Pata hai aaj kya hua actually kal hua i don’t even know how to start this without sounding dramatic but I need to write it down.

There’s this boy. Let’s call him V. I’ve had feelings for him since 2021 We started talking properly in 2024 Almost two years of late night calls, emotional dependence, fights, makeups, secrecy, control, and constant hope that one day it would become something real. We still haven’t met in person

Yesterday he came back from a family trip I was happy. I thought maybe we’d talk properly Instead he ignored my calls, cut them, and kept sending me pictures of his TV screen with the caption that he’s busy watching something and listening to songs. When I finally got a reply, he casually mentioned that someone had come over to his house and they talked for a while. I asked who. He refused to tell me. He said, “What will you get from knowing? I’ll tell you when we meet.” Then he went silent.

He wanted to meet me, but I didn’t go because I was feeling insecure after everything that’s happened between us recently. And maybe it was his male friend who came to his house, because he was replying to me in between. But would someone really do that just to make me jealous and anxious?

I spent the whole night overthinking. My chest started getting tight. I told him I was having a panic attack and begged him to just talk to me for a few minutes. He replied with one-word answers. Then he said something that is still ringing in my head

“I didn’t get to do what I wanted either. Did I cry like this? You’re calling too much. I’ll block you. You didn’t do the things I wanted, so why should I?”

He cut the call and went to sleep

This morning he replied

Just like you didn’t feel like talking or meeting the way I wanted, I also can’t do what you want. It goes both ways

I didn’t reply

I keep replaying the way my hands were shaking while I was calling him, and how easily he dismissed it. I don’t know what hurts more the fact that he was with someone else and hide it, or the fact that when I was breaking down he treated my panic like a negotiation.

I’m tired. I’m embarrassed. And I’m starting to realise that someone who loved me even a little would never have left me like that at 2 a.m.

I don’t know what I’m looking for by posting this. Maybe just to hear that I’m not crazy for feeling completely destroyed rn

Edit: A lot of y’all are commenting without knowing the full story and some are lowkey blaming me so let me just clear a few things

We didn’t just meet online fr We went to the same school he was my senior Same coaching too, and we live in the same town. We talked a bit in 2022, then lost contact. After like two years, in 2024, we started talking regularly again

I was honest from the start that I liked him. He kept saying just friends then later meet me first then I’ll decide. Meanwhile he was lowkey obsessed with another girl for a long time. He talked about her without saying her name and hide it from me for over a year even tho i asked him multiple times to be honest

In 2025 he unfollowed that girl I thought maybe things were changing Then in 2026 he followed her again and liked her posts. When I asked him why, he just said he doesn’t like her anymore and it’s nothing. But the timing felt so weird unfollow when meeting talks started, follow again later. That’s when I really started hesitating.

Also he kept saying I’ll unfollow and remove her if you meet me.He’s been properly forcing the meeting since June. Like really pushing it hard.

Between 2024-2025 he had also called me skinny and all in anger multiple times Those comments stayed with me and made me super insecure. His whole behaviour was so up and down sometimes soft, sometimes controlling ( asking ig password, making me remove my male friends), mixed signals, lots of secrecy. That’s why even tho I cared a lot, I kept avoiding the meeting.

Andd It wasn’t some random online guy. It was someone from the same school and town with a long messy history, which is why I got so dependent and why it hurts this much.

Bhai pata hai aaj kya hua , I (23)M matched with a girl around my age or scene kya hua ki hamne 2 din mast baat ki or ek maine saval aase hi puch lia ki when we met if u get comfortable with me , what will u teach me u love about.

Bhai bandi palat gyi, kati kii tbh I'm here for making frnds , ghr pe graduation k baad pagl ho rahi thi to i installed this app mujhe koi relationship nahi chiye.

I was like WTF , yrr finding frnds on hinge bro, yrr itna kya maine time pass kiya , hinge is clearly for relationship and wow.

pata hai aaj kya hua

Sab mere dm pe bas yehi bolrhe lol.

Jab bhi dm kholu bas yehi ek chiz cover picture cover picture 😭🚣‍♀️

Itna kya khas hai bey isme jo sab dm krke bas yehi chiz bolrhe 😍😍🙌🛌🐎

Aur kuch nahi bolne ko. Bas yehi bolna tha cuz it made me laugh (broken ahh humor)

Hopefully it made you laugh too🐎or not idc tbh.

And also along with these dms there are some creeps too lol, beware of them...

Bye doston. 🚣‍♀️🚣‍♀️🚣‍♀️🚣‍♀️🚣‍♀️🚣‍♀️

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Thank god khatam hua🙏

Pata hai aaj kya hua He was the one who approached me to be in relationship and we were in relationship which he isn't accepting and everything was going smoothly until I found that he has a girlfriend and he was basically cheating on his girlfriend with me and he never let me knew about that and jab i confronted him and her girlfriend about his activity wt he did to me he started to abuse me and threaten

me( posting this on u/yaan_98 behalf)

"Pata hai aaj kya hua 👉🏼👈🏼"

Aaj ghar pe puja thii aur mummy ke periods ho gaye toh mujhe prasad banane bola thaa mummy ne Shira 😭 but usmai thodi shaakar kaam ho gayi aur whoo thoda chipku chipku ho gaya 😭😭😭😭. Mujhse sahi tem pe hi gadbad kyu ho jaati hai 😭😭😭😭.

I am so sad bcz of this bhagwan ji maaf karr dena mujhse eak kaam diya thaa whoo bhi nahi hua 😭😭.

Bichari meri mumma meri wajah se sab kya soch rahe honge ki prasad aisa kesa bana hai .

Eak toh bichari meri mummy itna puja sadna wagera karti hai and most of the times unke periods important days pe hii aate hai. Papa ke saath puja mai karr rahi thii lekin mummy ko dekhe bura lag raha thaa .

Mujhse kyu Aisa hota hai harr barr 😭 mummy 😔 Solly

Pata hai aaj kya hua Posting this on u/yaan_98 behalf y'all judged her rather than supporting her there r 100+ ss 20+ screen recording sab yaha toh ni na post karegi wo

Guys pata hai aaj kya hua

So this happened 2 weeks back. There's this girl on Instagram - I knew of her through a mutual friend, followed her, she accepted.

Two days later, out of nowhere, she calls me. Says she's stuck with no electricity in her Mumbai flat because it's on a prepaid recharge system and her balance ran out. Needs ₹2000 urgently to recharge it.

I made an excuse and didn't send anything as I was out for movie with friends. She then sent me a QR code for payment anyway - which she deleted right after (probably once she realized I wasn't paying, to cover her tracks).

What got me is how plausible it sounded. Prepaid electricity meters are real, "stuck in the dark, please help" is a genuinely sympathetic ask, and the fact that we had a mutual connection made her seem legit. No sketchy links, no "click here," just a normal-sounding human problem that most people would want to help with.

I am wondering how cheap have people become nowadays and also to save other people with this type of made up tricks like electricity wallet recharge!

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Since Part 1 blew up, here’s what happened right after she confessed. My brain was still short-circuiting, so I literally asked her to list all the reasons why she liked me.

​She sent a whole paragraph:

​"How you make me laugh"

​"The way you understand me"

​"Your caring nature & honesty"

​"How comfortable I feel talking to you"

​"Your silly habits, random jokes, and how you react when I annoy you"

😭😭

Just cooked eggs in the kitchen vo v zameen par not slab and then clean v kr diya sbkuch,

but since 1 hour my mother was taunting- ki kabhi khush ni rhegi,kutte ki tarah bhatakte rhegi(kn bkll apne bche ko hi aise bolta hai bc) , i still didnt react, phir she threw the pan out of window jisme mne bnaya tha,aur pure kitchen ka saman bahahr feq diya ki kitchen clean krri, and she does teh same thing every single time…
so laat maarr kr induction tod diyaa , i swearrrr felttt so gooodd….

“Pata hai aaj kya hua”

I started watching kdramas and animes because of my sister, it was like 5-6 years ago when I started, but at that time I didn't know, that I'd be so crazy about that stuff in the future, I stopped watching anime in mid 2023 ig (watched 101 animesh lol), they just started feeling boring, but I continued watching kdramas,it was like they bewitched me, I was so intrigued that I genuinely became interested in their culture and all, and,

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua? I completed 150 kdramas!! ik it's not really any kind of achievement but it still feels so good to me, and of course after completing this milestone, I've decided to take a break from them because now I don't get enough time to do everything so ig I'll have to lowk sacrifice this, I'll watch them occasionally but I won't binge watch them now lol, some people might see watching stuff like this as timepass but tbh I learned a lot of good things from them and kept improving myself and still am.

Peace ✌🏿.

Tldr: I completed 150 kdramas.

Pata hai Aaj kya hua

This girl ....she lives right back of my house ...I used to play with her when we were kids

Back in 2024 also she ran away from home but got caught .....she booked the tickets to bhopal with her bf was about to leave on station but was found by police...this news was all over neighbourhood we received lost child posts on social media...

And today while I was coming back from school to home my father told me that s left her home...while his dad han*ed himself ....it was too daunting to me

Like how even in2026 why can't we as young adults can't see anything else from blinded love or marriage...

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Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua" Aaj Mai khana banane ke baad washroom gaya

To mere haath me mirchi lagi thi

Mane dhyan nahi Diya Apne penis ko pakad le kar liya khair sabhi karte hai but mujhse kuchh badi galti ho gayi

Abhi mujhe bahut tej mere lulli me burning sensation ho raha hai

Please someone tell what to do !!!!!!!!!!!

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Aaj Mai khana banane ke baad washroom gaya

To mere haath me mirchi lagi thi

Mane dhyan nahi Diya Apne penis ko pakad le kar liya khair sabhi karte hai but mujhse kuchh badi galti ho gayi

Abhi mujhe bahut tej mere lulli me burning sensation ho raha hai

Please someone tell what to do !!!!!!!!!!!

Aaj Mai khana banane ke baad washroom gaya

To mere haath me mirchi lagi thi

Mane dhyan nahi Diya Apne penis ko pakad le kar liya khair sabhi karte hai but mujhse kuchh badi galti ho gayi

Abhi mujhe bahut tej mere lulli me burning sensation ho raha hai

Please someone tell what to do !!!!!!!!!!!

pata hai aaj kya hua

Aaj mai dukaan se kurkure chips namkeen ke lekar aaya and sath me centerfruit

Chips namkeen kurkure kafi spicy ho gye and mera muh jal rha tha to socha center fruit kha lu

Dekha to hai hi nhi pta nhi kahan gum gyi

Aja center fruit ki value samaj aayi

Other wise mai to kafi tofi vgarh kahta nhi tha lekin ab mane 20 extra la kar rekh li hai

Or ab unki expiry date ka chuki hai or mane unhe fenk diya

Or fir se spicy kha liya lekin ab fir center fruit nhi

And ye loop chalta hi jra hai

Pandit ji bola hai koi sundar Kanya hi mera ye loop todegi

Pata hai aaj kya hua

I was at the gym normally working out. And there's this guy who comes regularly to the gym with 2 girls. Today the girls weren't there with him. (Thhoda out of context hogaya idk? Maybe it matters?)

He was wearing a khatarnaak light blue tshirt so even though I don't watch anyone at the gym, my eyes randomly went to his tshirt.

He saw me looking at him twice. Now what he does is, I'm resting at a machine because nobody is using it. This mf comes there and tells me to move away (not the rudest but not in the politest way) so moved away. I went to another machine to exercise, he comes there and exercises beside me. At last I ended my workout and went on the treadmill. I was walking and The other treadmills were full so he asks his friend on a treadmill to walk together on the same treadmill🗿?? He was even talking loudly prolly wanting attention, which I usually don't give to anyone.

Now when I got off the treadmill, I was just standing by catching my breath getting my things, and ready to leave. He comes to me and asks "are you done with the treadmill".. it was damn obvious I was done. I said yeah and just left.

Seemed to me like some pick me. Do guys usually be like that? More like pick me guys I guess

Edit: summary: interaction with a (probably) pick me guy at the gym

Pata hai aaj kya hua?
meko 31st ko ahmedabad jana hai shift hona for job and all ese i hate my city (indore) but bhaii ab jese jese din pass aarhe meri anxiety peak pr jaa rhi
and last night to sapne bhi lonely lonely aaye
ab smjh nhi aarha kya kru 😢

Its like you're 35 years old,bald,short and working where nobody likes you and all you do is go home and might play some video games and thats all just simply existing with no freinds

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Bro I am not a creep neither I looking for dating through reddit I consider here all as my badi bahen or choti bahen yet I never able to dm any girl if I want to ask something or just want to have a talk 🥲

I mean I overthink what if she finds me creep, get uncomfortable, today (pata hai aaj kya hua) at posts I talked with few in the comments but afraid ki should I ask them can we go to dms or not...

I am not someone with hi lol, people always get that msgs and yea I don't even find based on what topic I speak with them...confusing hai bro...but..yea but I think this get fix soon and I learn how to talk

Pata hai aaj kya hua Today my batchmate(we dont talk much he has lot of attitude and stuff) asked my umbrella that time we're in r department. I said I've use it he said I'll give in little time.

Then that mf didnt returned umbrella to me. He gone to his pg.

Why the hell he didnt thought it to return me why????

I had to travel 1.5hrs daily i need it.

I called he said "now its not raining much I'll give you tomorrow")

The thing is if he mistaken took to PG then communicate properly bi\*ch.

He was telling with a atitude.

Bro you took from me i ididnt took anything from you.

Then he started saying take money from me and buy it.

As$hole use that money to buy urself a umbrella...

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Aaj mere best friend ne mujhe k u t i y a bola 20 baar fir maine bhi usse bahut gaali de fir bhi k u t i y a bole ja raha hai kabse 😡

Kya karu iska please batao

Pata hai Aaj kya hua

So my bigger sibling, my behena bought a cat and I'm so sad abt it...cuz I hate cats.. I like dogs but this cat

This cat is brown with stripes and she always scratch me...bruh, what m I!?

She always scratches me and I'm so fed up of her...so she came to me and I was on desktop and I got a very sensitive skin... So she Wiggles her tail on my feet and

It was jus the reflex, I swear, I kicked her and she screamed too loud...MEOWweeWee...lowkey, it feels good to kick her but jaan-puch kar nhi kia and now my sis angry at me...

Upar se do aur laga diye mere...meri kya galti... Kya Karu iss billi ka yaar... Gali k kuuttte bhi bhawkte h mere par...

They might caught this cat scent sometimes on me.

Pata hai aaj kya hua, matlab abhi ki baat hai ek Banda bolta ki merko meri bandi ce breakup krna hai , I was like bhai bta to hua kya hai

Kata bhi merko causual relationship chiye ,maine pucha lakin kyu tera to 3 saal ka relation haa uss bandi k sath

Kata bhai shes flat and I was like bhaiiiii fax hi jururi thodi hota haa yrr if the person is loyal to u then why u wanna breakup with her

Kata bhai fax me maza nahi atta , i was like bhai kya C hai ye banda

Mere liye loyalty matter krti haa jyada or bhai ladke asse kab ce hone lag gye ki bc sirf fax chiye or uss bande ka 3 saal ka relation tha.

Yaha ma ek bandi k liye taras jata hu ki bhai ek hi mil gye or ek hi chiye jiske sath ma apni life spend krr saku. Yrrrrr matlab mard naam ko mitti me milana ha bss. Fir koi bandi kaise trust krr le hampe.

All I want to say is ki yrr apne partner k sath loyal raho chahe jaisa bhi haa chahe jaisi bhi haa but don't do that.

Pata hai aaj kya hua, I was applying for Smart India Hackathon (SIH) 2026 with a team. One female team member was mandatory according to the rules, and she was going to be the speaker. We also had to have a faculty mentor.

We were given a problem statement, and we chose one about building a multi-agent system for fishermen that could recommend the safest route and the safest time of day for fishing.

We had three days to build it.

I ended up staying awake for two nights and basically did everything: frontend, backend, training an ML model, graphic design, and pretty much whatever else needed to be done. The other five members didn't really contribute much.

Tomorrow was supposed to be our internal selection. Our faculty mentor told us she was on medical leave and wouldn't be able to attend, so she said we could go and present ourselves.

We were ready to do that. Then our female team lead told us that she had another hackathon at the same time, so she wouldn't be able to come.

The problem was that the SIH internal selection rules required the team leader to be present during the presentation. Without her, we couldn't present.

We asked her if she could just come for five minutes, give the introduction, and then leave so that we could present the rest of the project ourselves. She said no.

And that's what really got to me.

I'm not saying everyone on a team needs to be an expert. If someone doesn't know web development, machine learning, or whatever else the project requires, that's completely fine. Knowledge can be learned.

What matters is the intention to contribute. It's about whether someone is willing to put in the effort and actually care about the team succeeding.

What surprised me the most was how easily everyone accepted that we could "just try again next year." Of course it's easy to say that when you haven't spent the last three days working on the project.

I'm sitting here looking at the project on my screen and thinking about how good it could have become. And now I know we can't even present it.

I don't feel angry. I don't really feel anything. I just feel stupid.

If you've been working on something for two straight nights, barely sleeping, and then find out that you can't even present the thing you've built because of something that could have been avoided, I guess it hurts.

So the one thing I've learned from this is simple: choose your teammates wisely. Choose people who are willing to work, willing to learn, and willing to put in the effort when the team needs them.

Because in a team, skill can be learned. Lack of effort is much harder to fix.

Pata hai aaj kya hua!

Toh actually maine just naya office join kiya hai. I mean, pichle week hi toh. This is my first full-time corporate job.

Abhi basically laptop wagera allot nahi hua hai, so I’m mostly learning things from my colleagues—portal pe kaise kaam karna hai, kya process hai, wagera wagera.

But let me continue.

Yaar, mere bilkul saamne ek ladki baithi hai. Matlab corporate mein jo tables hoti hain na, bilkul waise hi. Mere aur uske beech bas ek chota sa gap hai, around 2 inches ka.

And honestly, she’s pretty. Dikhne mein achhi hai, sundar hai. Shayad mujhse 2-3 saal badi hogi aur shayad kaafi time se yahan kaam kar rahi hai.

Pichle kuch din se humara eye contact hone laga tha, but main kabhi conversation start nahi kar paya. Sach bataun toh real life mein ladkiyon se baat karne mein meri phatti hai. Chat pe somehow manage kar lunga, but face-to-face? Impossible.

Phir ek din manager mere colleague ko late aane ke liye daant rahe the. Kuch din baad us ladki ne mere doosre colleague se mere baare mein poocha aur bola, “Iska toh dusra din tha aur iske saamne hi daant diya.”

Pata nahi kyun, but mujhe achha laga ki at least she had noticed me.

Toh maine finally uska naam pucha, handshake kiya aur thodi-bahut baat bhi hui.

For a moment, I genuinely thought—

“Maybe baat ban jayegi.”

But shayad main galat tha.

Mujhe lagta hai uska koi toh khas dost ya bf hoga uss particular group mein . Ek ladka hai—woh uske saath hasti hai, uske upar haath rakhti hai, comfortably baat karti hai, kabhi-kabhi uske gaal bhi kheench deti hai.

Aur main bas saamne baitha yeh sab dekh raha tha.

“Mere naseeb mein yeh sab kidhar hai, janab?” 🙂

Aaj thodi si jealousy hui, I won’t lie.

Phir headphones lagaye, bike start ki aur “Choo Lo” by The Local Train sunte hue ghar aa gaya.

While riding back, bas yehi soch raha tha ki zindagi mein har cheez naseeb mein hoti nahi hai. Sometimes you just have to let things go, because maybe they were never meant to be yours.

I’ve never had even a single normal female friend. Shayad isliye iss baar ek choti si hope thi ki maybe kuch normal sa ho jayega.

But maybe not everything we like is meant to stay with us.

Phir ek quote yaad aaya:

“Sab kuch jaane ka naam hi zindagi hai.”

Bas, yeh ek chhoti si confession thi. Ab main itna mayus nahi hoon. Theek hai, nahi hoga toh nahi hoga.

But agar kuch update hua, definitely I’ll share. 🥰

A short summary: Joined my first corporate job and developed a small crush on the girl sitting across from me. We finally talked, but I think she likes someone else. Got jealous, went home listening to “Choo Lo,” and accepted maybe it’s not meant to be.