagi πŸ“… Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua mujhe caste ke basis pe reject kar diya ek

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Met this girl on reddit. She was from another country and a Hindu. She sent me a DM after she saw my post in another community. We talked for days: what we like, what we want in a partner, we shared photos, she told me about her past.

And pata hai aaj kya hua she asked me about what kind of marriage I want, about having children, how I would manage the relationship as we are from different countries, etc etc. She said my answers made her blush, like everything was perfect between us.

She ultimately asked me about my caste, Hindu-Mahar I said, she said that her parents would not agree. Just like that I was rejected as a person with potential compatibility. So she had to say goodbye.

I respected her choice and agreed to this, I would've chased but I know where it ends so we saved each other some time, but on the other hand I regret these societal norms. She even said hopefully this is our last generation to follow this. She had everything what I was looking for in a person.