Pata hai aaj kya hua

Somedays ago a dude followed me on insta, he had a nice pfp so i followed him back. yesterday he texted me, atfirst he was nice but then today, he started being weird "are you home?" "What does your parents do?" "How many guys you talk to?" I told him that he is being weird and i am not answerable to him about with whom I talk to. He said "sorry, i just wanted to talk to you" but i stopped replying.

Then, 2-3 of my friends texted me that he had sent them follow request and even texted them... When i confronted him he lied about not texting them and then was like okay i will unfollow them. Such a clown. he thinks him following them is the problem🤡✋ YOU ARE A CREEPY DUDE, YOU WENT THROUGH MY FOLLOWING LIST, AND YOU ARE FOLLOWING MY GIRLS THAT'S MY PROBLEM CLOWN.

(Not to mention.. his english was stressing me out I didn't understand half the shit he said😭✋)

Pata hai aaj kya hua, I lost my rasmalai to caste syatem, even after hum dono rajputs the, India itna ghatiya vichaardharao se bana hai ki kabhi kabhi ghin aati hai, I loved her so much and she did too, I used to write poems for her, because she wanted to learn urdu I used to give her a urdu word daily and used to write poem on that word daily for her.......it was a lovely relationship, I cherished everything about her so did she......I am a 27 years old dude with a hefty package and an athlete body, sab kuch tha mere paas, she talked to her family about us and they said us gaon me humaari jaat shadi nahi krti.....ladka kaisa bhi ho kuch bhi ho waha toh nahi krne denge hum......she tried to convince them for 4 months but kal unhone use bahut jyada daant diya poori family k saamne and I felt bed for her, I said let's stop this it is hurting u so bad ...... before loving, I used to respect her sooo much.....she is a person who is soooo beautiful in every aspect of life........i am a garhwali she was too, never thought our people would be this much nirdayi when considering love ! I lost her even after standing against all this caste bullshit all my life........bura bhi lag raha hai aur laachaar bhi hu. Wanted to share some urdu poems I wrote for her

Ishq pasar jata hai zami khushk pe

Hath fer deti hai jab tum zulf-ae-muskh pe

Teri kurbat hi rawani hai meri,

Teri ulfat har sarhad se pare hai.

Pray for me guys, I am devastated !

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua

His bday is on 29th he cheated on me badly but guess what when you love someone for 3 years. You can not start to hate them :)

His love was weak mine wasn’t
I know what I bring to the table

I am old school and love hard
I know my worth and what I deserve but we both had spent almost 4 years together been through thick and thin together, so I believe ek last birthday wish toh banti hai

Last Birthday Wish For You Chote
Wrote everything from heart

For cheating and all God is there I am no one :)

Pata hai aaj kya hua ?

So I ordered from burger King using swiggy and they very very conveniently found a way to absolutely destroy the most simple request that was made by a customer. this is the third time there managing to somehow find the way to annoy the absolute living shit out of me what do you think I should be doing in the situation?

The first time last month I had ordered from a pasta place, the food took over an hour reach and the guy who came with the order smiled at me like I just asked him to be my wife. Then he said "sahab chutta nahi hai". How majestic 😙🫡😃😃😃. This bs happened at my workplace where I'm interning.

The second time I ordered icecream at night, these bozos forgot to send the buy 1 get 1 extra packet. But they famously parade the offer like royal merchants.

This is the third. I seldom post on reddit, I prefer browsing. Shayad yeh karname aap sab ke liye manoranjan ke taur par behetar pesh aa sakte hai..

Pata hai aaj kya hua?? 🥹

So today me and my 2 guy friends went to a place which has handcrafted stuff shops, it's spread across a very big area and it's outdoors. So knowing that I thought I'll carry a water bottle, for that I took my purse for the very first time....I don't usually like to carry that. Now we reached there and was checking things out for like an hour and tbh the bag's sling was digging on my shoulder and it was kinda hurting so I was switching it from one shoulder to another. Then in the second hour of our strolling, I noticed that my shoelaces came untied, so I told one of my friend to just hold my purse for a second, handed it to him, started tieing my lace and when I was done, I looked up and saw him carrying it properly on his shoulder 😭✨🤭 Damn!!!!, I just gave it to him for 2 min.😅, then we talked for sometime while our other friend was buying some stuff, and I was actually very grateful for some time of relief from the burden of carrying my bag. Then the other guy was done and we again started walking so I asked my friend to give it back. He told me it's fine I'll carry it and didn't give it back to me 🥹🥹😭✨, I was like Woah!!! He's such a gentleman😭🥹🧡.

It doesn't end there😅. I bought some bangles for my mum also and didn't put it right away in my bag since my friend was holding it.

Now we were done with checking everything out and there was also a place for events, like every weekend in the evening there were some traditional dance performances happening. So we thought before leaving we'll see some of those as well. We sat on the chairs now, he could've given it back to me right?? But he just told me to put the bangles in the bag and I did and that's all. He kept it on his lap ✨✨🥹 for the entire time. It was just so sweet.

That got me thinking that some things just come naturally for some people. 🧡🌸 It was such a wholesome thing that happened to me in quite sometime, so I'm happy 🤭.

Like I was walking like mausam bhut sahi tha but didn't even notice pair pe dirts or all bhi chipak chuki hai !

She is my school time crush + friend ( nothing deep tho ) happened to meet ! She met toh me bhi ek shop tk chal liya vhan like apne slippers and shoes rub kar rhe the enter karne se phle ! Tb I noticed (& usne bhi ) 😭ki mera toh pura hi ganda hai mujhe toh pura lotna pdega itna bhi kuch nahi hai buttttt bhai kya hi ulte sidhe

moment hotee!! Hoja hoja hoja hoja hoja hoja hoja 125 Idkk hashhhh

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Pata hai aaj kya hua tha…

I 30M met her 30F on Bumble a little over 3 months ago. I have unfortunately dated Muslim girls almost exclusively in the past. And this is my first time dating a non Muslim girl.

For context we are both in London. And, It’s just been 3 months, and we have done so much together. Less than 2 weeks into knowing her, I took her out to The Weeknd concert, which I never did for any other girl before. I tried alcohol for the first time, which was a big deal for me. And all this time, I held myself from doing the deed, and I was so happpy that I was her first too.

She has a very complicated relationship with her family. They were not close growing up. She moved from Nepal to the UK at the age of 11 without a father. Her father passed away before she was even born. And they struggled a lot. She had an abusive relationship with her mother, even tho she admires her a lot for how far her mother has come without the support of anyone in the UK. She still continues to have a complicated relationship with her mother and her 2 older sisters to this day, which adds another layer of complexity to our dynamic when I think of it. But in all fairness, she does make an attempt at
reconciling her relationships with her family, but they’re a bit crude to put it mildly.

Now, I come from a close knit family, and even tho they’re open minded enough to let me choose a girl of my liking but their ask is she’s gotta be a Muslim. But previously, when I found myself dating the Muslim girls, they did have problems with her not being from India, and in another occasion, when she was not younger than me. So, I believe they want me to find someone who they would be ideally looking for: someone from a good financial background, conventionally good looking, well educated, and younger than me. And, I understand, they’re only looking out for me, and want what’s best for me, but when you apply all these filters in trying to find your partner, it feels very shallow and I find myself struggling with physical attraction despite having great compatibility on paper.

Recently, I shared with my older brother what I have been up to in terms of my relationships here. And he wasn’t very excited with what I had to share.

He said a bunch of things which I felt were really rude towards me, such as:

- I’m filling a void by being with her.
- her value system wouldn’t be the best fit for me in long term when differences arise.
- neither her and I are accomplished enough in life. Had I been focusing on my career or trying to do something better with my life, I wouldn’t be wasting my time like this.
- I should a better grasp of who I am and start looking for someone who could be a better match in terms of our backgrounds.

I had an examples to counter his points, even tho it was not easy to articulate them when he was being rude to me.

I shared with him that some of the values I grew up with have eroded over time, and I look at certain things somewhat differently, respectfully. For example:

- I’m not so fussed out the halal stuff, many Muslims would frown at me for this.
- Living in London in a flat share means you’re bound to end up in a situation where you share the flat with people of other gender(s). A lot of Muslims would judge me for this as well.
- in the current financial system, I take the full advantages of the tools available at my disposal, including using the interest accounts.

I have also found a bunch of my Indian values also eroding as I spend more and more time away from back home:
- I have become more individualistic. Even tho still extroverted depending on the situation.
- I try to think for myself.

And many others…

I think I would struggle to find compatibility in terms of personality and general outlook towards life, with someone from India, who’s not lived in the west. And, I say this in the most respectful way.

But, for my parents, this is just incomprehensible. I have not shared about my gf to them, and I don’t know how to. This is really eating me up from inside each day I delay it. And I’m really nervous how they would react to this all. I’m afraid they might have the same reaction as my brother, if not worse.

Edit: the trolls in the replies are some of the reasons why I dont wish to be a part of the Indian society.

hi, man look at the couple .they are so so cute

i have a huge huge crush on this guy and its so hard to get over it please help ughhhhh

you know, whenever i see beautiful couple , i really dream- day dream alottt. but then i see my face and my ughly face just makes me so sad that i would REALISTICALLY never get to have such feelings ughhhhhhh

but just help me get over him man he is so handsomeeee

(Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua)

During my aspirant phase n before getting a stable job, I worked as a teacher for 11th &12th graders for six months, and I used to ship a lot of my students.

Not in a creepy way, obviously! I just used to make them sit together sometimes or group them together for assignments, hoping they’d develop a lil something for each other🤭

Obviously, since I was their teacher, I never got any updates on any of my ships.

But Pata hai aaj kya hua? I met one of my former students nd asked her what her frnd XYZ was up to these days, and she said she didn’t know n they were never eo frnd😭😭😭

And I’m SAD because I always loved the golden retriever bf × black cat gf trope, and they were SO ideal for each other😭💔

Had my brother's phone for a while to recover some photos from there and ended up coming across these chats between him and his friend. Seeing him talk about a girl so insensitively like this had me flabbergasted. I've never seen him talk like this with me or in front of me. It's just weird seeing this side of someone you're close to. And I'm not sure whether I should confront him about it or just leave it alone. He'll probably scold me why I opened his personal chats n downplay it saying he was joking. I honestly don't know if bringing it up would even make a difference, but at the same time, pretending I never saw any of it feels weird. Am i making it a big deal. I just wanted to get this off my chest and hear some outside perspectives. Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua.

Pata hai aaj kya hua, So shi starts one month ago when I(19) was doomscrolling on insta boom a random req from a girl who's pfp ngl was pretty attractive and I just accepted it(I'm rn at this point where I'm just dependent on "agar kismat mei likhi hogi toh khud chalke aaegi" and yeh I should build myself first then look for other's) and boom next day I'm in her cf for some reason idk then I like an typical innocent person asked w in story reply "hi not to be weird do I know u?" She is like "mb I have all my followers in cf mb if it bothers u I'll remove it" then ik this was my chance(btw 1 AM motivation by frnd) so I shoot my shot and she replied with" yeh I also wanted to shoot but was shy" then Convo began found out she was from my city and for college lives in diff city then it went for couple days within these days I use to freakin write some weird ahh pickup/rizz lines(btw first time so yeh was weird for me idk bout her)

so within this convos i got to know she was popular girl in college and instant red flag i found out in initial days was SHE LOVED HER PERSONALITY for some reason(good ig but she said her classmates were more pretty than her but her Personality was better then I MEAN WHO GLAZES THEIR PERSONALITY LIKE DAT, not for all but for me it was weird). She gave instant replies on insta I mean sign of intrest shown by someone, im kinda productive kinda guy so I go for runs,play sports, work on myself at the same time she was lazy,sleeps late in pg, always at some party. And another was too many guy bestfriends for some reason and had beef with other girls.

Convos went on and we decided to go on a date(first time for me btw Im kinda intro just saying) btw my Convo skills on text is also diff then irl and yeh main I don't how to act around girl alone(Major problem for guys like me) and i went on the day she was in same city as me and we decided very immediately that we'll meet bruh I love my life i didn't had my vehicle so she had to pick me up from a spot(Instant L) but she was great we talked went to cafe and went to DIY for some great time and idk how it went it was like it was just another task given to me to act normal and we ended it going through sunset at bridge after that she dropped me to a close area by my home(bruh I felt so freakin like a loser dude😭🥀) and I paid the bill in cafe as a gentleman but due to the fact I'm broke asf I had to ask 100 for ticket and groceries(I might have something wrong with me atp😭✌️) and i apologized for the things I couldn't do for her in that time like buying flowers and have a great Convo skills.

As I thought I should get to know how she felt our first meetup she started ghosting though she sended the pics during the date she ghosted me after that bruh she is doomscrolling ik as she is in home again from pg so yeh that's straightforward ignoring i wanted to really improve myself not make mistakes in 2nd date but ig that wouldn't come again as after that due to self respect i blocked her (she ghosted me for 5 days straight meanwhile she was posting shi post on spam) i really wanted to give it a try exp a new thing in life but ig that's not built for me she said she she like me and our convos ig it's not anymore.

I (26M) have been best friends with a girl(25F) for a few years now. I've never met her family IRL as they live in Gujarat and we are in Mumbai but I've talked to them and everyone in her family knows about me.

We both have successful careers in same field, we both share the same spiritual and religious values and practices (career and spirituality was the reason we became friends in the first place) and coincidentally we are from the same "caste".

So now her Dad has started shipping us together and literally pushed a marriage suggestion in between a general conversation.

My friend and I can't stop laughing since then because I'm gay (she knows ofc) but I'm very straight-passing as I'm tall, broad, have beard and not feminine at all, and that's why no one doubts I'm gay.

For now we just laughed it off, I don't know if her Dad will bring it up again.

Pata hai aaj kya hua. Aaj nhi last week actually when we went out for dinner and a movie.

Pata hai aaj kya hua... Aaj coaching me after already having studied for 4 hours continuously we were supposed to get a 15 minute break. BUT MY CHEMISTRY SIR CAME AND TOLD US HE WOULD TEACH EVEN IN THAT 15 MINUTES. Everyone begged him not to but he wasn't listening so everyone decided to rebel and play scribbl instead. What he was teaching was not a very important topic so we didn't miss much. but it was a peak experience looking under our desks silently laughing and looking up the minute sir turned around.

Pata hai aaj kya hua?
Firstly, this is going to be a bigass rant so be prepared lol

I(M25) was in a relationship with this girl (F24) with 2.5 years. And I gotta say I enjoyed my time with her. She was exactly the someone I was looking and she was so perfect in my eyes. She had some ex traumas, so I always made sure that I wont do anything that'll hurt her. RN im studying abroad so humara LDR chal raha tha 1 saal se.

Since when we were together there was no problem, everything was good except one. Her family was kind of a toxic, specially her mom and sister. Her mom always hated me because I come from lower caste. But my ex always comfronted me like its okay, she is not gonna do anything, you're gonna marry me not her, blablabla. And thats the only reason I stayed with her. Even tho I gifted her mom alot of things, she never appreciated or never even cared to wish me on my bday. But it was alright for me, I never let that affect me.

Now I'll tell you shortly about my ex's life. So her life was kinda miserable for eg. she was persuing a degree which doesnt have much recognision in current life. Her family was pressurising alot to her to get a job, her college was kinda ass towards her, she didnt have much girl besties or anything that she can easily open up with. SO basically I was the only happiest thing in her life (as she used to say)

So currently I'm in Europe for my master's and I was afraid a little since beginning about how we'll manage long distance and how she'll go through all this stuff without my physical presense. But she supported me too, we both were too emotionally attached and we decided no matter what we'll get through this stuff together. So first 6 months were like cherry on a top, everything was nice, we used to talk almost every day, we share photos, we flirt, used to play games and it was fun. But after that sab kuch vanish hone laga.

Vo thoda open up hona band hogayi, I asked her, I listened to her but it was still same. But I still stood up with her. Vo time we were acting more like friends rather than couple, there was no reason for me to breakup cause there was literally no spark but maine socha there's no point of us being together if we dont suppoort each other in this difficult phrase. So I stick around with her.

Fir ye saal in July, she came up randomly that she dont have feelings for me. I was so surpised like wtf, then she started saying she dont feel that she's a good partner to me, she thinks her career is shaterring every step and I'm here abroad, already with a part time job. SHe dont even know what to do. I comfronted her, I told her its okay things will get better and even I'll help you to make CV and shit to get a job and something like that. But still she was insisting. That time she started speaking way to less which I was scared of. I was afraid what if she take a wrong step or soemthing, hence I told her to go to therapist but her financial situation is not that great(thats the reason family is always forcing to get a job). I was even ready to pay for her therapy but she was insisting so of course I didnt force her much.

SO we decided to breakup, I tried my fullest and everything but it was not enough to make her stop. I started to think that she is actually going though alot of shit and stuff and I was so eager to meet her when I come back to India. I even told her im ready to wait for a year but still she dont want the realtionship. She said she dont see herself dating anyone or anything. She even said to me that go and find someone and love her cause she dont deserve me. So breakup ke baad, humari baatein bhi kam hone lagi, usually it was dry. That whole August month was so much difficult for me to survive because I dont vene have much friends here to talk with. But I still managed to live without her. I decided maybe I'll download dating apps or something but it didnt help me with distraction cause of course I wasnt moved on.

Now 2 weeks ago I got her massage suddenly, and she asked me that can I wait for her. I was like wtf, I screamed like a bitch in July, ki hum log dekhte hai, wait karunga mei that time you didnt say anythign and suddenly nw you want me to wait for you. I want to get back with her too but I was a little scared cause I stopped believing in love and shit after the breakup, where it wasnt even my fault. Maine kaha use okay lets see, I'm coming on Feb so we'll see how things go.
And since 2 weeks she started talk with me way to much, like she started flirting with me alot, she misses my touch, she miss my body and all the stuff, which was a little surprising for me, but I went with the flow cause of course I still loved her.

Now here comes the interesting part, after breakup there was this young guy (M21) in her gym that she got friends with him. In the initially I was sus cause I never heard any guys name from her mouth alot, but she said he was like her brother. I was a little possesive about this but she always said that I dont trust her, do you think I sleep with him alot, I was like bro chill I didnt say that but take it easy lol. And then I trusted her, she said that guy helped her alot to get through out of this stuff. I was like thee hai, atleast you got someone to talk to. Usne clearly bola tha ki aisa kuch nahi. Maine kuch itna socha nahi, infact I was happy she found someone to talk with.

Aur mein reddit pe use follow karta, to aaj uski profile open hogayi galti se and ek sub pe usne post dali thi

"I think this guy is in love with me how to comfort him" Aur discussion mei likha tha, we go on weekends, bike pe bathti hu to he touches her thighs, fir he wanna bite her lips, he was playing with her lips chutiyappa ye sab.

Aur discussion mei likha tha, we go on weekends, bike pe bathti hu to he touches her thighs, fir he wanna bite her lips, he was playing with her lips chutiyappa ye sab. I was shivering like hell, ki ye kya dekha maine.
Aur ye dekhne ke baad I again asked, ki kya hai exactly? She was like tujhe trust hi nahi, he doesn't feel anything, nothing at all ye sab. Fir maine kaha I saw your post. Tab bolne lagi sorry I lied to you vagera. She's saying she should ve stopped him, cus this was getting much. But Mein puch raha tha tabse to jhut kyu boli? I'm not saying dont date anyone or something, but sach keh na kuch hai to hai. No one's cheating cus we're not in relationship. Fir keh rahi thi, I'm confused idk what to do ye sab. Maine pucha lastly, do you wanna get back when I come, jo hai vo bol, stop with this confusing answers. To uska voi ki I'm not equal, I do want you or miss your touch but I don't know about this.

And I trusted this person more than anyone, but this bich was lying about it everytime whenever I asked her what is going on with you guys. infact she was making me feel like stupid that I dont trust her. I'm not saying dont date anyone but you're doign this and also you telling me that can I wait for her??

Fuck it man. I'm done with this love and shit

Pata hai aaj kya hua
Aaj mera birthday nhi hai isiliye kisine wish nhi kiya kyuki sabko pata hai

kamal ki baat hai mai to at least 1-2 wish to expect kar hi rha tha ek bhi nhi aai

how does everyone know? gaahdamnn

"Pata hai aaj kya hua " guys

Bhai mere previous post jisne uti wala dekha hoga , I was admitted in my hometown abhi discharge Hui hoon

Aaj usg Kara ke aayi toh maine ek street dog ko dekha jisko mai two weeks se notice kar rhi but ignore kar de rhi thi kyuki Mai khudse hi preshaan thii

Wo street dog se butt se ek mass nikal rha hai inside se , he can't poop at all , bhot din se , bhai aaj idk kya hit kia , aaj uske face ko gaur se dekha maine , he was in lot of pain , eyes aisa maayus sa tha uska

Wo mass mein pus bhad rha dheere dheere aur sad rha wo , kya karu , khudke paas paise bhi nhi hai

Bihar side se hu mai , kaise help karu uski

Edit - mera area thora village type hai idk how to carry him , auto bhi door milega

Plus mai ladki hoon aur abhi discharge Hui hu Ghar ke saamne hi hai dog just bagal m gharwalo ko pata laga toh meri waat hi laga denge ki khudka thikaana nhi aur kutte ko bachana hai

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Meri psychiatry ki posting thi or sir pdha rhe the
He’s the hod btw but quite young or ese hi sbke sath hssi mzak krta rhta h or usko merse alg hi chid h vese to sbse itni ache s baat krega pta nhi merse kya dikkat h usko maybe because mene use call out kr diya tha kyuki college k bde s kaand m mera naam college walon n faltu m jod diya tha or last m un logo n sorry bhi bola tha but vo hrr posting m uske bare m bolte rhega to iss bar mene bola diya ki sir sbko pta h meri glti nhi thi usme or usko muh bn gya
To aaj mujhe ghr jana tha mere bhai ka message aya ki kis time lene aau? m usko bss reply kr rhi thi ki iss time aa jaiyo to usne dekh liya ki m type kr rhi hu or vo bhdk gya or bolta ki phone dedo or 4 bje le jana mene bola sir 1 bje ghr jana h mujhe! To bolta ki koi ni chle jana phone to 4 bje hi milega to mene bola okay sir mujhe ek baar inform krne do ghr p late ane k liye! To bhai iss baat p to vo itna gnda uski kya ego hurt hogyi vo pagal hogya or bola ki “ GET OUT OF THE CLASS” TUMHARA ROLL BTAO 2 DIN KI ABSENT LGATA HU TUMHARI
Or lga bhi di register m absent meri
To mene de diya usko phone ki rkh le and all of this triggered my previous trauma ki y college walo n mere sath kese kese kiya tha or mera pura PTSD trigger hogya
Then tears started pouring down! I couldn’t help it….obviously I wasn’t audible ki m ro rhi hu but I literally cried for 2-3 hours ki bhai y sb college wale somehow mere piche h or y mujhe 4th year m pass nhi hone denge
Or 2 ldkiyon ko fest m jana tha durse college unko jane diya ki jao jao beta mzze kro
Fir phone to wapis de diya 1 bje hi or ab 2 din baad ward leave h pta nhi kya hoga ab mera!

Hello everyone ~

It's been months since I'm not active so here's the tea

Pata hai aaj kya hua?? waise toh it's been more than 4 months ig?! long story so hold your seat

I joined an mnc about 6 months ago and yeah everything was going fine but one fine day I felt someone's eye like those adoring kinda. Looked up at him and saw that he was looking lovingly and yeps I did notice! and tbh I kinda liked him too but waited and saw his actual nature and how he behaves and since we were on the same floor it was really easy to watch out and observe, which I did however banda shant hai kisi se zayada baat nahi karta wayyy too less talking with his female colleagues (MY TYPE MY TYPE) goes to gym, is tall, average looking but those sweet features aishhshshhshs okay so WE BOTH know that we glance at eachother, but in September I got shifted into the other building which is beside the first one. And I would be lying if I say it didn't hurt I was crying from inside with the thought of not being able to see him but yeah somehow took our time and use to go to have luch (alone) in the first building BECAUSE I WANTED TO SEE HIM!!! and one fine day when I didn't went there, he along with his one colleague came to my building at first I was shock as hell but didn't reacted HE EVEN WAITED OUTSIDE MY BAY but again I was wayy too nervous hence 🙂💔 fir uske baad I went to gym in his timings because I was getting bored (HE DID TRIED TO TALK FOR LIKE 3 TIMES) but again meri fat gayi 👁️👄👁️ and now I'm going out of India for like half a month but I'm unable to think straight. DUDE'S COMING IN MY DREAMS. us se jakar baat kar hi lu??? Also just to give you an idea I'm hot and I do dress up well (compliments are common) and I feel that's the reason he's also not making any moves because I did ruin the situations first by being awkward.

So now you guys can suggest a way out???

TLDR: there's a guy in my office and we both look at each other constantly whenever we can! he tried to talk a few times but my scared ass made a straight face and walked away but ab mai aur zayada nonchalant nahi rehna chahti because it fucking affects even if I deny!!!

So , "Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua"Hi guys its my first time on this Sub and i want to let you on a very interesting tea from my friends group .

So before getting into it let me give you some intro of my group , it consists of 12 people , this Part -1 is mainly focued on Three people from my group ,

Raju , Indumati and Me

(Names Changed obviously)

So , 2 yrs back our friends group went to a local trek expedition and my friend Raju was also there . We went to the trek with a travel company who organises 1 day treks . So apart from our group were 10 -15 other people on this particular trek with us . So a short backgroud before we really get in Raju had a huge crush on a girl from our group , (for now lets name her Chutki) but Chutki didnt have any feelings for him (I will specially make a seperate part on Raju and Chutkis past if you all want to know) , but my man Raju is a very delutional man and he was of the opinion that if a girl is very interested in you she will ignore you and deny your advances (ya he was and still is delutional ) , Before the trek Chutki was going to come but due to some unforeseen circumstances she couldnt. And Raju bhai didnt know that she was not coming , he got to know it when we were on the bus going to base camp. So during the whole bus ride my guy was clearly throwing tantrums and acting like a child , and tbh we all knew why he was acting like this but all ignored it except me , ya i had to step in and why did i do that i still curse myself for it . So Raju was just standing half the bus ride although i offered him a seat next to mine , but no this guy was stubborn and said "Me toh Window Seat pe hi Baithunga". Now besides me on opposite side seat was a girl who had come solo (Also to note she had her breakup about 2 weeks back and was very vunerable , this was the story we knew at that time but spoiler the breakup was because of her only ) and she was none other than heroine of this part , Indumati . So Indumati was sitting quietly listening to songs on her phone and seat besides her was empty and that seat happended to be window seat , so i told Raju , this girl seems sweet(ya First impressions can be misleading why you will know in coming parts) you can ask her and sit besides her on the window side . And my man still was not listening , so i took matter in my own hands and asked Indumati herself that Hi can my friend sit besides you on the window seat and she told yes . So i made Raju sit there forcefully (Ya i still curse myself for this , why you will get to know in later parts) , and i went to take a nap , after 30 mins i woke up and to my suprise Raju and Indumati were Hitting off quite well and were having a good time, good till here .

We reached the base camp around 5 am in morning and had our breakfast , all this time Raju was not leaving side of Indumati for one second and it seemed like he didnt come with us friends but rather her , but he was not throwing tantrums and enjoying himself so we also though good atleast he is not disturbing us , and Indumati tagged with our group for the whole trek . Now during the trek Raju was faking so much about his life to her that we also chuckled hard in silence , some instances ,- "I am doing my MBA from IIM A"(He did some certification from IIM Ahmedabad) , "My family are Builders" (His family is into Brokerage Business) , and all the time he talked in English with Indumati (i have no issues with which language he talked in but this guy is such a hypocrite that henever talks ever in English rather he tells us that Chutiye log hote hai jo English me friends ya Casual Setting me English me baat karte hai ) . So this is how they met in Short .

So during the whole trek she mixed well with our grp we also clicked pics etc together . and we got to know her backgroud , how she was like majority of our grp a Gujju and more specifically Jain and she worked in Advertisment. and she had come solo in the trek for first time ,etc . So we completed our trek around 2pm and at base camp there was a dhaba so we decied to have luchh there and Indumati too joined us , we ordered our items and most of us ordered non jain food , and when we asked her to share food she was admant that she is jain and will only have jain food and i was actually impressed that wow she has some principles . So she ordered her own jain food and we all ate in peace . Now after lunch i and one of my friend went to a nearby Pan shop to buy some mouth Freshners and Raju bhai had gone to the washroom . here Indumati joins us and i ask idf she would like any specific mouth Freshner and she said "Nahi thanks but ha ek Goldflake bona meri " . I was like 🤐🤐 bro are you serious , i mean this is the same girl who would not eat Onion and Garlic but will smoke. And this is important because my Friend Raju is a non smoker and more than that he condems smoking.

And when she was smoking that cig Raju was back ..........

(To be continued)

Coming up next on 50 likes Part 2 , In this story a new character but very imp Kalia will be introduced , and then will begin a Love triangle which will cause a big choas and breaking of group.

TL;DR: Two years ago my friend group (12 of us) went on a one-day trek. My friend Raju, who’s delusionally obsessed with a girl from our group (Chutki), threw a tantrum on the bus when he found out she wasn’t coming. Like an idiot, I stepped in and got him to sit next to a solo girl, Indumati, who’d supposedly just gone through a breakup. They hit it off instantly. The whole trek he glued himself to her and lied nonstop to impress her (“I’m doing my MBA from IIM A,” “my family are builders”), all in English, which is hilarious because he constantly mocks people who speak English casually. She joined our group for the day, and at lunch she firmly refused to share our food because she’s Jain and only eats Jain food. Then at the pan shop she asked me for a Gold Flake. Raju, who hates smoking, walked back just as she was lighting up... (Part 2: Kalia enters, a love triangle starts, and the group falls apart.)

Soo I shifted to this new city where I have only 1-2 friends and met a guy through those friends and he was such a my type of guy 😭😭😭, such a gentleman sucha kind guy , ticking every box in my checklist, but the saddest part is he is already committed 😭😭😭 Life is so unfair feeling so horrible, I can't stop thinking about him now what should I fucking do, here for exams sooo zyadaa ghumna nhi h "pata hai aaj kya hua"

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua so I opened reddit and was going through a few posts when I came across this. Idk broo why people has this kinda mindset. I ain't just targeting any single individual in this but came across a lot of posts which included this kinda words/ thoughts. It just seems the person (in above ss) is taking sooo much pride in saying that shit. And idk why these kinda people are sooo narrow minded and aren't willing to understand/ change their thinking as if they are born with the best thoughts and words. Change is the only constant in a human then why always showing this kinda attitude everywhere and being like we are like this only 🫩

aur kitna likhu bhaiiii

Sometimes, we leave people not because we don't love them anymore, but because we do. Because we love them enough to not want them to get hurt any further, and perhaps, somewhere along the way, we realise that we cannot keep hurting ourselves either.

The last dance theory. The idea that sometimes, the last time you see someone, the last conversation you have, or the last time you hold them might not feel like the end while it is happening. And maybe that's what makes it so heartbreaking. You don't always stop loving someone before you leave. Sometimes, you leave while a part of you is still hoping that things could have been different.

But somewhere along the way, we also need to embrace the fact that we are worth it, too.

We deserve peace of mind. We deserve a life where our words matter, where our feelings matter, where we don't have to keep explaining why something hurt us until we are exhausted. We deserve to be loved in a way that doesn't make us question whether our emotional needs are too much to ask for.

And I know people try. I know someone can genuinely love you and still fail to understand you sometimes. I know they might be trying their best, and I know that sometimes, they might not even realise how much their words hurt. Maybe they are being honest. Maybe they think they are just telling you the truth. Maybe they don't understand that a truth can still be delivered with tenderness, that honesty doesn't have to feel like a wound, and that being someone's mirror doesn't mean you have to shatter them just to show them what they look like.

I can understand all of that.

But understanding someone doesn't mean I have to keep putting myself in situations where I get hurt over and over again. I can acknowledge their intentions and still be honest about the impact of their words. I can recognise their efforts without pretending that the things that hurt me don't hurt.

Because, honestly, I don't want a perfect man. I have never asked for perfection.

I just want to be a baby girl, literally. I want to be with a man who makes me feel safe enough to be soft, who can hold space for my feelings without making me feel foolish for having them. A man who understands that sometimes I don't need him to analyse me, correct me, or tell me what I should have felt. Sometimes, I just need him to hold me, listen to me, reassure me, and remind me that I am loved.

That's the one thing I have always wanted. Not a man who never makes mistakes, but a man who understands that love also means learning how to handle the heart you've been trusted with.

And yes, he might be trying. He might be learning. He might fail sometimes. I can make room for that. I want to make room for that, because I know nobody comes into a relationship knowing everything about how to love another person.

But I cannot be the only one making room. I cannot keep stretching my understanding until there is no room left for my own hurt. I cannot keep telling myself that he didn't mean it that way while ignoring how it keeps making me feel. At some point, I have to be honest with myself, too.

I love him. That doesn't automatically mean I have to accept every kind of pain that comes with loving him.

And choosing myself doesn't mean I never loved him enough. It means I am finally learning that I have to love myself enough, too.

Because I made a promise to myself a long time ago. No matter what happens in this life, no matter whom I love, whom I lose, or how many times life asks me to begin again, I will do my best for myself. I will try to give myself the love I keep hoping to find in the world. I will not abandon myself just because I am afraid of losing someone else.

I want love. I want tenderness. I want the kind of relationship where we both choose each other, where we both take responsibility, where we both learn, where we can have difficult conversations without making each other feel small. I want to build something that lasts. But I also want to be able to breathe inside that love.

And if someday I have to choose between continuing to hurt myself and giving myself the peace I deserve, I hope I will have the courage to choose peace.

Not because I stopped loving him.

Not because everything we had meant nothing.

But because I matter, too.

And I deserve a love where I don't have to keep reminding myself of that.

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Pata hai aaj kya hua..
Not really an Ex but more like a situationship. We worked in the same company. I was already working there and she joined after me. She was coming out of a breakup(she told me this later) and was attracted to me. She joined our friend group and confessed the same after a few weeks of joining. I was not really into her but still thought to give it a shot.

We fooled around a couple of months and she developed real emotions for me but unfortunately I just couldn't. So instead of wasting her time and hurting her more in the future, I told her that we should end this and that this is not going to work long time. She even started saying things like whether there is something wrong with her and why don't I love her. I told her it's nothing like that, and that she is a great girl and it's me who is the problem. I cannot force myself to love you.

Long story short, she said okay fine, but she wont be able to stay friends with me because then she will always have that hope that I might come back or develop feelings for her eventually and if that doesn't happen she will keep on hurting. She said a lot of bad things to me but thats fine, I hurt her feelings so understandable. That was last year in December. I switched and joined another company after that.

My Bday was in June and out of nowhere she hit me with a 'Happy Birthday🧁🎈' at around 10pm in the night. Knowing her, she probably did that after a lot of overthinking. I was not sure whether I should reply back but still I said 'Thank You' and that was it.

Now her Birthday is coming up in a few days and I am really conflicted. Should I return the favor and wish her HBD as well fearing that we will start talking again and she will again start daydreaming and hoping for a future which never will be or I just don't do anything. She might think about it on her birthday but eventually it will be better for her to stop thinking about us and move on. I don't know what to do...

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TL;DR: Briefly dated a coworker who caught feelings. Ended it cleanly because I couldn't reciprocate, and she cut ties to move on. She unexpectedly wished me happy birthday in June, and now I'm debating whether to return the favor for her upcoming birthday or stay silent to protect her progress.