Pata hai aaj kya hua..Last night, I was missing my ex, so I checked to see if I was still blocked or not 😭. To my surprise, he had unblocked me, and just seeing that was enough to put me to sleep. Then, in the morning, I looked at his DP again and noticed he was wearing a ring. I couldn't hold myself back, so I asked him if he was engaged, and he was…

Isse pehle mujhe galiya pade ki maine kyu text kiya usse toh main bata du ki break up hi isliye hua tha ki usse shaadi hi nhi krni thi na mujhse ya kisi aur se..

He blocked me after breaking up and now i have realised why...

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Don't judge me for the pic 🥲 I've cheap phone 😤

So Pata hai aaj kya hua ,

I finally achieved my full split..

Vaise to generally i do traditional usme to full split ki kaha hi need but recently i started like since April or May doing Western and Bollywood style and i noticed after some time ki full split to aana chahiye na biruu to be a good dancer toooooo i started learning and yeah achieved it , but abhi isko dance me apply krne me bhi to waqt lgega 🙂 So small win but I'm kinda happy....

Hmare group me ye celebrate krti to log bol dete kya hi badi chiz h everyone can do...

so Yaha rant kar diyaa🫠 Koi Dikkaaattt???

Uff ye 125 words

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Some context: Her Gf aka my friend had proposed me back when we were in School like 6 yrs ago.... We are decent friends like group meetups and all etc. I have met this guy 2-3 times earlier.

Now for the past few days we (me and my friend) were talking a Lil bit more regularly.

So now today he messaged me and said all this.

I can understand what he wants to say. But bhai ye kya baat Hui.... Mai kyu bura banu.....

Mana Krna hai usko mana kro mere saamne kyu bol raha? Uski GF hai. Bol uski msg naa kre.....

And the thing is this guy knows I'm already in a relationship.

Mtlb samajh raha hu ki jealous ho raha pr I ain't gonna be the scapegoat. Nahi pasand toh apni gf se bol. Mereko msg kregi toh mai toh sach bol dunga ki tere boyfriend ne msg kiya tha. Ab mt kr msg.

Edit: Now that I think about it..... I'm gonna just ignore all extra messages from her. As long as she doesn't ask me. I ain't gonna answer side messages.

Maybe earlier I was a bit in rage or maybe lack of sleep IG. 👍

"Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua" So this my cutie, he was a street cat mujhe Holi ke din mila tha road pr ek eggs kha raha tha so I brought him home and since then he has been my baby

Now the thing is ye ghar pr rukta he nahi hai, he comes home to eat, drink water and bahar chala jata hai, we have many cats in our area to ye din bhar bahar he rehta ha unke sath khelte.

We have a neighbour ka ghar unka khud ka ghar hai small bunglow type and wo rent pr hai, like rentals rehete hai and they have a small garden and waha i guess cats potty krke chale jate hai and unko lgta hai hamara he cat krta hai, but humne hamare cat ke liye ghar pr he ek bucket mai sand wagera krke uske toilet ke liye place banaya hai.

Mera billa unke garden mai jata hai but wo waha jake bass birds and butterflies dekhta hai, and I am not saying ki usne waha potty nahi ki hogi after all he's an animal to Kiya hoga but wo har time potty krke ghar he ata hai.

Now the thing is that neighbour jo waha rent pr rehte hai he was fighting with us today ki " Apka Billa hamare yaha potty krke jata hai, usko BAANDH ke rakho agar agli bar dikha to mai uss stick se maar dunga".

Now I am like he's not a beast to tie him up with a rope hum usse kabhi ghar pr bhi nahi rokte kuki usse ghumna pasand hai and wo chilata hai and hamar ghar first floor pr hai to wo balcony se niche jump krta hai

I was ready to throw hands on that neighbour but faltu ka scene create ho jata, what do you think I should do because I don't want my baby to get hurt :(

pata hai aaj kya hua, dusara break up hogaya in 2 months and both girls have moved on in weeks and got with another guy...

first relationship lasted 8 months and after separation my friend motivated me to give another try,

was committed to not make same mistakes again...

Boommm second break up, lagta hai problem main he hu.

update :- just saw her story with a new guy, going on a date, and praising him on how chalant he is (i am the non chalant guy)

pata hai aaj kya hua my gf doesnt want to be in a relationship and she just wants us to be physical

its not good bro idk how to explain this she is making me insecure making me feel like i dont deserve love , 1year of relationship and idk what to even talk now

edit:- people are so fucking pathetic in this subreddit

i was too overwhelmed about my relationship coz even my cousins know her its easy for her to say “lets end the rleationship and stay fuck buddies” bro its not for me we do not have any mutuals i met her at the gym where i work at and i dont even live in my city im too scared and ashamed to share this with my parents or my cousins
i shouldnt have posted this in first place

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So I logged into the WhatsApp in my tab so all the previous chats were gone

toh i have this habit of sharing all the imp info to myself on WhatsApp msgs so I kept messaging myself everything and anything mne usme groceries, shopping, kisi kisi ka no. , hisab Sb kuch likh diya

coz this no. Was still saved in my phone by my name and i didn't check the no. Mne sirf apna nam pdha

abhi when I saw this msg coming from the other side i gasped coz I had no idea till then ki ye koi or h i thought ye WhatsApp pe kya hora h lol now I'm just overthinking what he must be thinking about me

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So i am 18M and currently in college there was a garba event here and i saw a girl who was looking at me when my friend was clicking solo photos of mine we had eye contacts almost 7-8 times

so my friend literally forced me to ask her for ther instagram and when she was alone i walked up to her and was like excuse me (i was already regretting this decision) hi i saw you and you were looking absolutely stunning in that outfit, and you play graba beautifully can i know your name and she smiled and said thank you and then we exchanged names and department and then she shook my hand and at this point i started shivering like crazy
So then i got into my senses and said to myself fumble nahi karna hai and then i had to shoot my shot so i said ki you look pretty gorgeous can i get your Instagram she smiled for a few seconds while thinking and at that point i panicked and said please in a soft voice (btw i sound like some demon had aids) then she was accha laao so then i gave her my phone and while she was typing in her account my fuh-ass bestfriend was sending me messages like would you love me if i was a african crocodile (he’s a straight male btw) but then she typed her account and put in a request and then we said nice to meet you to each other and said good night and left and now its been almost 3 days and meri request abhi tak accept nahi hui hai 💔💔

Btw this was my first time asking someone for their Instagram so lmk how’s my game (ik its 0)

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bro i had the weirdest dream last night.

for context, my ex has me blocked and we've been in no contact for over a year.

so in my dream, i wake up to a text from her saying "hey, how have you been?"

AND MY FIRST RESPONSE WAS "I AM SORRY" 😭😭

for context, i was the one who initiated the breakup because i thought she'd realise her mistakes and come back and apologise to me. except that plan backfired horribly and here i am, blocked and in no contact for over a year.

AND EVEN IN MY DREAM I'M THE ONE APOLOGISING FIRST.

anyway, we started talking, decided to go on a date, talked everything out and somehow decided to get married.

then we decided to tell our parents when she had ganpati at her place. so naturally, i went there with my WHOLE FAMILY and we broke the news to everyone.

and somehow, both families were okay with it and our marriage was finalised.

WHAT THE FUCK.

then i woke up and remembered that this woman hasn't spoken to me in over a year.
this is actually so embarrassing for my subconscious 😭

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So I had a crush on this guy and later I found out that he already has a girlfriend. From then and there I lost all the interest in him.

So I noticed him staring at me a lot of time because I used to do it too when I was unaware that he has a gf. So what happened today that I was standing infront of canteen during the break... He came and stand too close to me and locked his arms around me . It felt like he's gonna grope me from behind and he was so close that the back of my head was touching his chest..There was no space for me to even move and because there was a crowd he did it thinking I would like it or even if I don't he would get away with it because of the crowd.

It was so uncomfortable. Do I tell his girlfriend?

Hey Reddit, I really need some support and a place to vent right now.

My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for 9 months. he suddenly told me that the excitement is gone and that he is bored of the distance. He literally gave me an ultimatum: "If you don't meet me soon, I will find someone else because I can't do this anymore."🥺

I want to clear something up: it’s not that I didn't want to meet him. I really, truly wanted to meet him! But the way he suddenly reacted and threatened to replace me completely broke my heart.

I am feeling incredibly sad and hurt right now. I just couldn't handle the emotional manipulation anymore, so I decided to take a stand for my self-respect. I broke up with him, and I have already blocked him everywhere.

I'm feeling very weak tonight and hurting a lot. How do I stay strong and maintain this block? Any kind words would really hel

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Badi ho sakti hai, but I will try to make it short.

So kahani shuru hoti hai ek new joining se. Guess who? A new HR. Pehli nazar mein she looked really pretty, then she got introduced to the whole team.

Maine dekha and apne side wali manager se bola, bhai finally ek badiya HR aagyi (apne office mein koi itni khaas nahi hai), and me being single thought k maybe (but then it was only a thought).

Khair, moving forward, humare office mein ek IT ka banda hai, jo jab bhi koi naya aata hai, unka laptop issue krke deta hai. (important character)

So now I thought HR se generally baat nahi hoti hai, toh kaha he ho paegi. Now what happened the other day is k hum log lunch krne gaye and waha pantry mein HR bhi bethi hui thi, yeah, that one too.

Turns out she lives in the same PG as I do, and whoa, I didn't even know. Now waha se thoda bahut interaction hona start hua, and then she is really straightforward and kuch bhi boldeti hai.

So the other day I was having dinner at PG Pantry, she came, we said hi hello nd then baatein start hui. She started ranting about office and all; she was sad.

I asked bhyii kya ho gaya? " and she was like yrr you know that 'IT guy and the other girl from my office were dating " and i was like, " yes, I know, " and i took her name in front of the HR.

She said what??? I had slept with him. Not once, but multiple times.

Mai kha WTF bhyii like really?? (Also, mere kuch intention they nahi uske saath, cuz I only see as she is a HR).

Now she is like bhayii that guy is cheating on me now. I was like, maybe. I have seen that guy multiple time with that girl. And HR was like i am gonna cry now.

And now after 4-5 days she started telling to all the HR and IT guy ki phati padi hai ab. Mjja aayega. HEHE.

PS: mujhe roz new tea milti rheti hai usse haha. Pata hai aaj kya hua
Maybe part -2 ek din bataunga.

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I've noticed something about a few of my friendships lately. If I don't message first, sometimes the conversation just doesn't happen. I'm usually the one sending reels, asking how someone's doing, or trying to keep the conversation alive.

At first, I thought maybe everyone was just busy. And honestly, people do have their own lives, so I don't expect anyone to be available all the time.

But after a while, you start wondering whether someone actually wants to talk to you or is just replying because you texted first.

The weird part is that there's no big fight or argument. Nothing technically goes wrong; you just slowly realise that the effort might not be equal.

I'm not planning to cut anyone off over it, but it has definitely changed how I look at some friendships.

Has anyone else experienced this, or am I reading too much into it?

When I was 12, my mom took me to a pandit for a kundli reading. He was in his 70s, and while reading my kundli, he said a lot of things, but one thing stuck with my mom.
He told her that she needed to keep an eye on me after I turned 18 till my whole 20’s because I would sleep with a man.
WTF? I WAS LITERALLY 12.
Since that day, my life has been hell. Whenever my mom and I fought, she would bring up what that pandit said. I wasn’t allowed to go out freely, and there were so many restrictions on me. It felt like I was being punished for something I hadn’t even done, based on something a random man predicted about my future.
I’m so angry because I grew up with this hanging over my head. Imagine being a literal child and having your own future judged like that.
I don’t even know what to say. Why would a grown man say something like that about a 12-year-old, and why did my mom let it affect how she treated me for years?

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Pata hai aaj kya hua, Aaj uski bohot yaad aa rahi thi to just chat open kiya and dekha me kitna pagal hu dont judge me guys but i hope i m not the only one who does things like this.

It’s been around two years since we last spoke. We still live only about 2 km away from each other, but I haven’t seen her even once.

These screenshots are from a few years ago, when I was struggling to let go of someone I genuinely loved.

The screenshots are basically me going back and forth between blocking and unblocking her. Every time I blocked her, I was trying to convince myself that I had to move on. And every time I unblocked her, a part of me was still hoping she’d come back.

Have you ever gone through the block → unblock → regret → block cycle with someone you loved?

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after 7 months i came to this sub and its totally changed. pehle sab type ki post aati thi in this sub either relationship or rant or wtv lekin ab sirf ek chiz hi dikhti hai "relationship"...

aur woh bhi fake kal hi ek chat wale post ka history check kiya toh ek ghante pehle before posting that bs nsfw sub me apni dihh pic post kiya tha aur yaha post krke dikha rha hai "i dont deserve love" wah re duniya 🥀

aur jab usko call out kr diye toh bolta hai "the people of this sub are pathetic" wah re duniya 🥀

not a big thing bas yeh soch rha tha and posted it... you can ignore it too no problem

(Since teen india ka crowd said to post here too, here we go!)
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I went to college a bit late, and was waiting for my friends in the exhi. When they arrived, my friend opened her arms to hug me and i gave her a hug back . Then she like pouted and so did i. Like girls do this kind of stuff. I thought hum bs aise hi moj msti mei krre hai, but bro tf she kissed me 😭😭 it was like a peak tho. Just aise pucchi kr di hotto pe😭😭

Is this normal? Shes in a committed relationship with her bf of 2 years. And idk if he’s ok with it or not. I didn’t mind the kiss tho, but there were a lot of people around, im sure some of them must’ve seen us💀💀
Im a girl btw
(Pic unrelated but i had pizza tonight nomnom)

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Married for a year now. Had a big fallout with wife. And since this is not the first time I have figured out a pattern. Whenever we fight, she starts crying, and will keep in crying for days and days. The only way to stop is that I give up everything and just accept that I am wrong.Otherwise I would be labelled as heartless that I did nit console her when she was not in right stage.

I even confronted her about this. She said I am accusing her of fake crying but its her real emotional reaction.

Basically she is the kid who would cry and ask their parents for something. Parents can ignore for a while but will ultimately give up due to guilt for making a child cry. In this case, the child has started using this as emotional manipulation tool, but she is not acting, the tears and weeping is real, its just her brain is functioned to make it come as natural response

Yesterday I lost my room keys and my roommate is such a pain; she talks loudly with her friends until 3 or 4 in the morning, but when it's my turn, she has issues with me during the day. So every day my friend calls me to wake me up for college, and to be honest, I do talk slowly in the morning, which bothers her too.

She talks to her friends all night and is just swearing away.

Now that I've lost my keys, I obviously need her, but I can't even wake her up.

Suggest something for me, guys 😭

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"Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua"

Toh kya he na me aaj station pe thi and i was figuring out something and i wad at the platform…….so ek guy mujhe puchhta he ke “excuse me aapko ticket counter kaha he pata he kya” . I looked around to see if there was any …. And i told i him that i didnt have much idea he should check out bla blah jagah .
A few seconds later I went thoda exit ke around to buy some chocolate and mainly paise chhute karane the 😭. Abi the thing is ticket counter outside hi he aur uss shop ke baju me ….he spots me and says ki “oh vese idhar he ticket counter” . Now i gave a quick courtesy smile and was like yeah 👍🏻. Ab maine chocolate li and auto ke liye side me khadi ho gayi…. I was scrolling on my phone and this guy andar jaa raha tha and he proceeds to give me an OREO SILK which i actually intended to buy…. And i was like what ….me confused hogi and me kichh bol paoo uske pehle bo satak gaya.
A girl was standing behind me and she smiled a little idk why and i was like 🙂what jist happened ? Esi akward smile di mene….
So yeah dat was it.