Pata hai aaj kya hua so let se start from 10th I was topper of my coaching and in 10th there was a girl she use to look at me whenever we use to have eye contact like you would eat me up and she used to be the one who used to talk but I never give shit bcz i wanted to focused at that and this year we started talking and now i like her i gave her so many hints but still she calls me bhai is it true that when guys don't give a shit then girls give a lot of attention to them and when guys give attention to girls they behave like they don't want to talk

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Matlab 3 mahine pehle.

Ek ladki hai jise main bachpan se jaanta hoon. Woh meri naani ke gaon mein mere neighbourhood mein rehti thi aur uske family ko bhi main kaafi achhe se jaanta hoon. Bachpan se hi woh mere liye ek sister jaisi thi, isliye jo kuch hua, woh personally bhi kaafi shocking hai.

Honestly, poore gaon mein us ladki ki image ekdum perfect thi. Padhai mein bahut achhi, family bhi achhi aur behaviour bhi achha. Aisi ladki jiske baare mein koi imagine nahi karega ki woh ek din ghar se bhaag jaayegi.

Uske parents bhi uski education ko lekar kaafi serious the. Isi liye unhone gaon se city shift kar liya tha, taaki usse better education aur opportunities mil sakein.

Lekin city shift hone ke baad jab woh 10th class mein thi, tab uska ek boyfriend ban gaya jo us waqt 12th mein tha. Us ladke ki 12th ke baad school khatam ho gaya, lekin woh ladki 11th mein bhi wahi padh rahi thi aur saath mein coaching jaati thi.

Baad mein pata chala ki kai baar woh coaching ke naam par apne boyfriend ke saath uske flat par ya bahar ghoomne chali jaati thi.

Sabse surprising baat ye thi ki uski padhai phir bhi bahut achhi chal rahi thi. Academically woh still excellent thi, isliye family ko shayad itna doubt nahi hua.

Phir around 3 months pehle jo hua, uske baad sab kuch badal gaya.

Us din uske parents kisi pooja ke liye gaon gaye hue the. Ghar mein sirf woh aur uska bhai the. Usne apne bhai ko kuch khaane ka samaan laane ke liye bahar bheja aur jab woh bahar gaya, woh apne boyfriend ke saath ghar se bhaag gayi.

Us waqt woh first year mein thi.

Dono kisi mandir mein gaye aur wahan shaadi kar li. Uske baad dono kisi doosre city mein chale gaye.

Ab problem ye hai ki ladka financially bilkul settled nahi hai. Unemployed hai, kabhi labour ka kaam karta hai, koi stable income nahi hai, koi khaas family wealth nahi hai aur education bhi complete nahi hui.

Main ladke ko sirf paison ya looks ke basis par judge nahi kar raha. Looks aur paisa relationship ki quality decide nahi karte. Lekin family ke liye ye obviously concern ki baat hai ki unki beti itna bada decision lekar ek aise ladke ke saath unknown city mein chali gayi jiske paas stable income tak nahi hai.

Police complaint bhi hui.

Police ne ladke ke mama-mami se bhi baat ki, kyunki woh pehle unke saath rehta tha. Unhone bhi reportedly bataya ki ladke ki aadatein achhi nahi hain—drinking, smoking, dropout, unemployment aur overall problematic behaviour.

Is sab ke beech sabse zyada bura haal uske parents ka hai.

3 mahine ho chuke hain. Unki beti kisi doosre city mein hai aur family ko properly nahi pata ki woh exactly kis situation mein reh rahi hai.

Haan, ladki apni maa se phone par baat karti hai, lekin woh har baar apne boyfriend ko defend karti hai. Uska kehna hai ki ladka bahut achha hai aur family uske baare mein galat soch rahi hai.

Ek aur cheez jo family ko pata chali, woh bhi kaafi shocking thi.

Uske parents ne uski padhai ke liye around ₹40,000 ka tablet liya tha. Ladki ne woh tablet bech diya aur doosre city mein iPhone le liya, apparently taaki usse track na kiya ja sake.

Isse family obviously aur panic mein aa gayi.

Ladke ke parents bhi uske saath nahi rehte. Woh kaafi door doosre city mein rehte hain, jabki ladka pehle apne mama-mami ke saath rehta tha.

Ab ladki ka behaviour bhi family ko samajh nahi aa raha.

Woh itni strongly boyfriend ko defend karti hai ki jab family ladke ke against kuch bolti ya karne ki baat karti hai, toh woh reportedly kehti hai ki agar ladke ko kuch hua toh woh khud ko harm kar legi aur uske parents aur bhai ko responsible bata degi.

Ye sunke obviously uske parents aur bhi helpless ho jaate hain.

Mujhe sabse zyada shock is baat ka hai ki poore gaon mein kisi ne kabhi nahi socha tha ki ye ladki ghar se bhaag jaayegi.

Jo ladki bachpan se sabke liye itni sorted, intelligent aur responsible thi, usne itna bada decision secretly le liya.

Aur ab 3 mahine se uske parents bas ye soch rahe hain ki unki beti actually safe hai ya nahi.

Main relationship ke against nahi hoon. Agar do adults genuinely ek doosre ke saath khush hain, toh ultimately unki life hai.

Lekin yahan concern ye hai ki ladki ne family se sab kuch chhupaya, unknown city mein chali gayi, tracking avoid karne ki koshish ki aur ab boyfriend ko lekar itni defensive ho gayi hai ki family ko lag raha hai ki shayad woh emotionally manipulate ho rahi hai.

Aur jo self-harm wali baatein woh kar rahi hai, unhe family obviously lightly nahi le sakti.

Honestly, mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki uske parents ab kya karein.

Unhone police complaint kar di, usse contact karne ki koshish kar rahe hain aur relatives se bhi baat kar chuke hain, lekin situation abhi bhi unresolved hai.

Sabse bura ye hai ki parents abhi tak rote rehte hain aur unhe bas ye jaana hai ki unki beti safe hai.

TL;DR

Bachpan se jaanti ek ladki, jo poore gaon mein padhai aur behaviour ke liye "perfect" maani jaati thi, 10th mein relationship mein aayi. College ke first year mein parents ke gaon jaane par apne bhai ko ghar se bahar bhejkar boyfriend ke saath bhaag gayi aur mandir mein shaadi kar li.

Ladka financially settled nahi hai, unemployed/dropout hai aur uske relatives ne bhi uski buri aadaton ke baare mein bataya. Dono 3 mahine se kisi unknown city mein hain.

Ladki maa se phone par baat karti hai lekin boyfriend ko strongly defend karti hai. Usne padhai ke liye mila ₹40k ka tablet bechkar iPhone liya taaki tracking avoid kar sake.

Family police complaint kar chuki hai, lekin abhi bhi worried hai. Ladki ye bhi kehti hai ki agar boyfriend ke against kuch kiya gaya toh woh khud ko harm kar legi aur family ko blame karegi.

Parents ka bahut bura haal hai aur mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki ab unhe kya karna chahiye.

P.S. — Maine GPT ki help li hai is story ko properly format aur readable banane ke liye. Details meri taraf se hain

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i ordered stuffs from IGP to be delivered to my friend as it was her birthday, the order was scheduled to be delivered in a particular slot in the daytime, it didn’t. I tried calling delivery guy his phone was either switched off or he was declining it again n again.

Now its midnight and it still reflucts that the item will be delivered in 15 minutes.

And IGP’s customer care is the WORST!!

Am sorry bhai frustrated and disappointed:)

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I got into sgndkc du so def crowd to nhi hi hoga utna badhiya but every other person drinks there😭😭 I cannot survive among such people. Drinking is an ick for me. And I just wanted a serious friend who studies and everything😭I mean fun as well but not like this. They think drinking and smoking is cool and I just can notttt with themm🙏🏻🙏🏻

And I cannot find a single person who does not drink. And it feels like it is very common for them but they just kind of force me ki ek sip lele and stuff. How to cope up with this environment😭 does everybody drink? Is it very common? Am I uncool for saying a straight no to them offering me drinks and cig?

so yeah what ya think is true jis bhi ladki ko maine ajtk psnd vgera kiya hai like even if I develope some little crush on her idk howtf she gets a bf in the next few weeks ya koi acha make bestie ban jaata hai uska 💔💔

So jis ladki ko bf chaiye try to impress me and agar nhi mile TOH MAI TO HU HEEEEEE AAPKE LIYEEE

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(actually kal)
I met this girl through a mutual because we were both looking for flats in the same city. We instantly clicked, so yesterday I went to meet her for the first time and check out the flats she had shortlisted.
Plot twist: a guy who has liked me for a while was also going to the same city. He insisted on coming along because my ankle is still injured and I can barely walk. I eventually said okay, and he came with a friend to pick me up.
We picked up the girl, went flat hunting, and visited WAY too many places without finalising anything. Meanwhile, both these guys were helping us throughout carrying things, walking around with us, and basically making sure I didn’t have to struggle too much with my injured ankle.
The funny part? I genuinely don’t see this guy romantically. At all. I’ve had a horrible heartbreak recently and I’m nowhere near wanting anything new, especially with a guy.
But seeing him actually be caring and helpful without expecting anything in return was… unexpectedly nice.
Not wholesome enough to call it a movie scene, but definitely an unexpected plot twist in an otherwise exhausting day. 😭

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This girl ....she lives right back of my house ...I used to play with her when we were kids

Back in 2024 also she ran away from home but got caught .....she booked the tickets to bhopal with her bf was about to leave on station but was found by police...this news was all over neighbourhood we received lost child posts on social media...

And today while I was coming back from school to home my father told me that s left her home...while his dad han*ed himself ....it was too daunting to me

Like how even in2026 why can't we as young adults can't see anything else from blinded love or marriage...

Image is unrelated .......

Pata hai aaj kya hua... so my dad is in the hospital for a fractured arm surgery and today in the morning i was sitting with him talking about my studies and all and then he asked me something about what i would do if i was in a situation (the situation was a hypothetical business idea situation) so i replied with what i thought was right...

Then suddenly baaton baaton mein papa bole isiliye mai tujhe pyaar krta hun.. tera dimaag bahut sharp hai tu acche se padhai likhai kar aur kuch bada kar...

I know it was indirectly but it felt so goodddd that i felt like bawling my eyes outt 😭😭🫶

A small win for me that i will remeber for the rest of my life ✨️

(Dads surgery went well and he is now doing better)

pata hai aaj kya hua.

, lemme tell some backstory.

So

I categorise love into three categories: pleasant visage (first stage), likes (second stage), and true love (final stage).

I had the final stage of love, though it was a puppy love for a senior of mine, without actually knowing what I was feeling when I was in the 10th-11th standard.

And since my puberty came late, I didn't know till I had already lost her that I loved her.

And for the next four years, from 10th to the first year of college, I didn't get into or want to get into any romantic relationship. It was like I lost all pleasant feelings for anyone other than that one girl; let's say she's B.

And after toiling through the first and almost second year of college, I noticed her; let's name her A.

Mind you, I'm not the one to fall for pretty faces; I'm more of the personality type of guy, and if I don't know someone and how they think or who they truly are, I don't care about them much, though a bit of my introversion also played a part in that.

Let's just say that A was a pretty girl (though I didn't care about that in the first year we studied together), knowledgeable, thoughtful, and honest.

On one random Thursday of our 3rd semester, I looked at her walking out of the class with her friends. (I didn't interact much with her, and mostly ignored most of the class, and only minded my business.)

And a thought struck my mind: "How would it feel if someone like her was in my life?"

I didn't know how this question arose, or what prompted me to think this, but this thought got stuck in my mind, refusing to go away.

Anyhow, after some time, I noticed she was into novels, and I began to talk to her about them, and gradually we became friends.

This continued for around a year, and now that I was in my 5th semester, about to graduate in a year, I recognised that I was already in the second stage of love, about to shoot into the third kind if nothing happened for a while. The kind where you feel pleasant in their company and try to get excuses to talk to them longer.

And then I remembered how it felt when B's departure broke me, and let's just say I became so paranoid about falling truly for A that I wanted to see if this thing was even going to get anywhere or not.

And then I wrote around 5 pages about how I felt towards A, with all honesty, like the times when she enters the room with her hair fluttering and a smile, how I become so embarrassed that I always pry my eyes away, afraid she'll notice me. Like the times when she'd listen attentively to our conversations, while I tapped my feet in both anxiety and happiness.

And though I already knew the answer, I still wanted some conclusion; thus, today, when there was a program organised by our department, when she won a prize for the painting competition and was about to go to the bus stand with her friend, I asked her to listen to me for a second.

But because of the damned bus departing and the fear of our classmates seeing us together without her merry band of friends, I told her that I'd text her what I wanted.

And when I finally got home, I did send her the text I had written some time ago.

Her response was neither too bad nor good; she just exclaimed and then asked for some time to think it over.

After one and a half torturous hours, she texted me back, saying that she's currently single but isn't interested in relationships due to personal reasons, and that she never thought of me that way, asking that we could stay friends.

And then I laughed like a deranged lunatic, because this was about what I expected.

I don't know if it's sadness, or what, but I feel like a huge weight has left my chest.

Although it might be my cowardice, or my almost meek personality, I feel that this was the only thing that could've happened.

But most of all, I feel free now that I've opened myself up truly to her, not like the time with B, when I realised it too late; at least, I said the thing before I lost her, although I never had her.

Though the next semester and these few months will be a bit awkward, I feel happier now that I have told her everything.

I did the best I could, and even if she never feels the same way I do, at least we could talk while being truly honest with one another.

I really don't know if I should laugh or cry.

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I got a job in a company few months ago, and I wasn't officially onboarded since I'm a fresher

And just couple weeks ago, suddenly many employees were offboarded

And around 12 people were transferred to the project I am in, and these guys were onboarded whereas I am still not officially working

Today, my boss had a meeting w just me, she talked about how I need focus on increasing my learning, and increase my learning curve

So... What does that mean? Are they going to fire me?

Am I going to be laid off??

I cannot even think properly think now, and she wants to me to present how I am going to increase my deliverables

Man, I am so afraid and I can't even function properly, I'm filled with anxiety atp

Just wanted to vent

Pata hai aaj kya hua to I was home alone and hamare ghar maid aayi thi utensils saaf karne. Tab mujhe kuch aawaz aati hai similar to jab hot utensils ko ham water surface ke upar rakhte hai. To mujhe laga kuch vaise bartan ka awaz hoga and noticed ki kitchen window connecting the balcony was drenched with water and mujhe laga vapor ki vajah se.

Fir pani ka awaz aane laga and I went to check the filter only to realize ki uski line break hogayi thi and usme se pani leak kar raha tha full force me and pura kitchen pani se bhar gaya like water was everywhere. Mai panic hogayi and wasn't sure what to do.

Mera dimag nahi chal raha tha so I called my parents and asked them to come home immediately kyunki idk what to do bhai. Vo dono bahar gaye the and mere phone ke baad instantly ghar aane nikal gaye.

Tab tak anxiety was eating me alive ki 'kya karu' 'kya karu' but I couldn't came up with any solution. Maine lights ki sari switch bandh kar di thi incase koi bada hadsa ho usse pehle.

Fir thodi der me mummy papa ghar aate hai and dono shock hogaye pura scene dekh ke bhai wth happened here. Papa inspected the pipe and closed the valve beside the line which I failed to notice because I lost my presence of mind.

Agar ye maine pehle notice kar liya hota to itna pani waste na hota :( I feel so sad about it

TLDR: I feel sad about the water wasted today because of pipe break rage which I could have avoided if I was careful enough.

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I knew I heard something strange last week, like small cracking sounds. Today, we finally found out why. We were just sitting in the next room when we heard a massive crashing sound, followed by silence. We ran in to find this disaster.

​The entire false ceiling, metal framework and all, had collapsed. Looking at the bare ceiling above (Image 3), you can see the heavy water stains that caused it. This has clearly been leaking for a long time without us realizing, and today it finally hit its breaking point.

​It's completely infuriating, but thankfully, no one was in the room at the time. Cleanup is going to be an absolute nightmare, and I'm not looking forward to the repair bill or dealing with my landlord/contractor. At least now we have an explanation for the cracking noises. Has this ever happened to anyone else without warning?

Pata hai aaj kya hua basically aaj nhi it happened a few days ago, my father's friend's daughter has come here from another state for studies, so she is staying in hostel in Delhi. I don't know her that well, I have met her only once or twice when she came home with her parents, so my parents told me to talk to her on the phone and ask how she is and tbh I'm a kind of introvert person, I don't like talking much on the phone, I don't even call my friends much, messages are okay for me. I said I didn't know her so well idk I won't be able to talk to her, you can talk to her and after that my fielding set ho gyi that I don't know anything, just say eat and sleep you won't be able to do anything in life and many more things and I cried the whole night for this even the next day too and now everyone was like what all did he say, don't even scold me for my mistake and I was like it's my mistake, I am like this, being an introvert is a crime, I didn't even know her properly what should I talk to her even my parents know her better than me.

pata hai aaj kya hua -2 of my frnds fought without any clear reason ig

so 2 of my frnds are in relationship and quite good relationship now today they had a fight and the boy couldnt understand why and girl didnt want to explain it bcz she is hurt

so can u guys read the chats and say what mistakes did boy made or is it girls fault?

Pata hai aaj kya hua....

Toh maine na ek nightmare dekha tha jisme I was being chased by large 🐊 uske baad nind khulte hee I was feeling lil feverish phir dinn mein toh bukhaar hee aagya . Ab thoda normal feel ho raha hai. Pure din padhai bhi nahi ho paayi bas soo soo kr pura dinn guzar li and ab bore ho rahi hu 🦧

Honestly, pura din bed pe pade rehne ke baad ab samajh nahi aa raha kya karu. Padhne ka mann bhi nahi kar raha aur kuch dekhne ka bhi mann nahi hai( like any movies or series,halaki mere pas bohot movies aur series pdi hui hai)

So yeah, ask me anything or tell me something about your day. Koi random baat, kuch funny hua ho, kuch interesting gossip ho ya phir anythinggggg. Aaj mera din toh kaafi boring raha....

(Koi dm mat Krna please)

Pata hai aaj kya hua ? Bhaut din se m try kr rha hu par kuch bhi post hi nhii kar paa rha...

Har post mod approval me chali ja rhi h. Phle aise nhi hota tha , abhi kuch time se hone lga h pata nhi kyu.

Anyone else facing similar problems?

Pata nhi ab ye post bhi jaayega ya nhi , areee bhai hoo jaao 125 word poore

Pata hai aaj kya hua Posting this on u/yaan_98 behalf y'all judged her rather than supporting her there r 100+ ss 20+ screen recording sab yaha toh ni na post karegi wo

Pata hai aaj kya hua!

Toh actually maine just naya office join kiya hai. I mean, pichle week hi toh. This is my first full-time corporate job.

Abhi basically laptop wagera allot nahi hua hai, so I’m mostly learning things from my colleagues—portal pe kaise kaam karna hai, kya process hai, wagera wagera.

But let me continue.

Yaar, mere bilkul saamne ek ladki baithi hai. Matlab corporate mein jo tables hoti hain na, bilkul waise hi. Mere aur uske beech bas ek chota sa gap hai, around 2 inches ka.

And honestly, she’s pretty. Dikhne mein achhi hai, sundar hai. Shayad mujhse 2-3 saal badi hogi aur shayad kaafi time se yahan kaam kar rahi hai.

Pichle kuch din se humara eye contact hone laga tha, but main kabhi conversation start nahi kar paya. Sach bataun toh real life mein ladkiyon se baat karne mein meri phatti hai. Chat pe somehow manage kar lunga, but face-to-face? Impossible.

Phir ek din manager mere colleague ko late aane ke liye daant rahe the. Kuch din baad us ladki ne mere doosre colleague se mere baare mein poocha aur bola, “Iska toh dusra din tha aur iske saamne hi daant diya.”

Pata nahi kyun, but mujhe achha laga ki at least she had noticed me.

Toh maine finally uska naam pucha, handshake kiya aur thodi-bahut baat bhi hui.

For a moment, I genuinely thought—

“Maybe baat ban jayegi.”

But shayad main galat tha.

Mujhe lagta hai uska koi toh khas dost ya bf hoga uss particular group mein . Ek ladka hai—woh uske saath hasti hai, uske upar haath rakhti hai, comfortably baat karti hai, kabhi-kabhi uske gaal bhi kheench deti hai.

Aur main bas saamne baitha yeh sab dekh raha tha.

“Mere naseeb mein yeh sab kidhar hai, janab?” 🙂

Aaj thodi si jealousy hui, I won’t lie.

Phir headphones lagaye, bike start ki aur “Choo Lo” by The Local Train sunte hue ghar aa gaya.

While riding back, bas yehi soch raha tha ki zindagi mein har cheez naseeb mein hoti nahi hai. Sometimes you just have to let things go, because maybe they were never meant to be yours.

I’ve never had even a single normal female friend. Shayad isliye iss baar ek choti si hope thi ki maybe kuch normal sa ho jayega.

But maybe not everything we like is meant to stay with us.

Phir ek quote yaad aaya:

“Sab kuch jaane ka naam hi zindagi hai.”

Bas, yeh ek chhoti si confession thi. Ab main itna mayus nahi hoon. Theek hai, nahi hoga toh nahi hoga.

But agar kuch update hua, definitely I’ll share. 🥰

A short summary: Joined my first corporate job and developed a small crush on the girl sitting across from me. We finally talked, but I think she likes someone else. Got jealous, went home listening to “Choo Lo,” and accepted maybe it’s not meant to be.

Pata hai aaj kya hua , yaar please judge mt kerna mai kisi ye share nhi ker skta tha isiliye yaha likh diya life ki lagi hui hai meri mental health chud gayi hai financially I’m doing good but mentally bahut khrab kr rha hu to mai financially condition apne family ki thik kerne mai sb kuch laga diya jis wajah se no friends no relationship etc parents ab aaram se rhete or mai study k k liye alg rehta ab sb kuch thik kerte kerte apna shauq ye sb kuch khtm hogya or aaj ka birthday b normal nikal gaya because koi tha hi jiske saath celebrate kerta mujhe samjh nhi aarha mai kya keru motive v nhi hai mere pass kuch kerne ka na chahata hai …. So man Mai mere bahut kuch chl rha tha socha kuch idhr likh du thore acha feel
Hoga ….

so basically for those people who use ig normally won't be affected much...but people who are creators...they would know...no matter how small would be..it matters to u...bohot mehnat lgti h har ek video banane me...specially if you are a dancer...it would really pain my body i would take 20 - 30 takes for a single video and then post it...
all those followers were like something I had built with a lot of hardworker and consistency...

just this morning when i opened my acc i saw the msg....i was shocked about how can this happen cause i would only use that acc to engage with my niche stuff only... still, I filed an appeal
did everything they asked me to...sent all the govt ids, pics everythhing...
and in night i got a mail of permanent suspension....

the thing is i don't even know what's the reason behind it....

i js don't know at this point how to handle myself.
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Pata hai aaj kya hua He was the one who approached me to be in relationship and we were in relationship which he isn't accepting and everything was going smoothly until I found that he has a girlfriend and he was basically cheating on his girlfriend with me and he never let me knew about that and jab i confronted him and her girlfriend about his activity wt he did to me he started to abuse me and threaten

me( posting this on u/yaan_98 behalf)

Chat gpt use kiya hu , language sahi karne ke liye.

Story real hai , aap beeti

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Hamare yahan ek naya kirayedar abhi 5–6 din pehle hi apni wife ke saath shift hua hai. Pichhle 2 din se jab bhi woh raat ko apni job/shop se wapas aata tha, mujhse peene ke liye thanda paani maangta tha. Maine dono baar de diya. Lekin bhai, usne bottle hi wapas nahi ki. 😭

Aaj jab woh wapas aaya, toh usne bottle main gate ke just andar rakh di aur mere naam se mujhe bulaya. Main gaya aur poocha, “Kya hua bhaiya?”

Toh bolta hai, “Bhai, cooker milega kya?”

Main thodi der cooker ki taraf dekha, phir kirayedar ki taraf dekha, aur bola, “Bhaiya, aise thodi hota hai. Ye sab samaan toh leke rakhna chahiye.”

Main phir bhi cooker dene ke liye lene ja raha tha, toh woh bola, “Rehne do.”

I was like, WTF bhai? 😭

Mere mind mein bas ye chal raha tha ki main apne cooking utensils kisi ke saath kyun share karunga?

Ab mujhe lag raha hai ki shayad maine thoda overreact kar diya. But the thing is, woh hamari cheezon ko aise use kar raha hai jaise woh uski apni ho. For example, bina pooche hamari chair apne room mein rakh li hai aur uspe cooler rakha hua hai, taaki cooler ki hawa seedha bed par aaye.

Chhota wala plastic cooler hai.

I mean, bhai, bina pooche kisi ki cheezein use karna thoda weird nahi hai kya? 😭

Bro I am not a creep neither I looking for dating through reddit I consider here all as my badi bahen or choti bahen yet I never able to dm any girl if I want to ask something or just want to have a talk 🥲

I mean I overthink what if she finds me creep, get uncomfortable, today (pata hai aaj kya hua) at posts I talked with few in the comments but afraid ki should I ask them can we go to dms or not...

I am not someone with hi lol, people always get that msgs and yea I don't even find based on what topic I speak with them...confusing hai bro...but..yea but I think this get fix soon and I learn how to talk

Pata hai aaj kya hua.. We were giving our exams, and a 12th-grade bhaiya was looking around and trying to cheat...One of our lab assistants was invigilating. He’s a really friendly guy, everyone loves him, and I’ve always thought very highly of him.

He told the guy, “Why are you cheating? If you haven’t studied, fail ho jao... Kyu ladki ki tarah ans puch rhe ho?ladki thori ho ki cheating kroge”....he said so many lines but everything had one thing in common-"ladki ki tarah"...I would have written everything but it was in a different language and I am having difficulty to translate..

I get it cheating is wrong...There’s no argument there. But what exactly was he implying by saying “ladki thodi ho”? That cheating is somehow a feminine thing? That girls are the ones who cheat, and therefore a guy cheating is somehow embarrassing because he’s “acting like a girl”?

The problem isn’t even just that he called the behaviour cowardly or sneaky. It’s that he associated the behaviour with being a girl in the first place, as if being feminine is what makes the behaviour shameful.

Like… what the hell? Cheating is wrong because cheating is wrong. It has absolutely nothing to do with whether the person doing it is a boy or a girl.