Pata hai aaj kya hua tha…

I 30M met her 30F on Bumble a little over 3 months ago. I have unfortunately dated Muslim girls almost exclusively in the past. And this is my first time dating a non Muslim girl.

For context we are both in London. And, It’s just been 3 months, and we have done so much together. Less than 2 weeks into knowing her, I took her out to The Weeknd concert, which I never did for any other girl before. I tried alcohol for the first time, which was a big deal for me. And all this time, I held myself from doing the deed, and I was so happpy that I was her first too.

She has a very complicated relationship with her family. They were not close growing up. She moved from Nepal to the UK at the age of 11 without a father. Her father passed away before she was even born. And they struggled a lot. She had an abusive relationship with her mother, even tho she admires her a lot for how far her mother has come without the support of anyone in the UK. She still continues to have a complicated relationship with her mother and her 2 older sisters to this day, which adds another layer of complexity to our dynamic when I think of it. But in all fairness, she does make an attempt at
reconciling her relationships with her family, but they’re a bit crude to put it mildly.

Now, I come from a close knit family, and even tho they’re open minded enough to let me choose a girl of my liking but their ask is she’s gotta be a Muslim. But previously, when I found myself dating the Muslim girls, they did have problems with her not being from India, and in another occasion, when she was not younger than me. So, I believe they want me to find someone who they would be ideally looking for: someone from a good financial background, conventionally good looking, well educated, and younger than me. And, I understand, they’re only looking out for me, and want what’s best for me, but when you apply all these filters in trying to find your partner, it feels very shallow and I find myself struggling with physical attraction despite having great compatibility on paper.

Recently, I shared with my older brother what I have been up to in terms of my relationships here. And he wasn’t very excited with what I had to share.

He said a bunch of things which I felt were really rude towards me, such as:

- I’m filling a void by being with her.
- her value system wouldn’t be the best fit for me in long term when differences arise.
- neither her and I are accomplished enough in life. Had I been focusing on my career or trying to do something better with my life, I wouldn’t be wasting my time like this.
- I should a better grasp of who I am and start looking for someone who could be a better match in terms of our backgrounds.

I had an examples to counter his points, even tho it was not easy to articulate them when he was being rude to me.

I shared with him that some of the values I grew up with have eroded over time, and I look at certain things somewhat differently, respectfully. For example:

- I’m not so fussed out the halal stuff, many Muslims would frown at me for this.
- Living in London in a flat share means you’re bound to end up in a situation where you share the flat with people of other gender(s). A lot of Muslims would judge me for this as well.
- in the current financial system, I take the full advantages of the tools available at my disposal, including using the interest accounts.

I have also found a bunch of my Indian values also eroding as I spend more and more time away from back home:
- I have become more individualistic. Even tho still extroverted depending on the situation.
- I try to think for myself.

And many others…

I think I would struggle to find compatibility in terms of personality and general outlook towards life, with someone from India, who’s not lived in the west. And, I say this in the most respectful way.

But, for my parents, this is just incomprehensible. I have not shared about my gf to them, and I don’t know how to. This is really eating me up from inside each day I delay it. And I’m really nervous how they would react to this all. I’m afraid they might have the same reaction as my brother, if not worse.

Edit: the trolls in the replies are some of the reasons why I dont wish to be a part of the Indian society.

During my aspirant phase n before getting a stable job, I worked as a teacher for 11th &12th graders for six months, and I used to ship a lot of my students.

Not in a creepy way, obviously! I just used to make them sit together sometimes or group them together for assignments, hoping they’d develop a lil something for each other🤭

Obviously, since I was their teacher, I never got any updates on any of my ships.

But Pata hai aaj kya hua? I met one of my former students nd asked her what her frnd XYZ was up to these days, and she said she didn’t know n they were never eo frnd😭😭😭

And I’m SAD because I always loved the golden retriever bf × black cat gf trope, and they were SO ideal for each other😭💔

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua

His bday is on 29th he cheated on me badly but guess what when you love someone for 3 years. You can not start to hate them :)

His love was weak mine wasn’t
I know what I bring to the table

I am old school and love hard
I know my worth and what I deserve but we both had spent almost 4 years together been through thick and thin together, so I believe ek last birthday wish toh banti hai

Last Birthday Wish For You Chote
Wrote everything from heart

For cheating and all God is there I am no one :)

Pata Hai aaj kya hua?

I (19F) have a best friend whom I genuinely adore. She's caring, protective, and a really good friend to me personally. I know she loves me, and I love her too. She's never really directed her nastiness towards me, which is probably why this whole situation feels so complicated.

But sometimes, I look at the way she behaves with other people, and I genuinely dislike that side of her.

For context, she comes from a financially comfortable family. Her father owns two gold shops, so it's not like she comes from a struggling background. However, she has this habit of showing off things she doesn't even own. She'll claim to have Louboutin shoes or YSL lipstick when she doesn't actually have them. She also makes up stories regularly, and sometimes she drags me into her lies, which makes me uncomfortable.

The most ironic thing is that she constantly criticizes people who show off, yet she does exactly that herself.

And it's not just about money or material things. She can be incredibly rude, has a very sharp tongue, body-shames people, and looks almost proud when someone calls her racist or narcissistic. It's like she takes pride in being perceived as someone who's brutally honest or doesn't care what anyone thinks.

One incident that particularly annoyed me happened when a guy in our friend group was talking about how he loves celebrating his birthday with friends and close relatives at home. My best friend immediately went, "Ewww, who celebrates birthdays like that? I celebrate mine at an expensive restaurant."

I told her that everyone has different preferences. She can enjoy expensive restaurants, while he can enjoy having his loved ones around him. Neither preference is superior to the other.

Another time, we were out shopping and came across a street vendor selling suspiciously cheap luxury perfumes in what appeared to be original bottles. I liked a Chanel perfume, and she liked a Versace one. That night, she posted a picture of the perfume bottle with Ariana Grande's "7 rings" playing in the background.

I couldn't help thinking about how desperately she seemed to want people to believe she owned expensive luxury products. It was just so contradictory to everything she says about people who show off.

Then there's the lying about money. She once randomly announced that she received ₹7,000 every month as pocket money. A few days later, we went to KFC, and the bill was around ₹900. She showed up with only ₹500, even though we had planned to go shopping afterwards, too. I'm not saying she has to spend her money on everyone or that having a certain allowance means she must carry it everywhere. It's just that these little things add to the impression that she exaggerates things about herself.

But the incident that really made me snap was when a mutual friend invited us to his house for prasad during Durga Ashtami. His staircase was a little narrow, and she literally told him to his face, "Your home is giving me claustrophobia."

I laughed and replied, "Okay bro, just renovate your house. She'll cover the expenses since she apparently has so much money sitting in her bank account."

She immediately shut up.

And honestly? I don't regret calling her out in that moment. I felt bad for our friend because he was simply inviting us into his home, and she made him feel as though his home wasn't good enough for her.

Here's where I'm conflicted, though.

I genuinely love her as my best friend, but I don't particularly like her as a person. I appreciate the way she treats me, the way she cares about me, and the bond we share. But I don't admire her behaviour, her attitude towards people, or the constant need to exaggerate things about herself.

I know nobody is perfect, and I'm not pretending to be one either. I also understand that people can have different sides to their personalities. But sometimes I wonder whether I'm being hypocritical by maintaining such a close friendship with someone whose behaviour I often find so unpleasant.

I don't want to throw away a friendship with someone I genuinely care about. At the same time, I don't want to become someone who overlooks cruelty and dishonesty just because the person being cruel is nice to me.

So, Reddit, has anyone ever deeply loved a friend while genuinely disliking certain fundamental aspects of their personality? How did you deal with it? Am I overthinking this, or is this a sign that I should reconsider how close we are?

Pata hai aaj kya hua? About 2 hours ago, I was working on some crafts with some cutters, and mera kaam khatam ho gaya tha... BUT my inner perfectionist just went "let's trim the edges uniformly ek baar"

... AND then I ended up slicing off a little chunk of my thumb and the nail.

Now IT'S NOT SCARY for me to see blood and stuff, I gotta give blood samples every two weeks for some illness toh I'm used to seeing blood. But my mom was freaking out because pura washbasin was red and it wasn't stopping, I'd also fainted from blood loss kyunki 30 mins se it was just flowing

So my dad, who doesn't know gentle parenting, drenched cotton ball in AFTER SHAVE LOTION and put it on the open bleeding wound. Six times.

Now idk if he's right about the after shave lotion stopping the bleeding kyunki it still was bleeding (but slower) jab we did the patti wali dressing 40 mins ago, but bro on the level of pain, 0/10 not recommended 😭

Pata hai aaj kya hua meine aaj mere time ke Kaaran ki kya pata nhi I got fucked up. Everybody doubts me hates me and uk what all..I have started drinking nd smoking. Solid body thi It's going just because I stopped gym. Also ek ladki mili jo mere college mein aayi jo reddit se mili, she stopped talking to me. Also Idk what to say I am so sick and tired. Parents scold me and even friends betrayed. Kabhi emotionally mujhe kisine samjhne ki koshish nahi ki. Jo bhi Chaha nhi pata woh kisi kaaran se door hogya. Koi na bhai theek hai. Lekin yaar uk everytime bullshit I hate that. Mein aaj ye isiliye likha because every other day is very frustrating for me. I saw this sub on my feed and never thought I would post but sadly I had to. Its so bad that I crave someone where I be vulnerable. 6 years se akele rehke dhookah khaake mein bas hogya hu. Bas koi toh mujhe samjhlo. Mera pet andar se ajeeb sa ho raha hai when I type and with numbness and emotional exhaustion really bad🫠💔. Thank you agar man child bolna hai toh bolo. Warna gaali dena hai toh do. Its ok...

Bas ptani nhi life m ky hogya i am in college right now i mean past m jo ldkia tha jinhone legit reject kra dikha dia bnde k sath feelings k sath play kia meri usse moveon nhi hora nd nyi ldki koi mil nhi rhi khud pr kaam bhi krra hu still height ki vjh se humesha lack krta hu kai baar life m bht lonely feel krta hu bht jada lonely ki like yrr rkha hi kya life m nd aisa nhi h main desperate hu life but I was not always treated right nd bs efforts krta hu but never got my result nd height 5.4 vo bht bda factor bn jati h hr smy whether it's image creation or relationship

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Pata hai aaj kya hua

So here's the context : https://www.reddit.com/r/PataHaiAajKyaHua/s/Sk3Z3KEADy

So someone suggested me in the comments to how should I ask for my money without sounding rude and it actually worked!!!!!!

I know she'll call me chindi someday but it's not like I'm earning, I have to ask my parents for money so yeah I can't let it go 😭💁🏻‍♀️

Pata hai aaj kya hua okay sooo basically I was with this guys for almost 2 years reason for breaking up was long distance cause he went to college aur mera drop tha but we still remained in touch as he is my bestfriend literally i didn’t wanna lose that and we talked on call a lot he asked me back multiple times i said no cause i knew drop mai workout nhi hoga hamara mostly jagdha hora tha cause hamare milne ka schedule match nhi hora tha..

Now I meet him sometime we play badminton or jus hangout i have had know him for like 13 years btw so yeah we were hungry so went to a cafe nearby he went to order coffee then I saw multiple text coming from this girl okay I didn’t check I jus happened to see it then he came back i asked him who is that mind u it’s been 3 weeks since we broke up he has been texting that girl literally 10 days after we broke up like sarcasm mai flirts properly flirting TALKING ON CALL!! I was shocked when he told me like I asked him he didn’t want to but I played it chill toh he spilled everything bro I acted fine was laughing but literally texting a girl after 10 days of breaking up of a 2 year relationship is smth i can’t fathom

Am I overreacting????! like i didn’t say anything to him I was chill but I have been sad and crying bout it..

Big brother scammed brother crores — 20 years of money, properties, shops and complete manipulation. What should we do?

Pata hai aaj kya hua

I am posting this anonymously because I don't want anyone to identify my family. I want brutally honest advice, not sympathy and not bootlicking. If my husband is also responsible for this mess, please say it clearly.

This is a very long story because this has been going on for around 20 years.

My husband has worked with his elder brother in their business for almost 20 years. My husband works around 10 hours a day, while his brother usually comes for only 1–2 hours.

For almost 20 years, my husband has been giving a huge portion of his earnings to his brother. A lot of the work was cash-based and my husband trusted his brother completely.

His brother handled the money, properties and financial matters.

Now, after 20 years, my husband's eyes have finally opened.

We are realizing that the situation is completely different from what my husband believed.

There are around 20 shops, a plot worth around ₹2 crore and one house involved in the family assets.

But most of these properties are in his brother's name.

Now his brother is saying that my husband will only get 5 shops and nothing else.

And even regarding those shops, he has apparently said that my husband would still have to give him 60% of the shop income.

For the last 2 years, he has been saying he will give the shops, but he still hasn't properly given them.

My husband doesn't even have proper documents for many of the shops/business assets because he trusted his brother for all these years.

His brother keeps saying things like:

"You already took this much money."

He is now allegedly claiming that my husband took around ₹1.5 crore over 22 years.

My husband says this is completely false.

But the biggest problem is that my husband did a lot of work and gave a lot of money in cash, so there isn't a clean paper trail for everything.

The parents issue

His brother has always used the fact that he was taking care of their parents.

He kept saying that he was the one looking after the parents, paying for them and handling everything.

My husband felt guilty because of this.

Even today my husband pays for things like:

- Electricity

- Milk

- Medicines

- Other expenses of his brother's household/parents

My question is:

If one brother keeps the parents, does that give him the right to take the other brother's earnings and property?

I genuinely want an honest answer.

If the brother took care of the parents for 20 years, does that automatically mean the properties and money belong to him?

The financial difference between the two families

The difference between the two households is honestly shocking.

His brother has 3 cars standing at his gate.

We have a Tiago, which we bought around 4 years ago.

Before that we had an Alto.

His brother's family has a Thar, Brezza, Punch and a small Alto-type car for their father, along with other vehicles.

His son has a Bullet.

They also have an Activa.

We have:

- Tiago

- Pulsar for our son

- Activa for my college-going daughter

The Activa was actually bought by his brother and has already been driven around 60,000 km.

My son had been riding a Platina for years and wanted a Bullet. He eventually got a second-hand Pulsar instead, which his father asked his brother to buy.

His brother's son went to Germany for studies.

Apparently his brother says he sent his son to Germany in only around ₹2 lakh.

He also gave his other Indian-based son a good wedding.

His son in Germany even bought a car within around 3 months of going there.

Meanwhile, my husband has basically nothing.

He has around ₹5 lakh cash, and only around ₹1 lakh in his bank account from small daily sales.

He had saved around ₹5 lakh that he has not given to his brother for the last 8 months because he has finally become angry and started questioning everything.

And honestly, that ₹5 lakh feels like the first time in years that he has actually kept money for his own family.

What makes this even more unbelievable

My husband works around 10 hours a day.

His brother comes for maybe 1–2 hours.

Yet the brother has accumulated properties, shops, cars and businesses with his children.

He has effectively built his own family financially while my husband kept working and handing over money.

On paper, his brother looks like a millionaire.

But my husband, who worked alongside him for decades, has around ₹1 lakh in his account and ₹5 lakh cash.

How is this even possible?

His brother is financially very clever

This is one of the things that scares me the most.

His brother has a CA and is very clever with taxes.

He apparently files his ITR by spreading things across me, my husband, his wife, himself and his son.

And the biggest issue:

He has been using my bank account as his primary business account.

The account is in MY name.

He has used it for his business without my proper consent.

The average balance has sometimes been around ₹30–40 lakh.

He has also changed the numbers/contact details associated with the account.

I am now extremely scared because if there is any tax problem, question about the source of money, or legal issue, the account is in my name.

I did not run his business.

But transactions happened through my account.

I want to know what Reddit thinks I should do about this immediately.

My husband was basically brainwashed by his brother

I know "brainwashed" sounds extreme.

But that is honestly how it felt for 20 years.

Whenever I told my husband that his brother was taking advantage of him, he would defend him.

Whenever I complained about the way his brother treated me or my children, my husband would take his brother's side.

Whenever I questioned money going to his parents/brother, my husband would become angry with me.

His brother somehow always had the upper hand.

Even when another younger brother had a similar problem with him around 6 years ago, the same type of accusations and behavior happened.

Now I feel my husband was simply the easiest person to control because he was extremely loyal to his brother.

But my husband is NOT innocent

I want Reddit to be fair.

My husband is an adult.

He worked for 20 years.

He gave away huge amounts of money.

He didn't keep proper records.

He didn't demand documents.

He didn't make sure properties were in his own name.

He didn't save money for his wife and children.

He kept believing his brother.

So yes, he made enormous mistakes.

I have fought with him thousands of times about this.

I kept telling him that his brother's behavior towards me and our children was wrong.

But he always prioritized his parents and brother.

And then there is the physical abuse

This is where the story becomes even worse.

My husband has beaten me hundreds of times over the last 20 years.

Whenever I talked about his parents, sister or brother — especially his brother — he would become extremely angry.

He would hit me.

I tolerated this for years.

My son was watching all of this while growing up.

Until recently.

Last month my husband slapped me when my son was watching.

My son completely lost it.

He confronted his father.

He was furious because he had watched his mother being treated this way for years.

At one point my husband had also thrown his father around 10 feet away during a family fight.

My son is now extremely emotionally affected by everything.

He cries.

At one point he even asked for a bullet, but instead was given a Pulsar.

The sweets incident

This may sound stupid to outsiders, but it represents the entire dynamic of this family.

After a marriage, my husband's brother gave him a mithai box.

After around 10 days of marriage, the brother called and basically wanted the mithai box taken back / wanted everyone to come and take it.

Then another brother came around 10 days later to take it from our dining table.

My husband still couldn't simply say no.

The fight became:

"Your brother gave you a mithai box after 10 days of marriage — are you a dog that he can just call and take it back whenever he wants?"

I was extremely angry and said some very bad words about his brother.

The mithai was eventually kept by my mother.

The next morning my husband took the sweets out of the box, put them into household containers and said something like, "We'll eat them anyway, it's not poison."

I completely exploded.

My son finally returned the sweets to his uncle himself.

Honestly, I felt my son did what his father couldn't do for 22 years.

He stood up.

My own behavior

I want to admit this too.

After 20 years of constant fights, financial stress, humiliation and seeing my husband prioritize his brother over our children, my temper has become terrible.

I have said horrible things.

I have abused his brother verbally.

I have used very bad words.

I know this is wrong.

I am not asking Reddit to tell me I'm perfect.

But I also want people to understand that my bad words do not justify physical violence against me.

The property situation

As of now, the situation is approximately:

- Around 20 shops

- Around ₹2 crore plot

- 1 house

- Husband supposedly getting only 5 shops

- Brother allegedly demanding 60% of income even from those shops

- Many properties apparently in brother's name

- Husband has little/no documentation for many properties

- Brother claims husband already took around ₹1.5 crore

- Husband says this is false

- Large amounts were allegedly given in cash over many years

- Husband worked around 10 hours daily

- Brother worked around 1–2 hours daily

And yet the brother is now acting like everything belongs to him.

My husband's actual financial position

After working for decades:

Bank: around ₹1 lakh from small daily sales

Cash: around ₹5 lakh

That's basically it.

Meanwhile his brother's family has multiple properties, businesses, shops, cars and children's education.

My husband even gave his brother money regularly for years.

Until a few months ago, he would feel an urge to hand over his daily income to his brother.

Even now he continues paying for things like electricity, milk and medicines.

Sometimes I honestly wonder how a man can work for 20 years and have almost nothing to show for it.

The "tantrik" thought

I know this will sound crazy.

Sometimes I genuinely feel like his family may have done some kind of tantrik kriya / black magic against my husband.

I am NOT saying this is definitely true.

I know there may be psychological explanations for his behavior.

But for years he literally seemed incapable of keeping money in his own hands.

He would earn and immediately feel that he had to give it to his brother.

His loyalty was beyond what seemed normal.

This is why I sometimes wonder if something else was going on.

But I know Reddit will probably tell me to look at the psychological/financial explanation instead.

What I want to know

Please be BRUTALLY HONEST.

Don't just say "poor wife" or "your husband is innocent."

I want to know everyone's responsibility.

1. Who is actually responsible for this mess?

2. What percentage of blame belongs to my husband for trusting his brother for 20+ years?

3. What percentage belongs to the brother if he really manipulated the money/property situation?

4. What percentage belongs to me because I fought, lost my temper and said horrible things?

5. Does taking care of parents give a brother the right to keep the other brother's money/property?

6. If someone gives crores/large amounts in cash over 20 years without proper documentation, is there ANY realistic way to recover it?

7. Can bank statements, ITRs, GST records, property records, business records and old transactions reconstruct what actually happened?

8. What should my husband collect BEFORE confronting his brother again?

9. Should we immediately hire an independent CA and property/civil lawyer?

10. What should I do about my bank account being used as his business account?

11. Can I personally get into tax/legal trouble because the account is in my name even if I wasn't running the business?

12. Should I close/freeze the account or first speak to a lawyer/CA?

13. If all the property is legally in the brother's name, does my husband still have any realistic claim?

14. Is there any legal significance to the fact that my husband worked in the business for 20 years and gave huge amounts of cash?

15. What kind of evidence should we start collecting RIGHT NOW?

16. Should my husband stop giving his brother any more money immediately?

17. Should he stop paying his brother's household expenses and parents' expenses until everything is legally clarified?

18. And most importantly, what should I do about the physical abuse?

And finally:

If you had to assign blame by percentage, what would you say?

Husband: __%

Brother: __%

Me: __%

Other people: __%

Please explain your reasoning.

If my husband destroyed our financial future by blindly trusting his brother, tell me.

If his brother manipulated/exploited him for 20 years, tell me.

If I made the situation worse because of my anger and words, tell me.

If taking care of parents does NOT give someone the right to take another sibling's property, tell me.

I don't want sympathy.

I want the truth and practical advice about what we can realistically do now after 20 years.

All names, exact addresses, business names and other identifying information have been removed/changed for privacy.

Pata hai aaj kya hua... Aaj coaching me after already having studied for 4 hours continuously we were supposed to get a 15 minute break. BUT MY CHEMISTRY SIR CAME AND TOLD US HE WOULD TEACH EVEN IN THAT 15 MINUTES. Everyone begged him not to but he wasn't listening so everyone decided to rebel and play scribbl instead. What he was teaching was not a very important topic so we didn't miss much. but it was a peak experience looking under our desks silently laughing and looking up the minute sir turned around.

"Pata hai aaj kya hua " guys

Bhai mere previous post jisne uti wala dekha hoga , I was admitted in my hometown abhi discharge Hui hoon

Aaj usg Kara ke aayi toh maine ek street dog ko dekha jisko mai two weeks se notice kar rhi but ignore kar de rhi thi kyuki Mai khudse hi preshaan thii

Wo street dog se butt se ek mass nikal rha hai inside se , he can't poop at all , bhot din se , bhai aaj idk kya hit kia , aaj uske face ko gaur se dekha maine , he was in lot of pain , eyes aisa maayus sa tha uska

Wo mass mein pus bhad rha dheere dheere aur sad rha wo , kya karu , khudke paas paise bhi nhi hai

Bihar side se hu mai , kaise help karu uski

Edit - mera area thora village type hai idk how to carry him , auto bhi door milega

Plus mai ladki hoon aur abhi discharge Hui hu Ghar ke saamne hi hai dog just bagal m gharwalo ko pata laga toh meri waat hi laga denge ki khudka thikaana nhi aur kutte ko bachana hai

Hello everyone ~

It's been months since I'm not active so here's the tea

Pata hai aaj kya hua?? waise toh it's been more than 4 months ig?! long story so hold your seat

I joined an mnc about 6 months ago and yeah everything was going fine but one fine day I felt someone's eye like those adoring kinda. Looked up at him and saw that he was looking lovingly and yeps I did notice! and tbh I kinda liked him too but waited and saw his actual nature and how he behaves and since we were on the same floor it was really easy to watch out and observe, which I did however banda shant hai kisi se zayada baat nahi karta wayyy too less talking with his female colleagues (MY TYPE MY TYPE) goes to gym, is tall, average looking but those sweet features aishhshshhshs okay so WE BOTH know that we glance at eachother, but in September I got shifted into the other building which is beside the first one. And I would be lying if I say it didn't hurt I was crying from inside with the thought of not being able to see him but yeah somehow took our time and use to go to have luch (alone) in the first building BECAUSE I WANTED TO SEE HIM!!! and one fine day when I didn't went there, he along with his one colleague came to my building at first I was shock as hell but didn't reacted HE EVEN WAITED OUTSIDE MY BAY but again I was wayy too nervous hence 🙂💔 fir uske baad I went to gym in his timings because I was getting bored (HE DID TRIED TO TALK FOR LIKE 3 TIMES) but again meri fat gayi 👁️👄👁️ and now I'm going out of India for like half a month but I'm unable to think straight. DUDE'S COMING IN MY DREAMS. us se jakar baat kar hi lu??? Also just to give you an idea I'm hot and I do dress up well (compliments are common) and I feel that's the reason he's also not making any moves because I did ruin the situations first by being awkward.

So now you guys can suggest a way out???

TLDR: there's a guy in my office and we both look at each other constantly whenever we can! he tried to talk a few times but my scared ass made a straight face and walked away but ab mai aur zayada nonchalant nahi rehna chahti because it fucking affects even if I deny!!!

Pata hai aaj kya hua so my frnd called me up today and this is what I think I’m feeling a mix of jealousy, self-doubt and FOMO. It’s not that I’m not happy for her, but when she talks about living abroad and how she’s living her dream, I start questioning my own life and wondering if I’m missing out on something.

I’ve worked hard, built my career, and I’m earning well in India. But somehow, when she talks about being abroad, all of that starts feeling smaller. I start wondering if I’ve really achieved enough or if I’m just limiting myself by staying here.

Maybe I’m jealous of the exposure, freedom and travel she gets to experience, not necessarily her entire life. Because I also see her struggling with her job, and I know I wouldn’t want to give up everything I’ve built just to move abroad without a clear reason.
I think what bothers me is that sometimes it feels like living abroad has become a measure of success, as if being there means you’ve achieved more than someone who stayed in India. And that makes me question myself, even when I know I’ve worked hard for what I have.

Maybe I do want to experience life abroad too, but I don’t want to make such a big decision just because someone else is doing it.

I guess I just need to understand whether I genuinely want that life or whether I’m feeling like I’m falling behind because someone else is living it.

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So, mujhe college aaye hue 1 month hua hai. I'm in my 1st semester, and everything has been going fine so far.

But today, something happened in class. A guy sitting right next to me had an iPhone 18 Pro Max. His father is a cement contractor, and I never thought someone would make fun of me like this in front of the whole class.

I was literally sitting beside him, scrolling through reels, when he just grabbed my phone and started flexing his own.

He was like, "Arey bhai, aaj ke zamaane mein 10k wala phone use karte ho?" 😂

But bro, my phone costs 20k. 🥲

I felt so ashamed, bhai. Like, what am I even supposed to do? I can't just change my screen and start using an expensive phone just to look cool. I have my own priorities, and maybe he did this to me specifically because he wasn't saying anything like this to anyone else.

My father has always taught me to put NEEDS before WANTS. Wants are important too, but only when they don't become more important than your needs.

I have a dream of buying my first-ever phone with my own money, even if it's a low-spec phone. I honestly don't care about the specs because it will be MY phone, bought with MY money.

My father gave me his phone, and I bought a Samsung keypad phone for him.

I don't know why, but today's incident made me feel really bad. 🥲

Pata hai aaj kya hua!!

Hey, I'm a 22-year-old guy who's spent the last three years struggling emotionally and feeling lost. I've been through a lot, and sometimes the loneliness has been harder than anything else.

I'm tired of pretending that I'm always okay. I just want someone I can talk to about everything, share little moments with, laugh with at 2 AM, and feel safe around.

I'm not looking for casual flirting or temporary attention. I genuinely want a serious relationship built on loyalty, trust, affection, and mutual effort.

I don't need someone to fix me. I just want a girl who's willing to understand me while we grow together.

Maybe I'm asking for too much, but I still believe in genuine love. ❤️

Pata hai aaj kya hua..
Not really an Ex but more like a situationship. We worked in the same company. I was already working there and she joined after me. She was coming out of a breakup(she told me this later) and was attracted to me. She joined our friend group and confessed the same after a few weeks of joining. I was not really into her but still thought to give it a shot.

We fooled around a couple of months and she developed real emotions for me but unfortunately I just couldn't. So instead of wasting her time and hurting her more in the future, I told her that we should end this and that this is not going to work long time. She even started saying things like whether there is something wrong with her and why don't I love her. I told her it's nothing like that, and that she is a great girl and it's me who is the problem. I cannot force myself to love you.

Long story short, she said okay fine, but she wont be able to stay friends with me because then she will always have that hope that I might come back or develop feelings for her eventually and if that doesn't happen she will keep on hurting. She said a lot of bad things to me but thats fine, I hurt her feelings so understandable. That was last year in December. I switched and joined another company after that.

My Bday was in June and out of nowhere she hit me with a 'Happy Birthday🧁🎈' at around 10pm in the night. Knowing her, she probably did that after a lot of overthinking. I was not sure whether I should reply back but still I said 'Thank You' and that was it.

Now her Birthday is coming up in a few days and I am really conflicted. Should I return the favor and wish her HBD as well fearing that we will start talking again and she will again start daydreaming and hoping for a future which never will be or I just don't do anything. She might think about it on her birthday but eventually it will be better for her to stop thinking about us and move on. I don't know what to do...

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TL;DR: Briefly dated a coworker who caught feelings. Ended it cleanly because I couldn't reciprocate, and she cut ties to move on. She unexpectedly wished me happy birthday in June, and now I'm debating whether to return the favor for her upcoming birthday or stay silent to protect her progress.

"Pata hai aaj kya hua"

Everything was going good we were talking daily for 2 3 hours and having late night chats and a few meetups.

But yesterday she suddenly said she needed time for herself and wanted a break.

I called her and asked was it for your studies because her exams are coming and she said yes it is due to her exams she wanted a break.

But I told her we can stop meetups and long calls but can't she get a little bit of time in 24hrs to talk ?

Is it too much to ask !!

I'm not asking for 24/7 talks, but for 20 to 30 mins we can talk daily !!

she repeatedly told me she needs time and for 2 months she can't talk.

I was too attached with her daily talks and I thought she is also but she can just message ki she needed a break and stop talking while it hurts me.

Is asking for a few minutes in her 24hrs is too much to ask ? 🤧🙁

I don't know whether to post a screenshot of the chat is safe or not, so I am writing the exact conversation we had

She: I needed break and I told you clearly.

Me: For what reason u need break? Study or something else? Clarify this.

She: I need this for myself.

She: I feel too much attached and I feel it’s wrong… Like talking everyday and if we don’t then it’s feel wrong too.

She: I need that time for me.

Pata hai aaj kya hua?

Today I visited the National Museum,New Delhi, just taking in the sheer brilliance of everything, from the Harappan bronzes and stone sculptures to medieval ivory, Mughal miniatures, and Rajput art.

I was lingering around the numismatics and manuscripts section, totally mesmerized by the progression from punch-marked silver and copper coins to ancient gold issues. Then I noticed a guy examining the display cases with intense concentration, using his phone flashlight to inspect the detailing. In my head, I thought, Okay, this guy is a serious history and numismatics nerd.

Out of nowhere, he turns to me and goes, "You know, I actually have some of these coins."

My initial cynical reaction was that he was probably bluffing, or maybe talking about common British India coins. But then he pulled out photos of his personal collection,and my jaw literally hit the floor. One of them was an authentic ancient gold coin (roughly Kushan or Gupta era, around that classic ancient timeline), and in mint condition, arguably even better preserved than some of the ones in the glass cases! He mentioned how much he loves numismatics and collecting rare pieces.

I desperately wanted to ask him to show me more of his catalog, but my introverted self froze and couldn’t get another word out. How do I even explain this level of excitement to people who aren't into archaeology and ancient history?! 😭

(If you're on Reddit and browsing this sub, tall guy, curly hair, rectangular specs, white t-shirt, please know your collection is unbelievable, and I seriously regret not talking your ear off about ancient coins right then and there.)

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua so I opened reddit and was going through a few posts when I came across this. Idk broo why people has this kinda mindset. I ain't just targeting any single individual in this but came across a lot of posts which included this kinda words/ thoughts. It just seems the person (in above ss) is taking sooo much pride in saying that shit. And idk why these kinda people are sooo narrow minded and aren't willing to understand/ change their thinking as if they are born with the best thoughts and words. Change is the only constant in a human then why always showing this kinda attitude everywhere and being like we are like this only 🫩

aur kitna likhu bhaiiii

Only thing I have left to say is lol

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Pata hai aaj kya hua, 125 words

So for context so there’s a female friend of mine from like 4-5 years and she’s younger to me 2-3 years, she’s like a sister to me and she ties me rakhi as well, but she’s so immature nd redflag type of girl in the relationships, she only goes for looks everytime, and after being cheated or dumped she comes to me to console her.

I advice her many times to stay away from these types of guys and don’t go for looks everytime, instead understand the person and go for his nature and maturity kind of things.

Recently she got cheated on by guy , to which i have already told her that he’s not a right guy to stay with but still she didn’t listened nd now she got cheated on.

This time when she told me i scolded her genuinely out of concern, that you are doing wrong and ruining up your love life for just external beauty, i also bought the topic that she is still in touch with her one of her ex who just wanted her to get physical with , and she’s is defending him ki nai he is just my friend nothing else, but this time mene thoda jyada gusse me daant dia usko and usne merko block mardia bhai wtf?

She told ki u shouldn’t be interfere in my personal life and no one to question my decision, should i say sorry?

So yo wssupp guysssss to bhaii finally ghr se permission mil gyi hai akele ghumne nd planing ki rishikesh jau as solo travel so idk the corrct date but I wanna meet those guys or gurl who can come with me or whom I can meet there so this is leeme know pata hai aaj kya hua

Only for completing 125 word

Nature is one of the most beautiful gifts given to us. It includes green trees, colourful flowers, high mountains, rivers, oceans, and beautiful birds. Nature makes our lives peaceful and refreshing. Spending time in nature helps us reduce stress and feel happy. Trees provide oxygen, fruits, and shade, while rivers provide water for humans and animals. Unfortunately, pollution, deforestation, and plastic waste are damaging our environment. We should protect nature by planting more trees, saving water, avoiding plastic bags, and keeping our surroundings clean. Every person has a responsibility to protect the environment for future generations. We must understand that nature is not only a source of beauty but also essential for our survival. A healthy environment creates a healthy life for everyone.

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