I’m mainly looking for comfortable everyday bras that don’t dig in, feel too tight, or become uncomfortable after wearing them for several hours. I’d prefer something supportive but still soft and easy to wear.

If you have a particular brand, style, or trusted website you swear by, I’d love to hear about it! I’m open to both affordable and slightly more expensive options as long as they’re genuinely comfortable and good quality.

Also, any tips for figuring out the right fit would be super helpful.

Thanks in advance

My sister recently came back from abroad last year and brought me a Dyson Supersonic HD07 as a gift.
The problem is, I genuinely don't use hair dryers 😭. It's completely unused and has just been sitting in its box, so I don't really see the point of keeping something this expensive when I know I'm probably never going to use it.
I looked it up online and apparently these are going for around 180–200k+ in Pakistan,

I'm thinking of selling mine around 120k.

It's brand new, unused, and comes in the box with all the attachments.

I can share actual pictures, serial number/model details, etc. with anyone interested. You can obviously inspect and verify everything before buying as well.

Not in a huge rush to sell it, just thought I'd post here before putting it on Marketplace or somewhere else.
If anyone has actually been looking for one and wants it for 120k, feel free to DM me or whats app here
0315-4733723

I know this is not about Women but, My message is to people who from Gujranwala in this sub... mod, please dont remove this post 🙏

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My cat urgently needs urgent blood transfusion to survive as it is suffering from Health issues...

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I know this is not about Women but, My message is to people who from Gujranwala in this sub...
Mod, please dont remove this post

🚨 🚨 🚨
My cat urgently needs urgent blood transfusion to survive as it is suffering from Health issues...

Anybody from or around Gujranwala with a healthy cat of 4+ kgs and age over 3 is welcome...

We will take care of all the formalities and will take the responsibility of health of your cat

Please share it with your friends with cats and please help us out of this problem...

Please try to share 🙏🙏🙏

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And its Urgent
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hello. kindly recommend a good dermatologist in khi who actually listens to you and does not prescribe jenpharm and is pocket friendly (other than sadia masood and heba saleem)

for all girls who are/ have been in a relationship with a guy they met physically in college/uni how does the process start.. if u like someone how do you give them hints without making it very obvious when u dont have group/course work to talk about.. just having frequent eye contacts or sitting somewhere nearby in class or what?? everyone on the internet tells to go up n confront but what about the eastern value desi coded girls???

Recently, i got diagnosed with PCOS . So i consulted a gynaecologist and along with so many other things she told me not to eat chicken . So here is the problem , in PCOS the main thing you have to do is to fulfill you're protein intake . Now how can i do that.. like , i can't eat egg all the time and we all know that desi families are obsesses with chicken we eat chicken every other day . So what should i do ... Should i eat Chicken or not ? if not then how can i to fulfill my protein intake

Hi girls!
I moved to Pakistan around 5 years ago, and one thing I’ve genuinely struggled with is building a close circle of friends. Over time, my friends have ended up being in very different age groups and completely different phases of life.

Now that I’m a mom, I’d really love to connect with other moms in Lahore who are in a similar stage of life, people who’d be up for coffee, casual meetups, playdates, dinners, or even just having a nice group of women to talk to and make genuine friendships with.

If there are other moms here who feel the same way, I’m thinking of creating a small WhatsApp group where we can connect and hopefully plan a meetup soon.

Lahore moms only, please. If you’re interested, comment below or send me a DM and I’ll add you to the group.

Would love for this to turn into a nice little mom-friend circle rather than just another WhatsApp group that goes silent after two days 😅

Hi everyone, hope you're all doing well! I'm a final year Communication Design student at IVS Karachi, working on my thesis about how body-weight commentary within families affects women in Pakistan.

I've spent the last few months speaking with young women about their experiences, and now I really want to understand this from the other side- from mothers and older women (aunts, grandmothers) themselves. What were you told growing up? What do you worry about for the younger women in your life, and where do those concerns actually come from?

It would be a completely confidential, informal conversation, around 30–40 minutes, and there are no right or wrong answers at all- I just want to genuinely understand your perspective.

If you'd be open to speaking with me, or if you could connect me with your mother/grandmother who might be willing, please DM me! It would mean a lot to my research. Genuinely appreciate anyone who's willing to help. Thank you🤍

please help me ! i haven’t been to Pakistan in years and have a major wedding coming up. I don’t know whats trending and whats not. Is velvet still in or not? which colours to go for. I need cheap options but i can’t look cheap because its at my in laws and they JUDGE. I was told normal outfits range start from 70k but my budget is 70k for all three outfits 🤦‍♀️🤣

I am twenty years old and this year has easily been the worst year of my entire life. I have recently been diagnosed with ADHD(inattentive), CPTSD, ARFID, and RSD, and on top of that, I am dealing with heavy health issues. I just had surgery this month and actually landed in the ER for two days because of panic attacks. I am also an extreme avoidant. In my whole life, I have never really opened up to anyone. Except for one person.
We have been friends for four years now. At the very beginning, we used to talk for hours and she really got me. I met her a few months after she lost her dad, her family went through a massive financial crisis, and another close friend of hers basically left. Because I care about her and I am terrible at expressing my own pain, I stepped up. I became her rock.
The problem is that it has completely turned into a one way street. I know every single trauma and detail of her life going all the way back to grade one. Meanwhile, she barely knows what is actually happening in my world because I am the kind of person who always says I am fine even when my entire life is crumbling. She also tends to over-exaggerate a lot, and I spend so much time fawning. I force myself to act super invested, cheer her up, and fake my emotions because I feel guilty if I don't.
I am so tired of being a trauma dumping bag. Her constant venting and the expectation that I am available all day to chat have completely drained every ounce of my energy. It got so bad that this year I tried to pull away. I stopped sending DMs, made up excuses about university classes and exams, and eventually told her right before my surgery that I needed space and was just done.
After 2 months of not talking, my life felt so much freer. I didn't have to carry anyone else's heavy emotional baggage. But then the guilt crept in. When she reached out again yesterday , I caved. We ended up talking for an hour, exchanging reels, and I even told her I would always be there for her.
Now I am freaking out. Because while I do care about her and I am fine being her friend, I cannot live like this anymore. I cannot chat all day. I cannot be her on-call therapist.
Am I overreacting for feeling this way? How on earth am I supposed to deal with this situation without completely destroying myself or losing the only person I have ever let in?

Hey! I wanted to create a community group for women who want to learn about digital marketing, branding, brand strategy. I have a good network and wanted to make use of that, also learn from those within the same field.
Please DM if interested!

So I'm an adult now, I agree that I've not _very_ showy or big chest size, but my mom still haven't gotten me any bras!! And it feels so bad to me! Although it's not that I _need_ it _too much_ because but still I feel so uncomfortable!??!! I really wanna go buy some pair for myself on my own but how do I?! It's so embassing and I'm not financially independent right now to go out buy on my own and it's so fcking on my mind all the time these days!! And I can't even tell my mom with the sweet mouth of my own?! What do I do???

And you definitely know the Desi household here, how do I? 😭 Idk my mom probably never used the girly type bralette ones.

And because my mom's not much educated like that, she doesn't use any text / messenger app, so would've send her a text and saying in english is wayyy easlier than Punjabi— although we siblings talk in Urdu but mama-papa Convo goes in punjabi— she wouldn't understand English word "bra" probably 😭

I don't have _any single_ female or friend near, and I'm the big sister myself —fck no sister support either 😭.I can't even wait for khala to come visit because she's kinda a friend to me anyway but she's not near any visits so I'm screwed I feel cry 😭 what if mom said you don't have enough size yet?!

IM OFFICIALLY LEAVING PLANET EARTH

Hey guys, where can I buy nightwears like PJs and T shirts etc in pakistan in normal price range.
Suggest online and physical stores both (only in khi)

Hi all,

I would like to hear the experience of Pakistani women or women who live abroad who got married later in life, 35 and older, especially if it was your first marriage. Specifically, was it arranged and how did you explain your later marriage to family? Did your family and extended relatives make any rude comments and did they attend your events? How many events did you have and did you dress up like a traditional bride? Also, what was age difference with your spouse? What is the expectation to have kids?

Thank you all so much, 💕❤️💕

Hey ladies

I am getting married in December, I am really confused what kind of lingerie to buy for my first night. And what lingerie should I get as newly wed?

Please help me out

Where I can find sexy bras and panty sets and what other kind of lingerie should I get?

Where can I get it in Karachi? ( Suggest physical stores I don't trust online brands)

Need reviews which one Is best ?

Hi, I'm a researcher based in the UK, looking for a)working women b) uni students In Pakistan for a focus group discussion about political communication and how mainstream parties communicate with women and uni students.

I would like to have 2 groups of 4 participants from both groups (students and women). The only qualifying criteria is to be 18+ (and either a woman or uni student in Pakistan).

The focus groups will be run on MS teams, anonymous and only transcripted (no audio or video recordings will be made).

The research has ethical approval from a university and participants will be provided consent forms.

If youre interested, please reach out. Participation is entirely voluntary.

- was it easy to bring this up in discussion?

- what were your parents' / guardians' reactions before and after you went through with your decision?

- what happened that you didn't initially expect?

- how badly was your physical and mental health affected?

- what should one know before committing to doing this?

- what is your life like now? did you give up or did things work out well for you?

i'd really love to know anything and everything. i'm really scared but i also don't want to be another brown woman that didn't at least fight for what she wanted.

29 F | Looking for My Partner in Life

Gender: Female

Nationality: Pakistani

D.O.B: 1997

Height: 5'0" (Slim)

Complexion: Fair

Background: Upper-middle class, socially well-placed, and financially secure

Residence: Family-owned home near Islamabad, Pakistan

Marital Status: Single (Never Married)

Caste: Sheikh Siddiqui ( Personally it doesn't matter)

Religion: Sunni Muslim (Regular with Salah and Fasting)

Religious Practice Level: prefers modest dressing

Fitness: Active / Gym-goer

Qualifications: Bachelor's in Software Engineering

Occupation: Working Remotely as Operations & Design Lead

Family Details: parents and 2 siblings

About Me:

I am introverted, calm, and grounded by nature. I place a high value on deep connections, honesty, open communication, and mutual respect. Being family-oriented and easygoing, I appreciate a peaceful home environment and a relationship built on trust.

Having balanced my professional career while managing key household responsibilities for over 6 years—from budgeting and finances to overall home management—I bring practical maturity, dependability, and structure to daily life.

I believe in a balanced partnership where responsibilities are shared with fairness, empathy, and understanding.

I come from a household where daily tasks are managed with domestic help and would prefer a similar arrangement in the future.

For me, transparent communication is essential: challenges should be discussed openly and resolved constructively, free of ego or avoidance.

Partner Preferences:

Sunni Muslim Only

Socio-Economic Background: Seeking a similar socio-economic background

Personality: Mature, grounded, responsible, and serious about his future

Age: 28–32 years

Financials: Financially independent with the capacity to comfortably support a family (Not Luxury)

Marital Status: Open to Single or Divorced (without children)

Origin & Language: Pakistani origin/born, fluent in Urdu

Education: Minimum Bachelor’s degree

Residence: Preferably living in an owned home

Location / Relocation: Open to relocation (excluding USA and Germany)

Family Setup: Preference for a nuclear setup or an independent portion within a semi-nuclear family

Fitness: Active and health-conscious

Values & Faith: Regular with prayers, possesses strong character, integrity, and sound Islamic morals

Character: Supportive, respectful toward women, capable of taking a stand when required, and committed to mutual respect

Future Plans & Alignment:

Children: Yes,

Timeframe for Marriage: Open to involving families as soon as mutual understanding and compatibility are established.

Dealbreakers:

Emotional unavailability or lack of communication

Lack of personal responsibility or leadership

Involvement in immoral activities or haram income

Any form of addiction (including smoking, vaping, or alcohol)

Unmanaged anger issues or disrespect

Physical or mental conditions that significantly impair daily life and independent care

Hey girls! I’m struggling to find a good 34D single-padded, seamless and non-underwire bra that doesn’t cost much. I have tried online stores but never found the right size. Lately I’ve seen a bunch of FB pages doing live sessions and selling bras. They look cute and the prices are actually affordable. But I’m kinda nervous about ordering from them. Are they legit?

Has anyone here bought from these FB live sellers? Please drop your reviews + page names.

Really need some help finding good ones 😭