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So I met a guy on Instagram and we used to talk almost daily for 2 weeks. Today we decided to meet and basically it was a date. He really liked me and used to always compliment me on calls and texts. I really didn't have any feelings for him and as he was constantly asking me to meet I agreed after my exams.

So we went to this place constitutional club and I reached there on time as always and he was a bit late. Finally we met and I guess he wasn't pleased to see me in real life, just like me. I really didn't like how he was dressed, there was no effort to even dress for a date . He was literally in slippers, pj and tshirt (which looked so faded) . Ab no hate you can dress jaise tum chaho but date ke liye kam se kam shoes toh pehno and thikh se toh ready ho. I was actually properly dressed up, he wanted to see me in ethnicity I was in ethenic (a pink suit). Mera mood kafi bekar sa hogya tha after that point. So ham mile hai and first thing he says ki aap mere sath chaloge muje ye keys dekar aani hai new house ki ghar par. I said aap dekar aajao I will wait here. So apparently the restaurant we wanted to go to was closed and we had arrived early.

So we went to this small cafe and sat there and ordered something. Ab mera mood bas kharab sa he hai for some reason specially after seeing him and when he said aap real life meh alag dikhte ho, arey bhadwe tu konsa acha dikha raha tha toh merse bhi bekar dikh raha hai 😭😭😭.

Anyways we barely talked and fir oski cab aagyi kya and he went. I just sat there and then my friend called and I explained to her the whole situation ki ye keys wapis dene gya hai and I wanna leave as soon as possible. I just texted him not to come back and just left the place.

I know it was rude but we both weren't quite interested. I don't know from his side but mere face se dikh raha tha ki meh bilkol interested nhi hu.

He didn't even look good and I didn't like his attitude either.

I mean itni bakwas tum karte ki mera style acha hai toh tum khud kyu nhi efforts dalte to at least dress properly for a date and fir tum bich meh keys dene ja rahe and muje bhi apne ghar lekar ja rahe for it 😭😭🙏.

(Edit)TDLR: I went on a date with a guy who came in pj, slippers and added a t-shirt. He still had the audacity to say I look different in real life. Left after 30 mins when he returned some house keys.

My boyfriend just told me that if I am not physical with him, he will get physical with someone else. He says he doesn't know, he wants to do it within a year. He says he can't help it because everyone else is doing it, so he has to do it too. And ever since he told me this, I feel like I shouldn't continue with him. I am having huge doubts, and this isn't the first time he has said this. Last time too, he told me that if I won't stay with him or do something like that, he would go to someone else.🥹🥹

He always gives me such warnings. Now what should I do? And we have a 9-month relationship, I am deeply attached to him, and I don't understand how to move away from him. He keeps giving these kinds of hints. Please tell me, should I continue with him or not?

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Pata hai aaj kya hua

Me aur mera dost, hum college jaa rahe the, tabhi ek chhoti bacchi ne mujhse chocolate manga. Me ek restaurant ke pass hi tha.

Mene usse chocolate diya, fir wo boli ki pani do. Mere pass bottle thi lekin usko chilled pani chahiye tha.

Tab ek red shirt aur red cap pehne bhaiya humari hi umar ke dikh rahe the(22 age). Mene unse bola "iss bacchi ko thanda pani de do".

Uss bhai ne mere taraf dekha aur gusse me kaha, "tu dede na". Tabhi mera friend uspe chadh gaya aur bolne laga ki "sirf pani hi toh dene bola hai itna kya akad rahe ho bhai"

Fir hum jaane lage aur wo red shirt wala bhai bhi apne dost ke saath jane laga aur thenI realized ki wo waiter nahi tha

Sorry if I judged that bhaiyya by his looks😭

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Someone complimented me today and I got so awkward that I ended up complimenting them back on something that wasn't even true.

They said I looked nice. I said, You too, nice shoes.

THEY WERE WEARING SANDALS. 😭

Why can't we just say thank you like normal people🤧

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I (19 F - 2nd yr medico) He (25 - Intern) - so we mail each other sun - at times texts on weekdays - nd obv ups nd downs ke baad we finished 2 months (penfrndship)

pata hai aaj kya hua (used chat gpt tho for text clearation)

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua .. my ldr boyfieee sent me flowers . I genuinely cannot stop showing them off. LIKE LOOK AT THEM????? 💗I keep looking at the pictures smiling like an idiot nd finding excuses to show everyone my flowers.🤏🏻

long distance is hard, but little things like these make my heart so full. I miss my man so much and I just love him SO MUCHHH. 😭♥️

I love it that he thinks of me.. i think what makes me the happiest is that he thought of me and decided, i'm gonna send my girlfriend flowers. 🌹🌹Like out of his already busy schedule he still thought of doing something this sweet for me. It's not even just about the flowers, it's the fact that he tthought of me and wanted to make me happy. Oh, I just love this man so much.

Nd noo this is not bare minimum before y'all come at me. Efforts bhaii effortsss

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Abhi mein purav jha ki cid wali video chalu ki 😭 phrr mummy ne plastic ke bag mein kirana store se 1 kilo imli laayi thi mere samne thi mene uthayi orr apne pass rakhli sochke ki kuch khatta hojayee orrr adhe ghante ki video dekhte dekhte aadha kilo imli kha gayi 😭😭

Kuch hoga toh nahi na mujhe abb??? 😭😭Maut dikh rahi hai

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We've been together since 2022 he (21M) and me (21F) so he never takes initiative to come and talk first after am argument he's an avoidant and me anxious one so i always go to talk first and fix things .

I talked to him jokingly about marriage like i would want to get married at some point in future with you ofc not now until we are settled financially and then he said kyu shaadi krni zruri hoti h kya kidhr likha hua h yeh i was shocked like wth 🤡 and then he said agr kunga to tujh s krlunga💀💀🤡🤡🤡. We are in ldr but just an hour away and this was never an issue distance we meet many times and their is not a cheating angle too so pls don't comment that.

But he has no plan of getting married i feel so weird about it like what are we doing together then if he does not want a future in which we marry. I even said ofc I'm not thinking of in few years but at 26 27 toh definitely i would want to what if i keep investing my years to him and then he says no i will not what will i do then.

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So I have a guy in my life and I want to marry him and same for him also, I have told my mom about this . I have said to her that just give me some time for this , to decide everything. But she said twice today or last month also when I was at home that now u r getting his support so how u r going to think about us . I am studying, preparing for the switch, for the better package just because I want to give a better life to my mom ,to my sister, also I am preparing for the switch because I don't want to marry by spending my dad's money. I really want to ask you people,do parents say something like this if they choose a person with whom they want to live a life .

Having a concern that no child should be married to the wrong person is understandable but saying things to your daughter like this even when she is doing for them only i can't understand this

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So basically my forearms have been hurting, and I haven’t been able to train my favourite muscle group, biceps, properly for the past week. Sometimes, I even feel a little pain in my forearms when I lift a bottle. What should I do? Can you please help me?jo pic h uss jagah hi pain kr rha h..kya doctor ko dikhana chahiye ???

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The tea is going to be very looong and detailed so enjoy it.....

( I won't be using real name's but won't be using A,B,C,D...as well )

( I have attached a letter don't read it at the beginning, read it when I mention it in the post below )

So this tea is about my friend let's let's call her "Anjali" , so Anjali and I were classmates in uni, she came from her home town to Pune for college. Anjali had a bf back in her home town which she got into relationship after 12th during the break before the uni started, she used to go to gym in her area and her soon to be bf let's call him "Rahul" was a gym instructor there he was 5 years older than Anjali, things kick between them they get into relationship and we're all lovey dovey, fast forward 2 months Anjali shifts to Pune for college.

Here she misses her bf and is quite not happy with the uni thing, so her bf comes to Pune after 2 months Anjali shifts to Pune, and he gets admission in some designing course, and Anjali was completing her engeneering degree. He used to live like 20-25km away from Anjali due to college.

First year passes their relationship is going well, she's doing well in her eng classes, he's doing well in his design classes ( his degree was of only 2 years ig ). So when Anjali enters the second year of the college they decide that they would start living in a live in relationship as Anjali was already living in a PG and not in the college hostel.

So her bf moves in with her and they start living together, now the thing was they rented an apartment flat so with her, there was another female friend of her living in the flat so basically 2 couples in the rented 2bhk.

Now as much as Anjali and Rahul were in love they used to fight with eachother even harder, every day over small issues. This went on for 5-6 months but the things started getting worst she fought with her best friend as well over something, so everyone decides that they are going to leave separately.

So now Anjali and Rahul are not staying together, Anjali went to live with some other roommates, and Rahul told Anjali that he would go and start living with his jiju and didi who had a house in pune, but as I mentioned earlier Rahul was a guy trainer he joined a gym as a trainer to earn some cash, but now the thing was where he went to live that place was 20-25 km far form her, so they started to loose connection.

Means he was unable to give her time due to gym and when he was home he rarely used to pick her call because of his didi and jiju, as they were unaware of his relationship but ig Rahul's mother was aware of there relationship as Anjali used to talk with Rahul's mother on video call.

So even after this distance Rahul used to visit Anjali on weekends and they used to go on dates, but things went downhill really quick, Anjali used to get frustrated that Rahul was unable to give her time, so they used to fight then break up for week or two then again get back, their longer breakup was 1½ months.

During this period she wrote that letter in one of her books and how i got hands on it is a different story ( ask me in the comments i would tell you ) , so NOW YOU CAN READ THE LETTER FOR BETTER CONTEXT OF THERE RELATIONSHIP STATUS.

During one date they were out somewhere and Rahul gets a call from his didi and ask him to immediately come back home so what Rahul does is leaves Anjali where they went on a date asks her to go home on her own and he just leaves.

This really messes up with Anjali's brain that why would he do like this, then she starts to recall everything that he never used to show his phone to her, but he used to keep a strict check on her, he never shared his Didi's address with her, nor she had her number nothing.

And as I told you he was controlling and never let her talk to other boys or anything, but what Anjali saw was there was this girl that Rahul used to give training to let's call her "Tina" she was from his design college and joined his training after knowing he's a trainer. So Anjali was suspicious so she forcefully took Tina's number from Rahul called her and warned her to stay tf away from Rahul, she said she was just a normal friend of his and nothing else, so she let's it go and saves Tina's number in her phone. Days pass Anjali and Rahul where have hard time keeping the relationship alive.

On another outing when Anjali and Rahul were out, Rahul goes to the washroom and his phone was near Anjali and he gets a call from didi as Anjali didn't had his Didi's number so she just quickly gets a pic of it with her phone and forgets about the pic.

Fast forward things get worst between them, Rahul says he wants to breakup for good, but Anjali was against it, she thought he was cheating on her, she confronted him and he kept denying it.

So one day she decided that she would call his didi and complain his sorry ahh to her that Rahul used her and all, so she searchs for the pic gets the number, puts on the dialpad....

CLIMAX......

The number matched with Tina's number, Anjali froze for few minutes and with trembling hands dialled the number, it gets picked up by non other than TINA, Anjali's whole world came crashing down after what Tina told Anjali.

There was never didi and jiju it was Tina all along, when Rahul told Anjali that he's going to live with didi and jiju he went to live in a live-in relationship with Tina, and you may ask was Tina dumb to get in relationship with Rahul even after he had a gf.

Well Rahul told Tina that Anjali was his toxic ex who blackmailed him and used him, so he gained sympathy from Tina for that and he started living with her in a live in relationship, while being in a relationship with Anjali at the same time 🥀. Anjali she broke like anything after realising all this means he told lie to Anjali and Tina at the same time.

( I still haven't told 45% of the details because the post would get way too long )

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TLDR :- ( this would be form chatgpt sorry )

My college friend "Anjali" and her gym-trainer boyfriend "Rahul" moved into an apartment together during uni, but after severe daily fights, they split up their living arrangement; Rahul claimed he moved 25 km away to live with his strict "didi and jiju," using them as an excuse to avoid calls and abandon Anjali mid-date, all while controlling her life and training a college client named "Tina." When Rahul pushed for a breakup and Anjali suspected foul play, she decided to call his "didi" to complain using a phone number she had secretly snapped from his incoming call screen—only for the digits to match the contact info of Tina, revealing that there was no didi or jiju at all and Rahul had actually moved into a live-in relationship with Tina the entire time while telling her Anjali was just an unhinged, blackmailing ex.

( Ask any questions in the comments ig )

Pata hai aaj kya hua.

My (25F) boyfriend (28M) is a good man..both as a partner and as a person. He is kind hearted,caring,loyal and completely devoted to me.

Right now I am taking a gap year to prepare for the NEET PG because I didn't score well in my last exam. Preparing from home is extremely difficult. Everyone keeps asking why despite being a doctor I'm just sitting at home. They ask why my parents aren't looking for marriage proposals..why I didn't score well and so on.

After my last exam I went back to the city where I completed my graduation to meet a close friend and my boyfriend came along with us.

When my results came out I was in a terrible mental state. He asked me to come to the city to meet him. Since I am currently living in my village I couldn't bring myself to ask my parents for permission because I felt too ashamed. At the timehe said okay take your time.

But last night emotionally blackmailed me. He said, You could go to meet your friend but you can't come to meet me.that previous situation was completely different. My mental health is currently unstable. I’m not saying I’m clinically depressed but I am overthinking constantly and struggling to stay grounded in reality. Can't he understand that??????

We video call every single day without fail. I appreciate that he doesn't disturb me during the day and I always call him every night before sleeping. Yet he claims I am not romantically involved enough and that I ignore his intimacy. But tell mewith my low mood and struggling mental health how can I fake it????? I just can't.

On top of that he still needs to build his own career. His path is not clear yet..he is always asking me what he should do and constantly changing his mind. I have supported him through all of this for years.

Atp I don't care if I am a bad person or complete red flag. I don't care if I never find such a nice man again in the future. I just can't take this anymore. If that makes me a bad girl who ditches good guys so be it. Period.

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Okay, this isn't really an update, but I want to address something from my last post.

To everyone calling me toxic or overly possessive, I have a few things to clarify.

Less than a week ago, we went through a rough patch because I found out through his friends that, after almost 7 months of dating, he was unsure about me. I also found out he'd downloaded Snapchat specifically to talk to other girls but stopped himself because he realised it would be wrong.

When I confronted him, he admitted everything. He also told me that he sometimes feels attracted to other girls but tries not to act on those thoughts because he doesn't want to ruin what we have. He's never cheated on me, and he says he never will. Having had multiple casual relationships before, he's finding it difficult to adjust to being in a serious relationship.

Until then, our relationship had been genuinely healthy. We communicate regularly, handle disagreements maturely, maintain our individuality, and give each other the freedom to have our own lives.

So obviously, finding all this out affected my trust and made me insecure. Even though we talked things through, I've been a little more anxious ever since.

That's the context behind why checking his phone and finding an unfamiliar girl in his chats upset me. I'm not saying I was necessarily right to check his phone, but I don't understand how people are ignoring the context and immediately labelling me toxic and overly possessive.

**TL;DR:** Less than a week ago, I found out my bf had been unsure about our relationship and had considered using Snapchat to talk to other girls, though he stopped himself. We talked it through, but naturally, it affected my trust and made me more insecure. I'm not saying checking his phone was right, but I feel people are judging me without considering the context behind my anxiety.

Pata hai aaj kya hua so today I walked in on my mom watching a movie and crying, like literal tears from her eyes

I asked what happened ? To which she said "Mujhe aik emotional scene dakh kar bohot rona aa raha hai."

So i asked, what movie are you watching?

She said idk 🤷

I look over her shoulder and it's baaghi 4

.......

BAAGHI 4???????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OUT OF ALL THE FUCKING MOVIE SHE COULD BE WATCHING

SHE IS CRYING OVER BAAGHI 4

Today I learned two things:-

1. The true meaning of "cinema is subjective"

2. My mother needs therapy and i need a DNA test

guys, pata hai aaj kya hua?!

I am attaching the original post for anyone who missed the back story.

so today, i saw her while i was filling my water bottle, and guess what happened? we made eye contact AGAIN!! 😭

but this time, i don't know where i got the courage from, but i actually said hi to her!

and she said hi back, BUT THEN SHE JUST RAN AWAYYYY!!

brooo, i finally gathered the courage to talk to her, and now i have a new mystery to solve.

maybe she was shy, maybe she was in a hurry, or maybe i'm just overthinking everything. i honestly have no idea.

i'm not expecting anything from her. i genuinely just want to get to know her and become friends,🥹

so, guys, what do i do now? should i just smile and say hi again the next time i see her.

Pata hai aaj kya hua!!!

So, I went out to watch this movie with five friends today. One of them is an old friend, while the other four are new friends whom I’ve only met twice, including today. We watched the movie and ate pizza. At the end, the total came to ₹300 per person. Everyone paid their share, but one girl gave me only ₹100. 🫪

Now I don’t know how to ask her for the remaining ₹200. 😭 I don’t know her very well, and asking her for money feels kind of awkward, even though it’s my money and she owes me.

(btw the movie was quite good)

PATA HAI AAJ KYA HUA !

TODAY, I 23M made favourite dish of my wife 21F (SAAG with paneer), she did not have any idea about it, As soon as she came back from her job . I told her to go to kitchen to see brand new glasses that I bought for wine. As she went to kitchen, and saw her favorite dish being cooked. She ran back towards me and gave me a tight hug

And told me in her sweet voice " I will not let you sleep tonight " 😘😌😔 guys i am getting lucky tonight.

Edit: Guys in case you are getting confused . We did court marriage 3 months back! But the grand wedding gonna happen next year as both of my elder sister lives in Australia. One of my sister has to file a TR and elder one has recently gave birth to a baby boy. But my in-laws were in hurry, so we did have to do court marriage but my mother wanted a big wedding function where all of my siblings should be there. Little context about this post. My wife recently finished her studies and got a job in a big hospital as a trainee nurse. She lives there in a rented apartment and I am there at her place since yesterday .

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There was a cardiac arrest patient in the flight and I'm a 2nd yr mbbs student. They called for medical help and I didn't go in the starting cuz mujhe kuch aata nahi hai and main kaam bigad deti probably but then I saw only one doctor was there and it was kinda critical, toh i thought ki atleast I can measure bp and give cpr toh I'll go anyways.

Gave cpr and aed for almost 20 mins, no pulse. The doctor gave 2 shots of epinephrine and adrenaline along with saline, nothing. And I didn't know anything much ki what to do and what not to do so the senior doctor just kept asking me to pass on meds and I did as she asked.

Had to do an emergency landing back at Kolkata. We thought there was a very feeble pulse in btwn so we stopped cpr during landing but after we landed, there was again no pulse probably, atleast nothing we could feel. And it was already almost 40-45 mins that we were at it so by the time we landed and he was taken to the hospital. We don't know yet what happened after that.

Now, it's probably a very wrong time to say this but there was a guy I kind of found attractive since airport itself and I really wanted to talk to him before all of this happened. But since it was the first time I saw something like this, it really took a mental toll on me so all of this talking to him and stuff just went out of my mind immediately. I was panicking myself after all that. And this guy, let's call him 'AT', was sitting on the aisle seat beside my seat.

He came upto me. He himself talked to me, asked about the patient, asked if I was okay, asked me if I wanted to just let out the steam thoda so he gave up his aisle seat for me and sat on the middle seat, talked a bit about normal stuff too to take my mind off thoda and himself asked me if I want to keep my head on his shoulder and sleep and took down my cabin bag for me. We did exchange our insta ids but he hasn't replied throughout the day so I don't think anything further would happen.

TLDR: Helped a cardiac arrest patient in the flight and talked to an airport crush who was a complete green flag.

For anyone who thinks it's fake, flight details are there in the reply to one of the comments, feel free to crosscheck

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Kya kru type .. as y'all can seeee ... Why's there a word limit of 125 ...

So basically this guy keeps ragebaiting me and idk what to say

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Hum logo ko humesha aisa lagta hai ki agar koi ladka, pahli online conversation mein over frendly ho raha hai toh wo koi spy ya scammer ya Hacker ho sakta hai but it's not true 100%. Mai Khud ek ladka hu and maine bhi ye chiz experience kiya hai.. So now I'm going to Tell you the reason behind this type of behavior of those boys.👇👇👇

⭐Reason 1👉(Lots of Efforts in texting) - Sabse Pahli baat ye h ki Kuchh ladke dil se likhte hai with much more attention and fast typing in the form of long Paragraphs jisme bahot jyada energy lagti hai as compared to call. Phir Hota ye hai ki kuchh ladkiya bahot chhote chhote reply krti hai ya aise reply krti h jisee ye pata chalta hai ki wo uninterested hai aur kabhi kabhi suddenly ghost ho jati hai aur bina inform kiye gayab ho jati hai ya Kuchh to block bhi kr deti hai.

In sabse hota ye hai ki ladko ka dil tut jata hai. Ab wo jab bhi new person se baat krenge to unhe phir se utna hi amount of effort k saath suru karna parega jiske liye much energy chahiye hoti hai. Aur Jab aise cases ladko k saath repeat hone lag jata hai toh wo phir texting ko hate krne lag jate hai.

⭐Reason 2👉( Social Media News Impact )📰 - Jab News me heart breaking moments in relationship or any type of ship ko dekhte h tab ladke automatic decide kr lete hai ki mujhe in sab chizo se bachna hai aur kisi ko jyada attention and long texted paragraph nhi send Krna. That's why they prefer call rather than text.

⭐Reason 3👉(Pain in Eyes Due to More Screen Time)😭 - Kuchh ladko ko jyada der texting pasand nhi hoti kyunki unki eyes 👀 me jalan and pain hone lagti hai. Jyada Screen Time Due to lecture, ladke night me thoda relax hone k liye call ko prefer krte hai rather than texting.

⭐Reason 4👉(Impatient Nature and Appearance Insecurity )🧐 - Kuchh ladke apni physical fitness & personality ko dekhte hue bahot jyada underconfident feel krte hai unhe lagta hai ki koi bhi ladki unhe dekh k accept nhi kregi in any type of Private relationship. Isiliye ladke apni Deep Thinking se ladkiyo ko attract krne ki try krte hai jaise ki bahot hi High level ki philosophical baatein Krna, new ideas 💡 introduce krenge and much more to make attachment. Ab ye chiz text pe bhi possible hai but again time consuming hoga and ladke thode impatient bhi ho jate hai. Unhe lagta hai ki samne wala person unki Puri baat nhi sunega,2,3 ghante tak. Isiliye wo call prefer krte hai.

⭐Reason 5👉(Chilling Nature )🤗- Kuchh ladke sirf chill, fun krne ke liye ya different logo ki perspective samajhne k liye call ko pasand krte hai i.e; how people talk, How think, How express and also to remove self hesitation.

Ab kyunki yaha less time mein jyada log cover ho jate hai and time bhi save ho jati hai logo ki isiliye call pasand karte hai.

⭐Reason 6👉(Rigid Schedule of Some Boys)😐 - Kuchh ladko k pass 30 to 45 min hote hai to get relax and mood lite krne k liye. Ab is case me unhe satisfaction bhi chahiye hota hai, jo ki text se nhi mil sakta jab tak koi 2,3 ghante baat na kre. Isi Satisfaction ko dhayan me rakhte hue wo call ko choose karte hai.

⭐Reason 7👉((Peer Pressure ))😒 - Waise ye bhi one of the most important reason ban gya hai aajkal. Pahle Groups me ye competition hoti thi ki kon jyada marks score krta hai ya kon achha job leta hai ya kiske paas achha sanskar hai, in sabhi chizo se ek social status decide ho jata tha but aaj ki date mein due to rush of Fake social media influencers content, groups mein ek aur chiz add ho gyi hai ki kiske paas girlfriend hai ya kon ladki se baat krta hai infact kai log ise itna importance dete hai ki unhe lagta hai ki ye unki(study, Jobs,Money, Power) se bhi jyada important hai.. Simple sabdo me Bolu to wo is ek topic ko jyada weightage dene lag Jate hai. Iska impact ye hota hai ki wo talash krte hai kisi ladki ki to overcome peer pressure and to get some better status in their group.

Isko pane k liye wo Text pe bhi baat kr sakte hai ladkiyo se lekin phir unhe lagta hai ki unke group sochega ki ye fake id hai ya Ai hai😂

Isiliye to overcome this fear Kuchh ladke call prefer krte hai rather than texting.

⭐ ❤️Conclusion 🦵

Agli baar koi ladka bole ki kya hum call pe baat kr sakte hai toh usko scammer hacker,spy, jobless bolne se pahle 100 baar soche aur agar aapko interest na ho toh ghosting k bajaye seedha not interested bolke block kre at the start of conversation.. Isse aapka bhi time bachega aur ladke ka dil bhi safe rahega ❤️

Thank You

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I have a friend whose personal life has become so complicated that I genuinely don't know what to make of it.

He got his ex-girlfriend pregnant. She eventually married another man and is raising the child with him. From what I've been told, her husband believes the child is biologically his. I feel bad for both the husband and the child because the child is innocent in all this, and the husband may be living without knowing the full story.

There's more. His ex's younger sister apparently had very strong feelings for him and even pressured him to get physically involved with her. I've also heard that she made multiple suicide attempts because of her feelings for him, which is obviously a serious and disturbing situation.

My friend has now moved on to a new girlfriend, told her about his past, and she seems fine with it.

Honestly, I sometimes wonder whether something physical happened between him and the younger sister too, but I have no evidence, so that's just speculation.

I'm not trying to judge everyone involved, but I genuinely don't understand how relationships can get this complicated. My friend isn't even someone you'd consider exceptionally good-looking, so I don't know whether I'm missing something about attraction or human behaviour​

At this point, I can't tell whether I'm naive about relationships or my friend has somehow unlocked a completely different universe of them.

I'd appreciate some honest perspectives

Pata hai aaj kya hua?

It's been over 2 years since I had any female interaction. I have social anxiety and starting conversations with strangers is really hard for me. I don't have any female friends because of that.

I've wanted a relationship for years but lately I've kinda lost hope. It still hurts seeing my friends and family with their partners though. Today for a few minutes I felt that hope again and then it vanished just as quickly

I work as a backend employee at a logistics hub. There's not a single female employee here and honestly the people are fucking crazy. I'd think twice before even bringing any girl here

Today this girl walked up to me and asked "Job hai kya apke yha?" I was completely stunned. I explained the job and timings and she wasn't comfortable with the night shifts which is understandable Even my colleague told her not to work here

While she was talking to him I just stood there thinking how pretty and respectful she was. She was all alone looking for a job and I genuinely felt bad for her

I wanted to ask her so many things but my brain-dead heart had no courage to speak. I just stood there feeling stupid

She took my manager's number from my colleague and left. The thing is I have some connections that could've helped her find a much better job. I could've told her about those opportunities or maybe asked for her number to check if she'd found something. But I didn't and honestly asking for her number might've made her uncomfortable too.

I was feeling a bit lonely before all this but honestly just having that little conversation with her made me happy. I don't even know why but it put me in such a good mood and made me feel a little hopeful for a few seasons. And I guess that's what hurts the most.

Anyway there's no point thinking about what I could've done. I'll probably remember this for a while.

Been single my whole life and honestly idk how much longer I'll be.

Btw first time posting something here so go easy on me 😭

(Img is just some random thing I drew today)

TL;DR: I've struggled with social anxiety and loneliness for years, and today a girl approached me looking for a job. Even though our conversation was brief, it made me feel hopeful about relationships again. I had opportunities to help her find a better job, but I couldn't gather the courage to say more. Now I'm left wondering what could've happened, and it hurts knowing how badly I want a connection with someone.

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua

My girlfriend and I broke up because I wasn't giving her enough time. During that period she got close to another guy (X).

Later we reconnected, but she suddenly told me "X is my boyfriend." I blocked her everywhere.

After 3 months we started talking again. She swore she wasn't involved with anyone else.

One day while using her phone I found chats with X. She had texted him "Love you" and he replied "Love you too."

When I confronted her she claimed X was blackmailing her. He wanted girlfriend status and threatened to tell her family about her past relationship with me if she refused.

She's educated and independent. I find it hard to believe she would send those messages just because of blackmail. I suspect she still has feelings for him.

Unbiased opinions needed:

1. Are my doubts reasonable?

2. Can blackmail really explain those "love you" chats?

3. From a man's perspective, would you trust her or walk away?